Love often faces difficulties. Sometimes you fall in love with someone who already has a partner. Some people believe that it is wrong to destroy other people’s relationships in order to achieve their own happiness. But there is another view: you have to fight for love. How to win a girl away from another guy if you have already decided to act?
Become her friend3
The more you learn about a girl, the higher your chance of winning her heart. First, try to make friends with her, become a close and important person to her. Don't show off your love interest prematurely. Try to act calm and confident around the girl.
No one should suspect that you are planning to take her away from the guy she is dating. Act only after you notice that the girl is ready to break up with her current partner for you. Signs that indicate this are listed at the end of the article.
How to "win" a girl away from a guy if you've never met her before
Now let's look at a situation where you fall in love with a girl who is already dating someone, and you really want to be with her.
Before we begin, I would like to immediately say that destroying someone’s union is not as easy as you think. Firstly, a couple can be happy with each other, and no obstacles, such as boys or girls in love from the outside, can cause a breakup.
Secondly, you have every chance of failing the task of charming a girl if you behave unceremoniously and go ahead. To please her, you need to have truly diplomatic communication skills and not overstep the boundaries of what is permitted.
Now we will tell you exactly how it works.
Show that she can trust you7
Be the friend to whom she can trust all her secrets. In any conversation, try not to judge her, but try to understand, and one day she will start telling you really personal things. Make it so that she can talk to you about any things - including those that she does not dare to talk about even with her friends.
If a girl trusts you enough, she will be willing to talk about her boyfriend and her relationship with him. You can use her frankness to take action at the right time. Plus, when things get tough in her love life, you'll be there to make her boyfriend look like a knight in shining armor.
How to steal a woman from a friend?
If we are talking about the fact that a man wants to beat off his friend’s girlfriend, it’s worth understanding this right away. If this person finds out (and he finds out sooner or later) that this man caused the breakup of the relationship and the girl’s departure, there will be no friendship.
Important ! It’s worth weighing the pros and cons, because girls come and go, but friends remain. If you still choose the path to go to the end, then the first thing you need to do is not consider the man as a friend. He becomes a rival, a hindrance, an obstacle.
An unspoken war begins, in which it is better for him not to know anything until the last moment, because then he will not have time to do anything.
Here are the basic tips that will help you beat off your friend's girlfriend:
- Be one step ahead of him always and everywhere.
- Don't forget that there is no friendship, there is only rivalry.
- Stay in the shade as much as possible.
- Unearth all the secrets of his past.
- Study your weaknesses and strengths.
- Be better than him in everything.
- Exploit his weaknesses, but not exploit them explicitly.
- Avoid his strengths.
- Show his girlfriend that he is indecisive, weak, incompetent.
- Indicate to the girl that a new man means new opportunities.
- Demonstrate that with you these opportunities are higher.
- Cause distrust between a friend and his girlfriend, drive a wedge between them.
- Point out to a girl the weaknesses and shortcomings of her boyfriend, but present it as a joke.
- Create a wall of misunderstanding between a girl and a friend; they should quarrel as often as possible.
- Become a vest for his beloved, so that after quarrels she runs to you to cry.
- Comfort her in difficult times.
- Being there when her boyfriend can't show her that you can easily replace him.
The video describes a working model of behavior with a girl in this situation:
Try to understand her in any situation8
People are always drawn to those who understand them well. Show the girl how important her feelings and thoughts are to you, how close they are to you. When she gets into trouble and asks you for advice, be there to give it.
This will make her turn to you every time she doubts something. She will get used to you, become attached and will value communication with you. Perhaps one day she will start consulting with you about her relationship, and you can turn this to your advantage.
How do you know if you have a chance?
It is quite simple to understand whether there is a chance; if a girl is interested in a man, then obviously she is thinking about him, which means that something in this man attracts her. Girls can secretly monitor pages, ask friends or girlfriends, this is also worth paying attention to.
Reference ! If all attempts at conversation come to naught or the girl is not at all interested in a man anywhere, it means that he is either not interesting to her, or she is still in a relationship in which she no longer needs anyone.
Picking up a girl is a complex and painstaking process that requires a thorough study of the character and characteristics of the life of this person.
You can beat off the girl using only a cunning approach with the expectation of taking a few steps forward. However, if you can’t get the girl back, don’t despair and give up, sometimes a step back is two steps forward.
Don’t disappear and don’t intrude10
Try to correspond with the girl regularly, but not too intensely. Contact her once or twice a day if you have something to discuss, such as a movie or news. If you don't have a good conversation topic, check in with her every few days to keep track of how she's doing. But be in touch if she wants to talk to you or needs your help.
Don't text her too often or too much, otherwise she will become uncomfortable with you. Also try not to disappear for a long time or without warning, otherwise the girl will think that you do not value communication with her.
Should you get your ex back?
If a situation occurs in which a girl leaves a man for another man, but he wants her back, he will also have to fight her off.
But first you should think carefully about whether it’s worth it? After all, if the relationship has outlived its usefulness and the girl has left for someone else, this is not a minor problem or quarrel. This means that she has already crossed out the relationship and she is no longer interested in or needs a man.
Important! The girl could be driven by any motives to leave and start dating another man, ranging from real romantic feelings to banal commercialism and a thirst for a “good life.”
Of course, if a girl is only using her new boyfriend, then it is better not to even try to return her, because the man who returns her will himself turn out to be a milking purse for her.
The return of exes is a purely individual moment for each couple. Some people reshape their lives the next day and radically change everything, while others kill themselves for weeks until they realize that this is a past stage of life.
You need to understand that a person changes for a very long time, and everything that was bad in a girl will remain, and the problems that were present during the breakup will still be relevant.
They can be hushed up, but sooner or later everything will come out. Of course, if we are talking about incredible love, comparable to the love described by the poets of the eighteenth century, then perhaps the idea of bringing the girl back is not so bad. But if the relationship was full of quarrels, swearing, scandals and mistrust, this is a bad idea, which, moreover, will deprive you of moral and physical strength even more, and the desire to enter into a relationship will disappear for a long time.
Reference! You cannot step into the same river twice. It's the same in relationships. It’s impossible to return everything; you can try to build it anew, but only a few succeed.
To return a girl with whom a man was already in a relationship, he will have to try hard:
- The first and most important rule is not to ask her to come back, not to beg and not to crawl on your knees. This will show the girl that the man is weak, that he is dependent on her and he needs her like air. She will understand that she already owns everything, and even more, since the man began to beg. You need to do the opposite.
- Completely ignore and concentrate on yourself. Most often, a girl knows her ex like crazy, knows what he will say and when, knows his strengths and weaknesses. So we need to change. Sign up for a gym, get carried away with something. Become better every day.
If this continues, then soon the girl will begin to notice that the man does not write or call, does not try to do something for her.
This will begin to hurt her pride, because how is this possible, he loved her so much and ran after her, and then he took it and disappeared. Her wounded pride will not allow her to remain on the sidelines, and she will begin to look for information about her ex, where he is, how he is, and what is equally important, with whom.
If a man begins to develop, for example, he becomes more and more successful at work, or begins to travel more, or changes physically for the better, the girl may think that she completely made a mistake by leaving him for someone else.
Important! For such a demonstration, various Internet resources are suitable, where it clearly lives, but you cannot overdo it with the amount of information posted, it will immediately become clear that this is all a diversion.
It’s also worth starting to hang out with other girls, preferably several:
- Firstly, this is extra practice that a man always needs.
- And secondly, the ex may find out that the man is hanging out with other girls and is not obsessed with her. Self-esteem will again play into your hands in this case.
Is it worth getting your ex-girlfriend back? The video explains:
Be prepared for the worst11
Attempts to fight off a girl can be sharply condemned by other people: your mutual friends and even the girl herself. Be prepared for the loss of her friendship, attacks from friends, and also for her boyfriend to understand your intentions and give you a hard time.
If you steal the girl of your dreams from another guy, you will have to always hide the fact that you ruined her past relationship on purpose.
Remember: when you become a couple, you will have to maintain the same level of attention and care towards the girl as before. Otherwise, the girl will be disappointed and eventually move away from you.
Advice from sexologists and psychologists
Despite the fact that many years have passed since the birth of the human race, people strive to ensure the best possible existence for themselves. For girls, in particular, this is the need to look for a dominant male.
Reference! Dominance in this case can be completely different and consist of both dominance at the intellectual level and at the physical level.
A girl's search for the most suitable man is an action dictated by nature itself. That is why the main emphasis should be placed on this when beating a girl.
You need to show her that the new man is better and more desirable in everything than the previous one.
If we talk about private things, we can summarize the following: you need to do everything better and better than the girl’s current man. For example, even if the current boyfriend does not pay enough attention to her, disappears constantly at work, or is simply busy with his own affairs.
In such a situation, the girl will not have enough attention and will look for it on the side, which means you need to give it to her:
- Walk;
- Be near;
- Be interested in how, what and why.
He doesn’t give gifts and is generally greedy with her, which means he’ll need to fork out a little. Well, of course, if there is sexual dissatisfaction, then the girl will be interested in finding a man who can please her.
By the way, this is essentially the next, one of the most important points. Girls are inquisitive creatures, and despite the fact that many men claim that they are unable to understand the desires of their beloved, everything is hidden on the surface. Often it is simply a lack of attention or understanding.
Girls need to be listened to and understood..
This is a kind of bridge that allows you to build mental relationships. This means you need to listen to them always and everywhere.
Attention! By listening to what a girl says, you can also understand her desires: they may not be explicitly voiced, but a hint or their shadow can still slip through.
A man should be spontaneous, unpredictable. All people are dependent on emotions to one degree or another. For women, emotions are a kind of drug.
- A man in an instant must be firm, decisive and persistent, like a rock, a male who achieves everything himself, going through fire and water.
- At other times he should be a romantic and gentle dreamer.
- It is also important to choose correctly what to be at what moment. Again, you can understand this by listening to the girl.
Important! It is better not to overact and not present yourself in a light that is not there. Not only will this be a constant game, but sooner or later everything will be revealed, and the man will begin to listen to the phrases “you have changed.”
A man must be unpredictable: be like a hurricane, overwhelming a girl with emotions so that she is thrown from emotion to awe and back. It is important that this approach will allow you to achieve a situation in which the girl will constantly think about the man. And if she often thinks about a man, then half the work is already done.
Don't forget biological attractiveness:
- A man must demonstrate that he is sexually healthy and competitive. A well-built body will help partly, but you should not overdo it, otherwise suspicions of narcissism will arise.
- Also, such a young person may begin to be judged by typical stereotypes about athletes.
Reference! The issue of physical athleticism and attractiveness to women is a separate science. It all depends on the girl. Moreover, everything will depend on the country and continent.
European girls prefer, for example, a more slender physique, while the same girls from Canada will prefer a muscular and tall athlete to an ordinary guy.
There should be a neat appearance , but, again, you can’t overdo it. You might think how this will help in fighting off a girl, but if her boyfriend is sitting at home and smearing chip crumbs on his underpants with his hands, then you can guarantee one hundred percent that she does not like it.
It is desirable that a man is not deprived of female attention. This will clearly attract the attention of that same girl. Each of them has a sense of ownership and a desire to stand out. Including being with a male who is lusted after by other girls. This again will strengthen the man's position sexually.
The easiest way to win off any girl is to be more successful than others in everything. But this task is no longer an easy one.
Important! It is necessary to maintain suspense, it is impossible for the current boyfriend to find out that another man is hitting on his girlfriend. This can lead to a worsening of the situation or a complete loss of control over it.
Watch the video, which gives simple tips that will help you win the girl you like from another guy:
Remember that you may not succeed12
You can try to please the girl, you can get closer to her, prove to her that you are a better partner for her than anyone else. And yet there is no way to force things and be guaranteed to win her heart. Remember that all your efforts may not bring results. Be prepared to fail. Remind yourself that there are many single girls with whom your chances of reciprocity and a happy relationship are much higher.
Is it worth destroying a relationship?
If, nevertheless, a man or young man believes that the wedge has converged on this girl, and he is not embarrassed that by his actions he can break up someone else’s couple or family, he needs to act decisively.
Attention! Before you act, you need to think everything through. After all, a fleeting desire to just have a girl at a given moment in time can lead to very disastrous consequences.
Analysis of ethical and moral standards is a purely individual matter for each person. But it is important to remember that a person must be prepared to bear responsibility for any actions.
If, nevertheless, a man is determined to act, then, of course, simple pressure and charisma will not come out a winner here. The process of beating a girl is delicate and painstaking, requiring an individual approach to each person.
The approach and method of its implementation will significantly depend on the following circumstances:
- whether the man knew this girl before,
- are they, for example, colleagues or friends, or even friends of friends?
- It is important that this representative of the fair sex has marital ties.
Create a plan
Think in advance whether there is love in the couple you plan to break up. Before you act, gather information through your contacts. Observe from the side whether the couple is quarreling or, conversely, happy. Maybe they are just maintaining the appearance of a cloudless relationship. In a personal conversation, try to clarify the girl’s plans for the coming weekend. The answer will dot all the “Is”. If the interlocutor’s plans are not related to the guy, this is a chance. Think about whether she likes you. If a girl herself takes the initiative during meetings, flirts, smiles, writes on social networks, the road is clear. Take action. Distinguish between sympathy and friendship. When they see you only as a friend, urgently change the situation: leave, or put the question bluntly.
Consequences
If the relationship has broken down, give the girl time to experience her feelings, sadness, and tears. Be patient and take care. The time has come to start a new relationship. While she's going through a divorce, start working on a future together. Not a word about the past, plan for joyful and memorable coming months. But also leave room for personal things. Let's rest each other.
How to find out if she loves her boyfriend
It is very important to find out what feelings a girl really has for her partner. This could be sincere love, affection, friendship based on long acquaintance, and so on. How to determine the presence or absence of feelings in a potential lover?
- It is important to pay attention to how she talks about her partner. If a girl notes exclusively his shortcomings, then there are serious problems in the relationship.
- You should find out how much time the girl devotes to her lover. If there are feelings, a person tries to spend every free minute next to his other half.
- You can find out about the degree of love of partners from their friends and acquaintances, since from the outside such things are sometimes more noticeable.
- You can also try to show attention to the girl and give her several gifts. If a representative of the fairer sex is truly sincerely in love, she does not intend to reciprocate her feelings.
But vows of eternal love should not be taken seriously. Words do not always have much meaning, and often they are just a given of a long relationship to which both partners are accustomed. A girl can truly love and never talk about it, or she can scream about her feelings at every corner, while accepting advances from other people.
Ask the girl to analyze the situation
Do you see your friend's life going downhill? Something needs to be done urgently. The easiest way is to isolate a girl from a social circle that has a bad influence on her. How to win a friend away from a friend? We need to proceed with caution. Talk frankly with the girl. Explain to her the situation and tell her that the person is not changing for the better. Give reasons for your position and say that you are not jealous, but worried. Tell your friend that if she continues to hang out with the wrong people, her life will change for the worse. Here it is necessary to describe in vivid colors all the consequences of such a connection. Friendship relationships can be complex and confusing. In order not to aggravate the situation, do not impose your opinion on the lady. Give your friend a topic to think about and make her promise that the girl will think about your words at her leisure. This manipulative approach affects suggestible people who trust the opinions of others more than their own.
What you need to know to steal a girl
How to pick up a girl? Observe and use logic.
It’s a disastrous business to try to take away a happy and loving girl. It's useless. But wait for the right moment when the couple’s relationship begins to crack, or she becomes disappointed, why not. So be patient and wait. Often relationships drag on and things don’t get to the point of marriage. A woman gets tired of living in a state of uncertainty, which means she begins to look for other options.
When the scales are strong, handsome, successful, wealthy, and on the other hand simple and loving, a woman’s choice will be in favor of the first. Women are practical. When making a choice, they think about financial stability, children, family and comfort. It’s a rare occasion to be in heaven with a sweetheart and in a hut. Be realistic about your chances. There is only one way out in such a situation - to change yourself and create the image of a conqueror. Find a “trick” to hook your dream girl without money. If this works, keep in mind that changing relationships always involves pain and tears. Get ready to be a “vest” for a while.
How to win a girl's love?
Every adult has a desire to find good friends and a faithful companion in love. But often people are faced with the problem that those friends who exist betray or leave, and those beloved partners who appear do not show understanding or are not faithful. Let's talk about how to win a girl's love.
How to make the person you are in love with fall in love with you? You are at the stage of winning someone’s love or you see that your relationship with your loved one is being destroyed. How to win the love of another person? How to stop the process of destroying relationships with those people with whom you are not ready to part?
Friends or loved ones become those people whose values coincide. In other words, your values in life should coincide with the values of the people you are interested in. If someone is trying to win your love or friendship, then this person must have the same values in life as your values. If you win someone's love, then you must adapt to that person's values. And if you are trying to maintain or renew a relationship with a loved one, then you need to do the same thing - speak the same language with him, look at the world in the same direction, think about what is happening the same way, satisfy the same values as him, etc. d.
Value is what you consider to be right and valuable in your life. Note that different people have different values. One person creates a family simply because it’s supposed to be so, while another person cannot imagine his life without a family. These people will not come together as friends and as loved ones, since the first will only formally be a family man, and the second will live only as a family. Only those people will come together who have the same approach to the same thing, that is, they either formally relate to the family (it is necessary, but not important), or live in family relationships (it is necessary, important and valuable).
Only those people whose values coincide can become friends or loved ones. Undoubtedly, you can become friends and even loving partners with those with whom your values in life do not coincide. But soon you will begin to feel this difference, which will cause you to stop trusting, opening up, and wanting to spend time with those who pose a threat to you because their values may threaten your values. Relationships between such people are short-lived. Often, quarrels occur between such people on every issue. But how difficult it is to live in a relationship where every meeting or conversation ends in a scandal!
Become your best friend
Relationships between friends take years to build. Good relationships take a lot of work. Therefore, destroying a friendship is quite problematic. Most often, good relationships deteriorate not because of a third party, but because of the girl’s diverging interests. But the people don’t want to admit this and therefore they place all the blame on the one who turned out to be the third wheel. A person should always be aware of his thoughts and feelings. If you can hide something from others, then there is no point in hiding something from yourself. Self-deception will not lead to any good. Therefore, always try to speak frankly with your friend. Don't lie and try not to discuss gossip with your girl.
Friendship is based on mutual understanding and support. Therefore, take the time to delve into the essence of other people’s problems and give good advice to a loved one. Do not brush off a person when she comes to you for comfort. Try to sincerely sympathize with the person in his grief. It’s easy to share joy with your friends, but you need to learn to overcome depression and despair together, which overcome every person from time to time. Help the person whenever possible, and don't be afraid to ask a friend for help. Well, the main secret of long friendship is shared memories and impressions. Travel as often as possible, go to concerts or have parties together. A person does not want to part with that person about whom he has many good memories.
Guys' mistake - friendly communication
The main mistake that guys make when trying to win a pretty girl away from a man is that they allow communication to move to a friendly level. Yes, a young man should be pleasant and interesting, but you need to try to be perceived as a suitor. The difference in two situations is noticeable:
- Friend - communication every day on various topics. At the same time, the young man does not pretend to be a life partner, but simply tries to support his acquaintance and become her friend.
- Potential guy - it all comes down to flirting. The topics of conversation are fascinating. The young man makes every effort to charm the lady, tries to hug her, kiss her, or at least just touch her. At the same time, communication does not occur every day, but whenever possible and necessary. He makes it clear that he is looking for not just a girlfriend, but a beloved and constant companion. But at the same time, the guy is ready to offer help in difficult times.
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It is important to have support and a strong shoulder if necessary. When a man is trying to take a girl away from her current partner, it is important to be nearby. This way he will become indispensable in her life and will be there in any situation.
I liked my friend's girlfriend
If you like a friend's fiancee, you need to remain a real man. It is important to tell the lady about your feelings and have a serious conversation with your friend. There's nothing wrong with that. You need to tell your friend everything as it really is.
Possible consequences:
- slap from a girl;
- loss of a friend. Moreover, the showdown can take place with fists.
It's better to think several times about what might happen in the future.
