- How to identify bad luck and understand the reasons for what is happening
- Rituals to get rid of bad luck
How to get rid of failures and lack of money? This is the question asked by every person who feels that he has begun to experience a bad streak. Many of us know very well what this is. When negative events happen one after another and even simple matters are not resolved, this indicates just such a black streak. People have been asking the question of how to get rid of bad luck in life since ancient times, because such situations are known to absolutely everyone.
Experienced magicians who possess knowledge that is not accessible to everyone know how to get rid of bad luck and lack of money. Pathological bad luck is a series of failures from which, as it may seem at first glance, there is simply no way out. However, you shouldn’t think like that and tune in to the negative. By sending such energy to the Universe, it is impossible to hope that anything positive will come in response. It is possible and necessary to get rid of bad luck and lack of money. Various magical methods will help replace the black streak with a white one, create conditions that allow you to confidently move forward towards your goals and achieve the desired results.
Reasons for bad luck and failures
Why are some people very lucky and others not so lucky? And some may even be considered chronic losers in life.
To answer this question, we need to understand the factors that increase our bad luck. Here they are:
1. Childhood grievances, psychological trauma and characteristics of upbringing. The person has already forgotten about them, but they have gone into the subconscious and from there they control his behavior.
2. Lack of desire to change anything in yourself and in your environment. Yes, it's just laziness.
3. Seeing only gray and black events in life. Inability to see beauty and value in everyday little things. A person cannot rejoice at the bright blue sky, or the beautiful white snowstorm with howls. He cannot be delighted with his morning cup of coffee.
4. Incorrect behavioral patterns. The correct option is: action - analysis - plan - action. This scheme should cover all life processes. If one of the elements falls out of it, then the person is doomed to constantly get bad results.
5. Shyness, fear of asking or bothering someone about something again. This leads to the fact that a person simply deprives himself of the right to make decisions.
6. Imitation of the life of stars. It is very difficult and unnecessary to repeat a person’s lifestyle. Everyone has their own, just like their own life. That's what makes her interesting. And those who, instead of searching for themselves, copy others, are simply doomed by nature to failure.
7. Health problems. If a person is very sick of the disease, then it is difficult for him to concentrate on solving other problems. To be happy you need to be healthy, no matter how banal it may sound, but it is true.
8. Not taking responsibility for your life. For failures, such a person blames anyone, but not himself. Instead of analyzing his mistakes, he looks for those to blame. One of the options is to blame yourself and avoid active work, “I still can’t do it.” Responsibility and self-confidence are the key to the success of any activity.
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Protect yourself from negativity and get rid of bad luck in your personal life
What is bad luck?
In fact, bad luck is a kind of special energy that purposefully pushes away well-being; it is a certain lifestyle in which you can go on one wrong path for a long time and endlessly and end up with nothing every time. As you know, bad luck, or, as experts call it, “the energy of failure,” is characterized by a grayish glow. When you are near a person with such energy, it feels like you are being lowered underground. An unlucky person begins to show his worst qualities: aggressiveness, anger, and even complexes that were previously “dormant” may develop. If a person, for example, is inclined to be overweight, he will begin to gain weight sharply, if he is in poor health, he will begin to be susceptible to diseases, and if he is shy, he will begin to feel a certain “shell” on himself that prevents him from communicating with all people. Many people even call bad luck a disease. People who communicate with an unlucky person are affected by the “energy of failure” like the flu. And, as we all know, the flu is contagious, but not fatal, and can be easily cured. Naturally, being near a “sick” person is undesirable.
Alina is 29 years old. She loves to travel, loves the sea and just relaxing. The girl had never had any problems with men in her life; they were simply drawn to her like a magnet. But don’t think that Alina is depraved; on the contrary, she is a modest, sociable and cheerful girl. Recently, Alina made a new friend. They travel with her. Unfortunately, the new friend was a real loser. There are people who, after standing in a huge line, find out that they have run out of peaches, and this is right in front of their noses, or in a boutique the item they like has absolutely all sizes except the one they need. My friend had endless troubles at work, and her personal life was not going well at all.
And then Alina’s troubles began. In every company she began to feel like an empty place, a crack arose in communication with other people. It seemed to Alina that her friend seemed to surround her with her failures and bad energy. The problem is that she really likes communicating with her friend, but she had to get rid of the “bad luck” somehow, but how? Now Alina is sure that her friend’s “bad luck” is like an infection: the failures passed on to her.
For this example, when “bad luck” passes from one person to another, there is a fairly simple explanation. When girls have been friends for a long time and one of them suddenly says that she feels worse after spending time with her friend, I immediately remember an interesting story.
One woman I know had a personal theory about “beautiful ladies.” The meaning of the theory was that this acquaintance deliberately selected simpleton friends (“gray mice”) for herself in order to look more advantageous and impressive against their background. She completely controlled every “gray mouse” and skillfully conducted the conversation in the company so that the “mouse” could not insert a word at all. If her “friend” in any way did not fit the “gray mouse” standard, she deliberately turned her into one...
Alina needed to look at the current situation objectively and admit to herself that her friend had shut her down and deliberately put her in the frame of a “gray mouse.” It is important to find the courage to realize the truth about friendship; Alina could not do this on her own, and is still friends with that girl. In this situation, Alina has bad luck. An intelligent and successful girl would never communicate with such a “friend.”
Methods of dealing with bad luck using psychology
- The best place to start is by creating a daily routine. Then you need to learn to do everything that is planned for the day. This is the basis of self-discipline.
— you need to highlight the main goals of your life for the coming years. Break them down into smaller goals and make a plan to achieve them consistently.
- mastering methods of self-hypnosis, auto-training or other methods of controlling your subconscious.
— analysis of your social circle and exclusion of pessimists and losers from it. After all, we are, first of all, our social circle. Who will you hang out with..., Tell me who your friend is...
How to get rid of bad luck in your personal life
Of course, you can get rid of bad luck, you just need to trust your lucky star. Stop complaining about your own fate. The chatter, when you are instilled with the idea that you are an unlucky person, should be cut off by you. Say that you are often lucky. Even tell yourself that soon you will certainly be happy, and luck will be next to you. If you have a friend or girlfriend next to you who seems to have stepped out of the movie “The Unlucky Ones” starring Pierre Richard, you need to subtly suggest that your friend or girlfriend is actually lucky in life.
Of course, it is important to believe in luck itself, and then it will definitely knock on the door, know that luck sticks to the strong. Are some stores running out of peaches right in front of you? Confidently tell yourself that from now on you will only go to those stores where peaches will only run out after you. Deceived? Got it wrong? Now you will simply pre-calculate the cost of products and demand that the amount be recalculated if it seems too high and incorrect to you.
The curse, of course, can exist today in completely different forms. It is simply impossible to list them all, and even more so to get rid of them all at once... However, there are more than enough means - prayers and rituals.
But, suppose, after performing a couple of rituals, a person, as a rule, comes to the conclusion that he is under a curse from an unsuccessful neighbor, a former colleague, or someone else... What to do in this case? Also curse in order to take proper revenge? As one great sage said, if you live by the cruel principle of “an eye for an eye,” then there will simply be no sighted people in our world. There is only one right decision left - to forgive. Only then will the effect of curses be neutralized and you can forget about bad luck.
Folk methods of dealing with failures
1. Rituals with salt . Salt is made up of many small crystals. Therefore, in case of failure, it was recommended to throw it over the left shoulder and sprinkle it on the doors, corners and windows in the house.
2. Prayer to the Guardian Angel . You can add it by lighting your home and visiting church. The text of the prayer is optional. The main thing is that it comes from the soul, from the heart.
3. Making an amulet bracelet . To do this, threads of seven colors are intertwined: red (from ill-wishers), orange (from envy), yellow (from damage), blue (to increase intuition), blue (facilitate communication), green (from deception), purple (from accidents) . Then, a person close to you should tie these threads into seven knots on the wrist of your left hand.
Bad luck will become a distant memory if you set realistic goals for yourself, act, analyze the results and act again, adjusting the goals...
Who is a chronic loser
But chronic losers are not born, they are made.
A person drives himself into this position, first of all, with his own words. We must not forget that our words and thoughts influence the course of life and constant reference to the topic of failure attracts problems and troubles. If one of your friends, faced with a bad situation, every time uses phrases like “I knew this would happen!”, “I’m always unlucky,” “I didn’t even doubt that I had nothing it will work out,” etc. - know that this is a future chronic loser. He himself programs negativity in his life.
Pay attention to this detail: in the house of people who consider themselves losers, bread becomes moldy much faster, food spoils, flowers wither, animals get sick, etc. This is how the environment reacts to constant complaints and complaints about bad luck.
Advice from John Kehoe: the key to quickly getting out of a bad period is praise
What to do if in dark times it is very difficult to find light and energy within yourself to work with thinking? In this case, John Kehoe advises us to remember our achievements more often:
Remember all your previous achievements! Reward yourself for your current and past victories, even small ones! Consciously seek out moments that make you feel strong, lucky, and proud of yourself. Rejoice even in small achievements, feel your success every day! Recognize all the skills and abilities you have acquired recently.
Praise yourself for past victories. This will become your source of fuel to move forward!
To get out of depression, you can also use these five practices, which mutually reinforce each other.
This set is an “eraser” that will help you erase a dark streak in your life.
And finally, remember: no matter how dark your dark streak may be, try to discern opportunities for growth and development in this period. After all, all problems are temporary, and a white streak will definitely come after them.
Problems and difficulties can be used as a springboard to deepen insight... There are no problems, only opportunities. THERE IS NO SUCH CONCEPT AS A PROBLEM, THERE ARE ONLY OPPORTUNITIES!
Rule two. Talk about failure
This rule is also based on our childhood experience - only this time it is positive. What does a child need if he has failed? So that mom or dad would listen to him, feel sorry for him and say that everything will be fine!
An adult needs this no less. Well, perhaps in other forms, but the essence does not change. If you fail, don’t try to go through it alone. You need a listener, you need someone to whom you can tell everything. The more and more detailed, the better. And don’t be ashamed of your desire to receive sympathy - it’s really needed now! It is better for men to forget about their “male complexes” for a while: at this moment it is more important to help yourself than to break yourself.
If it’s difficult to reach out to friends or family, you can look for a listener among people you barely know or don’t know at all. Even to the point of talking about your problem on some forum. There are even special communities designed specifically for such situations. You just have to remember: talking about failure turns it from a personal problem into something you don't have to deal with alone. And from this angle, any failure somehow shrinks and turns pale.
Rule three. Understand failure
In addition to providing moral relief, talking about failure will allow you to understand why it happened to you. After all, by sharing your problems, you willy-nilly begin to select words and formulations, which means you will begin to analyze what happened. This will be the fulfillment of the third rule. To make failure easier to cope with, it really needs to be understood. After all, understanding what exactly happened leads to understanding why it happened. And knowing the reasons for failure, you can, if not avoid it in the future, then at least prepare for a possible repetition.
Why is it so important to understand the origins of your failure? First of all, because every failure has two types of reasons: objective and subjective. Without analysis, we will not be able to figure out what was more in our failure - our mistakes or external circumstances. As a rule, we indiscriminately blame either ourselves or the villainous fate for everything - and we are wrong in both the first and the second. Is it worth blaming everything on yourself and branding yourself a loser? Is it worth blaming life for everything and cursing it for not loving us? The answer to both questions is no!
Who draws black stripes on the zebra crossing of our reality?
To understand how to get rid of a bad streak in life, you first need to determine where exactly in your reality a gap formed through which all these terrible problems burst in.
Bioenergy scientists identify various causes of crises, including:
- a random coincidence of circumstances when a person becomes hostage to external factors and cannot influence them in any way;
- a sign from the Universe that a person is going the wrong way and should rethink his choice and change the route;
- fears and negative thinking, when a person literally attracts to himself everything that he is afraid of.
Fear is like a gun hanging on the wall in the first act of a play - it must fire in the finale.
Have you noticed that sometimes, even when everything is great in your life, destructive thoughts still flash through your head?
- “It can’t be that the money came so easily, there’s definitely some kind of catch in this!”
- “Surely I will have to pay dearly for such luck...”
- “If everything is so wonderful in a relationship now, then tomorrow there will be trouble...”
The mind carefully nurtures and multiplies these thoughts. You start scrolling through them more and more often, and, voila, one day what you were so afraid of becomes reality!
On the subject: The Mystery of Consciousness: Who Creates Reality?
Every day on the way to work you worry: “Oh, at least I don’t want to lose my piece of bread.” After some time, the staff is laid off, salaries are cut, and you are asked to “go on vacation at your own expense.”
And you think: “I knew it!”
In the same way, the rest of your fears will materialize - one after another. This is exactly how, step by step, our thoughts and fears create the material world.
Looking for the positive side in any negative situation
The simplest and most effective way to deal with failure is an active life position. Even if something bad happened, try to find your positives in the echoing event and focus on them.
Scratched your car? The paint has already peeled off in places anyway, and now I’ll definitely have to take the car in for service, but it will be as good as new!
Did your boss force you to redo a poorly prepared report? I’ll have to sit on it at home, but at least I’ll grow professionally and I’ll have the opportunity to distinguish myself.
The guy didn't show up for a date? Well, a free evening has appeared, I have dreamed for so long that I would have it, and I will completely devote it to idleness. That is, you mentally turn a big failure into a little luck and try to enjoy it. According to the principle “nature has no bad weather”: in the world there is not only bad and only good, everything depends on our assessments of this or that event.
Rule one. Don't be ashamed of failure
The reasons why we, as a rule, have a hard time experiencing our failures, most often need to be looked for in our childhood. A small child is not used to grieving for a long time if something doesn’t work out for him. In extreme cases, he will cry for a short time - and will immediately find something else to do. Or he will repeat the action that led to a negative result again and again until he achieves success - or is convinced of its futility.
The experience begins when the child perceives failure - usually as a result of parental evaluation. “Well, you didn’t succeed! I told you so!..” - this phrase becomes familiar. And with it, shame also becomes habitual. I failed - what will my parents say about me! Classmates! Colleagues! Wife!..
Don't be ashamed of your failure! Start to perceive it as you perceived it in early childhood: simply as an unexpected negative result. There is nothing to be ashamed of: failures happen to everyone. Shame is the first cause of fear. Fear is the main reason for repeated failure. Are you sure you want to repeat them?
