How to cheer up a girl: we cheer up by correspondence, by SMS, by phone

Girls are very emotional creatures. They quickly become upset and depressed. But there is always a chance to cheer them up and lift their spirits, even through correspondence on social networks. It is important here that the interlocutor is in the mood for a conversation.

And to solve the problem, you need to know how to cheer up a girl if she is sad, even if she is not the lady of your heart.

Reasons for lack of mood in girls

There can be many reasons.

Some are minor and others are serious problems:

Diffidence. One of the common reasons why women become depressed. The girl thinks that she is not attractive enough, not interesting and boring. Maybe she's unsure of the outfit she's wearing. In such a situation, a sincere compliment will help.
I broke up with my boyfriend. A common reason after which a woman does not want to communicate with anyone and withdraws into herself. She feels as if she is out of place. If you and the girl are close, then she herself will tell you about this incident.
Problems at work, in school. Perhaps your friend is not up to the task. The bosses are dissatisfied with her work and because of this, a conflict arises. Or she has strained relationships with her colleagues.
Fatigue . When a girl gets tired, her mood disappears. I don’t want to do anything, just lie and look at the ceiling. Maybe the girl worked a lot, studied, or “ran around the city” for several hours. Purely physically, I don’t have the strength to have fun.
Family problems. It is also possible that not all is well in the family. And such a situation puts pressure on emotionality.
Health . Anything is possible here: a toothache or a headache, an injury, various “women’s ailments.” If this is the case, then you may not know it, because girls don’t like to talk about such things.
Your behavior. This happens because you don't know how to joke. Your jokes are tactless and rude. In this case, it is worth clarifying the reason for her bad mood. If the fault is with you, then it would be better to apologize.
Boredom . It's corny, but true. This thing has a very strong impact on your emotional state. When a person is bored and doesn’t know what to do, emptiness begins to oppress. Idleness causes nervousness and decreased emotionality.

How a guy should behave if a girl is not in the mood:

What to say to a girl when she is sick and sad

Encourage with the right words

If your girlfriend is sick, and because of this she is not in any mood, then you have the power to cheer her up and direct her thoughts in a completely different direction. Offer to take her out or go to some interesting place immediately after she gets better. Choose an option for spending time that she will definitely like. Tell her you miss her smile and ask what you can do to make her feel at least a little better.

Distract with a beautiful poem or SMS

A sick girl not only usually feels bad, but also suffers from bad thoughts. It may seem to her that while she is fighting her illness, you can pay attention to another person. She is also now less confident in her attractiveness because... any illness usually affects appearance in some way. Your task is to dispel all the doubts of your chosen one, paying her as much attention as possible - including by correspondence. Let her know that you think about her often. Write her touching and sensual SMS - she will appreciate it. Don’t disappear for a long period, try to be in touch almost always. It wouldn’t hurt to send your beloved a beautiful poem about love – either written by you or found on the Internet. Also, choose a romantic song, study the lyrics, make sure that there are only pleasant and exciting words - send this work to the girl, noting that it reminded you of her.

Reassure with a positive outlook and attitude

Let the girl know that you are confident in her speedy recovery. At the same time, note that if the process takes a little longer, then you will be with her all this time and support her in every possible way. Come up with some interesting pastime that she can afford now. If you can visit her, then be sure to take advantage of this opportunity, but do not abuse it - a sick person needs proper rest and sleep, so one visit a day will be enough, after which keep in touch in another way. Let the girl understand that despite the fact that today she seems to have “fell out of life” a little, your attitude towards her remains the same, and you are still ready to take care of her.

It's nice to surprise with a surprise

Of course, words alone are not enough in this situation, and this is exactly the case when a guy has a huge chance to prove himself and get closer to a girl. Some young people make the catastrophic mistake of telling a girl something like: “Well, for now, you get better, we’ll meet later, I won’t bother you.” Most often, this behavior results in a break in the relationship on the part of the girl, because she understands that this guy only needs him when she doesn’t have problems. If you want to impress a girl and become the main character in her enthusiastic stories to her friends, then act differently. Bring her, for example, a basket of fruit - firstly, vitamins will not hurt her now, and secondly, it’s just pleasant and impressive. You can also bring goodies that she likes - candy, sushi, and even sausage! It is important that you remember her tastes and want to please her. Girls of all ages respond positively to soft toys - bring her a big hare or a bear, saying that he will “look after” her while you are not around. In general, the gift can be anything - the main thing is that it is a pleasant surprise for the girl.

By the way, the surprise may be of a different kind. For example, a collage with photos of you together, a video made from footage of your vacation together, an armful of balloons, a flower in a pot, and much more. The main thing is that it is touching and beautiful.

Please note that if you regularly visit a girl during this period, this can not only please her, but sometimes put her in an uncomfortable position - this is due to the fact that you need to be looked after during tea parties, fed you lunch, and the like. This may seem like a small thing, but during illness, not every girl is able to take care of such things every day. That is why you should bring treats for tea yourself, to avoid possible awkward situations.

Please with flowers

Surely, your girlfriend loves flowers, and now you have the right reason to give her such a sign of attention. Choose a beautiful bouquet and bring it in person or send it through a courier. Most likely, your chosen one will be pleased with such a gesture, and the flowers will delight her eyes for a long time, reminding her of you. If the recovery period is prolonged, please the girl with flowers more often - don’t even doubt that she will like it.

How can you cheer up in VK by correspondence?

Before you start typing a message to her in contact, there are a few tips to consider.

This is necessary in order not to aggravate the situation even further.

The first and important point - do not be ironic. Humor can lift your spirits, but only in a good way.
Try to distract from the problematic topic.
If you are in a bad mood, you will not be able to resolve the situation.
The most important thing is attentiveness. Listen, become a vest in which you can cry.
Don't forget about positive examples. Tell various funny situations from life.
There is no need to use a lot of slang and unclear words.
Don't try to be a clown.

How to cheer up a girl is explained in the video:

Examples

If it bothers you that your friend is sad, then cheer her up.

You don’t need to be a clown for this, because the simplest things can make a lady smile:

Wishes for good morning, good day or good night. This helps to charge a person with positivity and good mood. If communication takes place via VK correspondence, then be sure to send her an emoticon or a sticker.
Send a funny or cute video. Another best option. Find an interesting video with funny animals and send it to your girl. The main thing is to avoid vulgar and stupid videos.
Compliments. The most win-win option. Any girl loves to receive pleasant words addressed to her, and this is an indisputable fact.

Reference! For example: “I never cease to be amazed at how pleasant your voice/beautiful eye color is.” Act as you see fit.

Jokes

A good joke helps relieve tension and support further communication.

The female sex appreciates a sense of humor, so you can tell funny stories or jokes.

Important! Remember that jokes should not contain obscene words and avoid vulgar phrases (about sex, about an ex, etc.).

Jokes with a hidden compliment are perfect. For example, you can say that she resembles someone with her voice or character. And it’s important - don’t overdo it, everything should be in moderation.

Good jokes include those that have elements of comparison with objects or phenomena.

You can also make fun of your occupation or stupidity, of nature or the paradoxes of life. Clever jokes allow you not only to make a girl laugh, but also to show your broad horizons.

On a date

The following tips will help improve a girl’s mood by inviting her on dates:

An active lady will be well entertained by a bike ride, a trip out of town, or a walk in the park.
A young lady with an eccentric character should be invited to a club, to a fun party with friends.
Invite a girl with a delicate inner structure and a penchant for creativity to the cinema, the theater, or an exhibition.
Invite a young girl to spend the day outdoors, at an amusement park, go to the zoo, or an ice cream parlour.
If a lady loves animals, visit a cat show, a pet store, buy her a “live” gift.
When a beloved is not just sad, but angry, accumulating negative emotions, she needs to throw them out. Invite a girl to paintball, to a shooting range, or go karting.

The arsenal of male tricks for a fun date needs to be used skillfully. Before the meeting, get yourself into a cheerful mood and be in a good mood.

Take the following recommendations into account:

Learn to easily tease your friend, joke. It’s not difficult to say a barb, but to pronounce a joke correctly so that the girl doesn’t get offended is a whole skill. Work on the quality of your humor constantly.
Improvise. Cheerfully talk incessantly, even nonsense. Notice the little things that you see around, successfully find the words to answer the lady’s questions. If the dialogue starts in a cheerful tone, the girl will definitely not be bored.
Remember a funny incident from your life. Tell your beloved, laugh together at the absurdity of the situation.
Come up with a harmless prank. You can buy a helium balloon, inhale the gas and confess your love to a girl.
Make a date with a lady in the park and come for a walk dressed as a dog or a clown.
Organize a competition. For example, eating ice cream at speed. Of course, the lady should win.
Turn into children for a while. Blow soap bubbles, ride on carousels, run races.
If today is your beloved’s birthday or name day, arrange an unexpected celebration. You can connect her friends to the party online via Skype.

Now you know how to cheer up a girl on VK, via SMS, in correspondence and on a date. In addition to the tips listed, use your personal charm, connect your innate sense of humor, then your lady will never be sad.

We try to make you laugh over the phone and SMS.

Of course, it’s quite easy to cheer up a girl in person, because you can watch her reaction and stop at the right moment. But you can cope with this task both by telephone and by correspondence.

If communication is based on messages, then try using funny phrases: “You see, I’m writing to you and I’ll sin a little. You’re too beautiful, you’re undermining my faith.”

Play with your imagination and come up with something original and funny, but not vulgar.

Another option is to send her a funny gift, a picture and back it up with an interesting story . In the morning, you can also send her a funny SMS, and she will definitely smile.

If communication occurs during a telephone conversation, then the voice plays an important role here:

Intonation should be expressive and lively.
Read jokes from social networks, but watch your voice. It shouldn't be monotonous.
And if you know how to parody someone’s voice, then use this trick.

Create a joke with this character. For example, copy the voice of any famous person (singer, actor, politician, etc.).

How to interest and cheer up a girl via SMS is explained in the video:

Joking from a distance

Have you started communicating with a pretty interlocutor on VKontakte and are now increasingly wondering how to cheer up a girl and take communication to a more informal level?

You can cheer up a representative of the fairer sex on VK using the following methods:

Find special resources online that post funny photographs, video files, so-called demotivators. Such sites contain the latest jokes, so you don’t risk sending some kind of “accordion”.
You can also cheer up a girl with the help of home videos that users post on various services. However, when sending a link on VKontakte to a video you like, avoid ambiguous content, for example, “stupid blondes” or “naked and funny.” A win-win option is a video featuring pets captured in unexpected situations.
You can send fresh jokes to a well-known interlocutor on VK, just let them be neutral. Vulgar and “bearded” stories are not the best option, unless the girl’s sense of humor coincides with yours.
To cheer up a girl’s mood in contact, you can go to sites that have a special “Questions” section. Choose a witty question that can make your interlocutor laugh. However, avoid ambiguity and indecent hints, otherwise misunderstandings are likely to occur.
If your interlocutor has a birthday or some wonderful holiday is coming up, send her an original themed picture or postcard with a funny poem or a funny joke via VKontakte. This way you will support the person, especially if the holiday has to be celebrated at the workplace.
Another proven way to cheer up a girl on VKontakte is compliments. Be sure to write witty and funny words to your beautiful interlocutor, saying how beautiful she is.

Important

Don't be upset if he doesn't laugh; his thoughts may be occupied with something else. Try it next time you're together. Beware of cliché jokes. They give the impression that you are only making jokes to fit in with the group. Make sure the jokes feel natural and unplanned.

Jokes for when she's sad

Who doesn't love jokes? Everyone likes them because they lift your spirits and make you feel cheerful for a long time.

But there is one nuance - not everyone likes jokes with vulgar notes or rude phrases.

“If programmers come to power, entire ministries will be replaced with a small script”
“When you clean the dirt off your mouse, you discover new features of your browser.”
“A hedgehog was walking through the forest, farted, landed and moved on”

If nothing comes to mind, then turn to the Internet for help.

What question should I ask?

Many men are interested in: what to ask a girl if she is not in the mood and is sad? You can ask what caused this mood. If she trusts you, she will open up and talk about her experiences.

Ask questions that will be of interest to both of you. For example, ask about their profession, goals or dreams. You can also chat about crazy things that have been or will be done in life.

Important! React to your lady's answers. Don't forget to express your emotions.

Any question should be interesting and easy. Don't make the girl think too much, don't make her blush. Communication should be based on mutual emotions.