When entering into a relationship with a family man, a mistress, as a rule, does not think about the consequences. But smart women always remember the possibility of getting punished for this.
Everything in life is not clear cut. Therefore, there are no mandatory instructions that the karma of the so-called homewrecker will suffer to one degree or another. Everything will depend on the specific role of the woman in the current situation.
The fate of evil - you will love a married man too
Have you ever thought about the fact that two people meet in life for a reason? All this contains some kind of original meaning. After all, a person comes into contact with a large number of people every day: neighbors, work colleagues, fellow travelers on public transport, customers in a store, and so on.
We walk past them, exchange a few words, carry on conversations and everything is fine. And suddenly, bam! Our brain or consciousness is hooked on something. A person has invaded your life and will gain all your attention. All thoughts and desires will be about him. What kind of obsession is this: a reward, a test or a punishment? And if the man is married, then what consequences will this relationship cause in your life?
Background
I don’t think that I committed a terrible act for which terrible karma will overtake me. Not because I’m an unprincipled bitch, but I just see this situation differently. I'm not trying to justify myself or convince anyone that falling in love with other people's husbands is normal. I just want to reach the people for whom this is relevant. Show by example that not everything that we are accustomed to consider bad is actually true. That sometimes destroying one marriage and building another is much more humane than living in illusions, making yourself and everyone around you unhappy.
I grew up in a very friendly family. My mom and dad have been living together for more than 40 years, and I don’t remember a situation when I could doubt their love. They have always been an example for my brother and me. And for me, family has always been the most important thing (no matter how ironic it may sound). As a child, I watched soap operas, where there was always an insidious homewrecker with red lips and an evil face. And I, of course, sympathized with the good main character, whose homewrecker stole her loved one. Like any normal girl, I didn’t make plans like “when I grow up, I’ll take someone else’s husband away.” Life is not the easiest thing.
Karmic connection
Each person comes into the life of another for a reason, but to change it for the better or for the worse. If your lover is married, but is not karmically connected with his wife, then he will have a connection on a spiritual level with another woman, on whose life he will have a great influence.
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Fate decreed that he would unconsciously look on the side for someone who is connected with him by a karmic connection. Will there be punishment for this kind of connection? Most likely it will not happen if the woman does not interfere in the life of the family.
A man must decide for himself: to leave his wife or stay in the family. If he remains, then the mistress should learn a useful lesson through him and try to end the relationship. In some cases, the woman herself understands that this relationship has exhausted itself and decides to leave. Under no circumstances should she interfere in the life of her partner’s family and, God forbid, children. She will have to be punished for this.
Need for adrenaline
A man is always the hunter, and a woman is the game. This was not invented by us; wise nature arranged it this way. In boring everyday life there is so little adrenaline, here everything is laid out on shelves, everything is calculated and verified.
Where can a man show his hunting instincts? Adrenaline is what drives him to seek new thrills, adrenaline is the same drug. The Forbidden fruit is sweet. The adventurer is attracted not even by the betrayal itself, but by the hunt, the adventure, the bright moments.
And what remains for the deceived wife? Waiting, tears, reproaches - and it doesn’t matter whether this is the first wife or the fifth.
What punishment does a woman bear for invading someone else's family?
When consciously taking someone else's husband away from the family, a woman must remember that she will certainly receive punishment. Let's not talk now about the punishments that will befall her. This is purely individual. You need to understand that the victims remain the wife, children, and close relatives. Their suffering generates a large amount of negative energy, which will certainly be directed towards the karma of the homewrecker.
According to esotericists, there are subtle bodies around the human physical body. All negativity will be directed at them. Depending on which bodies are damaged, a person will suffer physically, and in addition, this will affect his future incarnations.
Our love didn’t work out - unsuccessful examples of star unions in which a man was taken away from his wife
Not all star lovebirds had a family life as fabulous as those written above. In the personal lives of many star heartbreakers, the boomerang principle has worked, which, as you know, always returns and hits many times stronger.
Which of them failed to keep the man who was led away?
- Naomi Campbell
Naomi took her Russian lover, oligarch Doronin, away from the woman with whom Vladislav lived happily for 22 years. Having paid “compensation” to his ex-wife and the daughter he shared with her, the lover Doronin fled to the “black panther” and showered her with diamonds. Alas, the stormy romance never ended with a wedding - the couple officially separated in 2013.
- Oksana Grigorieva
The acquaintance of the Russian pianist and actor Mel Gibson became the reason for his divorce from his wife Robin, with whom they lived in love and harmony for almost 30 years, showing the world seven children. Mel's new hobby cost him a pretty penny - half of Gibson's fortune went to his ex-wife, and then his new Russian wife put her beautiful hands in his pockets. Oksana, whose relationship lasted only a moment, accused Mel of violence, and having received substantial compensation, disappeared from the actor’s horizon. Love didn't work out. But Oksana now receives $60,000 monthly to support their common daughter.
- Albina Dzhanabaeva
The eccentric member of VIA Gra spent a lot of effort to charm Valery Meladze. Actually, it was with his light hand that the girl ended up in the above-mentioned group. Long joint rehearsals culminated in the birth of a son. True, only a few years later the secret about his father became public knowledge. For the sake of Albina, Valery abandoned his wife after 18 years of marriage, and his three daughters. But Albina never heard the ring in the glass. And lately, Valery is increasingly seen in the company of his former elastic Irina.
- Katya Ivanova
A girl with a simple Russian name and an equally simple surname became famous for her relationship with Ronnie Wood, the aging (approx. - 61 years old) guitarist of The Rolling Stones. Being a simple waitress of 18 years old, Katya managed to take Ronnie away from his wife, with whom he lived for 23 years. The “young people” came together after the guitarist had been treated for a long drinking binge, and managed to torment all the neighbors with their quarrels. Even Ronnie's arrest for beating his mistress did not prevent their short happiness. But financial problems got in the way: the wife, having filed for divorce, emptied Wood’s wallet, and Katya demanded that Ronnie’s mansion in Ireland be taken over. The result is logical - separation.
- Anastasia Zavorotnyuk
One might say, the whole country watched this love story. Sergei Zhigunov exchanged 24 years of marriage for an affair with his “beautiful nanny.” But the more passions rage, the faster hearts burn out (axiom), and after a short idyll, Nastya fled from the former midshipman to the figure skater Chernyshev. Either the resources of love were exhausted along with the plots for the series, or the nanny turned out to be flighty, but the union fell apart as quickly as it appeared. The midshipman, bowing his head, returned to his wife.
- Cameron Diaz
This actress has the fame of a “shark” in the starry sea: how many of them, other people’s husbands, fell under her feet - and it’s impossible to count them all. The “victims” of the homewrecker and convinced “bachelor” were Uma Thurman, actress Nicole Kidman and even the scandalous Paris Hilton. But Cameron, having quickly had enough of playing, abandoned her next lover, and set off on a new voyage. The actress calmed down only in 2015, quickly and modestly marrying Benji Madden.
- Vera Brezhneva
The talented, beautiful, charming singer and actress also received the status of a “homewrecker”, having attracted businessman Mikhail Kiperman. Vera did not want to put up with the status of a mistress, and Mikhail had to leave his wife of 2 children for a slimmer and younger half. Family happiness, despite having a common child, did not last long - the couple is officially divorced.
- Tatiana Navka
In this case, the show “Stars on Ice” played a big role (however, this show became a test of strength for many couples). Joint rehearsals brought Nastya together with her star partner Basharov so much that Marat left his wife (note - Lisa Krutsko) with their daughter Amelie and went to his ice dancing partner. Even the fact that his wife converted to Islam for his sake did not deter Marat. Basharov became Tatyana’s second victim: she also took her previous husband (approx. - Alexander Zhulin) away from the family, taking him away from Maya Usova. However, it is worth saying that Basharov also stole Lisa Krutsko from his own friend, Georges Rumyantsev. Now no one will say what the reason for the separation was - Marat’s craving for alcohol, the disappointment of children and relatives from this union, or the incompatibility of Tatyana and Islam, but after a year and a half of living together, Marat and Tatyana separated.
The boomerang law: what to do to avoid punishment
It often happens in life that what you do to someone comes back to you in an enhanced form. If your husband cheated on his wife with you, then it is likely that you will soon experience the same feelings that she experienced: pain and despair. It’s not for nothing that they say that always do to a person what you want to receive yourself.
To avoid punishment, you need to separate from your married man as soon as possible. This will help you meet another man who will be free. There is no need to worry too much about this. Accept this as another test that needs to be endured, read prayers, ask God for forgiveness. If your repentance is sincere, then your karma will gradually be restored.
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Signs that he won't leave the family
So, you understand that there are only three reasons due to which you will find happiness. But don't build castles in the air. In all other cases, you will have to be content with the role of a mistress, no matter how much you want to take away a married man. Here are the signs that he is not going to get a divorce:
1. He constantly feeds you breakfast. He promises to talk to his wife, but all this drags on forever. You wait, but nothing changes. So it will be, I hasten to disappoint you.
2. It is carefully “encrypted”. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends, avoids places where his friends could see you together.
3. He makes appointments for you himself. Rarely does he come at your request. In other words, he does what is convenient for him.
4. He gives gifts only “for something.” No matter how proud some mistresses are of the fur coats and cars they receive from rich men, it’s all a beautiful wrapper. In reality, everything is quite banal. In this case, you shouldn’t even think about how to beat off a married man.
5. He never says “we.” Most often, phrases slip into his speech: “I’m so tired,” “I want,” “I’m glad you’re around.” That is, the person just feels good with you and he is not going to change anything.
My dear girls, this list can go on and on, but I don’t see the point in it. I think you get the point. While you wait, hope and believe, time passes. It is quite possible that your lover will indulge himself to his heart's content, then come to his senses and again become a prudent family man. Alas, no advice from a psychologist on how to take a man away will help here.
First marriage lumpy
My future husband and I studied at university together. In their second year they started dating, and by the end of their studies they decided to get married. We didn’t think much about this step, we just decided and that’s it. When you're 22, you don't think much about the future. You just do what you want. And we wanted to become adults as quickly as possible.
Naturally, we were not ready for real adult life. Before I had time to really recover from my studies, I became pregnant, gave birth, and began to learn the delights of motherhood. This completely confused my husband. All these diapers, sleepless nights, an exhausted wife - life did not prepare him for this. And he found a way out - to be at home less often. It’s not difficult for a guy his age to find an alternative to family life, especially when friends are constantly inviting him to hang out.
When my daughter grew up and started going to kindergarten, I looked around and realized that my family life resembled some kind of circus. It felt like I actually had two children. And while I was raising one, the second one completely got out of hand. We were no longer the loving couple we used to be. It was obvious that the husband began to live his own separate life.
