Why does a husband yell at his wife? Looking for reasons
If your husband’s behavior has changed a lot, he cannot restrain himself in a conflict situation, he constantly screams, breaks down for any reason, try to understand why the quarrels begin. To do this, go back to the very beginning, analyze what you said or did before the corresponding reaction occurred. Do not blame yourself under any circumstances, the important thing here is simply to find the “seed” from which the quarrel grew.
The reasons for a husband's screams can be:
- problems at work;
- alcohol, drugs, gambling;
- psychological stress;
- fading of feelings;
- low self-esteem;
- age-related irritability;
- hereditary scenario.
If your loving and caring spouse suddenly starts screaming, it is quite possible that something is seriously bothering him. He may have problems at work or financial difficulties that he cannot tell you about. The causes of aggressive behavior may be the use of alcohol or drugs. Gamblers, alcoholics and drug addicts (if they cannot get what they need) behave inappropriately, overly aggressively, splashing out feelings of guilt and dissatisfaction on the people closest to them. If you are sure that all of the above reasons have nothing to do with your situation with your husband, then most likely the roots of your current problem are in the past.
If your husband grew up in a family where yelling was the order of the day, where father and mother resolved family conflicts and disputes only in this way, he cannot even imagine another scenario of behavior. Most often, a man repeats his father’s pattern of behavior unconsciously, even if he himself suffered from such relationships as a child and promised himself never to behave this way with his family in the future.
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Manifestation of screaming from husband
Sometimes a person is unable to control his feelings. Their appearance also depends on the temperament of the individual. There is not always an understanding of aggressive outbursts in a partner’s character. Because of this, after living together for a certain time, people face one problem or another. We are all different, which is why everyone’s reactions to extraordinary situations are individual.
