How to caress a man so that he never forgets you

Many women mistakenly believe that men have only one erogenous zone, well, you know where! In this way, girls impoverish their intimate life, and their partner does not receive the full range of sensations. Knowing how to caress a man and what points to influence, a woman can easily control him.

Experienced mistresses are able to bring a guy to ecstasy without even touching his reproductive organ, and such women rule the world of men. Today we will reveal the secrets of the body of the strong half of humanity, and also point out the mistakes that some girls make in bed during foreplay.

Every man is individual

This is what a woman needs to remember first of all. Despite the fact that sexologists have long revealed to the world the secret of the location of male erogenous zones, you should not use only the designated list. The fact is that one man will be sensitive to a certain zone of his body, while the other will be left indifferent by the caresses of the same zone, or will not like it at all.

Of course, it’s easier to ask your loved one what he would like, but the guy may not even be aware of where one of his most sensitive erogenous points is located. A woman’s goal is to find such areas, and to do this she needs to examine in detail every corner of her partner’s skin. By recognizing the right points, you will give the guy incomparable pleasure, and he will remember the time spent with you with incredible delight.

How to understand that the right road has been chosen? You just need to listen to your partner's body while you explore it with your lips, hands or tongue. The following signals may indicate that a woman is doing everything right, and a man likes it:

• deep breaths;
• moan;
• rapid breathing;
• slight trembling in the body;
• flinch;
• “goose bumps” appearing on the body.

How to caress a man correctly in order to find his erogenous zones? You need to start with light, subtle movements. Next, intensify the impact, lightly press on the places, when touched, the man responded with one of the signals described above. You can ask if he likes this feeling.

Of course, a tactful man will not always tell you that some of the actions were unpleasant to him, for example, he felt tickling. Therefore, pay attention to whether your lover withdraws from touching one or another part of his body.

Next, we suggest finding out where any guy’s “passion buttons” are located, and how to “press” them correctly.

Well-groomed appearance, erotic underwear and a pleasant smell

All men love with their eyes, so an exciting picture can turn them on in no time. The first thing guys like during sex is the girl's appearance. It consists of:

1. Sexy lingerie. A new lace set on a partner’s body can excite the imagination of any man. The bodice and panties can be complemented with frankly erotic details - a garter, stockings, a sword belt.
2. Well-groomed appearance before and after sex. A neat manicure, silky hair, moisturized skin, discreet makeup - these and some other important little things form a general idea of ​​a woman in a man’s head.
3. Alluring aroma. An unobtrusive perfume with subtle floral or fruity notes will perfectly highlight the natural smell of a clean body and enhance the effect of natural female pheromones.

Head, face and neck2

It is on the head that there are a lot of human erogenous zones. Not only women like kisses, but also men, so foreplay begins with them. You cannot assume that to excite a guy you just need to master the French kissing technique; there are other manipulations that your partner will certainly like.

1. While kissing, you need to run the guy's hair between your fingers. Move your hands over his head, lightly digging into the skin with your fingertips. Remember how pleasant it is to massage your head, and imagine the sensations of your loved one, especially during passionate kisses.
2. Don't linger too long on just your lips. From time to time, move to the cheeks, earlobes, run your tongue along the hollow that is located under the lobe near the cheekbone. Kiss the corners of your partner’s mouth, his eyes, exposing your neck for caresses.
3. Men love it when women run their tongues along their necks. But you need to not just “lick” the guy, but act correctly. Kiss the neck, and only lightly and once in a while run your tongue (very lightly and gently) over the places that your lips just touched. Gently kiss the back of the man's neck; a particularly sensitive area is located in the hollow between the neck and head. Kisses should be light, with aspiration; the skin especially reacts to the flow of air (from exhalation) after it has been slightly moistened with the tongue. Believe me, such caresses will make your lover’s hair stand up all over his body with pleasure!
4. Lightly bite and suck on the earlobes, neck skin, lips. You need to act with special caution on the neck, because there is a possibility of leaving so-called “hickeys”; not every guy will like this, because then he will have to hide the marks from a stormy night under a high collar.

When caressing your loved one, do not forget to whisper tender words in his ear. Whispering, touching the lips to the shell of the ear is also an arousing maneuver that a woman should use.

Passionate movements

When a woman tries to show her own passion to a man, she does not understand how this can be done. There is a great place - between the shoulder blades. To show a man your passion, just gently bite or lightly scratch there with your nails.

Any man reacts to such a touch, and then you can act according to the situation. If you want to receive affection and intimacy, you can move on to a kiss or just turn it all into a joke. Men always appreciate such touches.

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Author: Sergey Tumanov

Hands3

There are a huge number of nerve endings on the limbs of people. If you know how to caress a man in the hand area, you will definitely bring him to ecstasy. Here are some tips to help excite your loved one:

1. Interlace the fingers of your hands with the guy’s fingers, while lightly stroking them, pressing on the skin.
2. Run your fingertips along the inside of your lover's arm, starting from the wrist, up to the armpit, and back.
3. Kiss the inside of the elbow, move your lips or tongue to the shoulder along the outside of the arm.
4. Take the man’s finger into your mouth and start caressing it with your tongue, imitating oral sex. Run your finger over your lips and bite lightly. At the same time, you need to look into the eyes of your lover, he will be simply crazy!

Give free rein to your lover’s hands, there is no need to “twist” him and start caressing him. All your manipulations should be natural, casually, so to speak. Agree, it will be strange if the girl is always absorbed in the hands of a man; caresses should be alternate and at the right time. Use your hands only when there is an opportunity to do so. For example, a guy touched your face or hair, but not at the moment when he massages your buttocks with his palms.

Remain an amateur or become a professional in sex?

The above tips will bring more joy to intimate relationships, unite the couple and help the man and woman feel each other more subtly. And for those who want more, the Academy of Additional Professional Education offers to obtain the profession of a specialist in psychological counseling in sexology. Academy graduates not only help other people solve sexual issues, but also know how to get maximum pleasure from intimacy with a partner.

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Chest4

Men's breasts are no less sensitive to caresses than women's. In the nipples and in the area of ​​the areola there is a cluster of erogenous points that transmit signals to the brain that they want to drag the guy into bed. Who would refuse such an offer?

Using your palms in a circular motion, begin stroking your loved one's chest. You can squeeze the skin slightly, just be careful with your nails, don’t hurt the guy (although some people like it). Use your finger to press on the nipple, as if pressing it into the chest, and gently twist it. When the nipples begin to harden, you can use your lips, tongue and teeth. First bite one nipple, suck it in with your lips, then move on to the other, and you can continue to caress the first one with your hand.

It will be ideal if, at the moment of caresses, you sit on top of your lover, lying down he will relax better, and the girl will be more comfortable this way. Don’t stay on the chest for too long; tease the man, moving from the nipples to the neck and his lips, then go lower again.

Useful information for men on how to properly touch and caress a woman’s breasts is only in our next article.

No taboos

The more liberated the partner appears in bed, the more the man wants her. Even the most modest woman should reconsider her “fads” regarding intimacy. For example, until recently, when asked whether men like sex during their periods, many answered negatively. But it is during this period that the girl’s sensations are revealed 100%, sensitivity increases, and orgasms become brighter.

As for the true taboos, you can read about them in the article “What you shouldn’t do during sex” on the official website of Pavel Rakov.

Abdomen and groin area5

Next, from the chest, you need to slowly begin to move even lower. But hurry, everything needs to be done gradually, let your loved one be in the sweet pangs of anticipation of the most pleasant. While you caress your nipple and neck with your lips, play around a little. Run a light movement along the line where the trunks meet your stomach, use your fingers to get under the elastic band, move your hand past the penis towards the inner thigh, and return your hand to your stomach. Then you can easily, naturally, run your hand along your waist, up, and roll it over your arm through the armpit.

Don't be afraid to lower your lips below chest level. Run the tongue again along the groin line, around the navel. Bite your lover's belly, then run your tongue along the center of the torso from the navel up, and return to caressing the chest, neck, and lips. Remember: do not rush to get to the most interesting part, because not the whole body has been examined yet.

I wanted it to be nicer, but it didn’t work out

The mistakes that girls make when caressing their lovers are quite typical. Their reasons are also known:

• the girl judges by herself and imagines that a man likes what she likes;
• in it the actress died in life, but was reborn in sex, and every lovemaking turns into a little drama - you’re clearly overacting, don’t do that;
• “I’m not a sorceress, I’m just learning” - an amateur performance of sophisticated caresses will seem funny at best; before doing an acrobatic striptease with a chair, take a few lessons;
• trust in porn. They do not always show the truth, so you cannot use them as a textbook, copying everything you liked.

These are the source of many problems in sex. Here are the most common types of caresses from the word “don’t”:

Too French kiss

Kisses are wonderful, but everything needs moderation. If you literally "chew" his lips, or kiss exclusively like in porn, he won't like it.

Sharp teeth

When sexual tension runs high, some women feel the urge to bite. And it’s really very erotic, the main thing is to calculate the effort. Otherwise, instead of arousal, you may cause pain to the man.

All at once

Sophisticated sex does not at all guarantee that you will experience unearthly pleasure. It is better to add all innovations gradually. Otherwise, you risk turning a pleasant process into a cross-country run.

Focusing on the exotic will not allow you or your partner to fully relax. Physical and emotional fatigue can prevent you from reaching the finish line.

Speed ​​and haste

There is no need to randomly jump from one erogenous zone to another. Try to focus on one and only smoothly move on to the other. This adds sensuality and depth to sex.

Fear of the new

Have you long wanted to try a new position or affection, but are you afraid? In vain! Any man is pleased when a woman voices her erotic desires. Besides, then he can allow himself to be frank too.

This fear arises especially often when people have been married for a long time. I want to use new caresses for my husband, and it pricks.

You can find a compromise or create your own overall sexual experiment.

Ask him about his fantasies and tell him about yours. It is not necessary to immediately smear yourself with oil and go through all the Kama Sutra poses until your buttocks hurt.

Coffee in bed

Sprinkling cream, honey, chocolate on each other is fun. But be prepared that not every man will be delighted with playing with food and don’t overdo it.

The main thing in this matter is sincerity. For him, contrived caresses will give as much result as a simulated orgasm. Be natural in your impulses, show your real feelings.

Buttocks and back6

How to caress a man's back? You can give a man a light erotic massage, not the kind of “rails, sleepers”, and not the one where the muscles are pretty wrinkled. The massage should be exciting and erotic. Ask your loved one to turn over on his stomach, sit in a cowgirl position on his lower back, and begin to gently move your palms over his shoulder blades and sides.

Use your nails and lightly scratch the skin. Touch your back with your chest, it will be better if it is naked, let the guy feel your bare flesh, nipples. Kiss the neck, bite the ears, run your tongue behind the ear, then return to caressing the back.

Place your hands behind your back and move to the guy's buttocks. Stroke them, remember, then return to the back again. Changing caresses is very important, you cannot focus on one area for a long time, use all points at once.

Enjoy

During various sociological surveys on oral sex, some men stated that they not only became aroused during cunnilingus, but even had an orgasm. Also, the smell of a sexually aroused woman spurs their own arousal, which is why they are so eager to get to her clitoris. The emotional background is also triggered - the pleasure experienced by the girl is transferred to the man, and makes him experience such an intimate process more intensely.

Since such caresses are an excellent foreplay, they allow a man to prolong his pleasure after the onset of arousal.

Attention! Since the pleasure should be mutual, you should first ask about the girl’s desire, because not everyone feels liberated and confident enough to allow a guy to caress her in this way.

Penis7

There is nothing more pleasant for a man than the fact that his beloved caresses his main organ. The strong half of humanity treats their penis with special reverence, considering it their best friend, brother, and so on! And if a girl pays attention to the penis, it means that she will give unreal pleasure to her lover.

Using your fingertips, you first need to walk along the penis from bottom to top. Lightly squeeze the testicles, then the penis itself. Massage it, caress it in a circular motion. Next, walk your hand along the groin area, along the buttocks, at this time you can caress your lover’s chest with your lips. Without hesitation, reach your anus with your finger, massage it lightly, and return to the penis.

Then you need to decide whether you are ready for oral sex. If not, then you can stop at everything described above and give free rein to the man, now let him do whatever he wants with you. If you want to continue playing with your lover, then switch to closer contact. How to caress a man orally?

1. The first thing to remember is that few guys like it when a girl takes his entire penis into her mouth. Most men believe that it will be more pleasant if only part of the penis is in the mouth, and the woman caresses the rest with her hand.
2. You won’t be able to hide your teeth, but you need to be extremely careful with them so as not to cause the guy pain instead of pleasure. Grasp the root of the penis with your hand, run your tongue around the head, then pull it into your mouth with your lips. Massage your penis with your hand, using up and down movements. Lightly bite the penis, run your tongue from the balls to the very tip, then take it into the rum again.

Do not bring a man to the finish line with a blowjob, he needs to be teased. Caress the penis a little, return to the chest, kisses.

Feet

Although this area is not considered universal for all men, it is worth trying to stimulate it. If you remember the methods of alternative medicine, you can find an acupressure point, or bubble source. The area received this name because the energy of excitation passes from the man’s legs to the genitals.

Finding this point is not difficult, just lightly massage your toes, and then go down one third from the third toe. This is where the magic point is. Massage it with your fingers, alternating stroking with pressure. This approach works flawlessly for men born under the sign of Pisces or Aquarius. They love massage of heels, feet and toes.