What to do if a man doesn’t call: check Lisa Volkova’s method

How to attract a long-awaited call or meeting, even if your man hasn’t called for a whole week? Today I will tell you how my friend and I tested in practice 4 recommendations of Lisa Volkova for attracting men. Whether our experiment worked or not - read on...

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And I’ll start a little from afar...

My ideal man doesn't call or text

Happiness, joy and elation - this is what a girl should experience after a successful date. But in practice this is often not the case. Nervousness, confusion, awkwardness—it happens that this is exactly what is left after a date.

And all because the man does not call after the meeting. Not immediately, not the next day, not later. The man disappeared, disappeared! I am familiar with this situation and these feelings.

A little personal...

He seemed like my destiny. Tall, curly, smart, sexy, with humor - my ideal. We had beautiful dates, hot kisses, long intimate conversations. And then... he disappeared.

I looked at the phone with hope, then with anger, then with irritation at myself, then fell into depression - I went through all the phases of accepting the situation in a day. Every time the phone rang, time stopped and the countdown started again.

They understand everything right away

This is one of the most standard situations: a woman meets a man two or three times, and then he disappears. Dating could seem quite pleasant to a representative of the fairer sex, and she was already determined to continue the relationship and even the emergence of something serious. But the man not only does not invite her to the next date, he completely disappears from her field of vision.

The thing is that most men trust their first impression. As a rule, already on the first date they can assume the approximate development of events, and most importantly, almost immediately understand whether they have a future with the woman who is opposite, and whether they even want to have anything in common with her.

My girlfriend's secret

My friend Katya didn’t understand my whining. They always called her back. And even when the man made himself known late, she said: “My boyfriend is the best! Doesn’t write, doesn’t call, doesn’t invite me for a walk, doesn’t bother me - my sunshine.” I didn’t understand this attitude, but I had to admit that Katyusha was much luckier with the guys...

I unraveled my friend’s secret only a few years later, when I was already married. It was simple: if it happened that a man disappeared, Katya intuitively acted according to certain rules. And so he returned to her quite quickly.

I accidentally came across these very rules while watching a video on Lisa Volkova’s YouTube channel “POWER IN THOUGHT”. It talked about the behavior of a girl who is waiting for the first step from a man. It turned out that Katya did everything right, which, alas, I cannot say about myself.

By the way, how would you behave in such a situation?

What will you do in a situation where your man has disappeared? Choose your answer

So, you have 3 options. Choose what to do.

  • Call or write first : yes - yes, no - no, why bother in vain?
  • Be offended and proudly remain silent, sending him to ignore. And then we'll see...
  • Accept that if a man doesn’t call , it means I didn’t hook him, it’s not fate.

Which option do you think is correct?

Answer: neither one, nor the other, nor the third!

If you really want your chosen one to finally call you and invite you on the date of your dreams, you need to act completely differently!

What does it mean if a guy doesn't respond to messages: 5 reasons

Reading a message and sending a response takes a couple of minutes; you can find them even in the super busy schedule of a hero saving the world:

  1. Lack of time. The banal truth. A working man does not always have the opportunity to speak or immediately respond to a letter received, especially if the message implies a lengthy, detailed answer. His thinking is of a tunnel type; at the moment when his head is busy with the task of raising indicators to the level required by his superiors, thoughts about the upcoming weekend are firmly blocked. The lover of a dedicated workaholic will have to come to terms with the fact that loving moments during work hours lose priority.
  2. Manipulation. Gaming is no longer a woman's preserve; narcissists, abusers and other nasty types you should stay away from are deliberately creating a pendulum effect. At first there is normal communication, then the guy stops writing or answering messages, the girl gets angry, nervous, starts calling, again she is ignored or has a weak, inarticulate reaction. Then everything suddenly becomes good, it’s clear, communication improves. By allowing herself to be drawn into such a game, the lady automatically loses, taking the position of a subordinate. Gradually, cat and mouse become more interesting for the manipulator and sadder for the “victim”. Having noticed such a swing, it is right to say goodbye on the stratum, preserving your personal mental health. Loving a manipulator is the shortest path to neurosis, the murder of self-esteem.
  3. Indifference . Lack of interest in a woman is a good reason for a man to remain silent in response. The lady is simply not the focus of attention. Perhaps a man will take the initiative (write, call) when He needs it, boredom sets in.
  4. What exactly did you mean? Without understanding the meaning of the message, the person “freezes”, thinking about the message or response options that allow him not to look stupid, revealing a lack of ingenuity. Relevant for complex topics when you need to comprehend an answer expressing a position on a “slippery” issue.
  5. Secret love. A man who hides his married status periodically disappears from communication. During working hours, communication occurs without a hitch, but in the evenings and on weekends it becomes problematic to quickly respond to messages; you can’t run to the toilet for half an hour at the first signal in the messenger. The wife will quickly figure out the reasons for the “diarrhea” against the backdrop of changes in the family and the behavior of the husband. The gentleman will clearly explain the delays, but by putting the value “married” instead of the X, it will become clear that these are excuses.

How to behave if a man doesn’t call: 4 recommendations from Lisa Volkova

If you think about a man day and night, if you are sad that your phone is not ringing off the hook with his calls, if your hands are itching to write to him, you are not in a resourceful state. You are in a state of need and desire for him to pay attention to you. This is what scares him away.

To attract a man, you just need to change your inner state. Yes, it's that simple! And Lisa Volkova’s recommendations help to do this.

Lisa's recommendation #1. Don’t write, don’t call, and don’t “accidentally” catch your eye

So, under no circumstances write or call him with the questions “Where did you go?”, “What happened?”, “When will we meet?” etc. Take a time out and give yourself time to change a little.

Learn to enjoy life by excluding from it worries like “Why did the man disappear when everything was going so well?” Live every moment with pleasure, be passionate about your business and yourself. Then the man himself will be attracted to you almost instantly. He will be attracted to your state of sincere joy and happiness.

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Lisa's recommendation #2. Create a state of joy, love and pleasure

Firstly,

stop seeing the problem that the man disappeared. On the contrary, find benefits in it - for example, a lot of free time. Enjoy it and focus all your attention on yourself.

Secondly,

do what you like! It doesn't matter what exactly brings you pleasure. The main thing is the sensations that you experience. The more you do things for yourself, the more happiness you will have in your life.

Remember - what do you love and what fills you? For myself, I made a list of 50 favorite activities. Here are a few of them besides the standard shopping and spa.

  1. Go to the cinema with a bucket of popcorn, immerse yourself in the plot of the film, forgetting about everything in the world.
  2. Meet with friends and gossip a lot.
  3. Throw away old things (clothes, dishes) and get rid of junk in the house.
  4. Meet the dawn when everyone is still sleeping, enjoying the silence and solitude.
  5. Choose and give gifts to your loved ones for no reason.
  6. Take a course or marathon on self-development, professional development, etc.
  7. Review old family photos and videos.
  8. Swim in the pool.
  9. Go for a run in the park in the morning.
  10. Try something completely new - a cooking class, oil painting, vocal lesson, etc.

Do something that inspires you every day. Regularly devote at least half an hour to this, and you will notice how the world around you will change.

But know this: in reality, the world will remain the same. Only the perception will change - you will simply tune your strings to the desired wave.

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Lisa's recommendation #3. Create an intention and breathe life into it

But now we can remember about the man. You are in a resourceful state, satisfied with yourself and life, you have your own interests and affairs. It's time to create an intention - that your man thinks about you and longs to meet you.

Write this intention on a piece of paper in a positive way with the name of your chosen one. For example: Andrey
thinks about me every second . He really wants to call me, he really wants to see me . He is happy to invite me on a date .
Imagine this call and your meeting in great detail: how his voice sounds, how his gaze feels. You should feel this thought with your whole body - goosebumps, butterflies in your stomach, a feeling of flight and boundless joy.

Cast aside all doubts and be completely confident that the man is about to write or call you and will definitely make an appointment.

Lisa's recommendation #4. Think correctly for a man

There is such a joke: while
the man does not call or write, the woman manages to draw the worst thing - conclusions.
If a man has disappeared, you involuntarily begin to think: He probably won’t call me... He probably didn’t like me... He probably has someone...

It turns out that you are, as it were, thinking out thoughts for a man that he may not have.

Instead, create your own reason why he will definitely call you and soon confess his love: for example, because you are beautiful, smart and cheerful, because he remembers you every minute, misses you very much, etc.

And when he appears, don’t sort things out. No phrases from the series “Where have you been?”, “Why didn’t you call?” or “You can’t do that with me”! Act as if you didn't notice he was missing.

Maintain dignity

Many women don’t want to believe that it’s all over before it even begins; they need to hear it from the man himself. But it’s better not to do this and not to call first, not to impose yourself. Such a woman inevitably loses points in the eyes of a man and looks pitiful.

Women in such situations should maintain their self-esteem. If a man disappears, it means he doesn’t want to be around her. In addition, if the lady does not start calling first or bombarding him with messages, but remains silent, this can turn the situation exactly in the direction she needs. Silence and time will allow a man to assess the situation and seriously consider a woman’s candidacy for the role of life partner.

In addition, he may really get bored and realize that his new acquaintance is really interesting and dear to him. Then he will call again and make an appointment. Just don't answer night calls. If a man who has suddenly disappeared calls at three in the morning, then most likely at that moment he has been drinking a little and wants to get only a moment of pleasure and set up a non-binding date. It is unlikely that this is the attitude that any woman expects.

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An experiment codenamed “The Man Doesn’t Call.” How we checked Lisa Volkova's recommendations

I'm a skeptic and love proven techniques. Therefore, I decided to try these rules of Lisa in practice. My husband glanced disapprovingly in my direction: the thought of an experimental date did not inspire him, of course. And then I turned to my other friend, Elena.

Lena just recently met Kirill, a new colleague from another office. A spark ran between them, and now a date was set. I suggested that Lena conduct an experiment if Kirill suddenly didn’t call back after the date. And she agreed.

The first experience turned out to be successful - for me. Not so good for Lena, because Kirill didn’t call her either the evening after the date or the next day.

And then we started with Lisa’s first two recommendations: put down the phone and take care of yourself.

We went for a pedicure together, then walked and chatted all day (not about Kirill). My friend's mood definitely lifted. And by evening she even stopped looking at her phone.

The next day Lena went to visit her grandmother. She loved to go there, but rarely got the chance. I returned inspired, and in the evening I went to a jazz concert.

In the morning we called each other - Lena was in a great mood. She said that she didn’t even think about Kirill all evening.

Then we moved on to recommendations 3 and 4 - creating intention and right thoughts.

Lena wrote in her diary: “Kirill is bored and calls me with joy and pleasure.” She said that when she wrote this, she thought: “How could it be otherwise? Let’s miss a girl like that!” Then I imagined his call and felt a trembling inside. She realized that everything would be as she dreams.

And calmly went to the gym.

Experiment result

The next day, Kirill went into the office where Lena worked. The first thing I did was look at her and ask if she wanted to go for a walk at lunchtime. Viva Victoria! It turned out even better than Lena expected: instead of a call, there was a meeting right away.

So, our experiment lasted only 3 days and ended successfully. I am sure that any girl can apply these simple recommendations if her man does not call. And instead of despairing that the man has disappeared, continue to go on dates with him, receive gifts and declarations of love.

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What do you usually do if your chosen one disappears for a long time and does not make himself known? Share in the comments.

What to do if a guy doesn't respond to messages

A young man interested in a girl will be able to find a way to warn his chosen one about the lack of communication, clearly, honestly, understandably explain the reason for the inability to answer messages, calls, and will announce the time frame for resuming communication. The worst thing a young lady can do in case of silence is to start firing machine-gun bursts of messages, expressing resentment, threatening heavenly punishments, and starting a one-sided scandal over correspondence.

You shouldn’t sit cuddling with your cell phone, waiting for news. It’s better to remember how many interesting, important things, meetings, events you can organize in your free time. This will allow you to be distracted and dispel gloomy thoughts. When a subscriber appears on the line, it is advisable to refrain from immediately expressing grievances, claims, or indignations.

His reaction and explanations can tell an attentive, self-possessed girl a lot. Perhaps the guy really experienced force majeure. Or does he not consider it necessary to comment on the action? Throws accusations onto her side, accusing the lady that she herself provoked him to go to the bottom? Time to draw conclusions.

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