Ivan Vdovin
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Somewhat too strong and promising headline, don’t you think? And yet, how to make a girl fall in love with you, 10 ways that work flawlessly - this is all conditional and I would say to better attract the attention of readers. In this article, I will, of course, talk about several simple ways to make a woman fall in love with you, but the main emphasis should be on your personal qualities and developing them.
I’m telling you honestly, just reading the article and starting to make every first girl fall in love with you won’t work. But if you really want all the girls to be “crazy” for you, then it’s better to talk to a psychologist, most likely you have a strong complex that your mother didn’t like you in childhood and you are looking for this love in the girls around you. Either you are simply greedy for attention, and even worse, you want to take revenge on all the girls for unrequited love. Here it is important to understand what goal you are pursuing.
What does it mean to fall in love?
I'm sure how many people live on the planet, so many have different opinions and feelings about love and everything connected with it. But let's just do a little analysis from a psychological point of view, what is love?
Love is attachment, involvement with an object. One might even say dedication. That is, a person in love can do not everything, but a lot for the object of his desire. But the object that is loved can calmly manipulate the subject who is in love with him. Is this love? More likely manipulation or, alternatively, unrequited love.
Psychologists would NOT want you to know these secrets about yourself
—Imagine this situation...
What if, instead of paying for years for useless consultations with a psychologist, in 21 days you can work with yourself? Get rid of negative thoughts and states forever. And instead live a calm and happy life? Stop living in stress due to relationships or constant lack of money?
Tell me this is impossible?
I thought so too, until I started working with myself
LIVING HAPPY IS EASY
My name is Ivan, I am 35 years old, and I have been practicing psychology for 15 years. I have studied all the basic methods and techniques through which I help people find happiness. NLP, hypnosis, body-image therapy. I was invited on television as an expert.
And it was... just a nightmare!
I lived in a state of depression for 7 years (constant stress exhausted me). I had a lot of low self-confidence (my self-esteem was below 0). I could not calmly communicate with people, it seemed to me that I was not worthy of them.
The relationship did not work out (because I was very negative, jealous, a doormat). I’m generally silent about decent earnings; I earned 15,000 rubles a month and thought that was the limit. I didn’t want to live... Envy.
The worst thing is, I thought I would have to live like this forever, and I don’t deserve love and happiness.
But it only got worse, negative states fell on me like a snowball. It felt like I was sitting in a deep, black hole from which there was no way out. Hopelessness, despair, pain, resentment.
My life has turned into endless torture. But then a miracle happened...
I FOUND THE KEY... EVERYONE HAS IT...
One day my father came home from work, a little drunk, although he never drank much.
He came into the kitchen..., looked at me with a dissatisfied expression and began to say with anger how worthless I was, how I couldn’t do anything, and in general, how sorry he was that he was my father.
At first I felt severe mental pain (this is very painful to hear from my family). Then I got offended (does that mean I’m not a favorite son?!) And then an insight came to me...
I received that magical kick that I had been waiting for all my life. It changed my thinking, my life and my relationships with my environment.
I had already forgiven my father simply because he told me the truth and I was happy about it!
But then the most interesting thing began...
Literally 5 minutes later I was already sitting at the computer and writing out all the psychological (!) methods of working with myself.
I was even confused, because my plans were to continue to suffer all my life.
It was such an incredible feeling of freedom and desire to do something that I burst into tears of happiness.
THE MAIN SECRET OF HAPPINESS
If you think that you cannot change your life, become rich or successful, or create a happy relationship - you are mistaken!
You can change your life by changing your thinking and the main thing is to do it EASILY!
• 5 simple and powerful methods of working with yourself (they work even if you use them incorrectly) - You don’t have to turn to psychologists, you are your own psychologist.
• “The secret method” of working through any negative state. This will allow you to eliminate the negative and switch to the positive in 5 minutes.
• 15 minutes a day - Just 15 minutes a day to change your life 180 degrees. Become happier and more joyful.
• Saving up to 100,000 rubles in 1 year - You will save on trips to a psychologist, and spend the saved money on a vacation by the sea.
• 21 days – It only takes 21 days for you to see changes in your life. You will start smiling. Wake up with joy.
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PS If you want to say “thank you” to me, just download the guide and start using it every day.
PPS How about becoming happy today? =)
We continue, but the object with whom we fell in love decided to break off relations with the subject who loves. How does the subject feel? Most likely, he begins to feel even stronger “love” for the object and at the same time suffer. Well, affection.
So here is the question, is this love? No, this is a kind of dissatisfaction with life and a pathological desire to suffer from unrequited love. That is, we do not love a person, but simply feel a loss and some desire to fill the emptiness in our soul. Once again, this is suffering, not love.
Looking ahead, I will say that a person who is perfectly aware of his emotions will never fall in love in such a way as to suffer and try to fill the loss. It’s all self-pity and the desire to be “loved more.”
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But may God grant everyone to experience such a strong and real feeling of love, take my word for it, this is a cool feeling and in it you can calmly forgive any person or let him marry another person. I felt this during one meditation, it’s a very cool feeling and no drug can compare with it.
Why does it work
Everywhere and everywhere they call on men to be soft, flexible, gallant, pleasing and sensitive in order to please a girl. We (women) are very accustomed to this, and when a guy’s behavior differs from usual, he simply breaks the pattern for us.
Sort of a bad guy. The main thing you need to understand and feel is the line between rudeness and a “fly in the ointment.” If you doubt whether you will be understood correctly, it is better not to say out loud what you wanted. No one has canceled the rules of etiquette and politeness.
Play subtly, this will come with experience. Honestly, being rude can also work, but such a relationship will not last long or be serious. If that's your goal, then go ahead.
My blog and publications for guys of a different category and level are much higher than simple pick-up artists. And here it is for them:
Be delicate, then any girl will submit to you. Be yourself and don't play another person, just play the game. If you don’t like it, then leave it (I’m talking about the game now
