How to understand women, learn to feel them: tips for men

The question of how to understand women always worries many men. The problem concerns both those who are just trying to start a new relationship, and those who have been dating a girl for a long time or have even formalized an official relationship. In order to learn to feel the fair sex, you need knowledge of psychology, intuition and good knowledge of what is important and interesting to a person close to you.

What does a woman want?

In order to figure out how to understand women, many men read tons of books on psychology, and some even don’t shy away from romance novels. After all, they are most often written by women themselves, and in them you can clearly see how they themselves imagine an ideal relationship, what a man’s behavior should be that meets their requirements.

At the same time, the behavior of most girls and women remains at least strange for most men. Firstly, they pay attention to the extreme demands on their suitors. In their minds, a man should constantly please and pleasantly surprise. At the same time, few people want to do household chores.

The first thing you need to know to better understand women: almost all of them are excellent manipulators. They can and know how to achieve their goal. At the same time, it is extremely important for any girl to be the center of attention and receive compliments. In a new company, a girl strives to attract the attention of all men at once. He does this rather subconsciously in order to assert himself, so there is no point in being jealous in this case. Unless, of course, the flirting becomes very frank.

If you are attracted to a girl, immediately remember Pushkin’s saying: “The less we love a woman, the more she likes us.” Therefore, do not immediately demonstrate your interest; on the contrary, you can show some coldness towards the girl. This will only arouse her interest in you, as you will stand out from the rest of the men who are ready to fulfill her every desire. She will want to conquer you, this will be her interest. The main thing here is not to overplay your hand, because guys who are too reserved create a repulsive impression.

How to understand a girl - female psychology

Evolutionary patterns suggest different functions that are required for survival depending on sex. Due to these circumstances, mental characteristics, depending on gender, also developed with different priorities. The female psyche is more developed in terms of emotional response and multitasking, but copes worse with abstract analysis of facts and concentration on one task. These differences lead to moments of misunderstanding in intergender interaction and require consideration by both men and women.

The ability to understand a girl’s emotions and her desires is largely determined by a man’s ability to listen, which is important when building communication with any person. Timely clarification of controversial issues, reactions that cause surprise, as well as voicing one’s own attitude to many things facilitates mutual understanding.

It is important for guys to learn how to understand the girl they love, and knowledge of the psychological characteristics of the chosen one will help here. The path to mutual understanding begins with taking into account the difference in the perception of information. For girls, verbal communication and everything that is expressed using words is extremely important. Talking more, asking about what is happening and expressing feelings will help the girl begin to open up and not be afraid to explain what is happening to her. Every woman, of course, will notice an admiring male gaze, but only a compliment spoken out loud will count. That is, you can shower her with flowers, take her to a beautiful place, arrange a wonderful night of love, but if the girl does not hear from the man a confession of his feelings, then she will completely doubt the existence of such. Doubts cause nervousness, misunderstanding of relationships, an increasing number of questions and reproaches, but everything could be resolved in one phrase.

Girls do not need the constant presence of a man nearby and a few phrases or questions that give her a feeling of need are quite enough. Support your words with actions, because if a girl returns home alone, goes hungry, and shares her problems with her friend, she is unlikely to be able to believe in sincerity.

The peculiarities of the female psyche allow them to quickly absorb information and remember everything better, and in the smallest details. This explains her periodically bored appearance when, out of politeness, she listens to long-known information. This also becomes the cause of many grievances when a man forgets something, be it an important date or the color of her dress on the day they met. But this feature brings not only troubles. By constantly expanding your own horizons and each time telling her new information, you become an indispensable interlocutor for her. By the way, the topic does not attract girls as much as its presentation. That is, if a man can talk about the design of an engine with humor and passion, he is guaranteed attention and recognition.

A girl can be the kindest princess with some and a cold bitch with others - it all depends on the importance of the person and the value of the relationship. If you do not feel the proper level of relationship, then this is not caused by a quarrelsome nature and a desire to annoy, but by a lack of trust and uncertainty in the relationship, which forces the girl to keep an emotional distance.

Regarding female needs that influence character, there is an evolutionarily determined mechanism. Since the woman always took care of the home and family, she chose the most successful male, capable of ensuring the survival of the offspring. In addition, all actions were aimed at increasing reserves. Those couples survived where the man extracted resources and the woman distributed them. At the moment, this continues to manifest itself, so girls react very painfully to male stinginess, lack of fulfillment, and the desire to save on it. In a social society, emotional resources are also added, that is, attention, encouragement, support. The less a man gives, the worse the woman’s condition becomes and the more reproaches there are between people.

It is very important to take into account a woman’s individual aspirations, and if her need for care prevails, then she may regard the provision of a large amount of money instead of a joint dinner as an attempt to pay off. A woman who does not need emotional support may perceive her partner’s constant presence as suffocation and a restriction of her own freedom.

Consider the needs of your woman. If this is a concern, then it manifests itself daily, and not after its next reminder. When you hear about a lack of passion, then maybe stop going to restaurants and exhibitions, or it's time to listen to what fantasies the woman is voicing.

Be aware of women's emotionality. If logic is the language of men, then emotions are the language of women. Sometimes such a wave can sweep anyone away from a stable position; here it is important to listen not to the text itself, but to the intonation and subtext. Do not provoke a girl when she is emotionally agitated, if you understand the true reason for her indignation by pointing out that she is wrong and reprimanding her. Men need to learn to extinguish such outbursts at the very beginning. Usually all it takes is a hug and some reassuring text depending on the situation.

Features of female character

You can understand a woman if you understand the characteristics of her character. First of all, always remember the expression: a woman loves with her ears. The fair sex pays the closest attention to what you say. Girls have an increased ability to quickly perceive information. They remember many small details.

Therefore, in order to maintain a woman’s interest, try to constantly learn something new and interesting - unusual facts, the latest news - and talk about it at every opportunity.

Despite the fact that male and female characters are very different, this has its own advantage. So they complement each other. If the main distinguishing characteristics of women are gentleness, caution and patience, then men are more likely to take risks, be competitive, and strive to demonstrate their intelligence and knowledge. Thus, if we act together, we can achieve the greatest success. A man will convince a woman to take risks where she would be too cautious, and vice versa, a girl will protect her boyfriend from frankly reckless actions.

How girls are different from guys: that's why they're so hard to understand!

Just saying that men are from Mars and women are from Venus is not enough. You can simply accept that you are different and not bother, but you definitely won’t become the sensitive and caring man she dreams of. “You need to know the enemy by sight,” which means that in order to conquer a girl, you need to take into account the peculiarities of her psychology and physiology. Before you understand a girl, you have to find out exactly what the differences are between you. And you will be surprised, it’s not just about gender characteristics! Here are some research findings worth taking into account:

1. It is believed that women have multitasking brains, but men do not. It’s normal for her to do a report while drinking coffee, answering calls and at the same time being present at a video conference. So what if coffee will be spilled, the report will have errors, and the meaning of the meeting will remain a mystery! Gradually, women hone their multitasking and become quite capable of doing several things at once. You are more thorough and do not like to be distracted. The point is the corpus callosum of the female brain, which is thicker than that of men, and there are more connections in it.
2. Women have a better sense of taste and smell, and distinguish colors, if there are no diseases or pathologies. For this reason, it is pointless to argue with her about shades. And yes, if she shows you two dresses, claiming that one is cornflower blue and the other is azure, then don’t try to say that both are blue.
3. It's more difficult for women to lose weight, so don't be too demanding of her if you take care of your body together, but her success is less. Maybe she eats chocolates at night, but more likely it’s a matter of physiology.
4. Women are less susceptible to pain, but their skin is more sensitive. If she pinches you, you shouldn't do it back too hard.
5. Nature dictates that women are verbose: she has two speech centers in her brain versus your one, which is why she says twice as many words a day. However, you don’t have to say as much.
6. Women are more emotional.
7. Girls are less oriented in space, so it is more difficult for them to learn to drive.
8. A girl needs 30% less alcohol to get drunk: take it into account, but don’t forget about individual characteristics. Some ladies can't be drunk enough!

And this is not a complete list of your differences with them. How can you understand girls if you are so different? Don’t try to figure it out, just follow the advice! This is what girls need.

What is women's intuition?

Everyone has heard about women's intuition. Thanks to her, girls concentrate their attention on little things, while young people most often perceive the situation in general. It is this ability that is the essence of female intuition.

Sometimes, even unconsciously concentrating on the little things, a girl understands what is happening, even when the man is silent, avoids the conversation or tries to deceive. At the same time, gestures, body language and unusual intonations will definitely give him away. Noticing all this is one of the main characteristics of the fair sex.

At the same time, women never admit that they see right through a man. This makes it easier to manipulate them when the need arises.

Rule three: watch the movements

Comparing women to cats is banal and as old as time, but sometimes you just can’t do without it. Imagine a fluffy, playful animal. When a cat is in the mood, it smoothly moves its tail and rubs its head. If you make her angry, her movements will become jerky and nervous.

How can a man understand a woman by observing her? Always remember cats. A playful mood will be revealed by playing with your wrists, fiddling with your curls, or stroking your jewelry. If you appear in front of a woman, and she starts stroking her hair, adjusting something in her clothes, she clearly sees you as an object of attention. If, when looking at you, nothing in the young lady’s behavior changes, most likely she is not interested in you.

Women's emotions

Women's emotionality is one of their main distinguishing features. Understanding a woman's feelings is not easy, especially when her mood constantly changes - from calm to hysteria. It is almost impossible to guess in advance what kind of lady you will meet today.

Every little thing can affect your mood—relationships at work, a sidelong glance cast in transport, unexpected news from the world of stars. Therefore, try to guess in advance where your significant other is and choose the right behavior strategy. Leave her alone if the girl is very irritated, or, conversely, show affection and sympathy when she is in a good mood.

Of the large number of emotions that a woman experiences every day, many begin to fantasize and speculate. Often without the slightest reason. During these periods, they are able to come up with things that their man has never even thought about. The main advantage of this emotionality is that thanks to it, women adapt to any changes in the world around them more easily than men.

Don't be annoyed by her tears

Women are more emotional and cry much more often. They use tears to express feelings, manipulate, and simply for psychological relief. This is the psychology of girls in relationships. And, of course, she will cry on your shoulder. After all, you are the person who is close and dear to her, so don’t oh, just hug and stroke her, even if she pushes you away and asks you to leave. It’s men who need to be alone when it’s hard, and women who need support. If you run away, you will quickly lose her trust.

Relationships with loved ones

In order to understand and feel women, you must always remember that friendly relationships with the people around them are of great importance to them. They pay great attention to their reputation. At the same time, girls are extremely sensitive to even small changes, which for many may go unnoticed.

At the same time, it is extremely important for women to be appreciated and understood. This explains their verbosity.

Don't confuse friendship with love

Ladies don't always play fair. They flirt, flirt, but don’t experience anything themselves. So how to understand a woman? Photos of lovers are especially annoying when you are alone, and all the girls around you seem to mock you with their behavior. Don't get excited! So you are confusing friendship with falling in love.

Sometimes we wishful thinking, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. How do you understand a woman who is sincerely interested in you, but at the same time it seems to you that there is no love? Perhaps you are close to such a young lady as a friend. She sees that you are interesting and trustworthy, but at the same time she is not physically attracted to you. As they say, there is no spark. The surest sign of this is the absence of jealousy. Tell the woman about some (possibly fictional) lady of your heart. If her reaction is completely neutral, then you are just a good friend to her.

Is there such a thing as a natural woman?

“I never understood women,” many men often admit. This is largely due to the fact that girls are less likely to behave naturally. While for men this is a common form of behavior. A man most often does not think about emotions and his manner of speaking, so he never hides his true face.

It's more difficult with girls. Wanting to appear better than they really are, they often hide their naturalness, flaunting those qualities that they think should attract others.

Even with a positive reputation, a woman strives to turn out to be even better than she really is. To do this, they actively use cosmetics and various procedures, carefully hiding grievances and failures. All in order to appear successful and loved.

Let her feel like the best

The psychology of a girl is still a mystery. But you don’t need to be a gray-haired sage to understand that first of all, a woman needs love. She is looking for someone to be special with. She has a lot of complexes and fears, because of which she can hide her feelings and keep her distance. The faster you become close to her, the stronger her feelings will be. It's not as difficult as it might seem at first glance. Just do it:

1. Give compliments. Women are ready to listen to them for hours. Just let’s avoid the hackneyed “you’re beautiful.” It’s better to emphasize her individuality: “You laugh beautifully,” “In this dress, your figure is especially seductive.” Don’t throw in cliches, but be more specific. Just understand this and your relationship will improve.
2. Give gifts. It doesn't have to be an expensive phone or car. Let the surprises be sweet and touching, touching the soul, and not developing commercialism in the girl.
3. Keep quiet about her shortcomings. Just be quiet. Better yet, turn them into advantages. She has a complex because of her small breasts - tell her that you like exactly these shapes. He’s embarrassed by the gap between his teeth - say that you’ve always admired Temnikova.
4. Admire her achievements. She needs to trust that you see her as a person.

Female touchiness

Touchiness is another quality that is found almost exclusively in women. Moreover, usually this is not a momentary grievance that is soon forgotten, even if all the problems have been resolved. The girl will remember the reason why this happened for a long time. Men forget about grievances much faster.

Because of this feature, representatives of the fair sex are often compared to cats, who can remember for years the one who hurt them and take revenge even after a lot of time has passed.

The secret trick to fully satisfy a girl

But in fact, a man’s task is to give a woman the opportunity to have fun, doing what she loves: family, man, home, children. She, poor thing, sometimes doesn’t even know that you can really be happy, not like on the cover of a magazine with a moronic mannequin smile, but really be happy from the inside.

For example, the nineties were hard years for us. This is essentially another, consider it, a Civil War: Russian men were wiped out during these years by simply trash. That is, as if it were military operations.

Because there is no damn job, and the man was raised to be a warrior, raised to be a builder, an engineer, to heal people. Build, achieve, achieve - this is the essence of a real man. And then suddenly it turned out that no one fucking needs it.

10 years of genocide - they just killed a bunch of men. It’s okay in Moscow - no matter what, at least it was possible to get a job somewhere. But somewhere in the outback - try to get a job - there was simply no work there.

And even now it’s not so easy to provide a family with finances so that a woman doesn’t have to work, or at least not work hard for money. But she likes working at school - she teaches Russian part-time.

This is a happy person, her husband provides her with everything, she takes care of both her husband and children. She loves teaching; she is a teacher who works not for money, but because she loves her job. And imagine, she will teach one of the most ancient languages ​​in the world to our younger generation - this is cool!

Love in a woman's life

Many representatives of the fair sex doubt whether men understand women, because many perceive differently what love is. If for a girl the main thing is a sensual relationship and spiritual factors, then for guys, in order to decide whether they love a woman, they need to enter into intimate intimacy with her.

Consistency is another characteristic feminine trait. Since ancient times, a girl was the keeper of the hearth, who raised children and took care of family comfort. For a man, the main thing was to leave offspring, therefore, on a subconscious level, young people try to enter into relationships with as many representatives of the opposite sex as possible, so that the likelihood of procreation is higher.

At the same time, a modern woman, in order to feel calm, must be sure that the guy belongs only to her. Therefore, if you are wondering how to understand women, the main thing is to realize that the fear of betrayal is inherent at the genetic level. After all, since primitive times, if a man left for another family, then the woman and children remained on the brink of survival.

Show your love

Men know how to court beautifully, but as soon as the goal is achieved, they begin to “fade” as males. You must constantly train to surprise and conquer: who knows, what if you break up, but you have already forgotten how to give compliments. You will have to re-awaken the seducer in yourself again. It’s easier not to lose this skill, it will be better for your girlfriend too:

1. Touch more often and give more tenderness. Tactile contact is very important for girls.
2. Admire her body. To do this, you don’t have to understand it – just feel it.
3. Show that she is always desired and loved. Don't be afraid to look too lustful, especially if you've been together for a long time.

To understand a woman you need to communicate with her. If you don’t know where to start a conversation, go to the “First Phrases Constructor” using this link.

Psychological characteristics

It's time to learn a few secrets of female psychology. Try to talk more with your chosen one. A silent young man is a cause for concern and suspicion.

One of the surest ways to understand women is to constantly evaluate their work. Cleanliness in the house. Delicious dinner. New hairstyle. All this increases self-esteem.

In order to have a long-lasting relationship, it is important to remind the girl that she is the one and only for whom you are ready to do anything. In this case, you will be provided with home comfort and a pleasant atmosphere in the family and in relationships.

We check whether the young lady is in love or not

But still, if this lady is not indifferent to you, then know that from friendship to love there is one step. Show a woman that you can be a worthy gentleman, surprise her with masculine actions. If you think her attitude is starting to change, try this trick. This technique has a double meaning. If a woman already feels something for you, she will split. If not, then you can get away with it and allow the woman to look at you with different eyes.

So, write her a message in the evening (or better yet at night) something like: “I’m madly in love with you! Can I count on reciprocal feelings? Ideally, a woman should respond positively to the message. If she says “no,” then don’t be upset. This means that your efforts to conquer have not yet borne fruit. The next morning you can say that you got drunk and mixed up the recipient in your contact list. This will calm the woman down, but even if she doesn’t feel anything for you, certain metamorphoses will occur in her head overnight.

Girls from Puritan families

We are not talking about the religious component here. But these are usually girls whose parents are much older. For example, when a girl is 22 years old, and her parents are under 60. Accordingly, raising a girl of a completely different generation . If a child is very different in age from her parents, then various ambushes arise in her head, as if she were from the 60s or 80s. That is, there are serious pressures regarding sexuality, there are a lot of old attitudes from Puritan values ​​in my head.

If parents are young, they are very close to their children in their perception of the world and, in general, contact with children is closer.

It is difficult to get along with girls from Puritan families at all. It seems that they want a free life, but there are a lot of cockroaches in their heads. They think more about building a family, building a marriage, children and everything else . If you really want to deal with them, then they can undermine your psyche, too, if your psyche is not yet so strong. Such girls will simply knock out your reality with their dense reality. She herself doesn’t understand what she wants. You certainly won’t understand what a girl wants and how to understand her.

Although outwardly they may be dressed normally and look good, but they will give out things that your mother will not cry about. In our country, these are usually girls from military families, from families of high-ranking officials and police. Their families are so pseudo-religious, and there is such a military spirit in the family! At the same time, Christian values ​​when communicating with her will be conveyed in every sentence.

Here you just need to think: “ Do you need it? »

In the new article at the link, we talk in more detail about how to build mutual understanding, trust and comfort in the relationship between a guy and a girl.

Double your results

With women aged 25 and older, it’s simple! By this age, they understand that it is they themselves who create problems around men .

The psychology of a woman after 25 and her perception of a man begins to change. They begin to realize that they themselves want men .

Such women no longer throw tests at you, there are no emotional instabilities. You can find out more about women's checks here.

Older women don't act arrogantly towards men . They don't need it.

If you yourself are open with a woman, you want her and do not hide your desires, then she will answer you in kind.

The women with whom everything was fine were mostly older than me. This is from 25 and older. These women have the most sober and healthy psychology

This doesn’t mean that you now don’t communicate with girls under 25. It’s just that if everything becomes difficult with you and a girl, she’s messing with your mind, remember this realization.

If you want to double your success as much as possible, communicate with women 25 and older .

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Types of girls

Roughly, all girls can be divided into 3 types. They are different from each other, but if you know the psychology of each, you can easily understand how to behave, what to talk to her about, what she wants. All girls are different - you should remember this. But to understand what each of them wants, let’s study them.

1. Smart and cold.

Such young ladies are distinguished by success in life and intelligence. They practically do not rely on men; they achieve everything themselves. Behind them is a core, which is often stronger than the male one. They think about their future, always look attractive and are busy checking their gentlemen.

Smart and cold doesn't trust guys. She creates various situations in which she tests how her boyfriend will behave. She can mock, ask for something, pretend. She does all this in order to test what you are capable of. Such a young lady loves to control and manipulate a man. He must be subordinate to her.

How to behave with her? You need to show that you are stronger and smarter than her. Don't compete, just show it. She also needs to see that you are promising. You have plans and goals for the future. You make an effort every day to achieve them. Make her listen to you and even submit. In fact, she needs a male who can curb her.

1. Warm and soulful.

Such girls are usually sweet, romantic, good, gentle and sensual. Their behavior is very unpredictable as they follow their intuition and emotions. Typically, such young ladies are engaged in creative professions (stylists, artists, photographers, singers, actresses). It is they who experience a constant change of mood, when today the sun is shining in their souls, and tomorrow it is raining.

Such girls can be conquered with compliments, tenderness and caresses. They need emotional intimacy. It is better not to deceive them, because they feel it subtly.

The most important thing she expects from you is emotions. She needs you, not your achievements, social status and other material attributes. She needs tenderness, love, affection, emotional communication. If you are honest and sincere with her, give emotions, then you will conquer her.

1. Sexy and hot.

Such young ladies are simply preoccupied with sex. They won't refuse. They always look very open and act relaxed. They want to have sex with them, so they visit places where it can be easily obtained: clubs, nightlife, get-togethers, parties. Such girls smoke and constantly communicate with different people, because they cannot live without adventures.

A sexy and hot girl is interested in what you are like in bed. She evaluates your figure and tries to predict how good she will be with you.

To win the heart of such a girl, you must be sexually liberated and vulgar. From the first minutes, start touching her, show that you want her. Talk to her about sex, what she likes, where she would like to go with you, etc. Two things should be important - sparks should burn between you, you should be hot and sexy, and you should touch her constantly, and it can be done in vulgar forms (by the ass, breasts, pulling hair, etc.). If you can still satisfy her in bed, then she will definitely like you.

Recommendations from psychologists

To make your beloved woman happy and feel the joy of living together, you need to:

1. Instill in your chosen one that she is the best, constantly remind her of this.
2. Prove love with words, gifts, deeds and surprises.
3. Support in difficult times, help solve women's problems.
4. Treat hormonal changes with understanding.
5. Share plans without instilling vain hopes.
6. Show care and support.
7. Spend time.

In fact, women need little to be happy. The main thing is that the husband loves, values ​​and appreciates the relationship. The girl wants to marry her beloved guy, and the wife dreams of preserving her family and romantic feelings.

Signs of falling in love

Love can be mutual and unrequited. In the first case, the woman demonstrates her affection in every possible way, flies in the clouds, radiates happiness, in the second, on the contrary, she tries to hide her feelings, gets irritated, nervous, and fades away before her eyes. In addition, you need to take into account her temperament:

1. Sanguine people in love enjoy life and give happiness to others. The girl jokes, gives compliments, and willingly gets to work. Everything works out for her, things go smoothly, and in the evening she runs off to a date with her beloved in a good mood.
2. Melancholic people only change their behavior slightly. You can notice falling in love by shining eyes and a distant look. The girl flies in the clouds, breaks away from reality, does not notice what is happening around. Such young ladies drop business papers, don’t hear questions during lectures, and make mistakes in reports.

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1. Choleric people tell everyone around them about falling in love. They tend to exaggerate and idealize their partner in the eyes of others. Bright and strong feelings cannot be kept inside, so everyone knows about them.
2. Phlegmatic people are secretive by nature. They are in no hurry to demonstrate their love to others and do not allow themselves to relax. Girls think about whether the relationship is right, whether this is the right partner, how long the romance will last and what it will ultimately lead to. There are more questions in my head than answers. The woman looks absent-minded, detached, and thoughtful.

In any case, a happy woman in love can be seen with the naked eye.

Understanding behavior

The girl never does anything for nothing. Each of her actions has a secret meaning. Behavior is dictated by internal needs. If a man does everything right, his companion is cheerful, contented, and cheerful. Otherwise, she is capricious, mischievous, nagging, insolent and irritated over trifles. In addition, you need to take into account the characteristics of the female body.

A girl's behavior is directly influenced by hormonal levels and the phase of the menstrual cycle. In the first half of the cycle, estrogens predominate - female hormones responsible for sexuality, attractiveness, and good mood. At this time, the girl is happy with herself and her husband or boyfriend. She is happy with everything and the relationship is going smoothly.

In the second phase, the amount of progesterone, male hormones, increases. Physical and psychological changes occur. The skin becomes dull and the appearance deteriorates. Nervousness, irritability and tearfulness appear, and self-esteem decreases. The chosen one begins to enrage, to infuriate. What should a man do? Just wait a little.

Things are even worse with a pregnant wife. Her body is being rebuilt, hormones do not allow her to live in peace, she suffers from toxicosis, tastes and preferences change. The husband needs to be patient, pay more attention to the woman he loves, and help her survive the pregnancy.

How to understand the girl you love

The behavior of the chosen one is dictated by the goal. If she is not serious about the relationship, then she makes fewer demands. She is happy with everything and turns a blind eye to many things. There is one sure way to check the true aspirations of your chosen one - to propose marriage. In response, you can hear anything but agreement.

If the girl you love becomes irritable, then it’s time to talk frankly. Something doesn’t suit her, her hopes are not met. Perhaps the partners’ aspirations do not coincide or the girl is in too much of a hurry.

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You should not be offended if your beloved gives advice or tries to change the chosen one. This means that she has serious plans for him. She tries to create the ideal that emerged in her imagination. This is exactly what a husband should be like.

Spouse

When a wife turns into a fury, the husband needs to think about his behavior and attitude towards her. Most women hide grievances, but internal dissatisfaction is reflected in behavior and attitude towards the offender. The husband may not be aware of his mistakes, but the wife has been sharpening her teeth for a long time. Frank conversations, tenderness, affection and proof of love will help you get out of the situation.

The situation is especially deplorable when the wife is on maternity leave. It’s hard for her morally, psychologically, emotionally. If a husband wants his wife to become more affectionate, gentle, and attentive, he should take on some of the responsibilities and relieve his beloved wife. You just need to give her the opportunity to relax and feel not only like a mother, but also a desirable woman.

Colleague or friend

In this situation, understanding female psychology is very simple. If a friend or colleague is secretly in love, she will be attentive, faithful, reliable, and interesting. You can rely on her at any moment. However, the attitude changes dramatically as soon as the beloved woman appears in the “friend’s” life. The advice here is the following: you need to carefully look at the behavior, gestures and views of a friend or colleague.