No matter how strong the love between a man and a woman is, it will not last long enough without skillful interaction between partners. You can overnight destroy everything that has been built for a long time if you behave incorrectly. The success of the novel largely depends on the girl’s behavior, since the fair sex is better at avoiding sharp corners in conflict situations. What exactly is female wisdom in relationships with a man and how to use it correctly?
She never invites you to her home
If all your dates only take place in cafes and parks, and intimate meetings are not in her apartment, this should definitely raise the question of why the girl does not invite you to her home. One man shared his personal experience of a similar situation. All meetings always took place only in his apartment, and the girl was in no hurry to invite the guy to her place and even avoided these conversations. Without attaching any importance to this, the man continued to meet with the lady of his heart. And later it turned out that she had not yet divorced and was afraid that her new boyfriend would run into her husband in their shared apartment. Moreover, she did not report the presence of a husband at all.
Telephone etiquette
Telephone etiquette not at work, but in everyday life is quite simple:
- See the rules of speech etiquette above and follow them even on the phone
IMPORTANT: Your emotions are transmitted over the phone, despite the lack of visual contact
- If you are interested in communicating, then smile and be cheerful. Your interlocutor will definitely feel it
Telephone etiquette
- Don't eat while talking. No matter how hard you try to eat quietly, your interlocutor will catch you doing it. And this is already bad form
- Don't talk while lying down. The interlocutor will also notice the strange timbre of your voice and consider it as indifference
IMPORTANT: Of course, you can be more free in communication with your loved ones
She doesn't know what she wants
It seems that she wants to be with you, and at the same time she is afraid of something or is not sure of her feelings. If your chosen one cannot devote herself to the relationship and does not know what she expects from them, then this is an alarming sign. Such a union will not bring happiness. Eventually, someday you will hear her say, “You’re a wonderful person, but let’s just be friends.” Do you need or do you need similar blows?
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Notice how she argues
If you have some kind of argument, then at this moment take a closer look at the girl. The way she behaves at this moment largely determines the nature of your future relationship and can tell you whether it is worth continuing at all. If a girl is aggressive and rude in an argument, do you need it? It is better if she is rational and consistent and will look for arguments to convince you of her point of view, and not stoop to dirty swearing.
One man admitted that he broke up with his girlfriend after the first argument about an innocent topic. She grabbed a bottle of whiskey and began to drink, explaining that she needed strength and time to gather her thoughts for the upcoming “battle of wits.” It is difficult to imagine how she would behave during family quarrels.
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What is most important to a woman in a relationship?
The formation of female wisdom is a rather long process. It’s rare that a girl naturally has these qualities so developed that she shouldn’t have to work on herself. The latter is necessary so that a representative of the fair sex can fulfill her most important mission in life: to become a homemaker.
It is the woman who creates a cozy atmosphere in the family. She takes care of her children and husband, which gives them strength to develop in all areas of life. A woman should be an affectionate mother and an understanding wife. Then she will reveal her potential and be truly happy, as her instincts will be fully realized. What is most important to a woman in a relationship? So that a truly cohesive union is formed, allowing her to show her best qualities. If a man does not strive for family comfort, then his other half will gradually lose ardor. In a family, both people must give in and take into account each other’s opinions. But the following skills are required from a woman:
- Patience. Men often show short temper and impulsiveness, and women break into hysterics, thereby further aggravating the situation. A smart girl will wait out the storm of emotions, and then talk to her partner under calmer circumstances.
- The ability to forgive. Guys act like little kids sometimes, and they can't help but make mistakes from time to time. To be offended for six months or to break off the union altogether due to a minor male sin is stupid.
- Loyalty. A romantic union where a woman is capable of betrayal simply cannot exist. The keeper of the hearth and the “neck” of the family is obliged to remain faithful to her partner, then he will be calm about his woman and will begin to trust her limitlessly.
- No constant whims. A woman who wants to find happiness with a man for life must understand that infantile, capricious behavior is of little use. For the time being, this is perceived by guys with interest, and then it begins to irritate. A wise girl will directly say what she wants, or cleverly turn the situation to her advantage.
- Respect. For every man, a respectful attitude is very important, as it motivates deeds and achievements. A wise woman will value and respect her partner under any circumstances.
Try to develop these qualities in yourself, and then peace and tranquility will reign in your home. And this is the most important thing for any girl in a relationship. Many ladies go through more than one life test to understand this. But wisdom is manifested not only in adult, experienced women. Even young girls will become wise if they consider various life situations from one side and work on their inner world.
She talks bad about all her exes
If a girl says that all her exes were bad, this is definitely something to pay attention to. Of course, there is a possibility that she really came across bad people. But most likely the girl simply does not know how to take responsibility for her actions and is inclined to shift all the blame onto another person. After all, most often both partners are to blame for the breakup of a couple.
Clothes etiquette for girls
Dress etiquette is a big topic to think about.
The choice of clothing directly depends on :
- your figure
- Your age
- Event you are going to
Clothing etiquette
General rules :
- Clothes should decorate you. Even if short shorts with a high waist are in fashion, and you do not have slender figures, you should not wear such an outfit
- Clothes should not be provocative. You can wear a short dress with fishnet stockings to give your man a private dance. But not for going to a cafe
- Don't overload yourself with accessories. If your dress has a colorful floral print, then your shoes and bag should be of restrained shapes and colors. If, on the contrary, the dress is monochromatic and very simple in cut, then complement the look with accessories
- Be age appropriate. This does not mean that if you are 50 years old, then you should dress in a robe that most of your peers wear. But it would also be inappropriate to wear youth sneakers
How to choose clothes
IMPORTANT: Everything in clothing should be moderate and appropriate
She's too attached to you
You should be alarmed if a girl from the very first days endlessly shows you signs of attention, wants to hug and kiss every minute and is sad as soon as you leave the room. Such tenacity on the part of a friend indicates that, most likely, while you are in a relationship with her, you will have to forget about such a concept as personal space. And if you want to spend the evening alone watching football, she may perceive this as a lack of sympathy and cause a scandal. Do you need it?
Make compromises
Being yourself doesn't mean you don't have to give in to anyone. On the contrary, a girl who has retained her individuality should appreciate the guy’s individuality and in no case suppress him. The entire system of relationships is built on this.
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Such balance can only be achieved by learning to give in to each other. The ability to find a compromise solution does not come immediately. It will take time before a guy and a girl learn to hear and understand their partner and to mutually give in.
Compromises are based on love, mutual respect and the desire to maintain relationships for the long term. Only couples who have learned to find compromise solutions can be truly happy, because each partner expresses his own opinion, which is heard and accepted by the other side.
For example, if at the beginning of a relationship a girl can make a claim to a guy if the birthday gift did not live up to expectations, then after a few years, having learned to understand her partner and appreciate his care, she will no longer become hysterical about this, but will be sincerely happy about this manifestation attention.
She's still in touch with her ex
Even if a girl claims that she and her ex are just good friends, this should make you worry. Any contacts with exes should be excluded, otherwise one day you may discover that the girl still loves another man, and you are just a kind of consolation for her.
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Sex
Well, what can I say - sex is sex, without it it is difficult to imagine a full-fledged relationship between a man and a woman, unless we are talking about friendly relationships that do not involve developing into a more serious relationship. But friendship between a man and a woman, you know, is a rare phenomenon in life, and not because this friendship itself is somehow wrong, but because people of different sexes are not always perfect for such friendship. So whatever you say, sex is our everything! Therefore, there should not be a shortage of sex; one of the basic human needs must be satisfied constantly. And this need must be satisfied beautifully, efficiently, and interestingly. But I don’t recommend doing any stupid things. There are women who blackmail their husbands with sex. These, friends, are very stupid women who themselves do not understand what they are doing. With these rash actions they destroy the foundation of family relationships - undermining self-confidence, showing disrespect for a man for whom a woman’s refusal to have sex is a great insult, and sowing hostility in their own home. No blackmail, be it sex or divorce, is acceptable for a normal relationship! If you don't want to live in a constant state of war with your partner, eliminate all blackmail from your life. Otherwise, do not rely on an unhappy fate when you find yourself at the “broken trough” to which you will lead yourself. Normal, regular sexual relations between a man and a woman are a prerequisite for a normal and lasting relationship between them. There is no need to idealize sex, as people with sexual disorders do; sex is not the main thing, it is one of the main conditions for normal relationships. Therefore, take into account each other’s desires to the extent you can, and try to satisfy them in a timely manner. No matter what anyone says, in most cases, problems with sex inevitably turn into problems in the relationship between a man and a woman, no matter how developed and advanced people they are. Consider this fact in your life.
She fusses and gossips
If a girl, for example, speaks badly about her colleagues and boss or comes up with excuses when her parents call her so as not to come visit them, think about whether this is the kind of life partner you want next to you? After all, it may well be that behind your back she speaks impartially about you, and if she says that she is sick and cannot come to you today, she will be lying.
Love
And finally, Her Majesty love! You know, dear readers, I could tell you a lot more about the relationship between a man and a woman, but let’s finish the discussion of this topic within the framework of this article, after all, with the most important thing - love. If she is love, there is, then all of the above and much more, on which the relationship between a man and a woman depends, will be in perfect order. If you love a person, you will try to do everything for him! And if not, then no advice will help you. No psychologist can help, much less make you fall in love with a person; love starts in your heart and then reaches your mind. Therefore, you must not only feel, but also understand whether you love a person or not. If you love, then this is good, it means that you will do everything for your relationship with him, the best that you are capable of. As for him or her, let them decide for themselves how and with what to respond to your love. You won’t be nice by force, so don’t demand that people love you in return. And in general, listen to the advice of one wise man who once told me that the main thing is not that you love, but that you are loved! If they love you, then you will love someone who sincerely loves you - with bright and pure love, provided that you love not only with your heart, but also with your mind. And also provided that you are generally capable of loving someone other than yourself. For true love, friends, you need to grow up. After all, an immature, essentially childish mind is selfish, while a mature and developed mind is capable of thinking not only about itself, but also about others. We are too selfish beings, so when we are not developed enough intellectually, it is unusual for us to think about other people, we think only about ourselves. Relationships based on this selfishness will not be strong, they will lack true love - sacrificial love. But when you appreciate with your heart and mind the feelings of another person for you and are able to love him because he loves you, then you will have real, great love, which will allow you to create strong and lasting relationships. Isn't this happiness, friends?
I sincerely wish you just such a relationship, based on pure and bright love, but not without natural flaws! I understand that these relationships will never be perfect, because both men and women, as was already said at the very beginning of this article, are different. Each person has his own shortcomings, which will inevitably determine his attitude towards other people. And in each specific case, the relationship between a man and a woman will have its own characteristics. However, by adhering to the advice I have given you in this article, you, dear readers, will be able to avoid many unnecessary mistakes, neither for you nor for your relationship, because of which these relationships may suffer. A man and a woman are different parts of a single whole. And when they live together, they should complement each other, not fight each other for dominance, for the opportunity to ride on the other’s neck, but rather complement each other, when one puts one thing into the relationship, and the other another. Then such relationships will be strong and durable.
