Some succeed, but others don’t. Why? Psychologists and business coaches have long concluded that it’s not just about effort and luck, but also about thinking.
Thinking is the key to success. Correctly tuned mental flows are an additional force that pushes a person towards a goal.
In addition to thoughts, habits are also important. What a person does every day. All this adds up to the psychology of life. It is the psychology of wealth that makes a person “like everyone else” successful.
What is the psychology of wealth. Difference from the psychology of poverty
The psychology of wealth is a certain level of thinking in the flow of success. The individual is committed to exclusively positive outcomes, moves forward, does not fall into prolonged destructive depressions, and is constantly developing.
The psychology of wealth has a positive effect not only on a person’s financial well-being, but also on his physical health and social relationships. This is due to the fact that the owner of such thinking is open to the new and to the world.
If you compare the psychology of the rich and the poor, it will look like this:
Ability to think strategically
The author of the international bestseller Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill, writes: “Millions of people spend their entire lives unable to get out of poverty or even misery for only one reason: the lack of a well-thought-out plan.” The poor man's actions lack consistency; he starts doing something and then quits, switching to something else. He does not see possible obstacles and does not know how to deal with them. A rich man is like a skilled chess player. All his moves and actions are clearly thought out and meaningful. He knows how to avoid difficulties, and if this is impossible, then minimize the damage.
Poor man's thinking
Just for fun
Shopping list for the entire amount
Irritation and envy
Time would quickly pass and rest.
A waste of your time
Depression, apathy, the end of everything
Rest is destructive
Destructive rest is unproductive, associated, for example, with alcohol abuse, rest that is harmful to health.
Yes, these are certain extremes, successful and rich people can also break down, but it doesn’t happen often and doesn’t last for long.
The fact that thinking changes can be noticed by the transition from one zone to another. Using such a table, it is convenient to track personal progress and deal with the question “which side is better?”
Attitudes of rich people
Attitudes are certain rules and principles that determine a person’s life position.
I become what I think about
There is such a thing as “selectivity of attention.” A person pays attention to what he thinks about most often, and gradually he begins to be surrounded by what his thoughts are focused on.
Constantly thinking that there is no money and the situation is worse than ever, the individual drives himself into even greater problems. But if you concentrate on the fact that problems are gradually being solved, the situation is stabilizing thanks to active actions, then you can notice how the clouds of life disperse and there are more and more good emotions.
The brain is able to focus on something important and purposefully move in a given direction. It is very important to choose a positive, non-destructive path.
Absolute responsibility for quality of life
Responsibility is a very important factor that determines a person’s position in business. The more irresponsible steps are taken, the more problems arise that a person creates for himself through his irresponsibility.
Timely completion of tasks, submitted reports, orders are an indicator of a high level of responsibility. In addition, a responsible person does not shift his decisions to others, does not relieve himself of the need to choose and draw conclusions.
Environment selection
Development and movement forward directly depends on the environment in which a person finds himself. Of course, if a child grows up in an atmosphere where no one is interested in anything, this does not mean that he will become the same.
You can break out of such an environment without spoiling your relationships with loved ones. It is enough to find friends who can teach you something and set an example.
The environment is not those with whom a person spends time at parties. A person needs communication outside of holidays, so in “peacetime” it is important to choose the best environment that will help you develop.
It is important to remember that the environment helps, and does not do everything for you. It is equally important not to try to correct others if they do not want to. A lot of energy is wasted, but there is absolutely no benefit.
Determination
Those with the psychology of wealth always achieve their goals and do not stop in the middle of the path.
Experts are sure that if a goal is not written on paper, then it is not a goal. The situation urgently needs to be corrected and your desires outlined.
Another very important thing in goal setting is to constantly think about the goal. According to surveys of successful people, it was revealed that they spend most of the day thinking about their goal, about ways to achieve it, about results.
Honest money
The laws of the universe are such that for any dishonest money there is always responsibility. Not necessarily before the law.
In addition to earning money honestly, you also need to do good.
Successful and rich people help others and give money to charity. This does not mean that you need to give everything, a lot and in a mandatory manner. You need to come to charity consciously and give money with a feeling of joy.
The laws of the monetary universe are designed in such a way that the more you give for good, the more you receive.
The list of settings is not closed, it can be continued. Each individual successful person has a personal set of settings that he can share as life hacks.
In addition to life attitudes, a person is greatly influenced by his habits. In fact, habits decide what kind of day, decision and even life will be.
Habits of a rich man
There are no specific habits that create success. They are different for each person, but there are key habits that enhance the energy aimed at attracting money.
Healthy sleep
Everyone knows that from 22.00 to 02.00 is the most beneficial sleep. This means that you need to go to bed not far after midnight and get up before lunch.
Waking up early increases efficiency because the brain is active in the morning.
Acquiring the habit of getting up early is very difficult, especially if for a long time a person slept until lunch and lived at night.
Solving complex issues
Business and successful people solve complex problems in the morning, freeing up the day to generate ideas and develop profitable projects.
If you put off a difficult task until the end of the day, its incompleteness will slow down the completion of other tasks.
Communication with family
If there are no toxic destructive relationships in the family, then maintaining the relationship is important. The richest people on the planet very often mention the value of family in their interviews.
Generation of ideas
Successful people believe that regardless of the need “now,” ideas need to be generated and written down daily. They are worth writing down, crossing out, thinking about. This approach helps prepare for change.
Inspiration so that your strength does not leave you
The need for hobbies is very great. While practicing a hobby, strength is restored, energy and ideological reserves are replenished.
Successful people read books, ski, play sports, paint, do crafts and much more. Hobby can be anything, the main thing is that it is fulfilling. If you only spend a resource, then the body will not thank you for it.
Analysis of the past day and successes
In order for tomorrow to become more productive, you need to evaluate today. Find and analyze errors in actions and eliminate them tomorrow. If you didn’t manage to do something, then you need to give a clear answer (not an excuse) to the question “why?”
But in addition to looking for mistakes, you also need to evaluate your actions from the positive side. Praise yourself for your achievements and successes. Celebrate progress
Appreciate the time
You need to be very careful with time. Wasting precious hours will only bring losses, both financial and moral.
Rich and successful people don’t waste time on things that don’t interest them; they know how to say “no.” You can’t go somewhere or listen to someone for a long time just out of politeness. To be polite, it is enough to tactfully explain your position. This way you can save time and relationships with someone to whom you are currently refusing communication.
The habit can be anything, but it should not be destructive, send you into a state of depression and reduce motivation and efficiency.
Psychology of wealth and reality transfer
Transurfing reality involves changes in life through a change in thinking. According to the transurfing technique, money is attracted into life gradually, with active growth; you just need to follow certain rules.
Getting rid of negative attitudes
All formulations similar to “you can’t earn money honestly”, “a hobby is not a job”, “business for a select few” and so on.
Every person deserves to earn good money and do what they love.
Money is not the goal
The author of the technique, Vadim Zeland, writes that money is an attribute of a goal, not a goal. You need to set yourself material goals, not digital ones.
Enter the increased comfort zone
Reality Transurfing suggests taking it up a notch to try it out. The ideal attempt is to go for a test drive of your dream car.
It may seem like it costs a lot of money, but it only seems so. Luxury needs to be felt and let the universe know that you are ready for it.
Exercises are not only for the mind
Zealand advises activating the body. Exercise for the body, proper relaxation, all this makes it possible to activate the brain with the help of the body.
During physical activity, a special energy is produced that enhances all beneficial human actions.
You don't go after a bear without a gun
To go out to sea, you need at least a boat. To kill a bear, you must first buy a gun and ammunition (and learn how to shoot). Of course, you can hope for luck and that you will be able to scare the animal with a stick...
A successful person always prepares for a project in advance and according to plan, collects resources, and only if they are available enters the game. One of the common reasons why many good endeavors fail is lack of preparation.
You cannot immediately gather significant resources to start a serious project. Do you have plans, do you have attractive goals? Make a plan right now, where to get it and what resources are needed to implement them? Start small. Is there an opportunity to lay the first stone in the foundation of success right now? Get started!
In our work, we are guided by the principle of the famous British businessman and billionaire Richard Branson: “To hell with everything, go ahead and do it!” Branson is the owner of the diversified corporation “Virgin”, which does everything: even space flights. Richard even has his own island, and he achieved all this himself. Branson was born into an ordinary lawyer’s family, and Fate intended him to have a quiet and typical life as a British lawyer. Branson refused this fate, and one can only envy his super-busy life.
How to gain the psychology of wealth
There is no single recipe for going from poverty to wealth without effort.
Of course, it’s worth reading good books, learning to distinguish quality material from informational gypsies who only grab money but don’t provide anything worthwhile in their literature.
If you think that changes are needed, then the first step has been taken. This step should be followed by a second one - find specific problems and write them down.
The comparative infographics presented above will help you identify problems.
Directing yourself towards solving a problem is not always easy, since sometimes it is simply not clear where to start. If this is your situation, then start with new habits. Take useful actions, feel yourself, reveal your potential.
New habits will bring new thoughts and ideas. The path to yourself will become easier.
Set yourself a small goal and test your changes on it, be sure to praise yourself for all achievements, even if you consider them insignificant.
Feel physically energized and don’t skimp on your emotions.
It happens that a person begins the path to something new, but there is not enough motivation, he gives up everything and returns to the psychology of poverty.
If you want to give up everything because it’s hard, then you need to remember the important phrase “The rich and successful never give up.”
Remind yourself of this every time.
The psychology of wealth involves complete deliverance from anger and envy. Stop looking at other people through negativity and criticizing them for no reason. Try to pay attention only to the good and accept other people's victories with a feeling of joy and lightness.
This way you will free yourself from unnecessary negativity, which not only slows you down, but also pulls you down, back to poverty.
Advice is good. But the main rule of the psychology of wealth is always the same - act.
Yes, it’s just one word, but there’s so much meaning and appeal in it. It is energetically strong.
Just thinking like a rich person is not enough, getting up at 5 am is not enough and not discussing your acquaintances is also not enough.
Everything we talked about only works in aggregate and with active actions. And, of course, with strong confidence that everything will definitely work out.
The price of success
Let’s be realistic: you can’t just learn to “attract money.” This is all mysticism, and there are no magnets that can enrich the owner. Whether wealth, fame, success is the result of enormous and hard work. Moreover, we are also powerfully influenced by the opinions of others, especially relatives, who may not understand or accept many of our decisions.
Taking a step towards success, we must leave our comfort zone! That’s it, there will be no more quiet evenings on the couch watching TV, there will be no more hours-long “meetings” on social networks. There will be a lot of work and learning new knowledge... You need to be prepared for this, otherwise there is no point in starting.
Rich, famous and powerful people have such a quality as the ability to “turn their face to the wind.” When the others hide in the hold of the ship, they take the helm into their own hands, not shying away from the hurricane, but looking straight into the eyes of danger. And danger gives way under the gaze of a strong man.
