160 questions to get to know each other better

Someone else's soul is darkness. To get to know each other, you need to either live side by side for several decades, or ask each other about the secret.

Romantic, intimate, humorous questions will help reveal new facets of character and inflame sexual desire. After all, the “familiar stranger” is an amazing Cave of Wonders, full of treasures, dark and sometimes terrible secrets. By asking each other questions, you go on a research expedition of the human soul - what could be more exciting?

If any of the questions on the following list seem too intrusive or inappropriate, you don't have to ask them.

Questions about interests and values

A person spends a lot of personal time at work, and its character largely determines the personality. Questions about entertainment, hobbies and food will help you choose activities that will not cause discomfort to your friend. What if you decide to conquer Everest, but he has a negative attitude towards extreme hobbies?

Job

Is what you're doing now really what you've always wanted to do?
What makes you feel successful?
Do you think you are in the right place? Do you feel needed?
What prospects and development opportunities do you have at your current place of work?
How are your relationships with your colleagues? A very strict boss?
Do you want to radically change your specialty and try yourself in a completely new business?
Would you dare to open your own business?
How do you feel about office romances?
Do you like groups more or small ones?
What unusual things have happened to you at work?
Where did you work before?
Do you want to do what you are doing now for the rest of your life?

Entertainment

What do you think the perfect vacation would look like?
How do you like to relax?
What do you like more: theater or cinema?
What cafe were you last in?
Do you want to skydive?
How do you feel about quests and laser tag?
What do you like best: billiards, bowling, karaoke?
Do you like noisy companies or quiet gatherings at home?
What social networks do you use?
What applications on your phone do you use most often?

Food

What's your favorite dessert?
Do you like soup? Which?
If you had to eat only one type of cereal for a week, what would you choose?
Do you like to cook? What was the last time you cooked? Was it successful?
What will you choose: sushi, pizza or kebab?
How do you feel about vegetarianism?
Are you fasting?
What will you choose: salty and spicy or sweet?
What food will you not eat even if you are very hungry?

Trips

Which countries have you been to?
Where do you dream to visit?
What exotic food have you enjoyed?
What surprised you most about your trip?
If you are offered the opportunity to travel anywhere in the world right now: what will you choose?
What place in our city (village, village) do you like best?
Do you like to relax actively or lie on the beach and sunbathe?
Do you prefer to stay in a hotel on a package tour, go “savage” or live in a tent?

Hobbies

What are your favorite books and films and why are they?
Do you judge a book by its cover?
Have you ever collected anything?
Do you like to collect puzzles?
What do you like best: singing, drawing, playing sports?
Horror, comedy, action or melodrama?
What do you dream of trying to do?
If you could choose a business without reference to income, what would you choose?

Questions about the past

The past creates us in the present, which is why it is so important. Yes, people change, but not as quickly as we would like. Therefore, the one who betrayed once will repeat it again. Questions about the past will help you understand your friend and trace the connection between his present and past.

Childhood

Have you ever kept a diary?
Did you like going to kindergarten? What did you dislike the most?
Was it easy to study at school?
What changed you as a teenager?
Who was your first love?
Do you communicate with your classmates and school friends?
Do you have Brother or sister? Are you a good communicator?
If you were asked to change something about your childhood, what would you choose?
What did you dream of becoming as a child?
What were your hobbies, what sections and clubs did you attend?

Biography

What was the best period in your life?
What was the worst period in your life?
Have you ever lost someone close to you?
When did you feel the biggest adrenaline rush?
Which of your parents are you closer to and why?
What are you most grateful for?
What did your last relationship teach you?
What is your biggest regret in life?

How to answer questions on a dating site

Never stoop to insults, even if the person has offended you. Be correct, don't get to his level.
Your answer should not provoke a person into an argument.
You don't have to answer if the topic concerns politics or religion.
Don't lie when answering the question. In the future, you and the person may meet in real life, but you should not build a relationship on lies.
If a question confuses you or you don’t like it, just write that you don’t want to answer it.
Please check for grammatical errors before submitting your response.
During the initial meeting, avoid answering intimate topics and questions about work and earnings. You should be asked more personal questions after a long correspondence, after getting to know you better.

Ask your interlocutor questions that will well reveal his nature, habits and habits. Some questions have more answers than they seem. For example, by a person’s relationship with his family, one can judge how he will behave in his own family. When choosing a question, omit topics of politics and vulgarity, and do not put your interlocutor in an awkward position.

Questions about attitude towards life's difficulties

Friends must have similar beliefs or at least a willingness to compromise, otherwise communication will be short-lived. Find out if you and your friend have a common dream: it will unite you and make your friendship stronger.

Beliefs and views

Are you religious or spiritual?
What is your life philosophy?
Do you believe in second chances?
How do you feel about other religions?
Your attitude towards gays.
Do you think it is humane to use the skin and fur of animals and eat their meat?
Do you believe that everyone in this world has their own path?
Do you think there is life after death?

Dreams and plans for the future

What's on your bucket list for this year?
How would you describe your ideal weekend?
What's the craziest thing you've ever done and would do again?
If a genie gave you three wishes right now, what would they be?
What would you like to happen right now?

"How do you feel when..."

“...is your loved one crying”?
“…are you being criticized”?
“...when it seems like the world is against you, do you give up or fight harder”?

Questions about love, family and friendship

It is a similar view of family values and friendship that determines the longevity of a relationship. These questions will open your eyes to many nuances that you didn’t even know about.

Man and woman

What is a stumbling block for you in a relationship?
Could you take back someone who committed treason?
Would you share your password with your partner?
When do you think a person is ready to get married?
How will you react if your parents don't like your chosen one?
Do you usually stay friends with your exes?
When was the last time you broke someone's heart?
Could you move for love?
What do you think about online dating and Tinder?
Do you think quarrels are sometimes necessary or should there always be an idyll?

Romantic preferences

Do you prefer looks or intelligence?
Who do you like more: blondes or brunettes?
What's your ideal date?
What qualities do you value most in a significant other?
Do you like shy or outspoken?
What details of appearance do you like?
What do you not accept in your chosen one’s appearance: red hair, protruding ears, figure flaws?
What should a new acquaintance do to make you disappointed?
What qualities do you not accept in your significant other?

Love and money

Can you fall in love with a very fat person if he is rich?
How do you feel about relationships for money?
Are you ready to support your soulmate?
Should both people in a couple earn the same amount or is it not important?
Should the budget be shared or does everyone pay only their own expenses?
What is better: “heaven in a hut” or a marriage of convenience?
A comfortable life or true love – what will you choose?
Is it possible to start a family if both are unsteady on their feet?
Will you be comfortable if the chosen one is much richer than you?

Love and children

What kind of parent do you think you will be?
How do you feel about abortion?
How much does it cost to have a child?
How many children do you want?
Can you raise someone else's child?
Will you live with an unloved person just because of the child?

Love and sex

How do you feel about explicit messages with photos?
What is acceptable for you in intimacy?
Are you ready to support what your chosen one offers, if you haven’t tried it before?
Have you ever been in a loveless relationship?
Do you believe in love or do you think it's just attraction?

Your relationship

Who is the person you can talk to about literally anything?
Could you tell me if you killed a person?
Who would you invite with you if you decided to do something illegal?
What sometimes irritates you about me?
What's your favorite way to spend time with me?
Is it easy for you to communicate with me, do you get emotional relief?
What do you think we have in common?
Do you like my friends?
Do you want us to be friends for life?

36 questions for a couple: questionnaire for two lovers

Before you take the plunge into moving in together, it's important to clarify a few things. For example, is there something that you cannot accept and live as a couple? Now is the time to find out from your partner. You can also create your own list of 36 questions by reading the questions about relationships and family.

In married life, should everything be strictly according to the schedule or can you go with the flow?
When it comes to housework, how willing are you to help each other?
To save your family budget, will you agree to live in a hostel or not?
Would you be upset if your life partner had plastic surgery without your knowledge?
If you adhere to the canons of a certain religion, then should your significant other do the same?
When you wake up, do you immediately get up or do you like to soak in bed some more after waking up?
Can you protect your family from the attacks of a bully?
How do you get ready for bed? (What do you do before bed?)
Do you like to cook? (Are you a good cook?)
How do you usually apologize if you've upset someone?
What do you like more: inviting people over, having parties, or always being alone?
How would you react if your life partner's parents suddenly came to visit?
Are you ready to host after you've had a bad day at work?
After the wedding, should you plan romantic evenings and mutual dates or let everything happen naturally?
Should we wash each other's clothes or should everyone take care of their own?
Are you willing to move often or do you want to live and grow old in one place?
Would you be willing to support each other if one of you suddenly wanted to change your successful career?
When is the best time to meet each other's relatives together?
Would you let your parents move in with you? (Would you move in with them yourself?)
What is the best way to share holidays among relatives?
Were your parents caring people or did they often not care about you?
Which writer would you like to interview? (Read the list of questions for interviewing a writer).
Is there anything from your childhood family traditions that you want to carry into your new family?
Do you remember any serious family fights when you were growing up?
How would you feel if your marriage partner began to discuss family problems first with friends, and only then with you?
Would you believe your life partner that your friends or relatives hurt him or is this completely impossible?
If a family member of your life partner asked you to lend him money, would you consult your partner first or make the decision yourself?
Do you like your life partner's family?
If your marriage partner's family were left homeless, would you allow them to stay with you?
Did you often have quarrels with your family or did you live amicably and get along well with each other?
If you believed that your life partner should change his behavior and manner of communication, how would you tell him about it?
What movie are you willing to watch together every six months?
What do you consider the best thing about your relationship?
What's the best gift you've ever been given?
How long should it take before you start looking for each other if one day after work you don’t come home on time and your phone calls don’t get answered?
Do you scatter your socks or always put them in one place?

Questions for friends

Find out how close a friend is. Perhaps he is just pretending and using you for his own purposes? Even in a same-sex friendship, you cannot be sure that your friend is not in love with you, and when the friend is a man, the risk of hidden love is even higher.

Funny Questions

Has this ever happened to you: you come up with something new, an idea arises, and then you find out that someone is already making money from it and promoting the invention to the masses?
If you were an electrical appliance, what kind would it be?
If you could never eat or never sleep, which would you choose?

Personal questions

When did you have your first experience of intimacy with the opposite sex?
What's your biggest lie?
Do you have a secret that is weighing you down and you have no one to share it with?
Are you afraid of old age? Of death?
Is there something (someone) that everyone is crazy about, but it pisses you off?

Questions for a friend

What do you think about best friends of the opposite sex?
Do you see me as just a friend or more?
Do you believe in friendship between a man and a woman?
Who is smarter: a man or a woman?
What's the nicest thing your friends have ever done for you?
Have you ever cheated on a friend?
Did you find girlfriends through the Internet, did you meet later?
Are you jealous of others?
Why do you need a girlfriend?

Questions for a friend

Do you believe in female friendship?
Would you tell me if you liked my boyfriend/husband?
Do you have strange habits?
What's the nicest gift your friend ever gave you?
How do you feel about the close relationship between two women?
Do you mind being friends with a group, or do you prefer to communicate alone?
If I were a man, would you be interested in me?
Have you ever had to forgive a friend? Did you regret it later?

Which one of you: the best questions for couples

Questions from the “Which One of You” category are designed to help you get to know your partner better. They include questions that begin with the phrase "who is most likely to do" or "which of you is faster." And the couple needs to answer this question as quickly as possible.

Which one of you is most likely to prepare a romantic evening for two?
Which one of you is most likely to forget your wedding anniversary?
Which one of you will constantly write to someone until he answers?
Which one of you can write a love poem faster?
Who is most likely to become jealous out of stupidity?
Who is most likely to forget their wedding day vows?
Which one of you will be the first to confess your love to the other?
Who is most likely to yell at their partner?
Which one of you is most likely to save the most money?
Who is most likely to be right in every discussion?
Which one of you is most likely to make your partner lose weight?
Who is most likely to write a love song?
Which one of you compliments the other the most? (I advise you to read beautiful compliments under the photo of your beloved man).
Who is most likely to miss their partner?
Which of you is most likely not to like his future in-laws?
Who is most likely to talk only about your relationship?
Which of you is most likely to dislike your partner's friendship?
Who is most likely to stay at home with the children?
Which one of you likes to surprise your partner?
Which of you is most likely to fall asleep while watching a movie?
How many of you are most likely to buy unnecessary things?
Who among you enjoys staying in bed all day the most?
Which of you is most likely to immediately eat a bar of chocolate?
Which of you is most likely to save a stranger's life?
Which of you is quicker to come up with an affectionate nickname for your partner?

30 questions for a couple: blitz questions for two

Want to know much more about your partner? This can be done in a playful way. One great way to get to know each other is through quick questions that are easy to answer. This is because there are only two answers to choose from.

Do you prefer to go to bed late or wake up early?
Do you prefer to be the smartest or the kindest?
What would you rather drink for a month: just water or beer?
Would you rather have children and never have pets, or have pets and never have children?
Would you rather be in a long distance relationship or break up due to distance?
Would you prefer a simple life without financial problems or live a hectic life, but with the risk of losing everything?
Would you rather rip your pants right before an interview or spill coffee on the interviewer's desk?
Which of the two options will you choose: be with a person who is rude to you but is always there when you need him, or with someone who is kind but is never there when you need him most?
Would you rather never kiss your partner before your wedding day or after your wedding?
Is it better to lose social networks or television?
Chocolate or vanilla?
Organization or chaos?
Dogs or cats?
Snakes or rats?
Immortality or the ability to read other people's thoughts?
Would you rather live forever or be happy until you die?
Which one should you choose to make you feel too hot or too cold?
Books or movies?
Do you like blue cheese - yes or no?
Physical books or e-books?
Books or movies?
Zhvanetsky or Vysotsky?
Cycling or running?
Sleep or wake up early?
Read a book or watch TV?
Kiss or hug?
Strength training or cardio?
Ocean or lake?
Winter or summer?
Family or friends?

Questions for a couple about who knows who better

These questions will help you understand who is more interested in whom, and which of you knows who better. This will give you a better idea of who you are dating.

What was your (partner's) favorite school subject?
If you (your partner) had the opportunity to go live for six months in any country, where would you go?
Even as an adult, what do you (he/she) still like to do as a child?
What do you (he/she) do to cope with stress?
When was the last time you (your partner) cried? And why?
What do you think will change in society in the next 10 years? What is your life partner's opinion?
When was the last time you saved the day for your partner?
What is your (partner's) favorite nighttime snack?
Do you like to play sports and what exactly? What about your partner? (I recommend reading the questions about sports for the sports quiz)
What wild animal would you (your partner) like to have at home?
What did you like to play with most as a child? What about your partner?
When was the last time you (he/she) were truly proud of yourself?
What good did you two do today?
What is your (life partner's) favorite childhood holiday?
What was the best day of your life together?
How well did you do at school? What about your other half?
What style of clothing do you and your partner prefer?
Have you ever fought and why?
What is most important to you (your partner) in marriage and life?
In a relationship, what do you (your partner) consider cheating?
When did you (your partner) realize that you wanted to be together and could no longer live without each other?
What genres of books does your partner like to read?
How do you (your partner) show affection to each other?
Are anniversaries important to you (your partner) and how important is it?
What were the best moments in your relationship with your partner?

Do you want to know whether a man is indifferent to you or not? Then read the signs of how to know that a guy or man likes you.

18 questions for a couple to ask a loved one about his past

To better understand what lies ahead, it is important to learn more about the background of the person you are dating. Because the past will most likely affect our future. No matter what a person's past was, traumatic or happy, knowing where someone came from can only help shed light on who they are now and who they can become in the future.

What in your past makes you feel guilty or ashamed?
Is there someone in your life that you miss desperately?
What were you unprepared for as an adult? How did you deal with this?
Have you ever turned down an opportunity that was important to you?
What do you think your life would be like if you took advantage of this opportunity?
Do you regret your decision to turn down this opportunity?
How did you express your emotions as a child?
Who was your childhood best friend? Do you still keep in touch or not?
Are there any mistakes you made in past relationships?
What is something you would never want to repeat?
Have there been any tragedies or funny incidents in your hometown and how did you feel about it?
What advice do you wish you'd heard when you were younger?
What's the biggest mistake you've ever made in the past?
What comments did your teachers write on your report cards?
Have you ever falsely confessed your love to someone? How did you feel about each other after that?
What was the main reason for your last breakup?
Have you ever thought that your last relationship was supposed to end this way?
Is there something from your past that is completely closed to others, including your loved one?

10 funny questions for couples to make each other laugh

Even when things get serious, couples still need to have fun. Not all questions for couples have to be serious. Because laughter is the best medicine, except, of course, the medicine itself. Show each other your sense of humor and get to know his.

Do you like sweet and sour or sweet and sour cake?
When washing in the shower, is it better to sing jazz or rock and roll?
If you were attacked by a hare, what would you do to survive?
Which treat would you prefer: ice cream with garlic or lard with honey?
How would you try to make Princess Nesmeyana laugh?
Is it better for a couple in love to live in a hut on the lake or in a tent by the sea?
Is it better to get to the registry office sitting on a mare or in a cart pulled by oxen?
Is it possible to give each other basil and parsley on a date?
What funny wedding photo caption would you leave for your friends?
What's cooler: wings, tail or legs? What would you like to have?

I advise you to read 100 funny questions for your favorite girls.

Questions for the couple's game: competition for married and young couples

The game mainly consists of a couple sitting with their backs to each other or with their eyes closed. They have a man's shoe in one hand and a woman's shoe in the other. The host asks questions and counts the answers, and the couple picks up the shoe they think is correct. After the list of questions, the number of votes for knowing each other is counted.

Who took the first step towards dating?
Who was the first to say “I love you”?
Who chose the place for the first date?
Who is more romantic?
Who introduced their parents first?
Who is more vain?
Who's grumpier?
Who is more ignorant?
Who is more spontaneous?
Who is more stylish?
Who is more consumer-minded?
Who is late most often?
Who makes the best gifts for anniversaries?
Who has the better sense of humor?
Who is better on the phone?
Who's smarter?
Who gets sick most often?
Who did better at school?
Who is most proud of their achievements?
Who is better at driving a relationship?
Who is more stubborn?
Who is the first to start a conversation after a quarrel?
Who is more into social media?
Who drinks the most water?
Who is the better cook?
Who is more messy and disorganized?
Who takes the longest shower?
How many of you like to collect things?
Who drinks the most coffee?
Who has the most clothes in their closet?
Who chooses movies to go to the cinema?
Who controls TV viewing in the house?
Who has the best date ideas?
Who better to deal with a spider in the bathroom?
Who sleeps better?
Who snores the loudest?
Who asked for marriage?
Who chose their wedding dress first?
Who invited more people to the wedding?
Who chose the menu?
Who chose the wedding decoration style?
Who spent the longest time preparing for the wedding?
Who chose the song for the bride and groom?

A question for two that both answer

Just a couple of questions and you will find out how your partner feels about things that interest you or about certain household responsibilities and restrictions. This will give you a better understanding of the direction your relationship is heading.

How much time do you think couples should spend together?
If you felt jealous of someone, would you tell your life partner about it? (Read 74 quotes about people's envy that help combat this feeling).
Can people recover from deception and betrayal or not?
Would you agree to maintain a relationship with a person you no longer love?
What do you think is the key to a successful relationship?
What do you consider flirting?
Do you like to surprise each other and make mutual surprises? How often do you do this?
How confident are you in your relationship?
Should it matter how much you have in common with the person you agree to date and then live with?
What do you like most about each other as a couple?
Are you against or not if your partner becomes friends and often communicates with your friends?
Will you maintain friendly relations with your ex-life partner's friends?
Do you hold onto superstitions in relationships even though you know they are not true?
What good things did you think about this morning?
Have you ever bragged to your friends about each other?
How do you feel about couples' hobbies?
What new things have you learned about each other this week?

Testing questions for couples to check for similarities in thoughts

Of course, it's great to know if someone can cook or what their favorite movie is. But when it comes to inner thoughts and personal life, you will have to ask deeper questions.

What things should people other than your friends and family know about you?
Do you measure productivity by quantity or quality?
What advice have you been given that has been helpful to you in your life?
Are you open to new experiences and opinions?
Is there anything about your partner's behavior or actions that bothers you?
If you are wrong about something, can you change your perspective and learn from those mistakes?
How do you prefer to resolve conflicts?
If your life partner becomes seriously ill and never recovers, is it better to send him to a specialized institution or look after him yourself at home?
Is it necessary to openly talk to each other about mutual grievances and pain caused, or is it better to remain silent about them?
Do you have current outstanding debts?
Would you like someone to help you get rid of any financial difficulties? How exactly: to get money or a well-paid but hard job?
What questions do you think couples should always ask?
What do you think about politics?
Does it matter to you what views your partner has on life?
Would you ever agree to go to couples counseling?
What principle do you adhere to regarding retirement savings or savings?
Would you agree to be punished for your life partner?
What unexpected things do you really love?
How do you feel when someone interrupts you while you are concentrating on your work?
If you are very upset about something, do you prefer to be left alone or to have someone try to cheer you up?
Would you rather have someone gently break bad news to you, or would you rather hear the harsh truth?

Psychological issues

When a friend talks about himself and uses his imagination, he not only shows his real self, but also thinks about questions for which he has not yet looked for answers. He will have to be honest with himself and with you.

Questions to understand character, personality type

What is one thing you would change about yourself?
Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?
If you are in a bad mood, is it better to leave you alone or cheer you up?
Do you often get into confrontations?
Name one thing people always get wrong about you?
What do you think about when you're alone?

Questions involving imagination

Imagine your house is on fire: what 3 things will you take with you?
You find yourself on a desert island: choose 2 people with whom you will have to stay for 10 years. Why them?
Imagine you win dinner with a celebrity: who will you choose?
The whole world is filled with your clones: what will the world become?
What animal would you like to become in your next life?
Imagine that you can turn into any person: who would you choose?
You are offered one superpower: what will you choose?

Psychologist Arthur Aron conducted an experiment: he gathered a group of students and asked them to ask each other 36 questions. All participants subsequently communicated well, and the friendship of some even led to marriage. All because in a short period of time, people who did not know each other became close because they opened up and were themselves without masks and pretense.