The phrase “purebred girls” sounds strange to many. After all, when it comes to thoroughbreds, our smaller brothers usually come to mind. I immediately remember a film about the faithful and smart Mukhtar, whose role was played by a German shepherd named “Count” with a crazy intellect and famous ancestors - champions.
But it turns out that this concept is quite applicable to humans. If we turn to historical facts, we will see that belonging to one class or another, and this, in general, is the subject of our conversation, played a huge role in the life of every person.
In those days, noble birth and the presence of great ancestors opened all doors, although they also imposed responsibilities. The term had a very specific meaning. It meant belonging to a certain group of people. Aristocracy, merchants, peasantry and others.
In our time, the division into castes has become conditional, but still exists. In the early nineties of the last century, it was fashionable to find counts, barons, and even princes among your ancestors. It seems that if desired, they can be found in the family tree of almost each of us. Another thing is, is it necessary?
It turns out there is demand. Many representatives of the stronger sex, who have achieved some success in life, want to connect their fate with purebred girls or, at least, arrange the personal happiness of their sons.
At the same time, you need to understand that the concept in question has somewhat changed and expanded its meaning in our time.
She loves herself in the body that she got by nature
You don't have to be beautiful to love yourself. The canons of beauty are so changeable, but love and respect for one’s own body are constant. A high-class woman knows how to enjoy extra centimeters, small breasts or large ears, recognizing them as a feature that emphasizes her individuality. And she knows how to present herself “deliciously”, no matter where - among friends, in home clothes, in bed, while washing dishes or at a business presentation. To look and feel beautiful, she does not need the incentive of spectators and applause.
About heredity2
More and more often, when people talk about nobility, they mean positive heredity. It is clear that normal parents have the same children, and vice versa.
But love is a complex thing, so the signs received on the paternal and maternal lines can be very different. Without delving into the jungle of genetics, it can be noted that here you can make a big mistake when choosing a partner.
An important question is what qualities are attractive in a future chosen one. What comes first?
She is self-sufficient, but allows herself to be weak
She can take care of herself, she has a profession and she understands her calling and purpose in this life. But she is strong enough to allow herself to be weak. Men next to her feel like heroes and perform feats that other women considered them incapable of. Even the most unworthy men in her presence pull out the best qualities from their coarsened and angry souls in order to become more worthy, nobler, more courageous. Near a great woman, you want to sound with a capital letter – Man.
Appearance
I would like to emphasize that appearance is not always noble. Often representatives of the nobility look quite ordinary. And that's the best case scenario. Do you know why? Therefore, in order to preserve “pure blood”, or, as it is also called “blue”, marriages were performed between relatives. The result of which were children with disabilities and deformities.
So the characteristics of the appearance, its main features in the ideal version, are as follows:
- Hair. They can be of absolutely any color, which is especially pleasing for women who periodically want to bring changes to their image and color them. The only thing is that they must be well-groomed, healthy and shiny. Preferably beautifully styled, since loose strands can get tangled, and this does not look aesthetically pleasing.
- Eyelashes and eyebrows are dark, even on blondes. And even better if they are black.
- The forehead is straight and high.
- The nose is smooth and small. A small hump is allowed.
- The chin is narrow, in some cases sharp.
- The eyes are large or at least medium in size. Color, as in the case of hair, does not play a special role.
- The face shape is oblong.
- The figure is graceful, evoking associations with a crystal vase. Even if she is overweight, she still seems sophisticated. No rough or incorrect proportions.
- The nail bed is neat, almond-shaped.
- The skin is light, translucent or with a slight pinkish tint. No tan. There is also an absence of acne and inflammation. It is always clean, velvety, making you want to touch it.
- The foot size is not big. Even men have tiny, neat feet.
She allows herself to be imperfect
Ideally there is no dynamics, colors or life. Those who do not make mistakes do not develop. A woman of the upper class reserves the right to make mistakes, but also allows others to make mistakes. She recognizes and allows the people around her to be imperfect, so she has no need to pretend and wear masks. Taking responsibility for her own life, decision or choice, she is never a victim of circumstances, and is not subject to other people's influence or pressure.
She is not obsessed with herself
It is difficult to accuse her of egocentrism or narcissism. She loves herself, but this love has nothing to do with narcissism and conceit. A woman of the upper class does not demand that the world revolve around her, but she will not allow her own world to be neglected or disrespected. This is because she is used to not only taking, but also giving. She is overflowing with creative energy, capable of inspiring people and harmonizing space. Therefore, people with a wounded soul, brokenness and emptiness often find themselves near her. This woman knows how to fill, but only those who themselves want to be filled.
What is this definition?
Aristocratism is not just appearance, but also a way of thinking, a type of behavior. No matter how sophisticated a girl is, if she behaves vulgarly and attracts too much attention not at all with her beauty, but with the habits of a market trader, no one will admit the idea that “blue blood” flows in her veins.
Olga Muravyova wrote an excellent book “How a Russian Nobleman Was Raised.” It sets out the basic principles and norms that the nobles were obliged to follow.
So, the story about one descendant of a noble family is very revealing. Having visited the camp of a geological expedition, he was surprised by the uncleanliness of the people who lived there. But instead of walking around and wincing in disgust, he began cleaning the toilet himself, showing the others that there was no need to be afraid of dirty work. It is much worse to live in such conditions and not change them.
This is the essence of aristocracy. It doesn’t matter what condition a person has, and even when broke it is necessary to remain a person, maintaining dignity and honor.
She does not collect gossip, does not participate in squabbles and does not incite conflicts
They say about her that she is a mature person. A thoroughbred woman will never stoop to groundless criticism, self-affirmation through weak, humiliating gossip, empty accusations and quarrels. She values her time and energy too much to waste it on conflicts in the name of personal ambitions. Of course, she can allow herself emotions and show strength or weakness of character, but if she turns out to be wrong, she will always ask for forgiveness and honestly admit her mistakes. This does not humiliate her, but makes her richer spiritually, because she understands that by letting in someone else’s point of view, her own world becomes wider and more interesting. That is why she never wastes herself on meaningless books, mediocre films and empty people.
She has her own opinion and is not afraid to express it, even if it differs from the generally accepted one.
A woman of the upper class is sufficiently educated and never stops developing, which allows her to have high authority in the eyes of others and boldly express her own point of view, even if it differs sharply from public opinion. She knows how not only to speak and defend the truth, but is also ready to listen and hear, to show tolerance and condescension. But she also always reserves the right to be honest, and can say: “I don’t understand you!”, “I don’t know!”, “I don’t share your opinion.” She will not pretend to appear, not to be.
About beauty3
Of course, the first thing that catches your eye when meeting a lady is her appearance. Prettyness makes an indelible impression on men, and if a woman knows how to dress, uses makeup correctly and knows how to present herself, then a slight shock is inevitable.
It is clear that everyone's ideas about beauty are different. At one time or another historical period, different peoples had their own idea of the ideal female appearance. But here, as they say, it’s not for everyone.
But we should not forget that there is also the other side of the coin. Wise people warn: “It’s bad when a woman is beautiful, and even worse when she knows about it.”
There are many pitfalls in relationships with beauties, but this is a topic for another discussion.
She never makes excuses
She does not have a feeling of guilt, which is the most destructive emotion, the root cause of her own and other people’s troubles. She knows how to ask for forgiveness and apologize if she has offended, learn a lesson and correct the situation if possible, but she will never carry the burden of guilt for everything in the world, constantly making excuses and demanding indulgence. It is possible and necessary to admit your failure, but only once; all subsequent times are justifications, and they are needed to drown out the feeling of guilt. A high-class woman knows that it cannot be silenced. You can only say goodbye to him by forgiving yourself.
She lives consciously and is in the wisest state of “here and now”
Being a wise person, a thoroughbred woman understands the value of the “here and now” state. She does not live in the past, no matter how bright it may be, and does not live entirely in a ghostly future, no matter how happy it may seem. She knows how to live consciously and find joy in the priceless moment “here and now,” since this is where life happens. Life is a process, not a result. Therefore, she knows how to find the positive in everything, knows how to be flexible and change her attitude to the situation if she cannot change the situation itself.
“What a disgusting mongrel your husband is!”
This phrase belongs to one of my friends in relation to the spouse of another.
This same husband is truly a terribly vile person.
I stopped visiting our common company precisely because of him.
Because he:
- has 150 kilograms of excess weight;
- always poorly shaven;
- the scent of sweat and bad breath are his constant companions;
- stains on his clothes are a wonderful illustration of his gastronomic habits;
- he simply eats disgustingly (this process has no other name), accompanying the absorption of food with slurping, belching and wiping his hands on his pants;
- always gets drunk like a pig, and then begins to behave accordingly;
- insults his wife in public;
- cheats on her left and right (...I’m writing this and I’m already starting to feel nauseous.)
How can you even live and sleep with this creature?
This is a HUGE mystery for me!
I heard the story that led to the nickname “Vile Mongrel” for this creature from a witness to the scandal, since by that time I myself had no longer communicated with this company.
So, during some kind of party in a bar, this body, as always, got drunk and, as usual, began to yell and swear at the entire establishment, then began to make obscene jokes at the address of all the women in the room.
The wife, naturally, did not interfere, so as not to receive her share of swearing, or even a slap on the wrist.
But when the “mongrel” began his favorite pastime – taking off his pants – my friend could not stand it and shouted out this phrase: “Vile mongrel!”
And what do you think the wife did?
She burst into an angry tirade: “Don’t touch my husband, you pest. Let him have fun. He’s funny, and you’re just jealous!”
