There are people under whose gaze one becomes awkward and uncomfortable. Their gaze literally pierces right through you: decisive and focused, it is so strong that it is barely bearable. Such people can easily influence and even subjugate those around them to their will. It is known that a person receives most of the information from the surrounding world with his eyes, but not everyone knows about the reverse process. But if you can receive information with your eyes, then it can be transmitted with your eyes. And this is a fact. There is colossal power hidden in the eyes, capable of much that goes beyond the standard understanding of the world.
Sometimes it happens that you look at someone, and he immediately notices it and immediately looks back. The feeling of slight pressure in the occipital area is familiar to many. In this case, American scientists even conducted an experiment in which over a hundred people took part. They checked how likely it is that a person is able to sense a view from behind. And 95 percent of the participants, blindfolded, quite clearly felt someone else's gaze on them. Therefore, if you can “touch” a person with your gaze who does not suspect anything about it, it means that through their eyes people can emit certain energies.
Eyes are perhaps one of the most powerful means of influencing both people and animals. People are capable of not only attracting and holding attention with just one glance, but also of charming, bewitching, instilling fear, sending illnesses, and transmitting both negative and positive emotions. Such abilities are usually attributed to magicians and sorcerers, however, as everyday life shows, they are available to almost everyone, only in the latter case they are used unconsciously. If a woman has a magical look, then she always attracts attention from the opposite sex in particular, and if she wants, she can bewitch a man so that he will always be drawn to her. There is a separate area of psychology in which the power of gaze is actively used, this is hypnosis . A professional hypnotist, like a magician, is capable of instilling in the subject with his gaze a certain program of action, which he will carry out unconditionally. A motionless, hypnotic gaze focused on one point carries indestructible willpower with the eyes, muscles and nerves.
The magic of the hypnotist's gaze extends not only to people: this is also possible among animals. The magical properties of the gaze are attributed to snakes: cases have been recorded when monkeys themselves went into the “embraces” of a boa constrictor, “caught” by its hypnotic gaze. In addition, humans can also affect animals. For example, in the first half of the 20th century, the then famous trainer V.L. Durov showed more than once how, under the influence of his magical gaze, the animals carried out all his commands, but as soon as he looked away, they immediately “returned” to themselves. He carried out many laboratory experiments, successful in most cases. It is important to note that such experiments were carried out not only by the trainer himself, but also by others who knew this technique and achieved success. He explained it this way:
I look through my eyes, as if into the dog’s brain, and imagine, for example, not the word go, but a motor action that the dog must perform...
In principle, this method is within the power of almost anyone who is able to concentrate their thoughts. This way you can program both animals and people.
So, the power of the gaze can be great, and it depends on who owns it where it will be directed: for good or for bad deeds. Some people are capable of causing conscious harm to those whom they look at with evil thoughts: suppressing the psyche, casting the evil eye, causing damage, or even killing.
View in gender relations
Gaze is of great importance in intersexual communication. Many women claim that they fall in love with a man after the first eye contact. If a man can withstand a woman’s persistent gaze, expressing his determination in it, in further communication she will unconsciously show more respect for him.
A woman’s look at a man is the primary test of his masculine qualities.
To quickly look away in such a situation and become embarrassed means admitting defeat. However, a woman must also be confident enough in her abilities to decide on such a test.
If the person you like averts your eyes, continue looking at him. If after this he looks at you again, this is a sure sign of sympathy. If at the same time a smile appears on his face, you can start the conversation without a doubt.
Which look is considered accidental and which is considered a conscious challenge? The normal time of eye contact, after which both people naturally avert their eyes, does not exceed 2–3 seconds. If a person looks at you longer, he probably has an interest in you.
Simple ways to protect yourself
It is no coincidence that people often cannot withstand the onslaught of a judgmental and reproachful look and often hide their eyes or turn away altogether. This way they avoid receiving the flow of negative energy and, accordingly, protect themselves. Therefore, the easiest way to protect yourself is not to look directly into the eyes of a person prone to anger and other negative emotions. As a last resort, it would be safer to look at the bridge of his nose or forehead. Then he most likely will not pay attention, unless he feels something subtly unpleasant and cold due to the fact that real contact with you will not happen, and most of the negativity will remain in him. Thus, the aggressor will harm only himself.
In order not to succumb to suggestion from the outside, do not look at the person continuously during a conversation, but glance to the side from time to time. This will give you the opportunity to maintain your thoughts and mental balance. Of course, it is almost impossible for an ordinary person to protect himself from the influence of real hypnotists, so it is better to avoid such people, not allowing the slightest contact with them.
There are special techniques and exercises that will help you protect yourself from third-party energy influences and protect you from other people’s thoughts and dangerous energy. For example: crossed arms or legs are the easiest way to protect yourself. When crossing, the dissipation of the flow of bioenergy of the body is limited, which protects it and prevents harm. Use this technique in a conversation with a potentially dangerous and unpleasant person.
You can also do the following mental exercise: visualization of a mirror shield . To do this, you need to imagine that you are obscured by a large shield with a mirror surface facing the unwanted interlocutor. And every time he tries to influence you, he will always receive a blow reflected by the mirror in response. As a result, all the negativity will return back to the one who sent it, and you won’t even feel anything bad.
View in the struggle for leadership
Gaze is the most powerful non-verbal method of influence. It can subjugate a person and determine the nature of your further communication. However, can it be called a tool - something that we can consciously use for our own purposes? Can a person’s will break the instinctive desire to avert his eyes under a persistent and unbending gaze?
In nature, the strongest male will also have the most persistent gaze. You can often see how a large animal, having met the gaze of a smaller representative of its own species, turns away, as if yielding and submitting to it. Body size, muscle mass, jaw size and other traits certainly influence the non-bloody determination of a dominant male. However, this is not enough.
A look is a sure sign of real strength, vital energy, the ability to fight to the end, the readiness to die in battle.
Man is a social being, so he is influenced not only by natural factors. This includes morality, ethics, and social status. Thus, a long gaze in culture may simply be regarded as incorrect behavior, and that is why a shy desire to look away will arise in us. However, the main factor influencing the persistence of the gaze is will. This is what can make your gaze your greatest psychological weapon.
The meaning of the definition of “languid gaze”i
According to Ozhegov’s dictionary, a languid gaze is usually called a gaze directed at an interlocutor and filled with languor. And here, as everyone already knows, it is precisely by languor that we subconsciously mean the point of highest pleasure, a feeling of sweet torment - languor and unfulfilled desires.
Synonyms for the phrase “languid gaze” are:
- Experiencing incomprehensible sadness;
- Gently tired;
- Relaxed;
- Filled with languor.
The importance of eye contact
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How else does our perspective influence communication? The following facts are known in psychology:
- People who make eye contact during conversations are perceived as more honest and open.
- Lack of eye contact in a dialogue is interpreted by us as a lack of interest.
- When speaking in public, a good speaker always looks around the audience to make eye contact with everyone. This makes his speech seem more convincing.
- Eye contact when meeting someone is extremely important. An open and good-natured look forms 30% of a person’s primary attitude.
- Quickly looking away during an acquaintance is read as instability of character and readiness to submit.
One thing follows from these facts: the strong-willed ability to hold gaze at the eyes of another person makes the image of the beholder stronger, more powerful and influential.
However, these rules cannot be called universal. Much depends both on the nature of the gaze and on the person. Someone will consider a long look as a sign of impoliteness, someone will start to get angry, someone will get scared.
It is necessary to maintain a balance of modesty and perseverance in the gaze, corresponding to the specific situation of communication with a person.
The main thing is not to provoke a defensive or negative reaction. You can subjugate a person to your will with your gaze by inspiring respect and demonstrating strong character, not aggression. The gaze should be calm, intent, without a shadow of pretense or shamelessness.
The power of the gaze: the gaze can be extremely dangerous!
Eyes are clearer than words, Words sometimes only obscure the meaning... And the look... Well, will it deceive the One who can read in it.
It has long been noted that a person can influence those around him with his gaze. A look can convey the whole gamut of feelings - love, hatred, contempt, regret, gratitude..... It is no coincidence that there are such expressions as “caress with a glance”, “a look gives goosebumps”, “admired look”, “arrogant look”.
From all this, the conclusion involuntarily suggests itself: the gaze has energy.
The gaze is a powerful force with which you can blind, charm, control and manipulate people. With a glance you can subjugate yourself, with a glance you can neutralize the hostile intentions of a person or an animal.
If you look at a person closely for a while, he will definitely feel it. Scientists decided to test this ability to feel someone else's gaze on them experimentally.
The experiment, in which 100 people took part, was carried out as follows. A person was seated in the center of the room, and a second person was seated behind him so that the subject could not see him. And this second one had to periodically look intently at the person sitting in front of him. If the subject felt the gaze, he spoke about it. The results were stunning. In 95 cases, people felt another person's gaze directed at them.
History has brought to us the names of famous personalities who possessed a special, magical look that people could not withstand and looked away. Caligula, Ivan the Terrible, Paul I, Hitler, Stalin possessed a heavy, bewitching gaze, which made many feel uneasy.
There are cases in history when people killed with the power of their gaze. In this way, members of the caste of hired killers that existed in Alexandria in the pre-Christian period dealt with undesirables. The look of a man who lived in Sicily in the mid-19th century had a similar feature.
The gaze of a person in a state of extreme emotional excitement, in a state of passion, is extremely dangerous. They knew about this in ancient times. That's why people were blindfolded before execution. By the way, the executioners who carried out the death sentence died very early, as a rule, before reaching the age of 40.
How do representatives of modern science feel about all this?
Research in the field of telepathy and biological radio communication was carried out by the Soviet scientist Kazhinsky (1890-1962). He put forward a hypothesis that the human eye not only sees, but also simultaneously emits electromagnetic waves with certain frequency characteristics.
The Nobel laureate in the field of physiology and medicine, Ronald Ross (1857-1932), shared the same opinion. The scientist conducted a series of experiments during which subjects were asked to use their gaze to influence a tiny magnetic needle suspended on a silk thread. And many managed to turn the needle with their eyes.
In 1989, Soviet scientists conducted a somewhat unusual experiment for those years, the purpose of which was to test the paranormal abilities of Anna Lokhatkina, a well-known healer in those years. She was asked to use her gaze to influence a laser beam passing through a hollow cylinder. A few minutes after the start of the experiment, a gray haze appeared in the cylinder, and a few minutes later the laser beam simply disappeared. It was at this moment that the device used to constantly monitor the healer’s eyes recorded a short-term sharp dilation of the woman’s pupils.
Based on a number of experiments and studies, a version was put forward that the main channel for transmitting eye energy is the pupil.
Even in the old days, it was believed that the size of the pupils was associated with vitality: a person who is full of life has larger pupils than those who are old or seriously ill. The pupils dilate when a person has a need for information, which is why they are dilated in children.
The pupils dilate at times of danger or stress, when a person needs as much information as possible to make a decision. The pupils narrow in a tired person who has lost interest in life, which also indirectly confirms the version that energy is transmitted through the pupil - the narrowing of the pupil prevents the outflow of energy reserves from the body.
Today in this area there are more assumptions and hypotheses than proven facts. One thing can be said with confidence - a person’s gaze, which is one of the main means of communication between people , can have both a beneficial effect and cause enormous and sometimes irreparable harm.
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What does a look filled with languor express?
A languid gaze directed at the interlocutor serves as a guarantee of the voluptuous bliss that is soon to come. He literally scatters sparks around himself, expressing a huge, irresistible desire. Half-covered ones, aimed at the interlocutor (the interlocutor - do not forget that representatives of the stronger half of humanity can skillfully use a languid gaze) contain an incredible amount of charisma and sexual energy. Eyes with pupils slightly dilated from an overabundance of emotions, directed directly into the eyes of the interlocutor, can work wonders.
In many cases, in order to achieve such an incredible effect, the look needs to be “moistened” a little. To do this, the following tricks are used, which are shared by experienced tempters and temptresses:
- Think about the possibility of upcoming sex;
- Awaken your passion.
By the way, despite all its tenderness and romance, a languid look is the prerogative of exclusively strong and self-confident people. Psychologists have even prepared a number of current recommendations on how best to instill confidence in your own abilities. There is nothing complicated here, you just need to constantly say (naturally to yourself) the following affirmations:
- I'm very sexy (sexy);
- I have unusually beautiful breasts (face, skin, butt, torso);
- All members of the opposite sex want me.
It is worth noting that simple “mumbling” is not enough here. You need to believe in all these phrases sincerely, with all your heart. Otherwise, you will not achieve either the languid look or the effect expected from it.
Personal quality languor3
It has long been quite rightly believed that not a single man’s languid gaze can leave a woman indifferent. Associated with a feeling of tired tenderness, the eyes are capable of penetrating through the heart in a split second and leaving an indelible mark there.
So what causes such an incredible action from a seemingly ordinary look? Everything here is incredibly simple. He expresses in himself not a daring impulse of animal passion, but a voluptuous feeling that promises long minutes of all-consuming bliss. Who will deny that this is exactly what all women, without exception, and a greater number of men dream of.
Depending on certain components of a person’s character, languor in his gaze may accompany him throughout his entire adult life, or may manifest itself only in certain cases.
In the eye of the beholder
Research also shows that eye contact shapes our perception of another person who meets our gaze. For example, we tend to perceive people who make more eye contact as smarter, more conscientious, and more sincere (at least in Western cultures), and we are more likely to believe what they say.
Of course, too much eye contact can also make us awkward conversationalists, and people who do this (stare without looking down) can seem creepy. In one study conducted at the Science Museum, psychologists tried to determine the preferred length of eye contact. They concluded that the average was three seconds (and no one, absolutely no one, preferred looks that lasted longer than nine seconds).
Secrets of the look with the veil5
In order to more colorfully imagine all the advantages that a woman’s languid gaze conceals, it is necessary to recall the beauties from Arab countries.
Considering that their entire body was hidden under a shapeless burqa, and it was completely forbidden to talk with unfamiliar men, it becomes clear that the power of their gaze remained their main, and sometimes only, weapon. And here, believe me, the beauties of the East knew how to drive men crazy, arousing in them an irresistible and all-consuming passion with their gaze.
This directly confirms the incredible power of the female gaze. For a long time now, the expression “languid gaze” has become a constant epithet in works of art with love themes. It is also used by experienced men sitting around the evening fire to describe their romantic adventures.
Not a single love story or romantic theatrical production can do without this expression. This gaze is characterized by such strong importance and loving drama that it is simply impossible not to notice it.
Create a languid look with sexy makeup6
All women who want to bolster their attack on the opposite sex should definitely become familiar with all the main aspects of sexual makeup, which, in fact, is a separate form of art. As a matter of fact, such “war paint”, available exclusively to women, guarantees that conquering men’s hearts does not take much of their time.
When it comes to sexy eye makeup, there is no limit to flights of fancy or perfection. Depending on her own mood, a woman can wear sexy makeup that emphasizes her languid gaze and tempting naturalness, and the appearance of a veil of erotic haze that saturates her eyes.
The most important thing here is not to be afraid of changes and boldly go towards experiments, making even your wildest and most daring desires come true.
Sexual traps8
Possessing a charming, languid gaze is not only the prerogative of catalog versions of sexy models.
Almost anyone can do it, the main thing is to want it. Often, sexual energy and the charisma of a languid look become much more important for males than their figure, face, hairstyle and other purely external, physical attractive features. In many cases, you can achieve much more results with a glance than you can achieve with a thousand words.
However, in order for the gaze to become effective, it is necessary first of all to maintain your internal state at the appropriate level. In any case, you must have self-confidence, passion and yearning. You need to learn to express all this with your eyes.
You can bring the effect of an ideal look to perfection by training in front of the mirror. This can be achieved using self-control and introspection. This way you can learn to control your facial expression when you have certain feelings and emotions.
