The psychology of men has remained virtually unchanged since the primitive times. A logical mindset, straightforwardness, the role of hunter and breadwinner - these are the psychological traits that distinguish representatives of the stronger sex from women, regardless of the era. It is generally accepted that men are rude creatures, and they are not characterized by subtle emotional experiences. If you look at it, this is not entirely true.
Male psychology
Secret one: mistakes
Everyone makes mistakes in life, but not everyone admits them. Most guys apologize if they feel guilty towards their loved one. In other cases, they are happy to find the culprit: a neighbor, a dog, or a casual acquaintance.
The main reason is to appear perfect, even in the presence of guilt. At such moments, you should not point out errors, otherwise the chosen one may live up to the worst expectations. The husband’s psychology is structured in such a way that he will not agree with his wrongness. Therefore, the wife can assess the situation from his point of view or insist on her own. In the first case, it will give strength to the spouse. He will begin to strive to realize his hopes and will certainly achieve success.
Reasons for refusing marriage
Many female representatives are concerned with the question - why don’t men want to register their marriage? The answer is quite simple. Young people take special responsibility in choosing their chosen one. Especially if the man had many girls. Most guys don't want to get married in order to maintain their freedom. Many are satisfied with such a life, and they do not strive to start a family. In this case, the girl should think about such behavior of her partner.
There are situations when relationships last a long time and a man is in no hurry to propose to his lady. The reason may be domestic problems and lack of financial resources. However, in most cases, young people simply do not want to limit their freedom by marriage. It is worth taking a closer look at your partner and reconsidering the value of the relationship.
Aspects of the male psyche
You can draw conclusions from the man’s conversation. If “we” comes up more and more often instead of “I,” then this is a clear sign of falling in love. The amount of time devoted to a woman also matters. The longer it is, the deeper his feelings. When he prefers to stay late at a bar with friends, go fishing or do meaningless things, instead of paying attention to a girl, you should be wary. This shows disinterest.
In this case, most ladies make a big mistake: they try to remind themselves by calling and writing to their lover. This will push him away even more.
Nowadays everything is different
Nowadays, a woman has taken on a difficult task - she creates a family, gives birth and raises children, while still managing to build a career. This fact makes the task of realizing a man and his tasks through a woman difficult to achieve. A woman is unable to inspire and support a man, to give him her energy, when she herself is overwhelmed, and she still needs to clean the apartment, check her homework and cook dinner. Yes, it's a difficult situation.
In my opinion, there is only one way out. The man brings the bulk of the income to the family, and the woman must choose a job she likes, doing what she likes. Work and enjoy it. Thus, while working, she will not waste her energy in vain. Receiving satisfaction from the process, on the contrary, she will increase her energy and strengthen it when returning home.
The main function in the family, no matter what, should remain the male energy that a woman gives. This flow must flow continuously, without obstacles, transforming from one type of energy to another. A woman must find balance in life and be able to turn her responsibilities into a source of inspiration. Otherwise…
Sign language
The gesticulation of men says a lot about deep sympathy. In a conversation, they use much fewer movements, so it is easier for the weaker half to understand the guy’s psychology. It is not necessary to memorize them. The main thing is to perceive them comprehensively. The interlocutor often looks into the eyes of his chosen one, periodically glancing at her lips - this is a sign of his interest and affection.
When walking next to a woman, he places his hand on her shoulder or waist. This means that the partner values the beloved. If your partner allows you to use his adult “toys,” which he carefully protects: he allows you to drive a car or use an expensive computer, this means he has serious plans for you.
Quarrels are also a good sign. An uninterested person will not show emotions and feelings. He will swear only if he has a desire to connect his life with you. But if during a conversation he suddenly leaves, then a clear lack of interest is visible.
The transition from thoughts to action in everyday life indicates that the guy is thinking about creating your future. This applies even to small things: buying a vacuum cleaner or fixing a faucet.
Another important aspect is conducting daily affairs with your companion. Cleaning or cooking together is a serious step for the stronger sex. By signing up for my personal consultation, you learn to recognize these and other gestures. You will also understand how to interpret them correctly. Despite the fact that female and male psychology in relationships differ, a wise woman will take all the secrets she has learned into account in order to further win the heart of her chosen one and build a strong family.
Types of men
Men are divided into several types. The first are the avid males, who have maximum confidence and high self-esteem. They have extraordinary charm, charisma, and a sense of unsurpassed leadership. Men of this type have many fans. Usually they don't have to do anything to win girls. Every woman dreams of building a relationship with such a man. However, he does not tend to change his character, and he will have enough mistresses throughout his life.
Another type includes men who depend on girls. They strive to build long-term relationships and start a family. They treat their chosen one excellently. They try to please the girl in everything and constantly take care of her. Male psychology is a rather complex science. We need to understand what kind of man we have in front of us and what he wants in a relationship.
Behavior towards girls
If you know the basic features, you can significantly reduce the number of conflicts. One of them is silence when a quarrel is brewing. Many girls regard this as insult or anger. But at this time the partner is simply thinking about a plan of action.
But this applies not only to conflict situations. The difference between a man and a woman is that the former have the ability to act, while the latter have the ability to feel. Therefore, the stronger sex does not always perceive our feelings and emotions. In addition, they are distinguished by their straightforwardness, which is why they do not understand the most obvious hints. Therefore, you should not make an offended face or change the intonation in your voice in order to convey your indignation to your companion. It is better to express the insult in words. Another feature of male psychology is the “hunter” instinct. They need to conquer, go to the goal and achieve it.
Psychologist Daria Milai
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Male and female: main differences
Regarding the differences between masculine and feminine principles, psychologists identify a number of features. They determine the following perception of the surrounding world:
- Regarding orientation in space, girls cope with the task worse than guys. It is more difficult for ladies to adapt to the situation.
- Women have a developed sense of smell. They capture more odors and determine contrast.
- Regarding vision, men see better. Representatives of the fairer sex distinguish more shades. They see with peripheral vision.
- Pain sensations are more acute in girls due to the greater number of receptors responsible for pain. However, the pain goes away faster.
- Women's perception is subject to stress, panic, and anxiety. Regarding emergency situations, the girl will be confused, the man will remain sober. Representatives of the fairer sex are afraid of sudden changes.
- Sexual perception is also different. For example, 4-5 minutes of sex is enough for a man to get pleasure. A woman needs at least 20 minutes to achieve orgasm. After orgasm, the hemisphere of the brain responsible for creativity is activated.
How a man chooses his beloved
Guys take their choice of life partner seriously. Popular signs are:
- attractiveness;
- well-groomed and radiant appearance;
- character averse to scandals;
- the ability to create home comfort and surround your beloved with care.
These are quite feminine traits that are appreciated by most gentlemen. Therefore, girls with the above characteristics will always enjoy the attention of others.
Age characteristics
The man is going through several crises. Stressful situations pass without a trace or force representatives of the stronger sex to change. During a crisis, a man’s condition, habits, and behavior change. The companion should remain calm and support the guy regarding difficult moments.
Regarding the ratio of ages and attitudes towards women, the following groups of men can be distinguished:
- Boys 20 years old. They don't understand girls well. The testosterone hormone that overwhelms the body forces guys to consider only the appearance of the fairer sex.
- Representatives of the stronger sex are 20–30 years old. They are going through a period of career growth and development. The guy chooses a companion who provides support in difficult situations.
- Thirty-year-old men begin to think about having children. They pay attention to the health of their companion.
The male psyche: how feelings manifest themselves
It’s easy to understand that your chosen one really loves you. Observe his reaction in the following cases:
- Showdown. During a quarrel, the partner will not leave the conversation, but will remain to indicate the reasons. If he's interested in you.
- Getting to know his close circle – parents and friends. The guy values his friendships, so he won’t introduce everyone to the company, much less to his family.
- Everyday situations. If your gentleman helps with chores around the house, this indicates his plans for the future.
Among other things, joint shopping trips, purchases, gifts mean serious intentions.
A man is a hunter by nature
How to fall in love with a man? Play the role of the prey and let him be the hunter. Don't be intrusive, keep some mystery, but don't go too far with inaccessibility.
Should you call a man if he is missing? There is no exact answer to this question, since it is necessary to proceed from a specific situation. A person could lose their phone, get sick, or go on a business trip.
There are also other options: the man stopped liking you, he was afraid of responsibility, etc. You won’t know the real reason until you contact the object of interest. It’s better to call yourself than to suffer from the unknown.
These are the tips for those who want to understand men. Don't forget about the differences in psychology and perception of the world between different sexes. A frank conversation will help clarify all problematic issues.
Original article: https://www.nur.kz/family/relationship/1814370-psihologia-muzcin-znania-kotorye-pomogut-mudroj-zensine/
Adviсe
There is an opinion that a man treats a woman as she allows him to do so. But when examining the details, it turns out that this is wrong. You can't change guys radically, but the little things are worth a try. This should be done in the initial stages, when the chosen one is at the stage of falling in love and is ready to please his companion in every possible way.
If the girl comes to her senses later, she will have to come to terms with her shortcomings and accept her lover as he is. However, in most cases, the actions of partners depend on upbringing and character. For example, if a wife asks her husband to take out the trash, he may answer that in his family the father did not do this.
Talk about nothing
Talking about anything is incomprehensible to a man. A woman can talk for a long time about a friend’s new dress, about a colleague’s vacation in Bali, about the Petrov’s renovation. She dreams out loud and this makes her feel better, while the man perceives all the information with bewilderment. “Does he want a new dress? I would say so,” he thinks.
A man does not understand the meaning of a woman’s emotional word mixer; he needs simple answers to questions. The trouble with women is that they speak in hints and believe that all men are telepaths and should guess what they want to say. This is nonsense. Women, if you want to be understood, learn to clearly express your thoughts and voice them.
A simple example.
She:
— Inga and Vadim submitted an application to the registry office.
He:
- Great, let's go for a walk at the wedding.
For him, this is ordinary information, nothing more. For her, there is a hidden subtext: “When will we?” Not receiving the expected reaction, the girl is offended, cries and wonders if he really didn’t understand what she wanted to say. As trivial as it is, he didn’t understand, he only heard what you said. If you want to be understood, learn to formulate your thoughts clearly.
Psychology of men's behavior in love
When you first meet, a guy is unlikely to think about serious connections. Otherwise, they are not a priority. Therefore, the stronger sex is quite happy with meetings that do not imply obligations. You can seize male territory smoothly and without harsh statements. Since your demonstration of rights to his heart can act as a stop signal for a gentleman.
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Boasting
Men's psychology in relationships with women is often determined by “spreading dust.” A source of pride is a new car, a successful career, the number of books read. The admiration of young ladies gives strength to the stronger sex, “inspires” and motivates them to new exploits. A simple guy feels like a superhero who has the ability to solve every problem.
This happens on a subconscious level, because everyone tries to surprise their companion and be the best in her eyes. In this sense, he is like a child. Therefore, you should not cut off your sense of greatness, but believe in its possibilities.
Straightforwardness
Women strive to get pleasure from communication, while guys want the necessary information. They take what they hear literally, but hints and veiled phrases are not for them.
To reach gentlemen, you need to speak directly. This is the path to mutual understanding in the family. Many people believe that their partner should read their thoughts and guess their desires on their own. They imagine how he will act in a specific situation, and when the companion does everything his own way, they are disappointed. This causes a response from the stronger sex - temper and indignation. Therefore, girls who express their requests as clearly as possible make the task easier for both their husband and themselves.
Masking emotions
The psychology of male behavior is built on restraining feelings. A real man should not take out his feelings on his loved ones. Difficulties at work or other obstacles will make him withdrawn.
Women at this moment act according to two scenarios. They may become self-absorbed, imagining worst-case scenarios. As a result, the chosen one has a new problem. The second option is that the girl arranges an interrogation, trying in every way to find out what the matter is. I advise you to wait out the storm that has washed over your husband and not allow the behavior described above.
Appeal
When a woman loves, she takes pleasure in taking care of a man, feeding him delicious food, and taking care of his clothes. When her beloved is happy, she is in a good mood. But sometimes a woman goes too far, starting to treat a man like a child, especially in public. “Pusya”, “cat” is not the best way to address an adult man, because anyone imagines himself as a tiger and is ready to bite off the hand that feeds him. But this is a man’s nature - he is the breadwinner and the owner.
It is important for a man that a woman sees him as strong and listens to him. He expects that what is said will be done right away, although for women “now” can drag on for a long time; one must not only “think”, but also tune in to completing the task. The man doesn’t need to “tune in”, he’s precise: they said it, they did it. Therefore, when a woman does not do something right away, it causes confusion, although the problem is easy to solve. I need to tell my husband, partner, friend that it is impossible to do “now”, but when I cook, clean up, return from the store, I will definitely do it.
When a man is about to talk to a woman about business, two different views on life are included. A man offers a solution to a problem and wants to hear either an alternative option or approval, but not emotional feelings about this. Therefore, if a man wants to talk about a problem, the woman must be given the instruction: “Let’s talk about business,” and then she will be able to control her emotions while dealing with a specific task.
Association by company
The herd instinct is determined at a subconscious level. Basic principles of group distribution:
- Age interests. They have a lot to talk about, given the temporal and cultural connections.
- General hobby. This includes fishing, cars, hunting and sports.
- Uniting against the enemy. Here there is intolerance towards a certain course of life with an increased sense of justice.
The girl may not be happy with the fact that her lover is away for a long time. You can come to terms with this by doing business in his absence. Or try to infiltrate the team.
Herd instinct, or the Sixth rule
The herd instinct is not a relic of the past; it still drives modern representatives of the strongest half of humanity and is manifested in the male desire to unite in companies. There are three signs by which men join groups.
The first is by age. People of the same age have something to remember, because their childhood passed at the same time and the culture of this period will always be close to them.
The second is based on interests. The direction of men's interests can lie in any area.
The third is based on the presence of a common enemy. These groups have the highest levels of adrenaline and testosterone and the most intolerant attitude towards life, often coupled with a heightened sense of justice.
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In each men's group, there are topics in which our boys show the most reverent interest. Sex, sports and/or politics are what occupy the heated minds of men when we are not around.
If you are not happy that a young man spends too much time in company, you can either enter his environment and become part of the group, or accept frequent absences from friends as personal space and calmly go about your business. You can enter the closest circle of your loved one by adopting the following settings:
- The first is that your man has great company.
- Second, you like the place where they gather.
- Third, we talk about the desire to meet and chat with his friends. If we get a refusal, we return to point three in a couple of days or weeks.
- Fourth - his friends are your friends!
"The Dying Swan"
There are times when you need to treat a guy with special care. There is no more defenseless person than a sick person. All this goes towards his upbringing: the boy is taught that during illness the world revolves around him. But this is a great moment for the fair sex to show off their advantage. Making hot broth or raspberry tea, care and attention will do the trick. The satellite will quickly get to its feet.
How to read the psychology of men
Their main goal is self-affirmation. In an effort to achieve this, they can push even their relationship with their beloved into the background. Difficulties on the way to the top of a career, problems at work can provoke a partner’s withdrawal. During this period, the lady's rational behavior will be an excellent motivation for achieving success.
Some tips on how to understand a guy's psyche:
- Do not interrogate or meddle in your companion’s affairs unless asked to do so.
- Do not criticize his actions, since a kind word is perceived positively, unlike reproaches.
- Provide support in difficult situations.
- You shouldn't show your superiority.
Men won't admit weakness and won't ask for help.
From childhood, a man is taught that he should be the head of the family, a breadwinner and a strong personality. Boys are shamed when they cry and show emotion. As a result, an adult man gets used to keeping everything to himself.
If a guy can’t cope with something, it’s difficult for him to admit it. He will never ask for help, especially from a woman who is weaker than him. This is male psychology and education.
Psychologist N.I. Kozlov advises women:
- If a man asked for help, then he needs it. Do as he asks. Act gently, tolerantly, and do not criticize or nag the man under any circumstances.
- If a man doesn't ask for help, don't impose.
Support your loved one in his decisions and accept his position. Let your man feel and know that you believe in him and will support him in any situation.
Recommendations
Listen to my following rules:
- Listen carefully to your companion, share his interests.
- Smile more often, laugh at his jokes.
- Don't forget to give compliments.
- Don't be intrusive, control your emotions and try to be grateful.
- Love yourself, take care of your appearance and be diverse.
- Keep quarrels to a minimum, support your partner and do not focus on mistakes.
Steps to conquering a guy
Girls in love should smile at their chosen one more often, listen to him carefully, and be interested in his inner world. It is important to be sincere, but remain a mystery. Smile more
An affectionate smile, intended only for the chosen one, will seduce him more than overt sexuality. Especially in a crowded place, a guy will like that the girl smiles only at him. In a large company, he will feel a connection with the girl and trust her.
Listen carefully
Whatever your lover talks about, it is important to listen to him with interest. You cannot interrupt, even if he says predictable things. The guy will appreciate this trait.
Laugh with him
The sincere simultaneous laughter of two people unites them. It's a good sign if the girl and her boyfriend have a similar sense of humor. And if he himself is trying to cheer up the girl, it’s worth supporting him with your laughter. This flatters the stronger sex. It is worth considering that outright pretense will be visible.
Praise him
Men love to show off their achievements to ladies. This “spilling dust” is part of the mating games. He can be proud of his car, his career growth, and the books he has read. Delight in a girl's eyes motivates a man. At such moments, an ordinary guy seems like a superhero, capable of coping with any difficulty. Compliments and sincere attention from a girl “inspire” men. You should not be skeptical around your lover, even if his dreams sound implausible.
Accept gifts
It is important to appreciate the gifts of your chosen one and not take them for granted. A man likes to see a woman's delight and gratitude. Let even a small gift from him become a holiday. He will also appreciate non-trivial or simply sincere gifts from his beloved (scarf, poem, convenient thing for the car). He will be flattered by the concern.
Be interested in his hobbies
It is worth asking your loved one about childhood, school adventures, and favorite toys. He must mentally relive his best moments while being next to the girl he likes. This recommendation is suitable for both the initial stages of a relationship and for a mature couple. Indifference leads to separation even after 20 years of living together. It is worth studying the young man’s hobbies: get acquainted with a couple of his favorite books and films. It is better to invite him to enjoy these works together.
Keep it a mystery
Guys lose interest in the “open book” that is always there. You shouldn’t open up right away and be intrusive. A slight understatement excites men.
Don't push or control!
Containment of feelings is considered a basic male trait. Men rarely take out their emotions on their family. Work troubles or other problems make a guy withdrawn. Typical reaction of girls: just shut down and beat yourself up; arrange an interrogation. Both options tire a man. He has an additional problem. It is better to let him go through a difficult moment without disturbing him. When the situation improves, you can unobtrusively ask about what happened.
And if a man decides to open up, you shouldn’t ask questions or criticize his decisions. It is better to support your partner with words and affection. Giving advice is not recommended (unless he asks). A woman’s attempts to assert herself and instructive intonations will be perceived aggressively by her partner.
A woman's need to constantly see her partner often leads to a breakup. He should have his own hobbies outside of the relationship. You should not try on the role of your partner’s mother (constantly calling, asking about his diet, reminding him to take medications). Such dependence frightens men; even the woman they love quickly gets bored. It’s better to pursue your own interests and discuss each other’s achievements in the evening.
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How to understand if a man needs you: practical tips and warnings
Be punctual
Guys lose their positive mood after a couple of hours of waiting. The stereotype that a lady should be slightly late is outdated. You should respect your partner’s time, he will appreciate it.
Don't advertise it to your friends
Guys are afraid of their companions, who tell their friends all the secrets of their personal lives. The girlfriends' experiences will still be different from those of other couples. It is worth dealing with difficulties without strangers.
Become his type of girl
You can try to become a lady of “his type”. It is necessary to analyze the types of his online girlfriends and real acquaintances. These can be noisy, bright and athletic women or quiet, vulnerable girls. There is no point in playing these traits - your partner will notice the falseness. But you can cultivate some positive qualities in yourself. Or you can simply change the external image.
Be yourself no matter what!
For the sake of a declaration of love, you should not remake your personality. The desire to be comfortable is not valued by anyone. Constant play will tire both the girl and the partner. It's worth accepting your imperfections. Loving yourself and emphasizing your “highlights” makes a lady more attractive. Love for small flaws brings each other closer.
Feminine behavior
Guys like to look at their chosen one in a feminine outfit. They are sure that a girl looks more elegant and sexier in skirts, dresses and high heels. Makeup should correspond to the girl’s age (cosmetics often age a woman). Guys like the "natural" look.
For guys, the concept of “femininity” also means a refusal to curse, competent, calm speech, and the absence of habits that are harmful to health. Most men will only like a swearing lady with a cigarette as a friend. If it’s hard to give up dangerous habits, you should hide them at least in the first meetings.
The look of a feminine lady is seductive, intriguing, slightly cunning. It’s better not to look “point-blank”, but to smile and give the man a short, warm look.
Take the first step!
According to studies of the psychology of men in love, the stronger sex sometimes expects the first step from the chosen one. You can go to the guy’s favorite place and approach him. You can “accidentally” bump into a stranger you like, get confused, smile tenderly and say: “I thought we knew each other.” After a negative answer, you need to smile timidly and introduce yourself. You can arrange the return of a “lost” small item (pen, lighter). You need to ask, smiling, whether this item belongs to him. At the same time, it is important to look stunning.
The importance of gait and posture
With a graceful gait, only the legs move. The hips move smoothly up and down rather than left and right. You should step on your entire foot, and not mince on your toes or rest on your heels. After each step, your knees should be fully straightened. These are the components of an easy gait. It creates the impression of elegance and grace.
Be useful to each other
Let the girl have something that her lover will need: support, experience, valuable information, skills, things. If your chosen one has a cold, you can pack a mini first aid kit (basic medications, napkins) into your purse. We need to offer him a remedy if he needs it. This is a good reason to get acquainted or get closer.
He will also want to be useful. You need to allow the guy to help himself and thank him affectionately. Men like to feel important.
Feelings or sex
The psychology of men often comes down to the priority of intimate connection. Of course, love also occupies an important position, but not in the first stages of dating. This is due to instincts that even the most intelligent cannot cope with. At the same time, the spiritual part and physiology do not always represent a single whole. Serious intentions can be understood by the behavior of the companion. In this case, he shows concern and waits for a response, tries to achieve mutual understanding and appreciates the devotion of the chosen one.
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Relationships from a male point of view
When meeting a girl, young people expect a fleeting romance. Guys initially lack the desire to create strong and long-term relationships. They don't strive to marry the first pretty girl. Men, according to their nature, tend to sympathize with many ladies. They try in any way to preserve their freedom. However, there are men who are ready for a long-term relationship. Young men quickly win girls. To build a strong relationship, every girl should keep a man at a distance in intimate terms. Otherwise, the relationship may end in a fleeting infatuation.
A little about betrayal
Women themselves push men to be unfaithful. It so happened that they made intimacy a kind of bargaining chip. This is how they reward their partner and deprive her as a form of punishment. But such attempts at manipulation can end badly.
Another point is everyday life. The stronger sex also loves the attention of others. Living together forces spouses to get used to it, and interest slowly fades away. And a pinch of admiration from a stranger can rip off your companion’s head.
There is a category of young people who love risk. It is he who forces them to cheat, since this is accompanied by a feeling of danger and adrenaline. Moreover, intrigue with a large number of ladies increases self-confidence. There is also the psychology of male hunters, for whom a woman is prey, she must behave like an unsolved mystery and maintain the interest of her chosen one.
Signs of male love
Signs of true love
The main task of male psychology is to preserve one’s own emotions. A loving man does not make frivolous speeches about love. He proves his feelings with certain actions. He tries to spend a lot of time with his girlfriend. With his behavior, he can cause dissatisfaction on the part of his friends. Men don't like to choose between work, friends and lover. They should not be limited to certain limits and deprived of freedom.
Young people who experience true love try to quickly find ways of reconciliation during every quarrel. They don't shirk responsibility. We are ready to listen to any criticism from the girl so that reconciliation occurs as quickly as possible. They help solve all everyday problems and offer the girl to live with them. They respect any of her requirements for housekeeping and creating cozy comfort.
What should the fair sex do?
Don't be selfish. Every person needs attention and care. And the partner, in turn, wants to be the best for his companion. Therefore, you should not suppress these aspirations, reproach and criticize your spouse. Support, a kind word or pleasant memories can often accomplish the impossible.
Your actions
Often it is men who clearly understand what they need from a relationship. Whereas young ladies cannot determine their desires, simultaneously building suspicions about the intrigues and betrayals of their chosen one. Signing up for my consultation will help you get rid of obsessive thoughts. Together we will identify the root of your problem and find the right solution.
A few more recommendations for girls:
- get out of the habit of being sarcastic and touchy;
- look for common ground;
- know how to listen and understand your partner;
- don't try to dominate;
- make him feel like a hero.
The advice is aimed at preserving the guy’s important feelings: self-esteem and respect from others. This is what helps them be strong and successful.
Stages of love development
Most couples go through the same stages of developing feelings. Stages of relationship formation:
- attraction (physical – for men, intellectual – for women);
- uncertainty (the stage of doubt; a partial weakening of interest is natural; you should be patient, wait it out, don’t panic);
- a conscious need to be the only ones (this is a strong desire to move forward together; partners begin to plan the future together);
- spiritual intimacy (full trust arises; partners open their souls; you should not show your loved one all the complexities of your character);
- engagement (the first step towards formalizing the relationship; if the couple is not stable enough, new unexpected difficulties may appear at the marriage planning stage; this leads to the end of the relationship or the transition to the next level).
