How to cheer up a girl by correspondence on VK, by SMS, by phone, examples of correspondence, pictures

There is no person who is always in a great mood. Even the most inveterate optimists have dark days when nothing looks good. It's hard for any guy to watch if a once cheerful girl suddenly becomes less sociable and smiling. To cheer her up, you should first find out the reasons for the sadness or send her one of the funny, cool phrases in a message.

How to cheer up a girl on VKontakte

There are several ways to improve a lady’s mood if she is sad or bored:

Wish good morning or day with a card or your favorite song.
Send a funny video, a cool poem about how being sad is harmful to health and beauty.
Write a poem of your own composition about love for her, thoughts about meeting, communicating.
Send a virtual gift with a nice comment.
Invite to a club, cafe, for a walk, a concert. Tell her that the tickets have already been purchased, all that remains is to wait for her consent.
Submit a photo of yourself with a stupid expression on your face. You can send two images, where you are serious and funny, and ask them to find the differences.
Offer to meet a famous person or a friend who has a good sense of humor.

On a note! Do not ask your beloved direct questions about what caused the sadness and melancholy. If she wants, she herself will hint at the need for a frank conversation.

What to write to a girl when meeting on VKontakte: examples of correspondence

If you're nearby

There are many methods for raising the mood of your chosen one, but everything is deeply individual. Therefore, familiarize yourself with all the options so that you can then choose the most suitable and most effective in a given situation.

So, if you are close, then try the following methods:

Pamper your loved one with a delicious dish. Despite the constant “sitting” of girls on various diets, no representative of the fair sex will refuse delicious chocolate, exotic dishes, or ice cream. In addition, you can prepare a “yummy” treat with your own hands to show your attitude towards your beloved.
Give a compliment. What will instantly dry a woman's tears? With beautiful or original words you can make any girl happy, even if she is in the worst mood. You can give a compliment in different ways - one-on-one, via SMS, VKontakte, or even by ordering a song on the radio. The most important condition is that pleasant words must be spoken with all your heart.
Give yourself an adrenaline rush. Extreme sports or recreation are an unusual, but very effective method for raising your spirits. Of course, it is necessary to take into account the girl’s psychotype and her temperament, but still you can choose an extreme sport for every taste and budget.
Call her friends for help. If your beloved has not communicated with her friends for a long time, she is bogged down in routine affairs, do not leave her to sour on the sofa. Call the girl’s friends, invite them to your home without telling your missus about it. To enhance the surprise, take them shopping or to an entertainment center.
Get a massage. The ideal “cure” for a bad mood is massage, affection and kisses. Invite your beloved to have an evening of relaxation and bliss, give her a light massage (regular or erotic). It is quite possible that you will move from stroking to closer communication.
Have a romantic evening. Not a single girl (even if she is sad) will refuse gatherings at her favorite restaurant or a trip to the cinema for the last showing. You can book a table in secret from your missus, and if you are not sure of her consent, send an SMS with an offer to meet in a certain place where a surprise awaits your beloved.
Have sex. Scientists have proven that making love promotes the active release of endorphins into the blood - hormones of joy and good mood. As they say, just what the doctor ordered! If the girl doesn't mind, give her true pleasure by fulfilling every whim and every desire. By the way, this is the most accessible method to improve the mood of your beloved (and not only her).
Give a gift. Even if it is an ordinary trinket, the main thing is your care and tenderness. Give your beloved a bouquet of roses or daisies, some decoration or something that she has long dreamed of.

What to write

Experienced pick-up artists know how to cheer up a girl via correspondence on VK. Take their advice:

Tell a fresh joke with neutral content, without vulgarity or tricks.
Ask a witty question that might make her laugh.
Compliment her appearance while making fun of your flaws.
Pleasant words. Tell her that you like her face, figure, hobbies.
Like all the photos on her social media page. Don't forget to please the girl with pleasant comments and emoticons under them.
It's fun to read a funny poem and make a video. Send it to your beloved.

Original and creative ways to cheer up

If you don’t want to go down the beaten track and use standard methods, I suggest trying one of the following unusual techniques.

Organize a fun flash mob

Gather your friends, learn a simple funny dance, draw posters and arrange an incendiary performance under the girl’s windows. I guarantee that she will remember this for the rest of her life and will enthusiastically brag to her friends. Don’t forget to take a video so you can watch it together and laugh again.

Make a photo collage

Dig through photo archives, find the most touching and beautiful photographs of her, print them out and paste them onto a large Whatman paper. Don't forget to complement them with gentle signatures and bright hearts.

Bombard her with sweet messages.

Ask all your friends to send messages to the girl with nice words over the phone or through social networks. This will be enough to make her smile and take her mind off painful thoughts.

Organize a tour of unusual places

For example, on the roofs of houses with the most stunning views, or on abandoned buildings where you can arrange a cool photo shoot. Google it, there are probably a lot more interesting locations in your city.

Write a poem or song for her

The dream of any girl is to be the beautiful muse of a poet in love. Use your brain and try to create something original or at least funny to cheer her up. There is no need to compete with Pushkin, just be sincere. The girl will definitely appreciate such a broad gesture.

For even more ideas, watch this video.

Templates

To avoid guessing how to cheer up a girl with messages, use ready-made templates:

I don’t eat in the morning because I think about us. I don’t eat during the day, I think about us. In the evening I don’t have dinner, I think about us. And I can’t sleep at night! Do you know why? I want to eat))).

Hello! I feel very bad... I can’t love you like that anymore, I’ll have to love you very, very much more.

Don’t call me anymore, don’t write, I won’t be able to talk to you, correspond with you - the doctor forbade me from even looking at sweets!

I prepared a test breakfast: 300 grams of passion, 400 grams of tenderness, 100 kisses and a lot of hugs! Enough for two, a treat? By the way, there are a thousand compliments prepared for dessert.

I took the phone to a repair shop and they said it couldn't be repaired. They don't have one component for this. Do you know which one? Your smile)))

What to do if a girl cries

Any guy must know how to behave correctly when a girl starts crying for some reason.
To choose the right course of action, we recommend following the following order:

Start the conversation with a neutral topic that is completely unrelated to the problem that provoked the crying.
Be sure to be patient in order to listen to your loved one as carefully as possible.
be sure to support her: hug her, press her to your chest, if there are no objections to this on her part.
Show your sympathy to your loved one so that she understands that you share her opinion.
You cannot force your own solution to a problem on a girl. Strive to try to understand in which direction her thoughts are moving.

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Images

Funny pictures are the best way to cheer up girls and boys. The following cool images are suitable for sending:

animals in ridiculous situations;
jokes with the stars;
jokes with bright funny illustrations;
unusual jokes on men;
cute photos of little children;
jokes about Russian reality, the life of young people.
screenshots of correspondence between a guy and a girl.

On a note! Choose the topic for a cheerful message in correspondence carefully. If you don’t know the girl’s character and possible reaction to a harsh joke, you shouldn’t hint at excess weight or women’s shortcomings.

On distance

Modern communication options significantly help lovers to feel close to each other, even at a distance from each other.
There are many ways to maintain constant close communication. They are enough to say at least one word in difficult times: “I love.” It is this that can improve your well-being and immediately lift your spirit. This procedure can be done in different ways:

send a confession video;
forward SMS;
share music or a picture.

In words

Competently expressed verbal compliments also help if you follow the measure and do not overdo it.
Girls always appreciate beautiful words that are directly related to them. A few good compliments are enough to immediately improve their mood. Funny jokes and funny stories will cheer you up. But you definitely need to take into account the girl’s character, since a reserved lady needs to tell her story clearly. When a friend has a sense of humor, she will appreciate an interesting anecdote or a funny situation.

In verse

It is incredibly nice for any girl to receive a declaration of love in poetry.
You can compose them yourself (if you have the ability) or find suitable rhymes on the Internet:

“What happened, baby, are you really sad now? I need your smile, stop it, don’t be angry. Just share your sadness, I will eliminate it, I will remove all your troubles with my hands.”
“I love you even when you’re sad, although you don’t need to be so sad. After all, having a smile on your face makes life more beautiful.”
“Look at the beautiful day, stop being sad. Raise your nose, widen your smile, soon everything will get better.”

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How to make a girl laugh on the phone

Frequent calls have a bad effect on the development of relationships at the very beginning. The guys have only one option - write SMS. If a girl doesn’t want to answer short letters and is sad, you need to make her laugh. Read on to find out how to cheer up a girl over the phone.

SMS

There are several rules that must be followed when communicating with a young lady via SMS:

Write short messages.
Be polite.
Forget about vulgarity.
Don't touch on sad topics.
Be affectionate: call your friend Zaya, Darling, Baby. Tenderness will make the girl forget about boredom, she will definitely smile.
Write an SMS with wishes of a good day, evening, and always before going to bed at night.
Send compliments: praise your smile, figure, eyes, intelligence, sense of humor, achievements in work, life.
Send funny sayings of sages and famous personalities. Take note of quotes from conversations with Faina Ranevskaya, Mikhail Zhvanetsky, Bertrand Russell and others. Aphorisms can be found on the Internet, Google.
Any girl will appreciate a poem of her own composition. Don’t appropriate other people’s poems from the Internet, try to put the words into a beautiful confession or joke yourself.

What causes a girl to be in a bad mood?

A deterioration in the mood of a representative of the fair half of humanity can occur for many reasons :

Increased stress levels . Men believe that it is easier for women to endure problematic situations because of the opportunity to “cry” or express their negative feelings in other emotional ways. Indeed, girls are better at letting off steam after stressful moments. But there are situations in which they are forced not to talk about problems. Not everyone bursts into tears and complains to their girlfriends in the evenings. If a girl rarely told a guy about her problems, then it’s time for him to ask about her inner experiences;
Chronic fatigue and lack of sleep . If a girl has only recently gotten a job and is forced to “shovel away the rubble” from her predecessor at first, then there is a high probability that her mood will be ruined for several days in advance. It’s even worse when her boss asks her to stay late at work or she is forced to deal with documents at home until late at night. Women's workaholism is still more dangerous than men's, since guys can tolerate any load better;
Conflicts with colleagues, friends or family . In this case, usually the girl still decides to share her experiences with the guy. It is important for her that someone appreciates the correctness of her position in the conflict. Also, a young man may inadvertently offend her; you can apologize to her by using one of these phrases;
Disappointment in life . This can be expressed in dozens of reasons: unloved work, inability to move to good housing and a large city, etc.;
Hormonal changes . Some girls become irritable during their periods, others become whiny, and some feel constantly tired.

Short love texts to your beloved girl, woman

Thank you, sun, for your love and warmth, for every look and every moment. Thank you for your hopes, tenderness, kindness, for our happiness and for this inspiration.

My dear, I am madly in love with you, To the point of sweet stupor, forever and seriously. Draws happiness for me in its ornament: your eyes, the curve of your shoulder, your mop of hair.

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Your kiss is fire and honey, It does not burn my heart and soul, Your gaze is my true beacon, Will show the way, drive away the darkness!

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I mentally imagine how you walk with a flying gait, And I think: I don’t need someone else’s, I’m completely full of true love!

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I don’t need pranks and fun, I’m waiting for you, like wheat is waiting for rain, And I remember how you look slyly, And a ray of sunshine dances on your eyelashes.

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I love you and adore you, I can admire you for hours, I thank heaven for meeting you, Now two hearts are knocking in unison!

I would like to become the radiance of a ray, Penetrate through the window onto the pillow, To touch the white shoulder, Run gently across the ear And lie down on the curls of your hair, See how your smile blooms. I fell in love sincerely, seriously, May this torture last forever.

What to send on WhatsApp to lift your spirits

Honey, a short SMS cannot convey all the tenderness and love that I feel. So I’ll just say – I love you!

Darling, when you don’t scream or swear, you become a golden person!

Next to my beloved, a diamond becomes a simple stone, and gold is just a bright foil!

Honey, I’m not a fool, I just can’t look at you without a joyful smile.

If messages could convey my kisses, you would already be sucked into the phone!

I'm flying on the wings of love for my girlfriend, I hope the landing strip is ready!

Honey, someone stole my heart. The main suspicion falls on you!

I woke up early in the morning in a bad mood, everything was falling out of my hands. I remembered you and everything fell into place, magic!

They say that if you look at the sun for too long, you can go blind. Tell me, why am I okay when I spend hours admiring you? Maybe I'm a superhero?

Honey, I went to the store to buy an inflatable ring. I'm tired of drowning in your charming eyes!

A smile for no reason is evidence of happiness

It’s so easy to send funny SMS messages to put a girl in a good mood, and with them she will get a good reason to be in a good mood! Just kidding, because people fall in love with funny people more often than with gloomy people!

Woke up in a bad mood. Then I remembered that there is you in the world. I enjoy life again.
Today is the day when dreams come true!
After I started to drown in your eyes, I always walk with a life preserver.
If your boyfriend doesn't remember the dates you met, you have a chance to receive several gifts per year.
Love is so beautiful. Just like me and you...
Your smile disrupts my heart rhythms and life biorhythms.
I decided not to get up on my left foot today. As a result, he fell out of bed.
Smile and plunge into happiness right now!
I've been gaining weight lately... because you're too sweet!
Hey! And who is the most beautiful of all our friends?!
Darling, you are not alone now... There are two of us!
Stop being sad! Our love never ends!
Your face urgently needs a boost! Raise the corners of your lips to their maximum height!
I made a wish for you to Santa Claus for the New Year. Now you should be under my Christmas tree.
Darling, the best outfit for a romantic dinner is shoes and a smile!
Ancient philosophers tried to understand what space is, and for this I just fell in love with you!
My heart has the most beautiful invader!
Darling, do you want me to sing to you under your window today?!
Inspiration needed! Send me your photo urgently.
I was driving to work today, and there was a black kitten sitting on the road... In general, I now have a cat at home.
You are simply unforgivably beautiful...
Which mood do you prefer - orange or purple?
You are very beautiful...
When you smile, I feel it even on the other side of the planet!
A flurry of emotions in a second! I just looked at your photo...
Do you know who you should imitate? Cheshire cat!
Don't stress, my love! To frown, you need to use more than 70 muscles!
I wish I could bury myself in your hair now!
Dear pirate, I am ready to voluntarily become your prisoner!
Is it possible for a person to look great in absolutely all photos?? I'm not talking about myself.

A sense of humor is an excellent quality to attract attention to a person. Attract the beautiful object of your feelings with short and funny SMS, and the thoughts that periodically arise in her mind about you will eventually merge into a single whole!

Funny SMS to cheer you up

In the south and in the north, In bed and on a tree, On every edge of the Earth I love your hugs!

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Wonderful figure. Beautiful eyes. Sensual lips. But enough about me. How are you?

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How good it is to live in the world with you! Don't be sad without me, dear! I'll be back soon and we'll hug again, The most important thing in life is love!

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If we let a guy out into the forest, he will pick 3 kg of berries, if a girl, 5 kg. But this does not mean that if we release both of them into the forest, they will collect 8 kg of berries.

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Look how nice the weather is, Let's drive away adversity from our souls, Please open the door to happiness. Let your heart rejoice and be merry.

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I want you! I want to turn your head, drag you into bed and make you feel hot and moan for a whole week! Your flu!

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A young, sensitive maniac is looking for a girl who runs fast and screams loudly.

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Everything will be just chick-flick, Live like everyone else around you lives. Let no quirks in life lead you astray from the straight path!

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Honey, I have already started talking to the chair, having breakfast with the teapot. If you don't call me, I'll enter into a serious relationship with a vacuum cleaner.

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It’s a sunny day, everything is blooming, the air smells of spring and awakening. Life is good - everyone knows it, No one knows how to live without problems.

Find out the reason for your bad mood

Many different events happen in everyone’s life that can not only spoil the mood, but also lead to long-term despondency or depression. It’s one thing if these are minor reasons that can easily be corrected or at least distracted from them, for example, if her boyfriend left her or minor troubles at work. In this case, it is simply necessary to escape from the problem.

But it’s completely different if a bad mood is associated with the illness or accident of a friend or loved one. Here, there can be no talk of lifting the mood - in this situation, support or condolences would be appropriate.

Therefore, before you try to make her laugh or lift her spirits in other ways, you must first find out the reason for her bad mood. Otherwise, your friend may simply be offended by you and not communicate with you at all.

Once you have found out the reason, and it turned out to be banal and not worth the tears, you can begin the second part of the plan to lift your spirits.

How not to joke?

You can cheer up a representative of the fairer sex in various ways, but there are humorous techniques that should not be used when corresponding on the Internet and during dates.

Wanting to entertain their friend, some young people begin to laugh at her and thereby commit a big mistake. Even if the young lady doesn’t show it, she smiles for company, but then she either stops meeting with you, or stops corresponding on VKontakte.
You shouldn't make fun of your ex-lovers. Another taboo is the unusual habits of your friends in a conversation with your chosen one, since she may also have similar characteristics, and she will consider your jokes as personal insults.
If you are just moving on to the stage of romantic courtship, you do not need to use dark humor, swearing, slang and slang words and vulgar jokes, wanting to make a girl laugh on VK. Such humor is acceptable only for close people who have known each other well for a long time.
You cannot laugh at tragic events reported in the news, at people with various injuries. Otherwise, the young lady will perceive your attempt to cheer her up as callousness and harshness.
Making a representative of the fairer sex laugh with the help of alcoholic drinks is a bad idea. It is important to understand that alcohol-containing products only aggravate depression and further worsen a person’s emotional state.

Smile by SMS

Why send funny SMS to a girl? To set the mood! Funny texts will help you get through everyday work and put you in a cheerful mood.

In vain I called the teacher a goat on the student forum... He identified me by IP...
A good manicure decorates a woman's hands. And the man's face.
I was abducted by aliens, forced to drink and told that they would only release me after three hours.
I will spend this night with her. With my bed.
Briefly about the weather for today: mud. About the weather for tomorrow: the mud will freeze.
Honey, everyone does this in the spring. And birds, and flies, and butterflies. It's a pity that people can't fly.
Don't argue with a man! He can't be right anyway.
So you can wait for a prince all your life. And here is the man!
Paper, pencils and art - and 1000 rubles is ready!
Love is not just for you. It needs to be done!
Darling, if you are sad now, remember my face.
90-60-90 - this is how I drive through the city past the traffic police station.
I don’t have breakfast in the morning, I don’t have lunch in the afternoon - I think about you! In the evening I don’t think anymore, I really want to eat...
Honey, I was wrong! And it’s very difficult for me to type this SMS with my hooves...
Love is a vacation of the mind!
How would you like to be convinced that money cannot make a person happy...
Strong, peaceful, noble... Just in case, I’ll explain – it’s me.
You are beautiful, I am so damn beautiful... What are we going to do this evening??
If you don’t believe in love with the first person you meet, I’m ready to try to convince you!
You think you're the coolest, right? Well, you’re right!
Keep a ray of sunshine! Just don't miss it!
Honey, how do I gently tell a girl that I broke her powder compact?
A girl like this should smile!
I don’t even enjoy the sun as much as I enjoy your laughter.
I won’t bother you, but suddenly you’re just wondering who to have dinner with at the restaurant today...

Message options

I bring to your attention examples, SMS texts or short messages on a social network that will definitely bring a smile to the young lady’s face.

“You are the thief of my heart, you must be apprehended.”
“I can’t wait any longer for you to call me and I’ll come rushing.”
“Save me, otherwise I will die without your love.”
“Getting out of bed in the morning with memories of your eyes.”
“I’m writing a message. Guess who? The most beautiful creature on our planet. I’m very happy that it’s with me.”
“Your image is always before my eyes. Thank you for filling my life with happiness and my heart with endless love.”
“It’s very cold outside, but the memories of you warm my soul. I am very happy that I have you.”

You can write something similar in your own words. The main thing is that the meaning is similar, and your message is only positive and will definitely bring a smile to the young lady’s face.

When should you not amuse someone?

There are situations when jokes when communicating with a girl are inappropriate. No matter how much you want to cheer up your friend, in the following cases, leave humor aside:

If a woman is depressed, jokes will not help. In this case, the friend needs the help of a psychologist. The best thing a man can do is try to convince the lady to see a specialist.
A girl may cry because of the death of a relative or pet. Humor in such a situation will be regarded as a sign of a man’s callousness and insensitivity. During such a period, it is better to talk about detached, calm topics that will not affect the woman’s “sore spot.”
If a lady sheds tears because of problems in a relationship, under no circumstances raise your voice at her or say caustic jokes about her. Give it time to calm down, then talk calmly.

Whatever mood-boosting tactics you choose, you need to approach the problem wisely. Watch the lady's reaction carefully. If a smile breaks through the sadness, then you are doing everything right. If not, then don't despair. It is enough to change tactics, then the result will not be long in coming.