How to Flirt with a Girl ⭐ Working Examples and Best Techniques

To make a lasting impression on a girl and sink into her soul, a bright and memorable appearance is not enough. It is much more important to have the ability to present yourself and communicate correctly with girls, to be charismatic and attractive, intriguing and interesting. After all, sometimes it happens that an outwardly inconspicuous guy enjoys stunning success among the fair sex, while a slender and fit handsome man feels the need for female attention. The secret of male success lies in a well-honed ability to flirt. How to flirt with girls?

Mistakes of men or how not to flirt with girls.
Rules for flirting with girls.
Flirt with girls on social networks. Examples and tips.
Nonverbal ways of flirting.
The best phrases for flirting with a girl.
Rules for flirting with girls on the road.

First of all, you should decide what flirting is? After all, not all young people understand the meaning of this capacious word. Flirting is a set of manipulations and behavioral traits used by a person in order to attract interest and attention from members of the opposite sex. Some people argue that the art of flirting is impossible to learn, that such communication skills are either present in a person from birth, or they are not, and will not be in the future. Actually this is not true. There are rules that, once you master, you can become a master of flirting.

Mistakes of men or how not to flirt with girls

To answer the question of how to learn to flirt with girls, it is important, first of all, to find out what mistakes guys should avoid in flirting and what not to do? In this case, the chances of success will be high.

Lack of sincerity and pretense.

Representatives of the fair sex are very sensitive to lies, deceit and insincerity on the part of men and react sharply to such manifestations. You should flirt with girls in a good mood, having psychologically prepared yourself for flirting in advance, otherwise you will not only not get close to the girl, but will also push her away from you. If you have to force yourself to smile at a girl and forcefully say pleasant words to her, then she is unlikely to continue communicating with you.

Inappropriate sexual references.

You must be extremely careful with sexual innuendos so as not to scare off the fair sex or give her the impression that she is being harassed. It is not forbidden to give compliments regarding appearance, but vulgar words and indecent advances will lead to sad consequences. Sexual flirting is only possible if the guy and the girl are already quite close, both psychologically and physically.

Why is this necessary?

Flirting is a unique way of communication that brings pleasure. In other words, through facial expressions, gestures and words, a man satisfies his needs.

Reference! Eric Berne, in his book “Games People Play,” writes that everyone wants attention from members of the opposite sex. It is possible that we want to give someone tenderness and care.

Thus, flirting is a specific method of communication that gives mental pleasure to a man and a woman.

Rules for flirting with girls

The first rule of flirting with a girl is that a guy needs to be confident. Often the fear of rejection interferes with men's personal lives. If a guy has decided for himself that this or that girl is of interest to him, then he needs to clearly and clearly tell himself that he will seek her affection, that he is worthy of a try and can count on success. Girls relax faster with confident guys and start flirting much more willingly than with those who don’t believe in themselves. Below are examples of flirting with a girl, which will become a kind of cheat sheet for guys.

The guy at the party liked this or that representative of the fair half of humanity. Their gazes met, their faces beamed with a fleeting smile. He decided for himself that he wanted to meet her. This decision was the beginning of his flirtation.

“Your smile is so dazzling that I see nothing but it.” I hope my vision will not return soon.

The guy hinted that he was interested in further communication with the girl and in ensuring that she remained in a similar state of mind for as long as possible. The main thing is that he made it clear to her that he was projecting himself next to her.

- The weather is so good today, and I’m not talking about the sun in the sky.
- Come on, tell me about what you were doing today, besides thinking about me?
You can also compare a girl with some animal (cat, fish, bunny), but this is not trivial.
“Only now I realized who is sitting in this young, insidious creature. A wild, rebellious cat sharpens its claws in you. Oh, how I love cats. I know how to pacify them. I'm also affectionate.
You can flirt with girls using a variety of nicknames for this purpose. Light teasing with original, funny, but pleasant names will not go unnoticed by women. If a girl is young, fragile, graceful, you can say about her:
“Baby, don’t look at me with such an angry look.” Babe, I want to tell you something, I'm sure you'll like it.

How to move from virtual to real communication?

Having coped with the task of how to make a man fall in love with you through correspondence, you are faced with a new one - how to move on to a real relationship. The transition should be smooth, taking into account the need for emotional acclimatization. Step-by-step instructions for your actions:

Move from text to voice and then video messages.
Plan your first date with your boyfriend. Dream visualization will allow each of you to get what you want:
“How would you like to see me?”
Take the initiative if the guy hesitates. Invite him on a first date to a place that is comfortable and safe for you:
“Ready to experiment? Shall we go offline? I offer a great place...”

Flirt with girls on social networks. Examples and tips

Many people think that it is much easier to flirt in the virtual space by correspondence or via SMS than in real life. But this is not so, because in these cases the guy does not see the girl he is flirting with, does not have the opportunity to monitor her reaction and feel her energy. How to learn to flirt with girls on the Internet? First of all, a man should carefully examine all the contents of a girl’s virtual page. As a result of studying the profile of the fair sex you like, you can find out a lot of details about the girl’s life, her hobbies, friends, interests. It’s worth looking especially carefully at the girl’s list of groups and communities to understand what she’s interested in.

Psychologists remind us of the famous mirror effect. In real life, you can subconsciously arouse a girl’s affection by repeating her gestures and facial expressions. In virtuality, this method is also valid; the guy needs to edit his profile in accordance with the data obtained while studying the girl’s page. This does not mean at all that you should forget about your individuality and completely adapt to the habits and tastes of the girl you like. The young man’s task is to make the girl understand that she can find a common language with the guy. For example, if a guy notices that a girl is interested in traveling, he can be recommended to subscribe to an interesting group that addresses this topic and repost a meaningful entry about travel.

How not to start a virtual conversation?	What is the best way to start a conversation on VKontakte or Whatsapp?
Hello. How are you doing?	Hello. I saw your page in a group about learning a foreign language, and I wanted to write to you. I'm also interested in this language.
Will you tell us about yourself?	I'm interested to know everything about you.
Are you married? Do you have a boyfriend?	I want to know if the heart of such a lovely young lady is occupied?
What are you doing?	How do you spend your free minutes?
Maybe we can meet?	Good afternoon. After I had the good fortune of seeing you in real life yesterday, I can’t help but want to get to know you.
Come on, shall we meet?	Admiring your photograph is a pleasure, but I am sure that in life you are even more beautiful.
Do you want to go on a date with a handsome guy?	It’s hard to believe, but yesterday I saw your smile in a dream, and today I found your photo in the boundless Internet space.

To attract women's attention on VK, it is best to create intrigue at the beginning of the conversation. A girl will not be able to ignore a well-written intriguing question. You can also leave a catchy comment under the lady’s photo. Typical compliments about unprecedented beauty and slimness will not arouse a girl’s interest.

Nothing like that...a photograph...will do
Cool earrings. Admit it, did you steal them from a friend?
Nice dress you're wearing, but why does it look a little dirty to me?
What slender legs. You probably love to pedal.
Your cat definitely took this photo
A creative approach to choosing a hairstyle. Surprised.
Are you sure this color is yours?

The above comments do not contain insults, but they covertly call on the girl to respond, so they will not be ignored, because the offended beauty will want to justify herself. The likelihood that the girl herself will write to the guy who left such a comment is high. To find out how to flirt with a girl you haven’t met yet, you should read and memorize ready-made phrases.

What should we not forget?

Flirting in correspondence with a girl saves a young man from many of the hassles that courtship requires in everyday life. For example, he does not have to spend money on bouquets of flowers, cinema tickets, or visits to cafes.

However, the lack of real communication does not mean that you should forget about gallantry. You need to start your daily correspondence with a girl you already know in absentia not with the banal expression “Hello, how are you?”, but with a wish for good morning, a bouquet of flowers and a cup of coffee. Of course, the bouquet and coffee are emoticons or pictures found on the Internet. After this message, there is no need to immerse yourself in correspondence; you should mind your own business. A girl whose morning begins with flowers and a cup of coffee “in bed,” even if it’s fake, will look forward to the evening and will happily begin to communicate with a young man on any topic.

Nonverbal ways of flirting

In addition to verbal and virtual flirting, there is also non-verbal flirting. Many psychologists consider this method of attracting female attention to be the most advantageous and effective. The human body has its own language. If a guy learns to understand it and communicate correctly in it, he will be able to win the heart of the most capricious and selective girl. What does body language include and how to learn to flirt with a girl using non-verbal methods?

Smile.
Sight.
Gestures.
Facial expressions.
Touching.

Guys should remember that a smile is a powerful tool that can help facilitate the process of winning the lady of your heart. This is an important component of smart and successful flirting. The smile should be light, natural and relaxed. A guy should pay attention to the girl's response. Does she smile back at him? Is her smile sincere? The girl’s natural smile is the result of the fact that she let his emotions pass through her and accepted them.

Examples of non-verbal flirting with a girl.

A guy and a girl are having fun in a nightclub. She tells him something, and he, pretending that he didn’t hear her words, leans towards the girl and whispers in her ear: “I didn’t hear you, baby. Will you repeat it again?"

A guy and a girl are walking in the park. The guy suddenly touches the girl’s hair and tells her: “Your hair smells like strawberries. I really like strawberries, and you?”

Women's psychology is such that ladies' interest in a man rapidly increases when they notice that he is attracted to other representatives of the fair sex. The subconscious gives a signal that there is something in this man that deserves attention. Psychologists note that it is for this reason that girls often fall in love with those who are married. You can use this pattern to attract the girl you like.

A guy and a girl are walking down the street, and the guy notices that a stranger, a random passerby, has shown interest in him. He can add a sense of humor to the matter and say, smiling: “This girl probably hasn’t eaten yet today. She looks at me like she's about to swallow me. We should feed her."

Basic rules of flirting2

Let's consider the important aspects on which the foundation of communication when flirting is built.

Remember that women actually like to chat with guys. This gives every lady the opportunity to feel more valuable, desired and in demand. Let this thought accompany you at all stages of seduction - it will give you confidence.
Always be positive. Cheerfulness, goodwill and good mood are the keys to success.
Communicate with hints. Don't say frankly vulgar things. It is better not to go beyond the boundaries of decency and politeness - after all, if you inadvertently cross it, the lady may take it as an insult.
Create a feeling of security. Be courteous, but at the same time not too pushy. Otherwise, there is a risk of scaring her away.

Wear perfume. Even before she sees you, the lady will smell the aroma. In addition, pheromones are now added to some types of products. They act directly on instincts, bypassing consciousness. So the task will be even easier.
Remember her name. Are you suffering from memory loss? Repeat the name of your new friend immediately during the conversation: “Agrafena? Oh, what an unusual ancient Russian name - Agrafena...” So it definitely won’t get out of your head.

The best phrases for flirting with a girl

To understand what flirting is and how to flirt on VKontakte or in real life, you can find and read books and creative articles on this topic. They will introduce you to the basics of flirting and give valuable tips. For example, a reference book for those who want to learn how to conquer girls will be Max Liss’s book “Flirting. Secrets of easy victories." The author clearly explains the meaning of the word “flirting” using vivid and interesting examples that will help everyone who does not master this art understand the most important secrets. There are dangerous words that are forbidden to be uttered while flirting with a girl and phrases that will make it easier for a man to conquer and conquer the girl he likes.

Dangerous words	Best phrases
Baby, do you want to take a ride in my cool car? Is she just waiting for you? (Girls do not like men who brag about their financial status and property).	This sweater looks amazing on you. (Doubt in the words of the author of the compliment makes the recipient want to understand the situation).
And you're hot. I'm on fire. You don't want me to burn alive, do you? Cool me down.	I am not yet able to determine what it is, but there is something unusual about you that arouses my interest.
Doll, I intend to conquer your fragile heart. No one has ever refused me before.	Why do you smell so good?
Come to my place for tea with a spicy continuation.	There is something about you that lifts my spirits.
Your feet are made for my hands to stroke them.	Well, what should I do with you? (These words should be said with a smile.)
You are, of course, a very nice girl, I would hook up with someone like that, but you should join the gym.	So unusual and funny. Your eyelids twitch when you smile. But it suits you very well.
Putting on makeup is probably your hobby.	It's very nice to talk to you, but I have to run. Happily.
I'm so tired today. Let's go to my place. You will bring me to my senses with your gentle hands.	If you keep talking like that, I'll have to spank you.
How do you feel about breakfast in bed? Do you like to please beautiful men in this way?	I’m interested to know in which flower garden such an unusual flower like you is grown.
Bunny, I want to know, did you feel good with me?	I haven't missed you at all. You come into my dreams so often that I don’t have time to get bored.

If a relationship with a representative of the fair sex is in full swing and if she is a shy and modest girl, then you can say to her the words that are written below. They contain a slight sexual hint, talk about the guy’s mood and encourage the girl to relax.

You know, honey, I don't bite. Unless, of course, you ask me about it yourself?
You're not a very good kisser either. You need to train more. It's better to work with someone who is an expert in this matter. For example, with me. I am always ready to come to your aid.
One of our mutual acquaintances said that he has never met a girl more beautiful than you. I couldn’t even think that I would say the same about you.
You make me want to be better than I am.
Your dress is lovely, but where are the rest of it?

Other examples of flirting with a girl. They will be useful to young people who want to meet the girl they like.

I am a collector of interesting inscriptions on T-shirts. Can I read what you have written there?
I often hear the phrase “Whoever you mess with, you’ll get rich from.” I really want to learn from you.
This decision was difficult for me, but, nevertheless, I decided to approach you with my feet and start a conversation with my tongue.
Something happened to my eyes. It's hard for me to tear them away from you.
I have memory problems. I forgot if I already came to meet you?
Girl, do you happen to have some string in your purse to start our conversation?
Will you give me your kiss or will I have to lie to my diary?
What's your name? I'm interested to know if it goes with my last name?
I feel so sorry for the passers-by. Because of your beauty, they turn into a gray mass.
Don't think that I want to get to know you. Actually, I want to ask you out on a date.

It is important to remember that flirting is an element of communication with the girl you like, but it should not completely replace communication with a representative of the opposite sex, otherwise the guy will have nothing to count on. This is a bright way to attract female attention, but a relationship based on flirting alone is doomed to failure. Therefore, young people should take into account all the recommendations given above.

Rules for flirting with girls on the road

The life of young people is full of interesting and exciting events: travel with friends, memorable trips with beautiful girls, road romance and adventure. If you know how to flirt correctly with the fair sex, you can turn an ordinary trip or vacation with girls into something unforgettable and exciting. How to flirt with girls on the road, while traveling and relaxing with them? Below are examples of questions that can be asked to girls in order to attract their attention and win them over, as well as ready-made phrases that can be used to win the hearts of beautiful ladies.

Forbidden words and vulgar expressions.	The best phrases for flirting with girls on the road.
Did you know that a car is the best place to make love?	Girls, can you hear how hard my heart is beating? This is his overdose of female beauty. But I'm ready to die admiring you.
Why are you sad, beauties, don't worry. I have a spacious bed at my dacha. We'll fit everything in, so you can relax. If, of course, you can.	There seems to be something wrong with my car. He goes crazy from the company of such beautiful girls. At least the engine didn't stall from overexcitation.
Girls, how do you feel about experiments? For example, on the road.	This wind goes well with the smell of your perfume and hair.
Your beauty makes my weak points even weaker.	There are no stars visible in the sky today. But I know who can replace them. Girls, maybe you will smile and illuminate our cheerful company with your light?
It's a sin not to do mischief with such girls.	My cat is thinking about me now and is jealous. He's not as lucky as me.
Have you ever thought about doing this in a group?	How nice it is to know that the king of the roads has so many charming favorites.

Road flirting, like any other, does not tolerate vulgarity and cheekiness. This is a surefire way to ruin your holiday with girls and push them away. But, on the other hand, flirting on a trip or on the road does not require maximum concentration from a guy and following any strict rules. Light, relaxed communication with playful notes, communication that does not necessarily have to be continued, is quite appropriate in this case.

How to flirt with a girl for a guy

Turn up the music. She's kind of like you. As cool and airy as you.
Girls, maybe you're hungry? Who wants to try what? Our menu is varied. For an appetizer, I suggest choosing a languid, masculine look, and for dessert, 50 fresh kisses of my own preparation, enough for everyone.
Baby, it looks like you're blushing. How about we stop and you can get some fresh air? Not otherwise, I have this effect on you.
Oh, you liar. She didn’t tell me that you know how to light a fire in nature. Personally, you have already lit a fire in my heart.
Madam, you are shooting so hard with your eyes that now I will bleed from these wounds, die, and you will have an accident.
Your most beautiful place is dirty.
Are you feeling cold? Do you want me to hug you and warm you?
It's starting to rain. How do you feel about kissing in the rain? Personally, I’m all for it with both hands.
Could you blink your fluffy eyelashes, it's stuffy here in the car?
You are all so bright and graceful, like little sea fish. And I am kind and good, like a dolphin. Who wants to swim with a dolphin?

A cheerful youth company can consist not only of a guy and a girl, but also of several guys and representatives of the fair sex. Therefore, you should flirt with this fact in mind. After all, young people often want to make a lasting impression on the entire female half. The examples given above will help you do this.