Woman manipulator: how to recognize manipulation by a man

“If you don’t do what I want now, you won’t see homemade borscht, clean socks and passionate sex.” Women won't play by the rules.

Especially if they really need something, and a man stands between them and the desired goal.

If manipulation affects male instincts and pain points, it works. Always. Only more often than not, the female puppeteer turns out to be unprepared for the destructive consequences.

From this article you will learn:

What do manipulations lead to?
How do women manipulate men?
What types of manipulations are there?
Examples and alternatives.

I want new earrings (vacation on an exotic island, a car, getting married). If, as a rule, we have no difficulties with desires, then with opportunities there is always trouble. And you can achieve your “wants” in two ways :

Manipulation.
Work (on yourself, relationships, searching for alternatives).

Why bother? Manipulation is in vogue now. Psychologists and coaches teach women how to manipulate men, pull the right strings and make the guy eat out of your hand.

They just forget to talk about what the desire to play puppeteer leads to.

Why do women manipulate men?

Manipulation is a powerful means of female influence on a man. Manipulating men has always been considered the best opportunity for a woman to coexist and compete with them in a man's world. Often this was the only way for women to achieve some kind of hierarchical position in society.

Kings, businessmen, presidents and army generals suffered defeats and lost reputations. And all because, under the influence of women’s manipulations, they made wrong decisions that cost them honor, and for many, their lives.

Therefore, knowing the power of manipulation, almost all representatives of the fairer sex manipulate men when the need arises. They try to exploit men's weaknesses, which they don't even notice. (Men are not inferior to women in manipulation. Therefore, we recommend reading about how manipulative men behave in relationships).

Typical phrases of a woman manipulator

You're a man
You're a man, don't be a wuss
A real man would never do that
You don't love me at all

Sounds familiar? What does a man do after such phrases, supported by tears, hysterics or whining? Waving his hand, he does a lot of things that he did not agree to, just so as not to see more women's hysterics and tears.

You can learn more about the phrases of a manipulative woman from this video, which we recommend watching.

Let's consider the characteristic signs of female manipulation.

Wait for sex

Don't let a guy come down on you after a few dates. Make sure your boyfriend is truly interested in you and loves you before you give up your virginity. Does he give you flowers? Does he buy you gifts and give you compliments? If not, then you are going the wrong way. Control your sex drive and take time for your relationship. It's best to put a guy on a diet without sex. Or promise him possible sex in the near future. See how he presents you with trinkets and pays attention to every detail. Although it may be difficult for you, it will be worth it. And this is exactly what you wanted - attention and benefit!

With these proven tips, you can manipulate men and control the world around you the way you want, and not the other way around. All the best, girls!

A woman is a manipulator in a relationship: signs

Female manipulation takes many forms, but these signs will help you identify it so you can control your thoughts, feelings and actions. So, let's look at how to recognize a woman who is a manipulator.

Enthusiastic praise and tenderness flowing into some kind of requests. She is all tenderness, praises and calls the guy affectionate names, but this always ends with some kind of requests.
He puts off his promises for later, with which he keeps his partner on a short leash. By the way, this is one of the best methods or ways for women to manipulate men.
A woman who is a manipulator with her words and actions makes her partner constantly jealous. He thinks that he is inferior to an imaginary opponent who is better than himself. In order not to lose his chosen one, a man is ready to fulfill any woman’s whims.
Uses appearance to get her way through tight or revealing clothing, a seductive figure, posture, and a suggestive, flirtatious look.
Reproaches to yourself. The woman tearfully blames herself for being insensitive to her man and says that she doesn’t understand how this could happen. After which the man tries to prove to her the opposite, that she is not insensitive, and he is satisfied with everything about her.
Friendzone. A manipulative girl does not refuse a guy a relationship, but she also does not allow him to get close. Thus, maintaining his hope for a close relationship. Her behavior and flirting with men shows that if she does not meet a more profitable match, then he is a “backup option” for her.
The feeling of scarcity is a powerful way to manipulate a man. The woman created in the man the confidence that he was dealing with the queen. She shows the man in every possible way how many admirers and admirers she has, but only he is lucky .
Women's manipulation of separation. She subtly ridicules him in public, belittles his merits, and notices his shortcomings. Thus forcing the guy to become a “rag” and endure such an attitude if he does not want her to break up with him.
Unfinished phrases. They say to a man something like: “I knew it, you didn’t think like everyone else.” After which he racks his brains in bewilderment, not understanding what she has already thought of for herself?

Signs of a manipulative woman in the family

Half-hints. When manipulating a man, the manipulator’s wife does not ask directly, but refers to the fact that her friend has it. Or he says that any woman looks great in this. After such half-hints, the husband usually shells out money.
Women's manipulation of silence. The wife does not react in any way to her husband’s words, actions and deeds. With her silence and ignorance she tries to make him feel guilty.
Inferiority complex. The wife puts herself in a bad light, for example, considering herself ugly or stupid. After which the husband begins to feel sorry for her more and compliment her.
Appeal to a sense of duty. The husband is made to understand that he must always do or be obliged to do something, to give to her, since she has become his wife.
Plays on emotions. The wife cleverly portrays coldness and resentment, and when her husband makes amends, she demonstrates passion. Nonverbal behavior plays a big role in this. She can eloquently fall silent, turn away from her husband, or roll her eyes demonstratively. They use tears and reproaches that they don’t love her.
Refers to some authoritative opinion of someone else. Example, “the same way I think and your mother.” Any person can be inserted into these words, especially if it is authoritative for her interlocutor.
Extracting confessions or promises. For example, “tell me you love me; do you promise me"? Thus, the woman manipulator forces her husband to say exactly the words that she wants to hear. Subsequently, she will refer to them in conversations with him.
The manipulator deftly inserts into the conversation words of admiration for the man: his abilities, intelligence, achievements, masculinity. After this, the man wants to further prove his superiority over others. And the woman can only direct this desire in a direction beneficial to her. (By the way, men love compliments, and not all women manipulate this, so we recommend that you learn how to properly compliment the man you love?)
Manipulating a man through love blackmail. A manipulative woman plays on men’s feelings and love, forcing her husband to tolerate her shortcomings and put up with her antics if he loves her. His patience is regarded as proof of love.