Attracting a man's attention and becoming an attractive woman are two different things. Suitable poses and a beautiful gait can be mastered in a few days if you train diligently, but learning to flirt for a woman after 40 is not so easy - just like raising a contented and grateful woman within yourself at 20 years old. But there is a long weekend ahead - you can start doing exercises under the guidance of Lev Vozhevatov.
Bald - yes!
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Posted by Dreams Come True (@live__well_) Sep 9, 2021 at 2:48 PDT
As for baldness, it does not repel girls at all, as many men believe who try to cover it with a couple of hairs (this, by the way, is terribly infuriating). Most women really like men with a well-groomed bald head; they consider them self-confident and honest. And women, especially self-sufficient ones, prefer men who look older than their years.
The attractiveness of a woman through the eyes of men
Often the male gender pays attention to female emotions and energy , and not to appearance. Female attractiveness in the eyes of men should combine the following points:
- Well-groomed. Well-groomed, clean nails, hair and glowing skin are mandatory attributes for a girl who takes care of herself.
- Intelligence. It is very important for men that a woman can think, surprise with knowledge, give sensible advice and support any topic of conversation. But you shouldn’t intrusively demonstrate your erudition and intelligence.
- An ideal woman should have her own personal clothing style. This style should not be provocative, but at the same time it should perfectly emphasize all her advantages.
- Having a sense of humor. This factor is no less important than mental and physical data. Healthy self-irony and the ability to make a man laugh are very important feminine virtues, according to men.
- Energy. This criterion also matters. A woman should radiate harmony, positivity and love for the world that surrounds her.
For the attention of women, we offer a useful article with beautiful good night wishes to your beloved man or boyfriend.
Height, breasts and female legs
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A woman's height also attracts people in different ways. Tall women seem more independent to men. Those who are looking for a caring soul mate choose women of average and below average height. The ideal height of a woman, according to a survey, is from 164 to 178 cm. But the legs should be of a harmonious length; too long and too short will be repulsive. So don't envy top models with legs from their ears. The most attractive breast size for men is C. And not at all an A or higher, as some people mistakenly believe.
Features of an attractive woman
Every girl strives to look feminine, stylish and beautiful in the eyes of the stronger sex. For men, the concept of “attractiveness of a woman” includes many qualities . These include: self-confidence, grooming, physical characteristics, patience and kindness. A woman should look natural, and not sickly (like models from glossy magazines).
Features of female attractiveness also include:
- Good self-irony and sense of humor. These qualities of a lady speak of her self-sufficiency and self-confidence.
- Dressing style should follow the rule: less revealing and more fabric.
- The voice of the weaker sex should be soft and gentle. He is supposed to bewitch and enchant a man.
- Having a sincere smile that will symbolize openness and a good feminine mood.
What qualities do not attract a man?
It is also necessary to know which feminine qualities do not attract a man .
- Availability. No representative of the stronger sex will like it if his chosen one is easily accessible. It is impossible to build a serious relationship with such ladies. Male nature loves to win a woman's heart. And not everyone will like it if a girl immediately climbs into bed.
- Inability to maintain home and family comfort. It is unlikely that a male representative will be attracted to a lady who is unable to create comfort and clean the house, or prepare a delicious dinner.
- Laziness. You shouldn’t count on a long-term relationship with a man if you spend most of your free time watching TV, talking on the phone, on social networks, or just lying on the couch.
- Excessive activity and high intelligence. Many guys don't like those ladies who only strive to build a career, not a personal life.
- Demandingness. The fact that a girl constantly demands to satisfy all her whims will quickly scare away a representative of the stronger sex.
- Pity. Young people don’t like those women who constantly complain about lack of attention, about illnesses and about their problems.
- Low female self-esteem. Many representatives of the stronger sex are simply repulsed by this feminine quality. And even more so with a constant reminder of this.
- Annoyance and aggressiveness, sagging skin, excess weight and excessive control also scare guys away.
- Many guys will also not like it if a representative of the fairer sex drinks alcohol, smokes and has other bad habits.
- And also of considerable importance are a pleasant smell, the absence of hair on the body, pedicure, manicure and the condition of the teeth.
From the ugly duckling
Pressure in matters of appearance from employers is unacceptable, but sometimes the employees themselves understand the need for transformation, says Tatyana Bondarenko, stylist and image maker, founder of the IDEA-class school of image solutions. In her practice, there was a case when a radical transformation helped a client conclude a major deal. The man negotiated the supply of a large consignment of goods with the top manager of the company. The negotiations did not go well. Then the man decided to change his image: a light tan, a goatee beard, a new eyebrow shape, a haircut, glasses, clothes, perfume and a new business card design. “A simple guy has turned into a shrewd businessman who knows the market. It was hard to believe the success of this adventure. However, they didn’t recognize him, and he received a contract,” says Bondarenko.
“Appearance affects sales and the average check, so you can understand the employer - he cares about his business”
Georgy Karakeyyan, development director of the digital communications agency Molinos, believes that professional qualities in work are more important than appearance, but he also resorted to image tricks. Early in his career, when he was in sales, he wore clear glasses to “look more respectable.” “It’s important to feel good and comfortable, and then glasses helped me with that. It really seemed to me that when I was wearing glasses, people took my offers more seriously; the conversion rate was 50% higher,” recalls Karakeyyan.
Christina Kowalski, a representative of the Israeli Russian-speaking bar association Eli Gerwitz, admits that for a long time she was “absolutely faded and completely natural: with dark brown hair, without bright eyelashes and with string lips.” “All my adult life I felt like a fatal brunette with bangs, like the heroine of Uma Thurman in the movie “Pulp Fiction,” with red lips. So she took it and changed,” recalls Kowalski. According to her, the transformation gave her self-confidence, after which her productivity and income level almost doubled.
Stylist Ilona Matushevskaya experienced depression due to the reactions of others to her appearance, but is now grateful for this experience. She worked as the manager of an Olympic champion and often attended social events and negotiated contracts for large sums. Matuszewska was once told that she was “a good, smart employee, but she doesn’t look very good” and that she could use some work on her style.
After the criticism, Matuszewska became fixated on thoughts about the opinions of others. To regain self-confidence, she turned to stylists for help, and later completely changed her profession, going into fashion. “Appearance is a new way of communication, a tool to achieve a goal. Appearance influences sales and increases average checks, so the employer can be understood - he cares about his business. The company as a whole is judged by an employee’s appearance,” says Matushevskaya. “You want to look at a beautiful person, listen to him and give him your attention and money.” In her practice, there were cases when a change of image led to an increase in income from 30% to 300%, a transition to a new job and rapid movement up the career ladder, the stylist assures.
How to fight discrimination at work
Advice from Evgenia Magurina, an ex-flight attendant who won a lawsuit against Aeroflot
- Get a confirmation
Employees who decide to go against the employer need to have a reinforced concrete psyche, because it is often difficult to prove the fact of discrimination. The first step is to obtain a legal document from the employer that will support their position. I was lucky - my employer wrote an official letter, openly admitting that part of my salary had been reduced for non-compliance with the size range. People were so sure that we wouldn’t go anywhere.
- Find like-minded people
It is desirable that this be an independent trade union that plays on the employee’s side. Many airlines do not have them at all or they are “manual”.
- Go to court
This tool should be used if you were able to obtain documents confirming discrimination on the part of the employer, or if there is other indisputable evidence - for example, evidence from colleagues. And be patient. Discrimination based on appearance is very difficult to prove, which is why our case turned out to be so high-profile - in Russia, employees rarely spoke out against employers. It was not an easy war.
Exercise “Flirt everywhere”
So get started right now! We kill two birds with one stone: you get used to the desired state and receive bonuses for your work. What I mean? Here's what!
- You're at a hardware store and you need to carry a rug to your car. You turn on flirting, and a man drags the carpet. I repeat: even if you exchange phone numbers, it means absolutely nothing!
- You're at the gym. You don't know how to do the exercise. You turn on the flirting, and a pumped-up handsome man explains the bench press technique to you in detail.
- You're stuck in traffic. On the right, a large Gelendvagen is pressing you down. You turn on the flirting - and now they let you in first.
- You are in a restaurant, hungry and already very late for somewhere. You start flirting, and the waiter brings you the dish first. And so on!
As a result, you are always in shape and ready to meet a charismatic man, and men do all the difficult work for you.
Of course, the realities of your life do not allow you to implement everything in one fell swoop. Understand. Therefore, I suggest you train in a cunning way.
- Start with an hour a day. It is very difficult to constantly control yourself, but you can hold out for an hour. Set aside this time after work, when, apart from training, you have nothing to distract you. Set a timer and turn on the new you for exactly one hour. Feminine and playful.
This mode goes well with the road home or just an evening walk. The main thing is to hold out for an hour. After this time, you can return to your usual state, anyway, the internal work has already begun. During this hour, all the people who will be around you should feel your incredible energy.
- Choose one trick for training every day. For example, today you practice walking, or a beautiful hand movement, or touching yourself, or looking, or something else - and spend the whole day practicing it on everyone. You will get more than 20 repetitions per day. Congratulations, your new habit is almost implemented!
- Find a girlfriend who will watch over you. Make up a game. She watches you, and you watch her. For an hour you are a lady. Those who couldn't stand it are treated to lunch. Or something similar. It's much easier with two people.
Hair
A favorite among women's hairstyles is long, flowing hair, slightly messy and tangled. Semi-long hair is also good. Men also adore a woman's open neck, so they like hairstyles with hair casually pinned up.
Most men are attracted to blondes. Obviously, they are perceived as more fragile and delicate than brunettes. But it all depends on the personal preferences of a particular man.
No sleek, pretentious, complicated hairstyles, short haircuts or unnatural hair colors! Anything that looks too correct, labor-intensive, extravagant and unnatural is rejected by men. The natural carelessness of long hair, strands escaping from hastily pinned hair, shiny healthy hair, slightly wavy or straight – this is what awes men.
Dressing fashionably and tastefully, shoes
Guys like girls who have style and taste in clothes and shoes.
Heels and open shoe models are the secret of beauty. Some men like “tomboy” girls who wear sportswear and sneakers. However, classic female images are still a priority.
Beautiful woman body
According to men, the beauty of an attractive woman's body should be significantly different from the body of those girls you see on the covers of magazines. A real beautiful female body should have the following parameters:
- The hourglass is the sexiest shape on the female body.
- There should be no cellulite on the legs, and their shape should be neat.
- Hips are a symbol of future motherhood and women's health. They should have convex buttocks, firm and round.
- The waist should be moderate without fat folds.
- Breasts are firm, firm, and of medium size.
