How to caress a woman in bed and bring her to bliss?

In order for a relationship with a girl to always be on a positive and romantic wave, a man needs to show his feelings with good deeds, reinforced with pleasant words. It's no secret that girls love with their ears, so words play no less a role than deeds. But chatter alone won’t get you far, so psychologists offer some interesting ideas on how to please a girl.

Any relationship periodically goes through stages of fading passion and feelings, and only strong couples with real feelings overcome these situations. Wisdom and patience are required from a woman, and ingenuity, good deeds and pleasant words that stir up emotions are required from a man. The main thing is not to wait for an opportunity or a good reason to please the girl you love, since the most memorable actions are those that happen unexpectedly.

The hottest women's areas

Before caressing a woman, you need to determine her erogenous zones. Each girl has an individual sensitivity to certain points of contact, but most often ladies react to caresses in the following areas:

Lips. It’s not for nothing that kissing is such a turn-on, because there are hundreds of nerve endings on the surface of the lips. Passionate, gentle touches of fingers, lips or tongue to this area during foreplay can drive you crazy. Therefore, do not ignore your lips and dwell on them as much as possible when arousing your partner. The touch of chapped and chapped lips gives a very unpleasant sensation. Treat them in frost and wind with a hygiene product sold in any pharmacy. This procedure will not make you less masculine, but no woman will be able to forget your kisses.
Ears. Women's ears are used for stimulation in two ways: they say all sorts of vulgar endearments in them or caress them with their lips and tongue. You can combine these procedures or alternate them. Do you want to drive a woman crazy? Lightly bite her on the earlobe and continue the path of kisses, covering her neck with them.
Neck. The thin skin of this area responds easily to kisses and gentle touches. Throw her locks back and run your fingertips from her earlobes to her collarbones. Kisses on the neck can turn on any woman.
Hair. Mostly men love long women's hair as an attribute of attractiveness. During lovemaking, be sure to stroke the girl on them, and for the sake of a passionate experiment, you can clench them into a fist and pull them towards you. This act of dominance excites many women.
Shoulders. Tension accumulates in this area during the day, so use a proven means of relaxation: give your loved one a massage. After you have thoroughly stretched your muscles, start kissing her shoulders to excite her. This area may not be the most sensitive, but you shouldn’t neglect it during foreplay.
Breast. All men love the exciting sight of beautiful female breasts. This part of the body reacts to caresses as sharply as possible. To excite your partner and sometimes even bring her to orgasm, caress the woman's breasts as gently as possible during foreplay.
Stomach. Soft stroking of this area causes true bliss in girls, and it is very easy to excite a partner by touching the belly. Kissing in this place is no less exciting than kissing on the lips or neck.
Hips. Touching the thighs gives a woman unreal pleasure. The inner part of the thigh is a more tender zone, only tenderness is appropriate here, and the outer surface allows male passion to run wild. Spanking, a strong grip and biting are all quite appropriate during intimacy.
Buttocks. These curves have driven more than one man crazy. The buttocks area gives room for imagination, as it is sensitive to both tenderness and manifestations of voluptuous rudeness. Kisses and pats are just a small part of the variety that you can give your partner in bed using her sweet buns.
Intimate area. The female womb is framed by the labia and clitoris, which crave pleasure. You can win a lady without touching these places; it’s better to leave them for dessert. How to caress a woman's pussy: gently or more persistently? Try both options and monitor the reaction.
Fingers and toes. Licking fingers is a real fetish for many girls. Try to please a lady like this, she will be delighted. After all, there are thousands of nerve endings on the fingertips.

It seems that a woman consists almost entirely of erogenous zones. And this is true, but only when she feels relaxed and calm with her man. Give her love and protection, then the girl will respond with a violent reaction to your caresses in bed.

What to do to make a girl feel good

To begin with, we will offer several universal ways to give pleasure that will suit any girl. The easiest way to please your loved one is through actions. Find out how from this list.

Give her a worry-free day. If she gets tired at work, spend the day with her, caring and protecting her so that she doesn't have to think about anything - just have fun. This is unlikely to be very difficult, but modern girls, forced to work equally with men, will definitely appreciate this. If you really want to win her over and you’ve been dating for a while, help with the cleaning and cooking. It will be more fun together.
Have the perfect date. Preferably without warning about anything. Provide a delicious dinner, candles, pleasant music. Help her relax.
Give her a massage. It's a treat that everyone enjoys. You don’t have to be a professional massage therapist to do this; just warm up your back with your hands and knead the core muscles a little. Before the massage, light an aroma stick with a pleasant, unobtrusive scent, and turn on instrumental background music. Use oil to make it even nicer. This practice is a good turn on, so it may not even be limited to massage.
Have a surprise party. Gather her friends, mutual friends, perhaps one of your own whom she likes. Gather at someone's home or rent a space. Think over the program, take care of music, food and drinks. This may be connected with some event and may simply be a reason to please her. For information on what else you can do nicely for a girl, read the article on how to surprise a girl. She will appreciate both the efforts put into the organization and the result, if everything is done correctly and well thought out.
Read her favorite book. Even if you don't like the genre too much. Firstly, it will be great to discuss it later, and secondly, it will let the girl know how interested you are in her. You want to share her interests, understand her sympathies, and this is a good sign and a promising gesture.
Walk her home from work. Maybe not every day, but at least once or twice a week. This way you will show your care and concern. Of course, she is able to get home on her own, but she will probably be glad to see you after a hard day at work. And in any case, a joint journey will be more pleasant than an independent one.
Teach her something. Show what you know, she will probably be interested in some of what you can do. It will be a rewarding and sweet experience, full of caring for her. Activities can range from making your signature pasta or hammering nails to shooting or riding an ATV. Perhaps she is interested in some professional skill: you are a designer, and she wants to master Photoshop. Training will take time, your attention and patience - she will appreciate it. Cute gifts and amenities made for a girl with her own hands are also good.
Arrange a joint photo shoot. Most girls love to be photographed, but guys, on the contrary, often avoid it. So if you find a good photographer and a nice studio, she will obviously respond with enthusiasm. Surely everything will be emotional and fun, and as a bonus there will be beautiful photos that will be nice to hang on the wall to admire from time to time.
Breakfast in bed. A rather classic, but still relevant gesture. It's nice to wake up and almost immediately have pancakes with orange juice and coffee right in bed. In addition, people are not prone to feats in the morning, and the need to prepare breakfast traditionally falls on the girl. It will be nice to take a break from this and appreciate your efforts.
Adventure. Unforgettable emotions, adrenaline and impressions for many years are always great. And this is something you shouldn’t skimp on. In addition, if a girl gets an adrenaline rush next to you and she feels your reliability, this will greatly strengthen your relationship. Girls are pleased to know that there is a protector next to them, with whom everything becomes safe and comfortable. Anything from an amusement park to a mountain hike can be an adventure.

These are the most versatile options, but not all are available. Let's give more examples:

Hug her by coming up behind her.
Run through her hair.
Whisper something sweet into your ear in public.
Buy tickets to a show she'll enjoy.
Give a box of chocolates with a small nice gift inside.
Bake dessert.
Write a love letter.
Post love notes everywhere.
Sing her some romantic song.
Be there for you in difficult times.
Trust her with one of your secrets.
Kiss your hand.
Have a romantic dinner.
Ask how you can make her happier.
Make a playlist of your love's songs.
Give compliments.
Leave sweet messages of love on foods in your fridge: bananas and eggs are great options.
Bring her her favorite food.
Organize a gastronomic evening and take her to a tasting of wines, cheeses or other products.
Make a gift basket of little things she likes.
Fight off the attacks of boredom that arise due to routine and everyday life.
Remember important dates.

Do something stupid together every now and then. Fool around.
Be gallant.
Motivate her.
Surprise her.
Create a photo album of memories of shared adventures and glory days.
Show you care.
Be a knight and protector towards her.
Kiss her suddenly if you can't take your eyes off her face and admire the way she looks.
Don't bother her when she's busy.
Listen to her.
Write sweet and romantic SMS.
Help her around the house.
Have an unforgettable night.
Make her happy.
Plan a surprise during business hours.
Invite to a slow dance as if you were in your senior year.
Touch her arm or shoulder when you talk to her.
Go shopping together.
Organize a vacation.

Take an interest in her well-being.
Introduce your parents.
Let me fall asleep in your arms.
Give flowers: bouquets and in pots.
Give up the bad habit that irritates her.
Dedicate a poem to her.
Take her to the spa.
Stay with her instead of going out with friends.
Make a video about your relationship.

And a couple more tips on what nice things to do to a girl at a distance. At this moment, her main need is your company. Girls from dating sites also love surprises. Therefore, the best gift and sign of attention would be a sudden arrival or tickets purchased for her to your city. But if this is not possible, use one of these options:

Order flowers to her home . Ask to add a sweet message to the bouquet, which you will compose yourself and which will be understood only by the two of you.
Hide the gift for her so that she will have to look for it according to your instructions.
Take pictures of the city you are in and share places you would like to visit again, but with her.
Agree on the next trip you'll take together. You can even go to places from the previous point of this list.

A little about kisses

Everyone’s style of kissing is different, and their experience in such an intimate matter can be either small or unsuccessful. To become a good kisser, tomatoes won't help you - you need practice. How to kiss a woman without making a mistake:

During the kiss, take a little break from the process and turn on your brain. Feel what movements the girl makes with her tongue and lips, and try to repeat after her. This way you will combine your kissing style into one and both will enjoy it.
Apply the tactic of alternating gentle kisses with passionate ones. This will make foreplay unpredictable and fantastically exciting. Bite the girl’s lips, play with them, gently run your tongue over them: all this will diversify the already banal French kiss.
If you kiss other parts of the girl's body, do it gently. Don't overdo it with passion and don't leave marks in the form of hickeys, no one likes those purple marks. If a woman wants passionate rudeness, she will let you know about it over time.

Don't be afraid to experiment and act as your intuition tells you. You can directly ask the girl if she likes everything. Feel free to ask her opinion about petting. This way you will be sure that you are moving in the right direction, and will gradually select exactly the style of kissing that suits your couple.

Fisting

Means penetration of the vagina or anus with a hand or fist. This technique will require training, otherwise serious injuries may occur. It takes several weeks or months for the sensations to begin to bring pleasure, but it is worth it.

Classic sex gets boring over time even with strong feelings and passion, but such a “spice” will bring unforgettable sensations and a full range of sensations during orgasm.

Hand techniques associated with anal sex will help if the size of the man’s penis is large enough. Using your fingers, you can make the most clear and precise movements, delicately adjust different speeds and depths of penetration into the vagina. Mastery in this matter will benefit intimate relationships.

Exciting touches

After or during kissing, use touching the female body. Start the love game slowly, there is no need to rush now. Your goal is to bring the girl bliss. How to touch a woman correctly to excite her:

Carefully, but at the same time passionately touch her erogenous zones with your fingertips: this way you will prepare the girl for further continuation.
When the lady is slightly warmed up, you can increase your touch, squeezing and stroking her arms, shoulders, chest and buttocks.
Keep an eye on the girl: does she have a response to your advances in the form of goosebumps or, on the contrary, is it unpleasant for her.
Don't hurt her unless she asks for it.
Intersperse touching with kisses.
Use sweet words or vulgarities to describe your arousal.
You can touch the girl not only with your hands, but also with other parts of the body: hug her with your legs, rub your aroused genital organ, press your whole body.
Don't be shy, there is no room for shyness in sex.
If you want to perform some unusual action for your couple, it is better to ask permission from your partner.

Separately, it is worth answering the question of how to properly caress a woman’s breasts. This is a special part of a girl’s body, so act persistently, but as carefully as possible. The most sensitive part of the breast is the nipples. Touch them with your tongue, lips and fingers to create a storm of emotions. Try to caress the woman’s breasts as gently as possible and you will soon hear the passionate moans of your chosen one.

How to touch correctly?

It is important that your hands and fingers (and especially your nails) are clean and dry. Even if you previously had a walk or a trip to the cinema, first of all you need to wash and dry your hands. It’s even better to take a shower for both of you, because a clean body is much more pleasant to caress.

No sharp or sudden hand actions. This way you can scare away the beauty. Remember, a woman’s “fire” burns slowly. And if the guy has already almost finished in his thoughts, the girl is still only thinking: “maybe there will be sex today?”
The first touches are gentle , modest, then gradually - more and more persistent and passionate. You can add a little arrogance, women love brutal macho men.
You need to touch all the time , a light touch with your fingertips, a light scratch with your nails can “turn on” a lady no worse than the “strong grip of an alpha male.” Alternate gentle touches with stronger ones; men's hands can work wonders.
You can’t stroke a girl against the grain of her hair and ruin her hairstyle (several hours could have been spent on it). Only “by the fur”. When a girl herself wants to undo her hair or, in a state of excitement, simply stops paying attention to it, then you can bury yourself in it and enjoy the special feminine scent.

Remember that there are social norms about touching. In the first minutes, you should not grab a lady’s breasts or buttocks that excite the eye. She will think that this is a man who only needs sex. And with womanizers the conversation is short.

Erotic massage

Massage is a great way to relax a woman before sex. Even if you don’t know anything about it, you can master simple techniques of this kind of skill to give a girl pleasure. How to do a massage correctly:

Prepare the surface - for an amateur massage, a flat mattress is enough.
Position your chosen one so that you both feel comfortable.
Use a pre-prepared massage oil with some enchanting scent: vanilla, patchouli, lavender are great.
Lubricate your partner's skin and begin to perform warming movements.
Everyone reacts differently to the force of pressure: gradually select the force that will be optimal for your girl.
Massage your shoulders, then move to the area between the shoulder blades - there are sensitive points there, then go down to the buttocks and legs.
Don’t end the massage too quickly, but don’t rush it either: remember that your main goal is to warm up and relax the woman well before sex, and not to ensure she sleeps soundly at the end of the session.

A massage will be a wonderful help for great sex between you. This procedure is a kind of care, so the woman will definitely appreciate it and give herself to you with the greatest possible passion.

Classic sex7

When your partner is warmed up enough, it’s time to move on to active actions. It is very effective to change the pace and angle of the penis during friction at the very beginning of the act, when the desired speed has not been found that will suit both. If you feel that you have caught the right wave, keep the set pace to bring the girl to the desired point.

Many girls get turned on when they are called dirty names, slapped on the butt and even shown some rudeness. However, this may not appeal to everyone; it is better to clarify such things in advance. When you feel that orgasm is close and your girlfriend has not yet received her pleasure, ask your partner if she is ready to cum. Women do not always experience orgasm, but they still get full pleasure from sex. It's hard to believe, but it's true. Therefore, it is not at all necessary to turn your date into a long sex marathon.

Oral sex

Such caresses delight both men and women. Therefore, if you want to satisfy your girlfriend and truly get closer to her, do not give up cunnilingus. Often men simply don’t know how to approach a girl in this regard, and are afraid of doing something wrong. If you know that awkward feeling, don't worry, you're not alone. Find out how to properly caress a woman with your tongue:

Don't start foreplay with cunnilingus. Not all ladies liberate quickly; many need time to prepare for such an intimate act. Therefore, start with other caresses so that the girl is as relaxed as possible.
Let the woman know that this action really turns you on. Many ladies doubt that having a man's face in close proximity to her genitals can give a guy pleasure. Dissuade your chosen one if such thoughts enter her head.
Lay or sit your partner so that it is convenient for you to perform oral sex. There is no rush in this matter, so take care of mutual comfort.
Every woman likes a different pace and tongue movement. The basic technique includes the following steps:
periodically touching similar places with your fingers,
back and forth movements of the tongue in the vagina.
With your free hand, caress your partner’s other erogenous zones: stroke her stomach and inner thighs.
If a woman is very shy, and you really want to give her oral pleasure, try blindfolding the lady. This trick will make her switch her attention to tactile sensations and add spice to them.

Track the reaction and remember the girl’s preferences. Each time you will gain experience in oral sex and become a real master of cunnilingus.

Long foreplay3

Any girl needs to warm up before sex. This is a guarantee that she will experience an orgasm during sex. Foreplay for each girl can last a different time, and you need to judge by the partner’s reaction when it’s time to interrupt this very foreplay and move on to active actions. There are girls who get turned on right away, and they hardly need foreplay, or only for a short time. It is important to know that the appearance of lubrication does not mean that the girl is ready for sex. Her body is ready, but her brain may not yet be tuned to the right wave. The girl herself will let you know when it’s time to do something more significant.

Neck, shoulders and earlobes

These areas are also erogenous for many women. Delicate skin feels even the slightest touch, so you can start with a simple massage to relax your girlfriend a little. Even moving your fingers through clothing will be received favorably.

Then you can stroke the back and sides of your neck with the back of your hand and the pads of your fingers. Gentle kisses will complement the delightful sensations, and further biting of the earlobe with kisses can “turn you on.” When kissing, it is permissible to use the tip of the tongue and move it in the auricle.

Important! The neck and ears are very delicate areas, so it is important to avoid rudeness, assertiveness and an abundance of saliva when kissing. These preliminary caresses determine whether the lady wants to go to bed with you.

Male mistakes during sex

Men often make the following mistakes during sex:

A man does not spend enough time on foreplay and foreplay. Let me remind you that the more excited a girl is before direct sexual intercourse, the higher the likelihood of her orgasm.
A man does not study his partner’s body, does not listen to her feelings.
A man does not admire his partner's sexuality. This also matters for women who love with their ears.
Some men delay sexual intercourse. When this goes on for too long, and the long-awaited release does not come, the girl begins to cool down. You must definitely monitor your partner’s reaction. And if she still doesn’t have an orgasm, it’s worth changing tactics and trying other methods of satisfaction.