Every person dreams of finding a soul mate. Finding individual happiness, destined by fate, means living in harmony with yourself, acting in accordance with your inner convictions. I want to experience joy, inspiration and encouragement from the closeness of communication with my loved one. Human psychology is such that no one can be happy alone. That is why there is a desire to get a couple as soon as the opportunity arises. There is nothing strange or reprehensible in this desire. There simply comes a time for active action, when you need to show character and determination.
How to order your soulmate
Finding your happiness is not an easy task, especially for a woman. The weaker half is often looking for a man that nature has not yet created: it must be either a prince, or a pumped-up macho with two, or better yet, three higher educations, a fat wallet, and he must also be flexible, kind, generous, etc.
The universe will be able to find you a mate if you imagine a real person with weaknesses and shortcomings, and not someone you have imagined. Ask the Universe for a person close to you in energy and spirit, so that you enrich each other and not suppress each other.
On a piece of paper write: My future husband should be... and list real earthly qualities. Try to imagine it. Re-read the qualities twice, then burn the paper. Scatter the ashes so that the Universe begins to look for a mate for you. Sooner or later this ritual will bear fruit.
Method one: the power of air, give me love
Since childhood, we believe in fairy tales that one day Santa will come and fulfill all our wishes, but we really, really want this.
And so, year after year, people want and expect a miracle, resorting to all kinds of
- spells;
- conspiracies.
- prayers;
- rituals;
Of course, believing in fairy tales and miracles is good, but the real world does not tolerate this. And instead of possible happiness, people who read such fiction only get nervous and begin to delve into themselves, waiting for the hero of their dreams.
But the prince or princess does not appear for some reason. They say, “The problem is my appearance, maybe I’m praying wrong.”
But love is contrary to all the rules; no spells will help a person find love if he himself does not want it. The saying was not created in vain - a person is attracted to what he constantly thinks about.
Now half of the audience will be indignant, thinking - how come I read books, spells, do you want to say that I don’t do anything and don’t want to meet her or his special someone?
Of course, you want to, but you don’t want to meet a specific person of flesh and blood, just an image, beautiful, but unattainable, because he doesn’t exist.
How to start looking for a girl
To find a mate destined for you, you need to follow several rules of attractiveness.
- Watch your appearance. A sloppy girl will be pestered by equally unkempt guys.
- Wear accessories that will add zest to your look. Change your image more often to choose your style and find a suitable image.
- Get rid of your complexes, stop whining and complaining.
- Love yourself for who you are. Smile, don’t walk around gloomy with your head down.
- Become self-sufficient, believe in your strength.
- Never say that you are very happy alone! It is not true!
- Do not reject the advances of that guy who is far from the ideal you have come up with.
- Visit places where you can meet young people more often.
- Correct your shortcomings, be a feminine, sweet, smiling girl.
- Set yourself realistic goals. Never “swing” at a married man.
Appeal to astrology
Astrology advises focusing on your strengths. Encourages the individual not to retreat in the face of difficulties, but to learn to correct mistakes and recognize merits. As a result, a person learns to analyze actions and make bold decisions. What benefits does turning to astrology give? A lot, actually.
- Understanding your purpose. There comes an awareness of why fateful meetings happen and what they bring for personal growth. You won't have to waste another minute anymore.
- The desire to develop yourself. You no longer want to sit in one place and complain about fate. Personal growth is a conscious choice followed by strong individuals who know how to take responsibility.
Wish card
will help you find your destiny :
- Take a blank sheet of Whatman paper.
- Stick your photo in the center.
- Take magazines and cut out pictures with your desires.
- Cut out a photo of the man you like, a car, wedding rings, a house, and definitely a child or two.
- Next to you, stick a photo of a man, and around it what you would like to have.
- Hang it in a visible place so you can see this poster more often. Soon your wishes should come true.
How can a man find his chosen one?
It is just as difficult for a man to find a mate as it is for a woman. To get results, often imagine the woman of your dreams next to you. Remember, searching is normal. There is no need to despair. If you're unlucky today, you'll definitely be lucky tomorrow!
Recently, people have been looking for each other on the Internet. Online dating can end in marriage if you write about yourself honestly, but mysteriously, without revealing yourself completely.
Agree to a date, because only on a date can you understand whether this is your person or not. Don't look for the perfect girl, there are no perfect people. You also have shortcomings.
How can a guy become a family man? Any bachelor dreams of starting a family, but does not know where to start. And you need to start with a positive attitude that everything will work out. You also need to be prepared for difficulties along the way.
It’s also a good idea for a guy to make a list of the qualities of his future wife. Then burn it, releasing the desire into the Universe.
Visit places where your heart beats faster: sporting events, stadiums, fitness clubs, cinemas. The main thing is not to be idle!
Expand your social circle
The more people you have around you, the better. However, you shouldn’t let everyone get close to you. Be selective. Communicate only with those who are interesting to you. It is desirable if it is a “teacher-student” format, that is:
When we are surrounded by strong and successful people, we:
- let's understand the world;
- learning to be stronger;
- we think differently;
- opening new horizons.
These people include those who have achieved significant success in their activities and in life. They can share their experience and help you.
When we communicate with a person a head shorter than us, we:
- reaching down;
- we stop developing;
- we lose faith in ourselves;
- we lose energy;
- Let's become like this man.
This category includes energy vampires, as well as pathological losers who have not achieved success in life and prevent others from achieving it. They constantly complain about the world around them and look pessimistic. They are also embittered and envious; they always blame those who live better. Communication with such people will only bring disappointment. Therefore, stay close only to those who have achieved success and are ready to share it.
Is there life after divorce?
After a divorce, it is difficult to become happy again. There is a fear in the heart that you might step on the same rake again. Psychologists give 3 pieces of advice.
- Heal from your old feelings so you can look for love again. Come to terms with what happened, understand yourself.
- Let the person go. Free yourself from resentment, anger, forgive that person and yourself too. Mentally ask for forgiveness. Get rid of all negativity so that when you meet again, bitterness, resentment, and sarcasm do not creep into your conversation.
- Don't sit at home, go to public places. Take a walk in the park, go to exhibitions, go to the cinema, tune in to new love.
Look at the world with a smile6
It is a scientifically proven fact that luck smiles on positive people more often. Try to see only positive moments in every event in your life and smile. Once you find inner harmony, it will miraculously affect your appearance. There will be a sparkle in your eyes and inner confidence. Agree, it’s quite difficult to walk past a happy and friendly person who literally charges you with positive energy, and not smile back. Why not get acquainted?
How to fall in love at 40
After 40 years, life is just beginning. And indeed it is. You already have life experience, you know what you want. The main thing is not to consider loneliness as your achievement.
Most likely you have your own life story. Learn lessons, work on mistakes. Don't linger in the past, go to the future! If you meet a person, don't tell your story. Not everyone can accept this. There will be no end to jealousy! It’s better to say that you were looking for and found your one and only.
Don't focus on appearance. Appearances can be deceiving. After the first date, agree to the next one.
Age of the potential partner? Today no one thinks about him.
Be prepared that this person has children. Are you ready to accept them and love them? Find a hobby where there are men (women). No one has canceled online dating. Just don’t rush into the pool right away, find out what kind of person he is. There are many different scammers today!
Know how to listen! This advice is useful for people of any age. When a person is listened to carefully, he will tell more than he wanted. And you will judge: is this your destiny or look for another.
Accept any events with gratitude8
Of course, unpleasant moments happen in every person's life. And, of course, in splendid isolation it is much more difficult to experience them. However, once you learn to learn valuable lessons from everything that happens, instead of complaining about fate and blaming it for your loneliness, everything will change dramatically. Don't focus on your status. Remember that this is temporary. And you have the power to change everything.
Ask the Almighty and the Saints
There are prayers that will help you create a family and have children. Are you tired of loneliness? Pray, believe that God will hear you. How to pray correctly:
- First, repent of your sins.
- Next, thank the Almighty for what you have, for the fact that he hears your prayer.
- Place a candle near the image, then say the prayer three times. If you don’t know it by heart, then ask in your own words. But the prayer must be sincere, coming from the heart.
Ask the Lord to grant family happiness based on love and respect. Your soul mate must be earned through good deeds and prayers coming from the heart. It happens that a person prays, but the Lord does not allow him to meet his loved one. So it's not time yet! Pray, wait in humility and faith.
Who should you pray to to find a family? Say prayers to the Savior for love, fidelity, and reciprocity at dawn and before bed. Write a prayer on a piece of paper and wear it as a talisman on your chest. You can even describe in your own words the spiritual qualities of your future soul mate.
Think about why you need married life. If only for status, the Higher powers may not send a soul mate. Even relatives of someone who dreams of finding a loved one can read prayers for marriage.
You need to ask not only for the gift of a spouse, but also for patience, wisdom, the ability to pacify your anger, selfishness for the good of the family.
Men can address St. Andrew the First-Called, St. Tatiana, Anna, Seraphim of Sarov, saints by name. Prayer requests instill hope for happiness in people's souls.
Work on yourself2
Having clearly imagined your future soul mate in your subconscious, mentally outlining all its advantages, you can notice one interesting nuance. Your own weak points become visible. Weaknesses that need to be eradicated. Bad habits that you need to get rid of. Features of the figure that can be corrected. In general, there is no end to the work! Therefore, without wasting precious time, feel free to start working on yourself.
It wouldn’t hurt to make a list and indicate in it everything that doesn’t suit you about yourself. It will serve as excellent motivation for you in moments of despair. In any case, positive changes will definitely not hurt you.
To help the desperate
Never resort to black magic so as not to spoil your destiny. You can use conspiracies to attract a free, unmarried person. Don’t tell anyone that you have performed the ritual of attracting love.
Before performing the ceremony, fast for 3 days. This is not only a refusal of meat, but also from intimacy, quarrels, bad thoughts, everything bad.
- After sunset, light a church candle, close all windows and doors.
- Look at the flame, imagine your betrothed.
- Imagine your meeting.
- Read the plot three times:
“God the Lord himself will gather me on the road. He will give me a blessing for a relationship, for a meeting with the servant of God (name), he will give me confidence, he will give me the opportunity, he will bestow his strength. The Lord God will save me from vain expenses, from unnecessary meetings, from evil eyes, my heart will not worry, there will be no fear in my thoughts, a love connection will arise between me, the servant of God (name) and the servant of God (name) and it will only grow , yes to multiply. I will pray to God so that the necessary meeting will take place. Let it be so. Amen. Amen. Amen".
Will white magic help? They say that when performing white magic rituals, light forces help. They do not destroy a person's will, as dark forces do.
So, in order not to destroy a person’s will, white magicians offer to cast love spells. Here is one of them:
- cut a ripe apple in half,
- cut out the core, put a note with the name of your loved one,
- say the spell: “As this apple dries in the sun, so let the servant of God (name) dry for me.”
- saying the last words, tie both halves with threads, leave them in the sun, but so that no one can see.
As soon as the fruit dries, your suitor will immediately be inflamed with love for you. Just think a hundred times, do you need it?
Master the art of seduction7
The art of flirting is possible, and most importantly, you need to learn it. And it's not as difficult as it might seem at first glance. The ability to give compliments, speak in sign language, excite the imagination and arouse interest in the opposite sex is inherent in every person by nature. It’s just that sometimes you need to discover these skills within yourself, perhaps with outside help.
Today there are enough courses and trainings to hone the skill of seduction. All of them are aimed at combating internal fears and complexes. So feel free, without hesitation, sign up for one of them. If this is not possible, you can always get the necessary information from the Internet or topical books.
How to make a runic stave
With the help of runes you can also attract a mate. And the right bets will enhance each other’s effects. Now figure out what you need and choose a combination.
Becoming Kano-Gebo-Laguz helps girls meet a worthy man.
Kano-Gebo-Inguz formula is suitable only for men who want to build a long-term relationship.
Turisaz-Gebo-Vunyo - becoming an accelerated search for a suitable partner with whom you can have a long, happy relationship.
The combination Evaz-Gebo-Odal will help you get your husband back from your rival .
Fate or your own decision?
One can argue endlessly about the existence of fate. Some are sure that it is impossible to escape fate, and you will certainly meet a person with whom you will walk hand in hand throughout your entire life. Others believe that everyone is the architect of their own happiness. Who is right?
It is impossible to give a definite answer to this question. But it’s important to remember that when you meet a man with whom you really feel good, you can’t let everything take its course. By relying on only one fate, you can miss out on a huge number of opportunities. Passive behavior and irresponsibility can be intimidating. Don't be afraid to show your feelings and take care of the chosen one with whom you want to live your whole life. Take the test and find out what your chances are of getting your husband back
Numerology to help lonely people
How to know when you've found your person. Try by date of birth. Add up all the numbers for your birthday. Add the day of the week. This can be found on the Internet.
Let's take January 24, 1993. This date falls on Sunday. Add: 2+4+1+1+9+9+3+7 (seventh day) =36=3+6=9. That turns out to be 9. Now read its meaning.
- Your soulmate has been around you for a long time, but you consider her a friend. She will be with you soon.
- Meet your match on the road or at the hotel. At first you won't like the person. But then love will break out.
- You will meet your person in the company of friends, at first you will just communicate, then you will date, then you will start living together.
- You will fall in love either with the attending physician or there will be a relationship between a passenger and a conductor. The novel will be very beautiful: with romantic trips, a sea of flowers, etc.
- A friend will introduce you. You have already seen him, but did not suspect that this was your man.
- The meeting will take place at some kind of special event or someone’s wedding. But the relationship will not develop so quickly.
- Your person will not be free, you will have to fight for love.
- The acquaintance will be via the Internet, then there will be dates. This man lives nearby.
- This will be a strict boss. But an event will happen when you see complete compatibility with him.
How did you find your soulmate? There are a lot of stories on the Internet where you can learn about beautiful novels with continuations. The main thing is to believe and not lose hope.
Listen to Marina Targakova's lectures. Marina Targakova will help you find the right person and sort everything out. Very useful conversations!
In parting: there are many ways to find your soulmate, don’t despair, keep searching!
Online dating
Many couples met through social networks or special websites. In addition, there are mobile applications that connect people based on their mutual interest, suitable age and sexual orientation. Don’t be afraid to try to find communication via the Internet; in the 21st century, many people use this.
Advice for women
- Do not show negative emotions - hysterics, screaming, lack of restraint.
- Smile more often.
- Don't try to seem overly smart, but don't make a fool of yourself either.
- There is no need to demand payment of all expenses.
Prayers
Prayer to the Lord:
“I bow to the ground to you, Lord, I resort to your help, I trust in you. Forgive me my sins and vices. Give pure, mutual love. I'm confused in a huge world, I can't find my betrothed among people. I hope in you, Lord, I ask for your help and assistance. Do not ignore my request. Amen".
Prayers of Xenia of St. Petersburg:
“Oh, all-blessed mother Ksenia! Having endured hunger and cold, thirst and heat. Living under the protection of the Lord, she is led and strengthened by the Mother of God. Forgive all my sins that I committed, voluntarily or unwittingly. Help, Saint Xenia, heal the sick, send down family happiness. I ask you, fill my heart with earthly love. Send a life partner who can illuminate our path with light. Bless, Mother Ksenia, our relationship, as predicted by heaven. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".
A prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker will lead to a meeting with your soul mate.
“Oh, Saint Nicholas, saint of the Lord, our intercessor in troubles and sorrow. Before your face, I ask you to grant forgiveness of my sins. Help me, the accursed one, ask our Lord to save me from ordeal and despondency. I ask you to grant your spouse a long life, to be treated with love and joy, and to take care of the children. Pray for us, Saint Nicholas, our Lord, to grant us a peaceful life and the salvation of our souls. Amen".
Prayer to Matrona of Moscow:
“Mother Matronushka, look into my heart. Help me find my betrothed, who is looking for me and toiling without love. Help me find someone I love and who will love me. I ask you, who have suffered, to humbly fall at the feet of our Lord, Jesus Christ. Ask him to grant me a family life. May the grace of God not leave us in our long-suffering vale. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, now and ever, unto ages of ages. Amen".
Prayer to Peter and Fevronia - patrons of family and marriage.
“Oh, faithful Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia! I pray with hope and resort to your help. Offer prayers to our Lord and ask for goodness for me. For your intercession, I ask that our heavenly King grant prosperity in good deeds, unshakable piety, good hope, unfeigned love, and right faith. Amen".
Prayer to Paraskeva Friday will help you find a long-awaited couple and bring peace and love to the family:
“Mother Paraskeva, cover me as soon as possible!” “Holy bride of Christ, Great Martyr Paraskeva! You loved the Heavenly King with all your soul and heart, you were disheartened by our Savior, having distributed your property to the poor. Your chastity and piety shine like a ray of sunshine among the infidels; you fearlessly brought them the word of the Lord. I look at your icon with tenderness, I greet you, long-suffering Paraskeva. Pray to the Savior, the Lover of Humanity, that He may grant salvation and good mercy, patience and complacency in troubles. May you, through your intercession and intercession, grant prosperity and peaceful life, health and affirmation in the faith, and speed up your help in finding your betrothed and loved one. May He cleanse us sinners from filth. And, having secured salvation, through your prayers, intercession and representation, bride of Christ Paraskeva, let us glorify the most pure and wondrous name in the saints of the true God the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, always, now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen".
