Author: Anton Potashev
Schoolgirls, students, women of the older generation are concerned with the question: how will a guy like him if he likes another girl? In youth, guys' objects of affection change quickly. It takes a little effort to redirect his attention to you.
How to get a guy to like you at school: 10 ways
School is not only a source of knowledge. On the territory of the educational institution they share experiences, find friends and build love. To get a guy to pay attention, you need to remember ten basic rules
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| Rule | Description |
| Young people notice girls who stand out from the crowd. Don't be like other people, live by your own rules and they will start singling you out. |
| A girl should learn from childhood that a healthy complexion is more attractive than a mask of cosmetics. Ingredients of this formula: sufficient fluid, healthy diet, frequent walks in the fresh air. |
| Guys like girls who are robbers, boors and hooligans as friends. For love, they will choose a gentle and soft person. |
| From their youth, guys love beautiful pictures. For a guy to pay attention, the shape must be perfect. There are no such? Make them or highlight them with clothing. |
| Guys love praise. Compliment him on how well he knows math, plays football, and does crafts for his craft lessons. He won't pretend to be pleased in front of his classmates, but your comment will be appreciated. |
| Don't aim to become his girlfriend. Be a good friend at first. Find a common interest, it will strengthen your communication. |
| In his eyes, you look like a small, helpless girl who needs to be protected, helped carry her briefcase home and rearrange her desk. He will like this state. |
| Boys worry about what their friends think of them. Make friends with them, then they will have a good opinion of you, and the object of sympathy accordingly. |
| Even the most powerful guy needs care. Show it in help with homework and tips on tests. |
| You can't tell everything about yourself. You are a mystery that he will spend his whole life solving. |
These 10 ways will help you win the sympathy of your classmates. They will become practice before further flirting with a man.
How to get a guy to like you by correspondence?
The simplest and most open way is to meet by correspondence. This technique is widely known among the modern generation of schoolchildren and students. But it also has basic rules:
- Communication should be interesting. If you limit yourself to the same type of phrases: “how is life”, “what are you planning to do”, then this communication will not lead to love. You need to intrigue him so that he looks forward to your appearance on the Internet. Tell funny stories, share learning experiences, find common topics for discussion;
- Follow the writing rules. The huge number of errors cannot but confuse;
- If a guy doesn’t want to communicate, you don’t have to force yourself on him, otherwise he’ll decide that your place is on his “black list.”
The modern dating method has an advantage: communication becomes simple, open, and relaxed. It becomes possible to create a conversation with several candidates at the same time.
There are also disadvantages: a person may not always turn out to be who he strives to appear online
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In this video, psychologist Alena Sergeeva will give some tips on how you can please a guy in just one day:
Tip #3: Shift your focus
Try not to concentrate solely on thoughts about the guy of your dreams, try to diversify your life and fill it with new events, meetings, walks. Start doing something you've never done before. For example, sign up for a fitness or aerobics section, go in for sports, start going to the theater, or participate in some public events where all participants have fun and interest.
You will immediately feel that the world is not closed for you only on this guy, that there are many interesting, self-sufficient people around with whom you want to spend time together. The main thing is not to withdraw into yourself, not to get lost in your own feelings about unrequited love, and then the world around you will appear before you in a completely new light.
You will feel confident in yourself, become a self-sufficient and strong person who is not easily broken by life’s difficulties. Let the smile never leave your face and your eyes shine with a happy sparkle. And you will see that new friends and girlfriends will be drawn to you, as an interesting person and an attentive interlocutor, from everywhere, among whom will be the guy who will become your companion for life.
How to make a guy who has a girlfriend fall in love with you?
You can communicate with a guy, pay attention to him, fall in love with him, and then find out that he has an object of sympathy with whom a relationship has arisen. School love is wonderful, because love is not obligated to anything, it quickly arises and fades away.
Does the guy have a girlfriend? Don't make a problem out of it! If you want, you can completely replace it.
- Collect information about the productivity of the relationship: the duration of the union, quarrels and characteristics of the relationship. Assess the situation, do you want to destroy harmony?;
- Don't try to be like your competitor. Catch her positive and negative qualities, become better than her;
- Start a conversation with him, find him on a social network, create common interests, strive to interest him.
If the object of your sympathy does not respond to flirting for a long time, then it is better not to force yourself to communicate with him, so as not to look stupid.
The main signs by which you can find out if a man likes you
By his behavior in front of you and towards you
Guys try to take care of the girls they like. If he offers to help you even when you haven't asked for it, this clearly means that you are of interest to him and he wants to make a good impression on you. For example, you casually mentioned that you don’t know how to restore some function on your phone - in response, he will offer to see what the problem is. Or, he will let you wear his jacket, seeing that you are dressed lightly and are clearly freezing. In general, any signs of concern are a good sign.
The opposite option is also possible - he wants you to take part in his affairs. For example, he may ask you to choose something, showing that he trusts your opinion. He also consults with you on various issues - cooking a certain dish, what TV series or movie to watch, and the like.
By the way the guy communicates with you
He constantly tries to maintain a dialogue, regardless of whether you communicate in person or by correspondence. If there are awkward pauses, he tries to fill them with some stories or asks you questions. Similar behavior in social networks (in contact, classmates, etc.) - even if the last message in the conversation was from him, then, without waiting for your reaction, he will write to you again.
Another good sign that a guy likes you is the fact that he wants to treat you to something - coffee, apple, candy, and the like. If you notice that a young man is trying to joke to cheer you up, then this is also a telling “signal” - he is clearly hoping to impress you.
By his gestures, look, smile
When you appear in a company, his behavior changes a little - he may become more tense or, on the contrary, behave more cheekily. When communicating with you, he tries to be as close as possible - he leans towards you and for several seconds, or even longer, looks at you continuously, listens carefully to everything you say. It is possible that he is trying to touch you at any convenient moment - crossing the road, showing something on his phone, adjusting your scarf, etc. A smile can appear on his face completely involuntarily when he sees you - during a conversation, in the first seconds of a meeting, when he catches your gaze.
By the guy's appearance, changes in appearance
He is concerned about his appearance, and even if he does not directly ask if everything is okay with him, it is still noticeable that this is important to him - he tries to adjust some elements of clothing, touches his hair, and on occasion looks at his reflection in mirrors. surfaces.
He tries to sit straight, with his shoulders back, turning towards you - but his posture may look somewhat tense. By the way, dilated pupils when looking at you can also say a lot!
Features of the first date
If you managed to interest a guy by correspondence, then a first date cannot be avoided. For it to go harmoniously, you need to follow the basic rules
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- Best clothes: romantic dress or skirt with a blouse. The more tender the image, the better the opinion he will form about his partner. More charm, less vulgarity;
- Even if the image looks unfinished, an even posture will allow you to finish it. A woman walking confidently along the sidewalk is hard to miss;
- No matter what you say, pay attention to how you say it. Play with intonation, smile more;
- If you manage to make him laugh, then the date is already successful. Guys love ladies with a sense of humor;
- There should be no tension on the date; treat him like your best friend.
By adhering to five simple rules, your date will impress your interlocutor, he will certainly want to repeat it.
How to eliminate a competitor?
Girls often wonder how a guy will like it if he likes someone else, or if several more girls are vying for his heart. The main mistake is mutual intrigues and the desire to show the opponent in an unfavorable light. In fact, it’s enough to be yourself, remain natural and not be like other girls.
You should act as if you are morally superior to your rivals and do not want to stoop to their level. Remain confident and inaccessible. Then not only the object of your sympathy will pay attention to you, but other guys will also torment themselves with thoughts about how to achieve your affection.
Take it and like it: what you need to be
“I want the guy to like me,” the desire is simple and understandable. Take it and like it, win a man. Any girl can do this by upgrading herself on several points.
watch yourself
Let's agree that unshaven armpits, cellulite and other attributes of natural beauty are for a narrow circle of connoisseurs. The vast majority of guys like clean hair, smooth legs and light makeup - mascara will open up the eyes, balm will make the lips more sensual, and highlighter will hide signs of fatigue. A couple of times a week – physical activity to keep the body in good shape.
Have your own style
Well-groomed people won't get you very far. Everyone is running around the salons. You have to stand out from the crowd of “well-groomed” people, but what usually makes you stand out is charisma – your own style, your own point of view, an aura of mystery. How to develop charisma in yourself? Learn to dream (and read), get out of the captivity of prejudices, start an unusual hobby. Coupled with courage and responsibility, this will make you charismatic like Joan of Arc.
Be optimistic
There is nothing more asexual and unattractive than a dissatisfied face, whining and complaints, guys are sure. They, who have shouldered the concern of survival in the name of procreation, after a tiresome hunt for money and fame, want to bury themselves in something warm, soft and positive. A smile on your face is more valuable than professional makeup.
Turn on the "hostess"
No one has canceled the strong connection between a man’s stomach and heart. If you don’t know what to do, if you really like a guy, invite him to dinner. You can’t help but like a steak cooked by your own hands and a shirt ironed the next morning (check the degree of doneness of the steak).
Inspire
A girl who knows how to listen, appreciate and praise is worth her weight in gold. Guys need the boost of pleasant and inspiring words no less than sex. Have you heard that behind every great man there is a great woman? Women muses are not just liked. They become a necessity of life, and this is an order of magnitude more than just being liked by someone.
Flirt
For a snack - a simple and accessible technique with which you can attract the attention of any man without exception. This is flirting, that is, a wide package of verbal and non-verbal means of seduction (compliments, stroking hair, open mouth). You like flirting girls instantly - you can’t go against nature.
In principle, this is enough to please a guy and even make him fall in love. A well-groomed, smiling and flirting girl cannot help but like her. Unlike the one we'll talk about below.
