How long has it been since you last talked to teenagers? Remember the two extremes to which they are usually thrown? On the one hand, they are insanely “independent”, and on the other hand, they are still very “dependent”. Such “teenager” is an adult who has retained childish characteristics. Often such people are also called infantile. We will consider this character with an emphasis on these two subtypes.
Why do many men act like teenagers?
Manifestations depending on age
Age and marital status can influence how you show love. A young guy, a bachelor and a married guy will show their feelings differently.
Young guy's behavior
A young guy, having fallen in love, can show his feelings completely unpredictably. He will try to look at you closely. A shy person will do it on the sly. If you find yourself in the same company, the guy will give the impression that he is having a lot of fun, making jokes and openly bragging. But as soon as you leave, he will immediately become less cheerful and sociable, even gloomy, and perhaps abuse alcohol.
Important! An original way to show feelings can be to completely ignore the girl. Perhaps the guy is not yet ripe for a serious relationship, or he is driven by complexes. The guy will want to demonstrate his popularity among girls in every possible way, he may even begin to brag about his love exploits
All this is necessary so that the girl becomes convinced that there is no other like her in the world, and even begins to be jealous. The guy may try to establish contacts with your girlfriends, wanting to learn as much information about you from them as possible. He needs this in order to start communicating with the girl on topics that interest her. If a guy frankly doesn’t like the girl’s social circle, then he will try to overcome himself and treat his beloved’s friends loyally, so as not to alienate her. Wanting to win the heart of his beloved, the guy will give her unexpected gifts and surprises, even awkward ones, and show gentlemanly behavior
The guy will want to demonstrate in every possible way his popularity among girls, he may even begin to brag about his amorous exploits. All this is necessary so that the girl becomes convinced that there is no other like her in the world, and even begins to be jealous. The guy may try to establish contacts with your girlfriends, wanting to learn as much information about you from them as possible.
He needs this in order to start communicating with the girl on topics that interest her. If a guy frankly doesn’t like the girl’s social circle, then he will try to overcome himself and treat his beloved’s friends loyally, so as not to alienate her. Wanting to win the heart of his beloved, the guy will give her unexpected gifts and surprises, even awkward ones, and show gentlemanly behavior.
Grown man
Often, the intuition of married women gives the first signals that something strange is happening to their beloved husband. He begins to ignore his wife (he communicates little with her, stops performing his daily duties). The husband may develop new habits - going to the gym, radically changing his diet, spending long periods at the computer (passwords suddenly appear) or hanging out on the phone.
Important! You can’t regard a man’s politeness as falling in love. The fact that he greets you every morning, inquires about your affairs, opens and closes the door for you, does not yet speak of love... As for the phone itself, the husband begins to make sure that it does not fall into the hands of his wife
The husband’s appearance also begins to change: he constantly pretenses himself, changes his clothing style, trying to look younger. If you notice such signs in your husband, then you should be on your guard: most likely, he has fallen in love with someone else. The first signs of falling in love of an ossified bachelor are the same as those of any man. The difference is that at any stage he can break down and end the relationship, simply fearing an invasion of his personal space. Accordingly, a girl who decides to build a relationship with a bachelor must be prepared that at any moment her romance may fail
As for the phone itself, the husband begins to make sure that it does not fall into the hands of his wife. The husband’s appearance also begins to change: he constantly pretenses himself, changes his clothing style, trying to look younger. If you notice such signs in your husband, then you should be on your guard: most likely, he has fallen in love with someone else.
The first signs of falling in love of an ossified bachelor are the same as those of any man. The difference is that at any stage he can break down and end the relationship, simply fearing an invasion of his personal space. Accordingly, a girl who decides to build a relationship with a bachelor must be prepared that at any moment her romance may fail.
Where are the dads? 4
Very often boys become effeminate men because their dad wasn't around. It should be noted that many children grow up without fathers. Why does this happen?
Because 30 years ago, giving birth without a husband was considered too great a sin. Yes, no one was burned at the stake and no one was killed with cameos. But it was a shame to walk around pregnant if you didn’t have a stamp in your passport. So this stamp was given by everyone who at least once slept with each other.
By the way, there was no such advertising of protected sex either, so pregnancies were not uncommon. So it worked out - they slept together, got pregnant, gave birth, but they couldn’t live together. Parents get divorced, and children are left without fathers. Now the problem of fatherlessness persists, although condoms are sold at every step and people are taught to use protection, but sexual relations begin very early.
Therefore, there is no responsibility. But there is criminal liability. And the girls now - go figure out how old she is. So it turns out that a guy picked up a girl in a cafe, and took the girl and flew him in. And she's not 18 yet. So what should I do? There are only two exits - either to prison or to the registry office. Of course, 99% run to the registry office to sign, and then get a divorce there. The result is again a child without a father.
Without fathers, girls suffer, but boys become like their mothers. Who else should they be like? It’s good if there is an example nearby - a young, strong man - a grandfather, but what if the mother lives far from her parents? Of course, one can object, they say, after the war there were few men in general, so the boys didn’t grow up to be anything!
But after the war, the male warrior had enormous authority. Unquestionable, unconditional authority. Well... remember the film “Hipsters”, how strong the opinion of all kinds of public organizations was. In those days, a man with a pigtail could simply be broken like a rod. Now we have freedom of everything in the world, so even on the streets you can’t immediately tell whether it’s a man or a woman next to you.
How to understand a man's hidden feelings
But, if a man does not demonstrate ostentatious indifference or hostility, how can you find out what he feels for you? How to recognize a man in love?
Quite simple - pay attention to his body: eyes, gestures, habits. The body is not a language; as a rule, it doesn’t lie
And start with the eyes.
Man's look
It is not for nothing that the psychology of relationships advises looking into a person’s eyes, this is how you inspire confidence in yourself and what you say. After all, if you like a person, you literally cannot take your eyes off him. And a man in love is no exception. The reverse is also true.
A man's gaze is sometimes very eloquent. If a man is sure that the woman he likes is not watching him, he examines her, literally admiring the curves of her body, her movements, etc. Some men, on the contrary, cast sidelong glances, surreptitiously, imperceptibly, considering that it is indecent to hold their gaze point-blank for a long time. Therefore, while watching a man, you can easily notice his gaze on you quite often.
Sometimes dilated pupils give away a man in love. It’s no secret that love, passion, acts on a person like a drug. This occurs under the influence of endorphin, the hormone of happiness, which is released due to strong hidden feelings.
Embrace
Hugs also often show that a man has strong hidden feelings for a woman. A man shows the depth of his feelings by hugging a woman from the back. This is how he subconsciously demonstrates the seriousness of his feelings and intentions. After all, the back is one of the vulnerable places. This is how he shows that he is quite capable of protecting you from life’s adversities.
Touch
Body contact is very important for a man in love. Often he involuntarily touches a woman, her arm, shoulder, hand, etc. This is the “attraction” of his body, which is difficult for him to control. Although most often he tries to portray the “accidentality” of such touches, because... not sure of a woman's reciprocal feelings
Therefore, pay attention to how he “accidentally” brushes against you while passing along the corridor, or touches your palm while holding out coffee, finds himself standing quite close to you in the elevator, or, going down the stairs, again “accidentally” covers your palm with his . All these are signs of his love.
Man's pose
Noticing a woman he likes, a man sucks in his stomach, straightens his shoulders and chest, trying to appear taller and slimmer. We inherited these traits from animals that behave similarly in the wild during mating season. Task: to appear taller, stronger, more attractive. If not an alpha male, then at least larger and stronger than usual.
The man’s body turns towards the woman he likes, while he tries to spread his legs wider in order to take a more stable position in space. After all, mating games are a kind of duel, during which you need to stand firmly on your feet.
Many men, when communicating with a woman, keep their hands in their pockets, with their thumbs on the outside. This demonstration is not only erotic in nature, but primarily hierarchical. This is how a man demonstrates his dominance, strengthening his authority.
Stroking objects
At the first stage of falling in love, a man often cannot afford to touch the woman he likes, so he is forced to stroke small objects: the stem of a glass, a keychain, the handle of a cup, etc. This is a subconscious desire, indicating his excitement and desire to touch, stroke and caress his chosen one.
These are signs of the body by which you can understand the hidden feelings of a man.
How does a man in love behave?
Loud conversation
When a man is in love, one of the ways to attract a woman's attention is to talk louder than usual. In this way he tries to attract the attention of a woman dear to his heart with his jokes, phrases, laughter and statements
This is reminiscent of the roar of a male in the wild during mating games. But it is quite suitable for distinguishing his attitude towards you.
Jealousy
Jealousy, open or hidden, always indicates that a man is not indifferent to you. This is one of the most obvious signs that a man is in love.
As soon as he sees a competitor, a man uses more obvious ways to attract the attention of the woman he likes or shows open aggression towards his rival.
Signs of hidden male love
Psychologists assure that you can guess if you are in love based on a number of signs:
Loss of self-control. Any meeting with the lady of his heart knocks a man out of his usual balance. The usually self-confident, serious and reserved “master of life” gets lost, begins to behave unnaturally and speak inappropriately. A fan may joke stupidly, actively gesticulate, instinctively tug at his hair, or involuntarily pull down his clothes. A characteristic gesture is straightening the tie, which refers to phallic symbols
The way a man does this speaks about his thoughts and feelings at the moment. Increased attention. A man is constantly looking for the slightest excuse to chat and “accidentally” meets in the most unexpected places, including, for example, a lingerie boutique
Many representatives of the stronger sex are even willing to listen for hours to chatter about the office "serpentarium" or endless stories about the problems in raising a four-legged friend. Desire to help. The lover begins to behave like a true gentleman who thinks about the convenience of the lady of his heart. He will not forget to open the doors, push back the chair, hand over the coat. He is sincerely interested in a woman’s mood and health, which he asks about as if by chance. And, of course, if a man is in love, then at the first call he will drop what he’s doing, push aside his friends and rush to help. Bravery. A knight, guided by true feelings, always tries to protect and protect a woman from any aggression and attacks. Personal care. Having fallen in love, a young man shows increased interest in his appearance: he begins to monitor his weight, hairstyle, clothes and shoes, and wear perfume.
As for verbal signs (from the Latin verbalis - verbally), when asked how a man behaves if he likes a woman, but he hides it, experts answer this way:
tries to attract attention in different ways; laughs at your jokes; constantly gives compliments; gets jealous when another man is next to you; does not mention the names of other women; becomes a model of politeness; in conversation he often uses the pronoun “we”.
Interesting! If a man doesn't truly love, how does he behave?
There are two more signs of hidden love, which the “great conspirators” themselves spoke about:
“If a man is in love, he behaves like a real peacock: he spreads his tail like a fan and proudly demonstrates his virtues in front of the lady. As if to say, here is the alpha male who is ready to do anything for a beautiful lady. But seriously, when a man is obsessed with a woman, he will try to catch her fleeting glance, every word and smile. An irresistible desire appears to “hang around somewhere nearby,” periodically passing by her for no apparent reason,” shared 34-year-old Roman.
According to 29-year-old Timofey, one of the most obvious signs that a woman is interested is the desire to send her special-for-you signals: “If a man, for any reason, even the most insignificant, tries to touch the object of his dreams, you can be sure that he he’s breathing unevenly towards her.”
Experts advise not to make hasty conclusions about emerging love. Beautiful words and even actions themselves may mean nothing. Perhaps in front of you is an experienced womanizer who has “set a net”, trying to catch the next victim in them. It is worth maintaining common sense, soberly comparing the conversations and actions of the admirer.
Hormonal abnormalities and gender4
Legend has it that Soviet weightlifting teams specifically selected women with naturally high testosterone levels. Yes, girls like this are born. "Technically", they are still girls. The genitals are female, the voice is gentle, the appearance is feminine. Well, maybe in some places you have to do a little more hair removal, and someone is shocked by their height or large facial bones. In the female body, the adrenal cortex is responsible for the production of testosterone. Its hyperfunction, that is, increased work, can be caused by both a disease and a borderline state. Simply put, “girls are like men” - absolutely healthy people, and are even capable of conceiving and bearing children.
It’s just that they are usually attracted to completely different activities. Whatever you say, testosterone makes a person more aggressive and more collected. On his wavelength, it is good to play sports, strive for achievements in business, or lead a team. But I don’t want to sit at home on maternity leave and go through the possibilities of a miserable part-time job.
Scientists call this state of the body when a woman naturally has a lot of male sex hormone virility.
Interesting fact: Virile girls can be very attractive in appearance and have an increased libido. These are not “bearded women” from the circus, but rather sexy athletes.
But there are also extreme stages, then reproductive function is lost, and the situation requires correction by a gynecologist-endocrinologist. In the West, such people are asked whether they want to be a woman in principle, or whether they need to become a man, only “improving” their natural characteristics a little with the help of plastic surgery. In Soviet medicine, it was not customary to ask - the passport says it’s a girl, which means we’ll make it a girl.
“Gender determination” was carried out by the appearance of the genital organs, and not by the person’s sense of self. The same was true for boys with excess female hormones. Now the situation has changed, and you can become whoever you want. Doctors have no right to limit this.
How does a lover behave?
Not all men in love always hide their feelings
A man in love does stupid things, behaves strangely, attracts a woman's attention, and is not afraid to be funny.
A man in love is characterized by:
Awkwardness. Feels awkward, shy, clumsy in the presence of a woman.
Looks into the eyes
Having met the eyes of the girl he likes, he looks away.
Attracts attention. Speaks louder, straightens his shoulders/puffs out his chest/maintains his posture when passing by, attracts attention with loud sounds.
Becomes more caring
She asks how she got to her destination and how she’s feeling/feeling.
Trying to make you laugh. Jokes, tells jokes/funny stories.
Open pose. The lover sits/stands in an open position, with his body turned towards the woman.
Persistence. Shows persistence (meetings, requests to tell something).
Tactile contact. Tries to accidentally touch the arm/shoulder/cheek/nose/waist/hair.
Behavior. Shakes off invisible specks of dust, straightens clothes/belt, freshens breath before a conversation.
All women know well how a young man in love behaves
It’s worth paying attention to it - assumptions will be confirmed, cards will be revealed
How to understand that a guy is in love but hides his feelings
There are other signs by which you can determine whether a young man is in love with you.
Namely:
Excitement. If a man experiences this feeling when he sees you, he may be in love. Of course, unless you are from the tax or bailiff service, and your meeting with him is not a work one. When the desired object is nearby, we all get a little lost. Of course, it all depends on the character and self-esteem of the young man, but sometimes the most confident ones also experience a little anxiety. For example, he is a talented speaker, but next to you he cannot utter a word. Or he plays the guitar masterfully, but when he sees you, he is not able to play a single melody.
Appearance. When we are in love, we want to look special
So that your beloved will pay attention and appreciate it. Not all, of course, but many men in love take clothes more seriously
Previously, he was ready to go to work in ordinary sweatpants, but today he is dressed like a real gentleman. Well, this is certainly an indicator that he cares about the woman. True, if you are not the only lady in the team, it is better to take a good look at the other competitors. What if he didn't dress up for you?
Behavior. Watch him. How does he behave with other female representatives? If he openly flirts with others, it means he doesn't have serious feelings for you. It’s another matter when he gives you sincere compliments - that is, not typical, but individual. For example, he notices that your hairstyle is different today, or that you are in a good mood. And with other women he shows politeness and tact, but does not try to interest them.
If you have only a friendly relationship for now, a man in love will want to introduce you to his close circle, that is, to his friends. Thus, he emphasizes that he considers you not a stranger.
The young man will talk about plans for the future: work, children and family. So he wants to show that his intentions are serious. And this is another way to find out what you want and whether your life priorities coincide.
Character types of “teenagers”
What do you think are the differences between the characters of “independent” and “dependent” teenagers? Let's get a look.
“Addicted Teens”
“Dependent teenagers” are, in essence, big children who need love, affection and care. They have weak ideas about the future and are ready to put their fate in whatever hands they think are strong. They often complain of fatigue, tiredness and passivity, and are prone to depression if their needs are not met. But, if we talk about raising children, it is difficult to find a more understanding and engaging nanny for a child. If the “dependent teenager” is your husband, then do not expect him to make serious decisions and take initiative on his own. But he is the best father-friend in the world.
“Independent teenagers”
About “independent teenagers” we can say that they are self-confident and arrogant. They are afraid to let others take care of themselves. Therefore, they try to be strong and take care of themselves (this is often taken to the point of absurdity due to children's maximalism). They have an exaggerated sense of their own independence, which, however, dissolves under stress. But they constantly test themselves in difficult situations. Therefore, extreme sports are the favorite proof of their worth among “independent teenagers.” Their parents are unimportant - often too harsh, demanding and hysterical.
Intermediate type
However, there is also an intermediate type between “independent” and “dependent”. Such a “teenager” strives to do something useful, difficult, important and is very proud of himself when he succeeds. But he does not seek to prove his own independence. This type of “teenager” is often found among women. They feel that the house will certainly collapse without them, but they leave themselves the opportunity to “hide under the wing” of their partner at any time.
What types of infantile men are there?
Test of Jealousy
In the modern world, girls often find it difficult to understand their feelings. Therefore, the vast majority of representatives of the fair sex rely on the “Am I in love test”.
Jealousy has always shown the true attitude towards a person. If in the presence of another lady with whom a man is having a casual conversation, you experience the most unpleasant feelings, then the test has been passed successfully.
A girl in love strives to intercept a man's attention in any way. Even stupid questions and funny behavior are used
If you experience burning jealousy, then with almost 100% probability we can say that you are in love.
How to know if a girl is in love with you
If you like a girl, how can you be sure that she likes you too? After all, you don’t really want to ask her to meet and run into refusal, finding yourself in a stupid position. But you can’t ask directly whether the girl fell in love with you or not. There are ways to understand this without resorting to questioning. And these methods are based on the assessment of non-verbal signals, which only, of course, need to be noticed and correctly assessed. Let's talk about them in more detail.
How a girl behaves when meeting
– If, having noticed you, a girl tries to straighten up and take on a beautiful posture, this means that she wants you to be able to evaluate in detail her feminine essence - waist, chest, hips, slimness, etc. Don't let this pass your attention. If she hasn't fallen in love with you yet, then, in any case, she definitely sets you apart from the rest of the opposite sex.
– If a girl reaches her hands to her ear, puts her hair behind it, straightens the strands, twirls them around her finger, rubs her forehead, runs her palm over her cheek, then this is done unconsciously, but precisely so that you pay attention to her face. And also because when she raises her arm, her chest rises at the same time
All these movements are embedded in a girl’s head on a subconscious level so that she can charm the guy she likes.
– Another very characteristic gesture by which you can understand that a girl has fallen in love is her arms crossed on her chest. This gesture has nothing to do with the so-called closed gesture, or rather, it is similar to it, but when it comes to a girl who likes you, it only says that instinctively she would like to hug you.
– If a girl likes you, then when she meets you, she will try to meet your gaze in order to understand what kind of person you are. After all, it is believed that you can understand the soul of your interlocutor by looking at your eyes.
What to pay attention to when talking
– First of all, on how the girl behaves. If she likes you, she may be embarrassed, blush, look away, hesitate, etc.
– How can you tell that a girl has fallen in love? If, when talking to you, she continually smoothes her skirt on her knees, adjusts her dress on her chest, tries to show you her wrists, adjusts her pendant, and the like, this all means that she is unconsciously trying to draw your attention to her erogenous zones. Of course, she herself most likely does not notice this, but we are talking specifically about unconscious non-verbal signals
However. Keep in mind that if you are not alone, but in a large company, then all this may not be intended for you at all. So the main thing here is not to get confused.
– Another very telling signal is the intertwining of legs
Quite often, girls cross their legs, or even cross them in any way, just to attract your attention to them and show how beautiful they are.
– Does the girl listen very carefully to everything you say and laugh wildly even at your worst jokes? Congratulations, you can be absolutely sure that she has fallen in love with you. And this laughter suggests that she is simply happy that there is a person next to her whom she really likes.
– You can understand that a girl has fallen in love with you by the fact that every now and then she asks you to either pass her a napkin, or hand her a purse, or take her to the balcony. All these little requests indicate that she definitely makes you stand out from all the other guys present.
– Of course, if we consider all of the above separately, then it may have some other reasons. But if you notice that at least three signs that a girl has fallen in love are present, you can have little doubt about what they mean.
The woman is a lesbian!
It is also stupid to exclude this “version”. Nowadays there are few people on earth who hide their gender and their orientation. Because, strictly speaking, there is not the slightest sense in making any secret out of “M or F.” Everything will become clear anyway (either sooner or later). In general, the identifying mark of lesbians is a ring on the thumb on the left hand - “I’m looking for a soul mate”, on the right - “I already have a life partner and love.” But you shouldn’t “get hung up” only on it. Not only lesbian women wear a ring on their thumb.
Such decorations also have other meanings:
- The desire for originality and originality.
- A sign of openness, charisma, expansiveness, emotionality, and energy.
- Freedom of choice (USA).
- A sign of feminism.
- A sign of enormous inner strength and confidence.
How to understand that a lady likes you
The first sign that women use to notify men that they are interested is their glances. Long, intent, alluring, crafty - different. The main thing is that there is no outright aggression in them. If a lady looked askance, secretly looked at a man and immediately looked away as soon as he noticed it, she probably has an interest in this man.
2-3 such glances - and you can be sure that the girl is interested. If she decides that her partner is suitable for her in terms of status, physical and other parameters, she will begin to give more explicit signals. The most striking nonverbal signals of interest are all kinds of touches of your body.
An interested person will touch her hair, preening and playing with curls
By doing this, a woman attracts the attention of a potential partner, as if inviting him to appreciate her advantages: beauty, health, etc. Touching her face, playing with jewelry and “preening” have a similar meaning (a woman, as if by chance, adjusts the straps of her dress, the hem of her blouse, etc.) etc.)
Body position is also important. If a lady likes a man, she will unconsciously turn in his direction and, as it were, “open up” to him
If before this the woman stood with her arms crossed over her chest, she will change this position to a more relaxed one. Then the “heavy artillery” will be used: an unobtrusive demonstration of the chest and legs. A lady can, as if by chance, touch her bodice or, sitting on a chair, play with her leg.
How to understand that a man is in love with you
One of the elements whose actions no one has yet been able to predict with one hundred percent accuracy is love. She, like a spark, can flash and ignite two hearts, but also go out at the same moment.
How men can show their feelings
The restive representatives of the stronger sex prefer to hold their emotions tightly, rarely letting them out.
- At some point, it may even seem that they are afraid of the woman who is with them.
- However, this animal fear can over time develop into a real problem that will prevent further relationships from developing.
- Even if the feelings are strong enough, the lover may be in no hurry to show them.
- Most often this happens if there is an overwhelming fear of starting a new relationship.
- In addition, if the gentleman notices that his chosen one is not yet ready to be together, his steps towards rapprochement will not move in the right direction.
We all came out of childhood
Once born, the baby does not identify itself as belonging to one sex or another, although after the ninth week of pregnancy, it is already possible to determine who will be born. Sometimes parents themselves confuse psychological settings. For example, they were expecting a guy, but they brought a girl from the maternity hospital, the young father does not give up, the baby is given a male name, he is bombarded with cars and pistols, he is brought up in spartan conditions, and then they wonder why
Sashenka or Zhenechka will never get married. Stories on the contrary also happen, more often in families where women run everything or there is no father at all. Then the boy is groomed and cherished, instead of the football section he is assigned to a music school, to a violin class. Of course, this does not mean that girls should only play with dolls, and all boys need to chase the ball, but you shouldn’t impose your unrealized dreams on a fragile child’s psyche.
Behavior of a man in love
Sign language
In addition to obvious signs, pay attention to non-verbal, unconscious ones. The main thing is to read body language and facial expressions correctly
No matter how the lover tries to hide his feelings, his body is tense, a little constrained. Hands may shake from embarrassment or excitement, and palms may sweat. Arms crossed on the chest indicate an attempt to close
When a man opens up, straightens his shoulders, he shows off his body, shows off, and attracts attention. Physical attraction can be assumed if during communication a man periodically touches the belt or puts his hands on his hips
Reducing the distance when talking. When falling in love, a man tries to get closer at every opportunity, to penetrate personal space.
Facial expressions and gaze
Unconscious glances towards the object of love. An interested person wants to enjoy, admire the image of his beloved.
It is very difficult for a lover to control his gaze, unless, of course, he is an intelligence agent. By noticing how a man looks, it is easy to determine whether he is in love. Admiration shines in the eyes of a man towards his beloved. Often, when talking, the gaze unconsciously stops at the lips. Realizing that it is indecent to closely examine their beloved, men begin to hide their gaze and look on the sly. But these glances are so common that they are not difficult to catch.
Psychology
The behavior of a person in love is often unstable. Constant change of mood from thoughtfulness and lyricism to fun and relaxedness.
How to distinguish falling in love from physical attraction: 5 signs
A man's liking for a woman begins with physical attraction. That's how nature ordered it. Some of her external qualities seem irresistible to him, and he “sticks.” At this very first level of rapprochement, the brain does not turn on, and passion blinds.
Girls often mistake this first flash for love. But the man is still far from real feeling. Next, he should feel emotional sympathy, when he wants not only to possess her body, but also to do something good for her, to help and be there.
Be sure to read:
How a man in love looks, we learn to distinguish between looks: intimate, flirting, furtive, languid
Then the man in love becomes interested in talking with his chosen one, he begins to like her way of thinking, character, he notices that their temperaments suit each other perfectly. At this moment, the man experiences the third stage of attachment - intellectual.
And only if a lover is able to experience the last stage of a relationship with the woman he has chosen—spiritual intimacy—can we say that he truly loves her.
There are several moments in a man's behavior that will tell a girl whether he is in love with her or whether he is experiencing only a fleeting passionate attraction.
Changes appearance
This is the first thing he will do. The guy will finally visit the stylist and get his haircut. He will start keeping his shirts fresh. Maybe even buy a couple of fashionable clothes and perfume.
Will try to get your attention
Gradually, the gentleman will begin to make attempts to attract the attention of the woman he likes. Any psychologist will confirm that when a man falls in love, he changes beyond recognition
His gaze will constantly follow the object of desire, admiring the girl. He will hide his eyes in embarrassment if she notices the surveillance and looks back. All this looks quite comical from the outside, but it will be very easy to notice the emerging interest.
He will try for you, look after you, protect you
A clear sign of sincere interest in a girl is the lover’s efforts to do something good for her. By asking a man for help, you can test his feelings. He will do everything in his power to solve the problem of the woman he loves.
Will be embarrassed and act like a fool
Unable to cope with the surging emotions in the presence of the girl he is interested in, a guy can behave like a fool:
- Say stupid things;
- laugh inappropriately;
- to be embarrassed;
- blush;
- gesticulate a lot;
- stutter;
- not being able to formulate a simple thought or pronounce a word.
Be sure to read:
How to understand that a guy is jealous: reasons and signs, what to do, advice from a psychologist
In fact, such behavior is a good sign, indicating a feeling so strong that the person is unable to cope with it.
The weakness of “teenagers”
By the way, have you noticed their weakness? They often become slaves to their desires. This happens because “teenagers” can want so recklessly that they stop determining their own lives - their desire does this for them. This is a very dangerous moment, which indicates a predisposition to gambling and drug addiction. Returning to desires, it is worth noting that “teenagers” often play the role of a victim - they are capable of wanting something just as strongly as they are pushing away on the principle “I don’t need it.” Fearing in advance refusal or disappointment in what you receive.
What is the weakness of adults who behave like children?
