How to prove to a guy that you love him: words and actions

Why prove your love at all?

Girls often think about how to prove to a guy that I love him, because it is impossible to see this feeling with your own eyes, to touch it. Why is there a need to prove feelings at all? Perhaps the beloved requires confirmation of words about love. But don’t rush to follow his lead. Think about whether such a man is worthy of you, and how he treats you?

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Why do we strive to prove our love for a man? The reason may be in his past. For example:

A young man suffers due to the betrayal of his ex-wife.
He experienced unrequited love as a teenager.
A man is an egoist, and he is pleased that the world “revolves” around him.

Of course, you can prove love. Any girl knows a couple of methods on how to do this. Advice from experienced friends and psychologists will help resolve the situation.

Look what you can give

Myself

You are the coolest gift, even though sometimes in character you are not a gift.

Sweets

If he has a sweet tooth, you can’t help but give him sweets. Give and please.

Handle

The conversation is about an ordinary pen, which is usually used to write.

Mobile

His old phone number is probably worn out. Update. He will be happy.

Poetry

You yourself know that you have a penchant for rhyming. All that remains is to put this mechanism into action.

Book

What does he like about you? In short, give me a book about that. Let him flip through and read.

Souvenirs

The choice is huge. If you wish, you can purchase several souvenirs.

Clothes

Tie, trousers, shirt, jeans, T-shirt, panties, vest, jacket, shorts. What do you like best?

Shoes

What shoes does the chosen one like? So, based on his tastes, give him shoes.

Electric razor

Don't wait for recognition: buy and give.

Case

If he doesn’t have it, give it to him. It won't be redundant. A backup option is better than the only one.

Compliments

Remember how he did not spare you such gifts. Now you too, get even, beauty!

Good news

If you have news, share it and don’t be greedy! The beloved should be the first to recognize her.

Basic methods

A woman who proves love through actions can soften unpleasant moments in a relationship. There are many ways to prove how dear a person is to us. All of them will inspire the guy to take serious, important actions.

In words

Convincing a person of sincerity is not difficult. Therefore, more often let your loved one understand in words how dear he is to you, that he is strong, brave, wise... But if the girl’s words differ from her actions, the guy will stop trusting her.

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If you declare love to a man, then you should not:

Accept attentions and communicate frivolously with other young people. Some girls try in this way to revive relationships that have become ordinary. But usually men consider communication with others to be a betrayal. It is important for them to trust the girl and know that she will definitely not flirt with anyone else.
Don't be ashamed of your loved one. Even if he does wrong, he should always be supported and take the man’s side. If you are unhappy with the behavior of a young man, you can tell him about it. But only in private.
Do not humiliate a man: he is unlikely to forgive you for this.
Raising your voice is also prohibited. Even if you are offended or suffering from a bad mood. Let your loved one feel that you are serious and respect him.

Another way you can prove your love to a guy is to praise him more often. It’s also a good idea to use affectionate nicknames sometimes. Pay attention to the guy more often: call, if it is not possible to meet in person, you can write a love letter.

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By actions

A reverent attitude towards a loved one is also proven by actions. Caring for a man is normal. You want to please him, right? There are a lot of simple ways to say about love without words:

prepare a romantic dinner;
arrange a surprise (a poster with a declaration of love, delicious coffee and pastries in the morning will do);
make a small but interesting gift.

A pleasant thing for a man is not enough to do once. Don't wait for a special occasion - a holiday or a weekend. Surround him with care and love, and the guy will return it to you in full.

Original ways

If you prefer original ways to prove your love to a man, use our ideas:

Make a photo album, collecting the most positive and vivid memories. Try to put a part of yourself into it. Such a gift can be given for a holiday or for no reason at all.
Give your loved one a real “relaxation”! If he is tired at work, prepare a hot bath with aromatic oils and place candles nearby. Let him relax and feel happy.
Write “secret” notes to your lover. Put them in the pockets of his clothes, bag, wallet, under the windshield wipers on the car, etc. Even if the note contains a simple “heart”, it will help brighten up even the gloomiest day.
You can also confess your love through dancing. Relax, hug your partner and move to the beat of your favorite music. It brings us very close.
Come up with an original quest - hide a gift for a man and place clues around. They can remind you of valuable moments in a relationship. May the game be special for both of you.

We don’t often do nice things for our loved ones and talk about our feelings. Distracted by gadgets, problems at work and everyday difficulties. The pleasant little things that you will constantly introduce into the life of the couple will correct this.

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Touch each other4

Such simple gestures as holding a hand, stroking a hand, hugging, or simply snuggling speak of a special closeness between people and are very important. Each of us has a personal space, access to which is allowed only to those closest to us. It is important to use this right constantly, on a subconscious level, demonstrating how dear and close you are to each other.

Examples of nice words

Men do not like long and flowery declarations of love. But they also need to say nice words. First of all, consider the character of your loved one.

Favorite can be called:

Little Bunny, Baby Doll or My Lion, Macho;
Brave, kind, wise, gentle;
Antoshka, Pashenka, Olezhka, etc.

Calling a serious brutal man a “bunny” is not a good idea. But you can tell your lover how much you admire his strength, courage, and figure. If the guy is knowledgeable in scientific fields, praise his abilities. Admire him and ask him about something where he will prove himself to be an expert.

Give compliments7

Remember, like the bard: “Let’s compliment each other, because these are all happy moments of love!” This is true. Everyone loves compliments, regardless of gender and age; they are very important for a person’s self-esteem, especially when they come from someone whose opinion is truly valuable.

Important: give compliments not only in private. Praise your partner in front of your friends and parents. Believe me, the phrase “My wife cooks the best” or “My husband has golden hands” will say a lot and strengthen the relationship more than any expensive gift.

Love at a distance

When lovers are forced to stay at a distance for a long time, they begin to doubt whether this will harm the relationship. So, guys quite often doubt that their beloved is faithful.

You can prove that you love, despite the kilometers, by paying attention to your loved one. Be interested in the man’s affairs, be proud of him and support him. Ask how the day went, but do it unobtrusively.

Choose a time that will be convenient for both of you and devote it entirely to communication - love correspondence or video calling. It is also a good idea to communicate by correspondence. Write a handwritten letter to your lover and express your feelings in it.

Remind yourself of love more often! Make a video about how much you miss him, tell him how your day is going. Send memorable photos of you together. Play his favorite computer game with your loved one or suggest watching a romantic movie at the same time.

Both work

However, it is always worth remembering that a relationship requires the work of both members of the couple, and not just the girl. As they say, you can't clap with one hand. If a young man does not try at all to maintain the relationship, it is worth thinking about whether this is love, or maybe just a convenient and pleasant pastime of two beautiful young people.

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Special cases

The way to prove love must be selected taking into account the specifics of the situation. Let's figure out how to behave if you are in a couple and when you are not yet together.

If you are not together yet

Interestingly, men are now less likely to take the initiative to create a couple. Better take matters into your own hands. Here are the “weapons” you have:

Look - look at your loved one with tenderness, think at this moment about your feelings for him. A man will definitely feel warmth when he communicates with you.
Voice – girls attract a man’s attention with their voice. If you have a high and ringing timbre, this can be changed. With your loved one, switch to a lower key. This way the words will fall straight into his heart, and not get stuck ringing in his ears.
Show interest in him - go to the same places as your lover, communicate with his friends, ask him about his hobbies.

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You shouldn't be obsessive about it. Monitor the reaction of your loved one and build your behavior depending on it.

If you are a couple

When a romantic relationship has already begun between you, you cannot let everything take its course.

There are many ways to prove your love to a person if you are already a couple:

Show that every meeting brings you joy. Even if you live together, show how glad you are that your loved one is at home. This can be done with pleasant words, a look, or surprises organized for him.
Study your lover's preferences in food, movies, scents, and hobbies. The guy will be pleased that you prepared him his favorite “Kharcho” or gave him a T-shirt with the image of his favorite band.
Even if you have been married for a long time, do not get tired of talking about feelings. The stronger sex does not always understand hints, so be extremely frank.

It is important to show interest in all areas of your loved one's life. Sympathize in moments of failure and sincerely rejoice when everything is fine.

Not in words, but in deeds

Show your feelings, first of all, with pleasant actions:

Create a cozy atmosphere at home. And even if you don’t live together, let him be happy with you. Unobtrusively help a man in everyday life, make breakfast for him.
Become interesting to a man. You don't have to copy a man's hobbies. You can find something you like, where you can show yourself on the positive side.
Take an interest in the man's affairs - ask what's new at work or at university. Always listen carefully to his answers.
Give nice gifts. Let it be a pleasant little thing - it is important for the relationship.
In difficult times, always be close to your loved one. Support him with hugs and kind words.

If you love a man, you should not arrange humiliating scenes of jealousy for him. All they can prove is selfishness and “obsession” with their own experiences. Respect the guy, then he will feel love.

What should I say

Many people want to prove their love to a guy, but not everyone succeeds. Nice things and wishes will help in the situation.

tell your loved one what a wonderful conversationalist he is;
admire its beauty;
Remember more often how kind and sensitive he is.

Emphasize that the man is a good friend who you can always rely on, a wonderful and caring father, the best husband - depending on the situation. Remember why you fell in love with him.

Women's tricks

If you are wondering how you can prove your love to a guy, listen to the opinions of other girls. Here are some tricks everyone can use:

Get a tattoo with the name of your loved one - but it is better to clarify with your boyfriend in advance his attitude towards such “decorations” of the body. And also think about how serious the feelings really are. Because getting rid of a tattoo is not easy.
Pamper your loved one more often - give him a massage, cook his favorite dishes, give him original interesting things.
Show how much you care about his things. You can wear your loved one’s shirt and drink from his cup. But if your lover hints that he doesn’t like it too much, move on to other methods.

If you want to prove that you love a man, go for it. True, it’s easier for guys to convince girls of their feelings. To do this, it is enough to show concern, give flowers, invite you to a restaurant. But the ladies will have to try to make their loved one convinced of their feelings. But the result is worth the effort.

Be the one who will delight him

Many women focus their attention on the way they express love, but do not attach any importance to their own person. For a man, it is important not only how love is expressed, but also by whom.

Start loving yourself

It is quite difficult to love a person who does not love himself. If you are not a full-fledged person within yourself, then no man will be able to perceive you as a confident, worthy woman.

Self-love to a reasonable extent will make you a balanced, harmonious personality, but completely surrendering yourself to “sacrifice for the sake of love” will lead to disappointment and imbalance.

Pay attention to yourself.
Take care of your body and the body as a whole.
Have relaxing evenings and don’t let them turn you into a driven racing horse.

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Become feminine

Your loved one should not see you as a man. In our culture and folklore there are many proverbs and parables about a strong woman, so to speak, “she will stop a galloping horse and enter a burning hut,” but no sane man would want to build a relationship with a “man in a skirt.”

All your actions regarding the expression of love should emphasize your fragile and delicate nature. Don't be afraid to show your loved one your weakness and helplessness. Let him be a protector in the house, your breadwinner and provider. This trait belongs entirely to the male sex, and therefore there is no need to claim it.

Quite often, husbands leave their wives and go to young girls precisely because they see in them such traits as courage, strength, caring, and protection. However, they do not pretend to take these positions and enjoy second place.

Take care of yourself

Your rich inner world is definitely important to him, but often he is not able to see it behind a dirty head, unkempt skin and a rumpled and awkward outfit.

Men, unlike women, love with their eyes. It is important for them not only to hear pleasant words, but also to see a beautiful “picture” in front of them. If you think that appearance is important only at the first stage of a relationship, then you are mistaken. Strive to delight your loved one all the time with your bright and beautiful outfits, well-groomed body and beautiful makeup.

If you are not together yet

Oddly enough, modern men are increasingly less likely to take the initiative in building relationships. This makes girls think: “How can I prove to him that I love him?” If you decide to take everything into your own hands, pay attention to the following points:

The look is a woman's main weapon. Psychologists say that a person in love looks with special tenderness. Visually, this change may not be noticeable, but the object of your adoration will certainly feel a special warmth during your communication.
Every woman is a bit of an actress, and therefore voice manipulation should not be difficult. Pay attention to the timbre with which you communicate with others. He's probably quite tall and loud. But when communicating with a young man you like, you need to switch to a lower key. The voice should be gentle and languid.
Show interest. A person cannot remain indifferent if someone begins to live his life. Visit the same places, try to enter his social circle, show interest in his hobbies. But don't be intrusive. The behavior strategy should be built based on his reaction.

Hugging More Often

According to doctors' studies, hugs lasting more than 15 seconds provoke the release of oxytocin into the blood. This hormone is responsible for feelings of affection and love. During hugs, people experience a surge of joy, tenderness, and other positive emotions.

Touch makes it possible to physically feel the support of a loved one.

If you are a couple

If you think that the game ends after you have formalized your relationship, then you are deeply mistaken. Very often women are interested in: “How can I prove to my husband that I love him?” There are several ways to show tender feelings while living together:

Show joy when you meet. Even if you have been living together for a long time, you must show that his return from work is a holiday. Show it with words, looks, attitude and all sorts of pleasant surprises.
Try to do everything the way he likes. Study his preferences in food, music, scents, clothing. This will not be difficult for you, and the man will be pleasantly surprised by such a manifestation of love.
“How can I prove to him that I love him?” - girls often ask. Be involved in all areas of his life. Sincerely rejoice at his successes and sympathize with his failures. This will not go unnoticed.
Don't forget to talk about your feelings. Psychologists assure that words of love are especially important for a man, because the stronger sex does not understand hints very well.

Take care of your health

This sign of love may seem strange, but the proof has two motives:

Taking care of your physical condition and soul is an act of self-love. This is a clear way to show that you know how to think about health.
Signal to the guy that you want to be with him for a long time, to have children together. To prove this, give up bad habits, eat right, and lead an active lifestyle.

Seek advice

It is important for a man to feel like a significant part of your life. Involve your loved one in solving simple and complex issues. Ask for opinions on how best to act in a given situation. This is a good way to strengthen affection and prove your feelings.

The ability to easily talk about everything in the world and be interested in your partner’s point of view creates an atmosphere of mutual understanding and trust in a couple.

Sincerity

First of all, you need to figure out why such an unpleasant situation occurred. How can I prove to him that I have loved him for a very long time? This question is also relevant in a situation where you barely know a young man. Here, so to speak, all the cards are in hand. From the very beginning, you should get to know each other better. But you shouldn’t be too intrusive, because it can even scare you. And after that you should show more attention and care to your chosen one. The more warm and sincere words, the greater the chance that the guy will believe in the purity and sincerity of your intentions.

How can I prove to him that I love him very much? What should you do if, after another quarrel, a young man simply stopped believing in your feelings because of the words you said in a fit of anger? It is best to try to control your emotions. As a rule, words cut harder than a knife, so be careful what you say. How can you prove with words that you love a guy madly? Even if you have said too much, do not despair. You can always find an approach to your loved one and loved one. If you are at fault, don't be afraid to take the first step forward, because in the end, everyone will benefit from it.

Nice gestures are one of the good deeds that can bring you back into favor. Of course, we are not talking about giving the guy flowers, but it wouldn’t hurt to have a romantic dinner. A romantic atmosphere will soften the tension a little, then use the words that you really wanted to say to your loved one. For example: “Whatever happens between us, I regret what I said to you in a fit of anger. Next to you, I feel in seventh heaven, and I absolutely cannot imagine my life without you. For me, you are the best in the world."

The ability to thank

More often than not, women take all their partner’s efforts in life together as a matter of course. It is very important for a man to hear that his efforts are appreciated.

For some reason, it is sometimes easier for many people to be profuse in gratitude to a stranger, but not to say anything to the closest and dearest person. Do not neglect simple, but such important words: “Thank you!”, “Thank you!”, “You are so great for doing this...”, say it from the bottom of your heart and soul. The spouse will be really pleased to hear this; in fact, by connecting his life with you, he remained an individual, and did not turn into a slave who is obliged to fulfill the slightest whim and desire.

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Never lie to your chosen one, it hurts very much. No matter what happens to you, you can always find the right words that will accurately express the essence of your feelings. For example :

“My life loses all meaning if you are not next to me. For me you are like the sun in a clear sky. Your eyes are the dearest to me, because of which I go crazy every day. I miss your voice, even when we were separated for just a few hours."

Give compliments

It's not just women who love ears. Make compliments a regular part of your communication with your boyfriend. Note how a man's clothes or hairstyle suits him. Say that you like it when your loved one looks great, rejoice in big and small successes.

Remind him more often in simple, everyday situations that you consider your partner beautiful and strong. Sincerely praise when a man helps you move or open something.

Many guys take admiration as proof of love.

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