In our life you can often hear: “She is so cute!” And immediately the fair sex feels uneasy, especially those who dream of hearing such words about themselves and have never heard them. How can you become a nice girl in appearance and character, and at the same time be kind and calm? Or maybe it's one and the same?
On the one hand, cuteness, like beauty, is always purely individual. That is, for someone you will be sweet and dear, even if others seem rude and tactless, and someone will never assign you such a title. On the other hand, there are generally accepted canons of cuteness and who can be called cute.
Such a girl has distinctive features in appearance, character, voice, behavior, manners, habits, etc. She usually seems attractive to a large number of people.
Cute girl character
- To become sweet, you must first love the life around you, people and yourself. We must learn to be happy, find reasons for joy every day, and find inner harmony. Learn to be open to the world and happy with your life.
- A sweet girl is always friendly and benevolent towards all people, regardless of whether the person is familiar to her or not. She treats people with respect, does not gossip about them, does not try to pretend to be someone just to please them. A sweet girl knows how to carry on a conversation, is sincerely interested in people, and knows how to give beautiful compliments. She is always sincere. Of course, it is impossible to become like this in one day; you need to slowly change yourself and strive for these positive qualities.
- To be nice, you need to learn to be positive and smiling, but in moderation. No one will like a gloomy beech, but a constantly enthusiastic fool will not arouse sympathy either. We need to find a middle ground. Optimism and a sincere light smile should be present, but if the mood is really bad, there is no need to try to hide it by force - it will feel false, and it pushes people away. Just be calm in such moments, if necessary, be alone.
- Sweet girl is not afraid to laugh and be funny. Laughter is a powerful weapon; it helps to win people over, brings them closer together, and evokes sympathy. Laugh sincerely more often, don’t be afraid to make others laugh.
- Modesty is another important quality of a nice girl. A sweet girl will never walk around with an arrogant look, brag and do everything just to demonstrate that she is better than everyone else, while others are far from her. If a nice girl is smart and knows a lot, she will demonstrate this in the appropriate situation, but she will do it naturally and without the desire to show how cool she is. The opportunity to praise her sweet girl will be left to others. The modesty of a nice girl is also manifested in her manners of behavior and dress, we’ll talk about this a little later.
Transforming at 10 years old
There are several effective ways to become beautiful:
- After washing, wipe the skin with a cotton pad soaked in milk. The skin will glow white.
- After washing your hair, apply natural gel or hairspray and style it into any hairstyle.
- Lubricate clean hands with a drop of olive oil and there will be no pimples or cracks on them.
Now some cosmetics:
- Paint your nails with clear polish.
- Tint your lips with hygienic gloss.
- Apply some light shades of eyeshadow to your eyelids.
Cute girl behavior
How to be nice in relationships with other people?
- As we have already noted, the sweet girl is friendly towards others. This is manifested in a kind and warm look, a smile with which a sweet girl addresses another person. It is considered cute to look at another person with your head slightly lowered or slightly tilted to the side. There is no need to lift up the selections, as this will make the person look proud and arrogant.
- The sweet girl speaks in a soft, pleasant and feminine voice. She doesn't scream or swear.
- To become even sweeter in the eyes of others, you need to learn to smile and laugh modestly, and react correctly to awkward situations. There is no need to laugh loudly, opening your mouth with all your might and throwing your head back. A melodious and pleasant laugh will be much better. Sometimes, if you can learn it, you can cover your mouth with your hand when laughing. Just please learn to do it naturally! There are people who are used to laughing this way, and it looks very cute. If you have never laughed like that, but want to learn, be sure to make sure it looks natural. Watch yourself laugh. If you notice that your laughter is unnatural, it is better not to try to learn to laugh this way, otherwise you will look very stupid.
- A nice person is not prone to negativity, he does not wish harm to others, therefore he never participates in dubious events, does not humiliate others, or insults. With other people, a nice person behaves well-mannered and politely, and does not lose his dignity even in a conversation with a boor. A nice person is not angry or envious.
It's easy to transform at 12 years old
At the age of 12, annoying pimples may appear on the face. When making a marafet, it is important to take this nuance into account.
- After washing with the gel, wipe your face, neck and décolleté with a slice of lemon. The method will help reduce acne and refresh your complexion. After lemon, nourishing cream is a must!
- Make a mask from sour cream with a drop of olive oil. Don't forget to wash off with clean water without soap.
- Regularly lubricate your face with a moisturizing cream for young skin.
You can add cosmetics:
- Mascara for the ends of the eyelashes. For light eyes, you can use a blue tint.
- Lip gloss in light colors.
- Eye shadows in natural colors.
- There is a little blush on the cheeks, barely noticeable.
Appearance of a cute girl
To be truly nice, you need to work not only on your character and behavior, but also on your appearance, because, as we all remember, people are met by their clothes. What does a cute girl look like?
- The sweet girl is always clean, neat and tidy. She has clean beautiful hair, well-groomed skin, neat nails, etc. Personal hygiene must always be observed!
- She doesn’t dress in baggy or incomprehensible clothes, but she doesn’t look too open and vulgar either. A sweet girl will never wear a too short mini or a jacket with a very low neckline. She wears comfortable and beautiful clothes that fit, skillfully harmonizing those things that highlight her figure. She knows how to look beautiful and charming in her outfit without trying to make it too revealing.
- Cute girl doing natural hairstyles. She doesn't dye her hair thermonuclear colors, doesn't try to curl it like a doll or straighten it too much. She monitors the condition of her hair, prefers it to be natural, but not sloppy, so she combs it well, cuts it on time and styles it a little.
- The sweet girl does not overuse makeup, uses decorative cosmetics to a minimum to make her face a little brighter. For makeup, she chooses the shades that suit her.
- If we talk in general about the colors that a cute girl prefers to use for her appearance, then these will be soft tones. Calm and pleasing to the eye pastel colors and natural ones are what you need.
We've given you some tips on how to be a nice girl. I would also like to add a few important comments. Being nice does not mean being a holy angel, a nice girl also makes mistakes, she gets depressed, and she can also experience negative emotions in some situations. The difference is that a nice girl either hides her negative feelings or shows them, but gently, not aggressively. If she doesn’t like something, she won’t tolerate it to please others, but will calmly point out what doesn’t suit her, without causing scandals.
Also, don't try to be nice if it initially contradicts you. If you don't like the image of a cute girl, don't try to become one - no one will benefit from it anyway. You will feel uncomfortable, those around you will feel false, and they will be repulsed by it. In this case, be yourself and remember that there are many people, and everyone is different. There are also those who are more attracted to slightly rude girls, but like cute ones less. Everything is individual, so you shouldn’t suddenly change yourself to please others.
Use these simple rules
Rule #1. A girl should not play to the public, she should be natural. You shouldn't be too modest either. Rule #2. The most important thing to consider when talking is that a girl should be able to listen and not interrupt. Thus, she will not only not lose her charm, but will also arouse the interest of her interlocutor. If a girl learns to listen, then the interlocutor will also listen to her. Rule #3. A girl can be a very interesting and multifaceted personality.
This is precisely what may interest the interlocutor, and the girl in his eyes will look very charming and attractive. A girl should have some kind of “zest” that will interest a person. And if she is also interested in some kind of sport or creativity, then she can tell him about her hobbies. And if the interlocutor is interested in this, then the girl will be especially charming at this moment. Rule #9. How unpleasant it is to listen to a person who constantly complains about something and is always dissatisfied with something. A girl shouldn't complain about fate. Just like imagining that everything is fine with her, but in fact it’s the other way around. Rule #10. If a person criticizes himself and his actions, the girl must convince him of this. If he calls himself stupid, you need to make it clear that this is not at all true. Rule No. 11. If a girl knows how to admit her mistakes, then this is a very good and pleasant quality. Those around you will appreciate this quality and will treat the girl with great respect. There are few people who know how to admit their mistakes.
How to become cute?
Despite the fact that the image of a bitch is becoming increasingly popular among women, although it is attractive to the male half of humanity, it is only in the distant future. About ladies who are distinguished by their independence, bright appearance and emancipation, you often hear that you could get to know her, but, as a rule, it rarely comes to acquaintance. This is explained by the fact that women of this type have a frightening and, in a sense, even repulsive effect on the stronger sex. After all, winning the sympathy of a beautiful woman distinguished by her remarkable intelligence is quite difficult, and keeping her near you, withstanding the pressure of competitors, is even more difficult. That is why men prefer simply sweet and modest girls.
How to become cute and be the center of male attention? How can you learn to behave in such a way that men will love you and women will treat you favorably? Being nice is a huge advantage, because no one will be jealous of you, as happens with strong women. On the contrary, people will be drawn to you, because cute girls are wonderful daughters, girlfriends, and later wives.
It is generally accepted that a person can be judged by his behavior. Of course, the first impression is formed “by clothes”, i.e. by appearance. However, even the biggest shy person, thanks to her character, speech, and behavior, can be the soul of the party. In the same way, no appearance will help a smug and stupid girl take leading roles in the team.
In order to become nice, you need to learn to communicate with others without falsehood. Try to treat everyone kindly. Don't start your sentences with expressions that have strong negative connotations, such as “I'm terribly annoyed. ", "I just hate it. "and the like. Such expressions can turn people away from you. This does not mean that you should not express your dissatisfaction, just learn to do it softer and more tactfully.
Never engage in gossip. After all, in any society the attitude towards gossips is negative. Each of your friends will suspect you that behind her back you are washing her bones in the same way.
Watch your speech, diction, tone of voice. Your speech is of great importance. A pleasant and melodious female voice makes its owner more attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex. Try not to speak in a raised voice, and especially don’t break out into a scream - this will only push you away. And vice versa, everyone will try to listen more carefully to your measured, quiet speech. It goes without saying that your personal dictionary should not contain profanity or simply rude words.
Your gait, posture, and gestures deserve no less close attention. When walking, try to take small steps and avoid swinging your arms. Every move you make should be imbued with femininity. Don’t try to show off all your bulges, because it looks not only not beautiful, but also vulgar.
What else can help a girl with the question of how to become nice? Try to make sure you don't look vulgar. You should not use too bright makeup and cosmetics, and also do not allow hairdressers to conduct crazy experiments on your hair. A huge neckline and a practically non-existent skirt will also not help you. If your appearance is too revealing, it may make others wary of you.
Watch your appearance
Wear clothes that suit you
Always evaluate how things will look together
Beauty very often depends on how well things are chosen - before you leave the house, you need to take time and think about your appearance. And how you do it depends largely on your sense of style. But basic things like keeping your hair clean and styled, a few cute accessories, and dressing for your body type will help you look your best.
Comb your hair
Take time to do your makeup
Watch your posture
Confidence is indeed very attractive, and one of the easiest ways to express confidence in yourself is by improving your posture. Stand up, straighten your shoulders and look straight ahead (not at the floor). If you are sitting, try to resist the temptation to lean over the table. You can imagine that there is a string that runs from the top of the head down the spine, and this string must always be taut. You will be surprised how much better you will feel and look if you take care of your posture.
Beauty products for 13 years old at home
At the age of 13, the fight against pimples and comedones becomes relevant.
There are several effective ways to deal with this problem:
- Make a steam bath for your face. Add a little soda to the water. Wash with cold water and pat dry with a dry towel. The procedure will give freshness and glow to the skin.
- Wipe your face with diluted calendula tincture.
- Place gauze soaked in tea leaves on a clean face. Spread the tea evenly over the gauze. Keep for 20 minutes.
Now you can start cosmetics:
- Lightly dust your face with pearl powder. If your skin is dark, you should use dark-colored mineral powder.
- Apply eyeshadow to your eyelids. Barely noticeable and only natural shades. For example, beige.
- Mascara for the ends of the eyelashes.
- Lip gloss in light colors.
- Cover your nails with light varnish.
Be yourself
There is no right way to become attractive. It has been established that a person’s preferences are determined by his environment, experience and experiences. At the beginning of a relationship, people feel attracted to those who are similar to them. If you pretend to be someone you are not, you will not succeed. There are always those who love tattoos and those who are repulsed by them. Some people will love your grouchy personality, while others will find it annoying. Any trait can be attractive, just be a strong individual.
Any girl can look her best if she puts in the effort.
If you are reading this text to find new friends, attract the attention of a guy you like, or simply feel more confident, then the steps listed here will help you in any situation!
What does "femininity" mean?
After studying Ozhegov’s dictionary, you will learn that femininity is softness, tenderness, and elegance. Many people do not have these traits, while others deliberately refuse them. Example: a girl who dreams of getting married really wants to become feminine. A person who has 100 people under her command is trying to look confident and stern.
Wikipedia says that you can become feminine by having a number of certain qualities: tenderness, emotionality, fidelity, fragility, sincerity.
If you ask any man whether he likes faithful, gentle women, he will probably answer positively. Fragility and emotionality are less in demand. More often, a man looks at external attractiveness, which is part of femininity. Usually such girls evoke a feeling of awe and respect. They try not to swear in front of them; they want to protect them and show care.
Many of us understand that becoming feminine means gaining strength. Quality does not need to be artificially portrayed - it is given to women by nature, just learn to develop it.
Express methods for beauty in 5 minutes
Care without makeup
- Mix a teaspoon of baking soda with water. You can add fine salt. Gently massage your face with gentle movements for 2 minutes. Rinse off with warm or cool water.
- Wipe your face with lavender hydrosol.
- Add frankincense or myrrh essential oil to a natural face cream and apply to the face, neck and décolleté.
After such short procedures, the face will noticeably freshen and rejuvenate.
You can quickly become beautiful with cosmetics like this:
- Apply foundation or powder to your face.
- Cover your cheeks with blush.
- Eyeshadow of one natural tone on the eyelids.
- Apply gloss or lipstick to your lips.
Beauty secrets at 17 years old
At this age, you can try “adult” beauty products and experiment with makeup.
- Mix a teaspoon of baking soda and the same amount of salt with warm water. Use gentle circular movements to massage your face, especially the chin and nose area. This product will perfectly cleanse the skin and get rid of blackheads. Use with caution on thin, dry skin.
- Wipe your face with a cotton pad soaked in a decoction of chamomile or calendula.
- Brew ground coffee with a little water and massage your body. Pay special attention to your elbows.
- After a shower, apply jojoba oil to a damp body, adding a drop of orange essential oil.
At 17 years old, in addition to gloss, you can use lipstick:
- Apply foundation to your face that matches your skin color.
- On the cheeks - a little blush in discreet tones.
- Use eye shadow to match your eye color. You can try blue and lilac shades.
- Apply lipstick in natural shades – from pink to coral.
Beauty tips for 16 years old at home
16 years is the time to start systematic body and face care. The more regular the procedures, the greater the chances of keeping the skin in excellent condition.
- Soak a handful of oatmeal in warm water and apply this mixture to the skin of the face, neck and décolleté. For dry skin, you can soak the flakes in warm milk. Rinse off with cool water.
- Make ice cubes from mineral water and wipe your face for a minute.
- Add lavender essential oil to the natural cream.
- Add orange or juniper essential oil to natural body cream.
Beauty using cosmetics:
- Apply a foundation that matches your skin color to your face.
- Cover the eyelids with shadows of natural shades.
- Draw a thin brown line above the upper eyelid.
- Tint your eyelashes with brown lengthening mascara.
- On the lips – light shades of gloss.
Beauty at 15 years old at home is easy
At 15, you can make a breakthrough in makeup by taking a more daring approach. But you can’t do without facial and hair care.
- Brew a teaspoon of coffee with a small amount of water, drop olive oil into the resulting mixture and exfoliate your face. The same can be done with the body while bathing. Leave the mask on for 5-10 minutes and rinse thoroughly. The procedure will cleanse and polish the skin.
- Grate a fresh cucumber, apply to the skin of the face, leave for 20 minutes. Skin freshness is guaranteed.
- Make a mixture of honey, castor oil and Vaseline. Add one (!) drop of iodine to the resulting mixture and apply to the face. In 15 minutes it will shine with freshness and beauty.
- After washing, rinse your hair with chamomile infusion. You can add a little vinegar to the water.
On a clean and well-groomed face, a little cosmetics won’t hurt:
- Apply a transparent makeup base.
- Light blush on the cheeks, chin and tip of the nose.
- Line the upper eyelid with a brown or blue pencil (subtly).
- Apply eyeshadow in natural tones.
- Mascara for eyelashes.
- Lip gloss with a pink or coral tint.