Every girl in love, from time to time, wonders how often her lover thinks about her. But how do you know if he remembers her at all, or only thinks about her immediately before the date? It turns out that there are several signs that can help us in this matter. Thanks to them, at the subconscious level, you can understand whether the person you need is thinking about you.
Almost each of us is endowed with the ability to perceive the world around us, both on a physical and emotional level. This ability is sometimes called "clairsentience." And it is inherent in a person from birth. But since we use our ability only 10%, many do not even suspect its existence and do not know how to use it.
You have probably asked yourself the question at least once in your life: “if I think about a person, does he remember me?” As a rule, such a thought arises when feeling the physical and emotional components of the mood, the energetic component of another person. That is, if there are mutual feelings between you, then an invisible thread is formed that connects you. And, even after the relationship ends, you can sometimes still feel the person’s mood, understand whether he is happy or sad.
To understand whether he remembers you, the signs that you will now learn about will help:
Unexpected manifestations of emotional state
Remember if there have been situations in your life when, during a stormy party, or in the middle of a working day, when you are having fun and comfortably, suddenly your cheerful mood begins to decline and plunges you into a state of sadness for a while.
Such emotional swings indicate that you often think about a certain person. And, if such a situation happened to you, then with a high probability this same person is also thinking about you.
How long will it take
If a loved one decides to leave, this does not always mean forever. It will take some time for the head of the family to return. Return times depend on certain circumstances:
- motive for the departure of a life partner;
- how the relationship will develop after a quarrel;
- What will the wife do to get her partner back?
If the faithful went to his rival, then, according to statistics, he will leave her. At the end of the candy-bouquet period. Approximately it takes less than six months. If you analyze why your husband left for someone else, how to get him back is quite clear. So:
- the homewrecker is outwardly more attractive, more beautiful;
- the mistress has a lot of free time;
- she does not burden the man with household chores and does not show dissatisfaction;
- the rival has a wealth of sexual experience.
You have a dream about this person.
Perhaps you have never had dreams involving this person before. But suddenly you dreamed about him. Remember what happened in the dream, what he looked like, what he said. The energetic connection that has been established between you projects real life onto events in a dream, but with some distortions. But by analyzing the dream, you can understand how this person is living now, and what may happen to him in the future.
Perhaps you dream about him because he remembers you and in his thoughts strives to be near you. This may indicate that he wants to contact you. Try calling him, asking about his plans, health, mood...
How do thoughts affect energy levels?
Despite the fact that thoughts are immaterial, one cannot deny the fact that thinking about the same person has an effect on the energetic level.
There are several points of view on this.
Some experts believe that by constantly thinking about a person, we waste our energy potential. That is, instead of spending energy on yourself, you spend it on someone else. Ultimately, this leads to a depletion of energy potential.
Psychologists talk about the same thing. When you think only about someone specific, you “get hung up” on him, focus your thoughts, dreams, expectations, but at the same time you seem to fall out of real life.
Esotericists even point out that constantly thinking about one person, you seem to give him a part of your own soul. You are gradually wasted, you are not satisfied, that is, you do not maintain energy balance. As a result, depression sets in.
But there is another point. On an energetic level, it is very important to be able to share. This is possible if your thoughts carry a positive charge. When you think well of a person, support him in your thoughts, wish him happiness, he receives this energy charge and returns it to you. Thus, positive thoughts, on the contrary, are useful. Including for you.
The desire to be close
You can often hear that some people are brought together by fate itself. To some extent, this is true. After all, we fall in love with a person not consciously, but at the level of the subconscious, which unmistakably feels that it is this person who often thinks about us and it is he who can satisfy all our needs.
Therefore, it becomes clear why people struggle to be close to the one they are attracted to. Therefore, if you often notice a person nearby, then be sure that he often thinks about you and, at the subconscious level, is looking for ways to get closer to you.
How to distract yourself from thoughts if you don’t want to think about someone?
It often happens that constant thoughts about a person torment and prevent you from living normally. In this case, you need to switch to something else.
Of course, this is easier said than done, but there are some pretty effective ways to stop thinking about another person:
- Blocking on social networks. Don't go to the page, don't look at the photos and don't expect stories. Nowadays we spend a lot of time online, so minimize the presence of an annoying person in your Internet space.
- Minimizing meetings. Limit communication and meetings as much as possible.
- Change of activity. Find a new hobby in which you have to spend a sufficient amount of time. Interest clubs, board games, dancing - you need to keep your head busy to the maximum so that there is simply no time left for thoughts.
- Control your mind. Notice the moments when you again fall into thoughts about another person, and switch your attention.
- Focus on yourself. Fill your head with thoughts about yourself: planning a trip, shopping, rearranging, etc.
- Stop looking for the problem in yourself. Many of us are brought up in such a way that, first of all, we look for a problem in ourselves, elevating the other person to an unattainable level. This needs to change. You don't need to prove anything to others.
Watching you
If a person thinks about you often and wants you to be a part of his life, then his subconscious makes you an object for observation. Moreover, he will not always observe openly, because in the modern world there are every opportunity for this. In addition, he will be interested in everything that interests you. And, if all his thoughts are directed at you, then we can conclude that he likes you.
Life with a tyrant husband: leave or stay
First of all, you need to understand: a confident, strong man will never assert himself at the expense of a weak partner, he has no need for this. A domestic tyrant is a representative of the stronger sex who has not succeeded in life, has not made a career, or has not realized himself in any field. The only place where he can feel like a king is his family.
Sometimes a man with a whole bunch of complexes coming from childhood becomes a despot. An internally repressed person, afraid of appearing weak more than anything else, demonstrates his “strength” on his wife and children. This is the only way he can feel confident.
Tyranny can manifest itself in the following actions:
- Constant criticism of the spouse's actions. A woman will never deserve words of praise, since she always does everything wrong and bad. Gradually, the lady, even if she is very pretty and dresses beautifully, develops an inferiority complex, but the husband feels very comfortable in this situation.
- Full financial control. Even if the wife works, she will not be able to manage money; she will have to account for every purchase and ask for money even for the most necessary things, not only for herself, but also for the children.
- Moral pressure. It is impossible to find a common language and prove that you are right - the husband will be right in any situation, and he has the last word.
- Jealousy. A woman must belong to the tyrant undividedly, therefore everyone who can encroach on his property must be erased from her life - parents, friends, colleagues, acquaintances.
- Physical violence. This is an extreme form of despotism. Surprisingly, many women are sure that if he hits you, it means he loves you. In fact, assault becomes more and more dangerous and cruel over time, and one day something irreparable can happen.
So is it worth saving the family if the husband is a typical tyrant? If a man cares about his woman, perhaps he will come to his senses, but most often it is impossible to correct a despot.
Explores your surroundings.
You can find out what a person thinks about you by observing his behavior in a company where your friends are present. As you know, our friends have a certain influence on our lives. Therefore, when you are interested in a person, then you are also interested in his friends, whom you try to please. The way he communicates with your friends can tell you how interested he is. In addition, if he ends the conversation with you, then he is clearly not indifferent to you and often thinks about you.
What to do if you think in a negative way
We are all living people who experience a wide range of emotions. Including negative ones. There's nothing wrong with that.
Therefore, first of all, it is worth recognizing the presence of negativity towards a specific person. Secondly, try to answer the question: “Why do I think bad about him (her) on an energetic level?”
Here you will have to face your bad emotions: envy, anger, hatred.
It is quite possible that a person deserves such an attitude from you, but you need to understand something else. Negative thoughts are destructive because you destroy your energy field, become vulnerable, and attract negativity to yourself.
Of course, on an energetic level you do harm to others, but you cause disproportionately greater harm to yourself.
What to do in this case? You need to change the vector of movement of your thoughts. This does not mean that you need to forgive the offender and welcome him again with open arms. But resentment and anger must be let go. If you can’t do this on your own, you should seek help from a psychologist.
In any case, the problem needs to be worked out so that it does not poison you. After all, by focusing on the negative, you will miss a lot of opportunities to improve your own life.
You open up
You no longer want to pretend to be someone you are not. A loving person accepts you with all your flaws and virtues, you can finally breathe out and be yourself. Without a doubt, you open up to your loved one, trust yourself and your life, without fear of being judged or misunderstood.
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Only when you meet your person do you understand how wonderful it is to live in harmony with yourself. Now you know why you live, what you strive for and what you want. Uncertainty and doubts disappear on their own, and in their place come joy from every day you live and happiness that you are no longer alone.
My husband left home, how to get him back?
In practice, there are cases when the beloved leaves the family nest, but then comes back, the family is reunited, the spouses continue to live in love and harmony. The female sex is by nature more tolerant than the male sex, and can forgive a lot.
But you need a good reason to leave. A guy who is accustomed to the comfort of home, clean linen, hot borscht is unlikely to leave his companion for the sake of momentary pleasure. The chosen one would rather quietly meet with a new passion than sacrifice personal comfort. If your husband left you, you can get him back. You just need to understand the reasons for leaving:
- Love. Awakened feelings for a former passion, a new romance.
- Infidelity of a companion. It is difficult for men to forgive the betrayal of their beloved.
- Psychological factors. At home there are constantly quarrels, scandals, misunderstandings.
- Household and financial problems. Endless reproaches from the spouse about the lack of money.
- Dissatisfaction with intimate life. The stronger sex lacks attention, tenderness, and affection.
- Appearance of a lover. Ungroomed women in greasy robes are repulsive.
