In fact, there are many things that can signal a healthy, happy relationship that will last a long time. Trust, affection and respect are among the most important feelings for any couple. However, there are many other important factors that are not always so obvious. So, here are 15 sure signs that you have found your person.
He plans his future with you
The most important sign that you have found “the one” is the way he plans his future. If you figure in every one of his plans, then you can be sure that this is a relationship that will last a long time.
Once you start noticing these 15 things, you'll realize that this is the one... the one. At some point in your relationship, you will look at your partner and realize that this is the person you are meant to be with. Finally, you will see that this is a relationship that will last a lifetime.
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Man by destiny - what does it mean?
Not all meetings turn out to be happy and fateful. Many people have been trying to improve their personal lives for years, but nothing works out for them. They constantly meet someone, and then are disappointed when another promising acquaintance ends in nothing. Why is this happening?
Esotericists believe that every person has, figuratively speaking, his own soul mate, destined for him from above. But everyone's karma is different. Depending on what karmic lesson you have to go through in this life, you can meet your destiny at 20, 30 or even 40 years old. Therefore, if you want to wait for your happiness, be patient and do not rush things.
Let's try to figure out how a fateful meeting differs from a non-fateful one. The ancient sages said that marriages are made in heaven. If people are destined for each other by fate itself, they will definitely be together, and no external circumstances can separate them. Quarrels and even temporary separations may occur between them - but still, after some time, they restore their relationship again.
The right man will never let you forget how much he loves you.
I can't even tell you how many conversations I've had with people who feel like there is no commitment in their relationships. The men in these women's lives never made them feel loved, wanted, or valued. This is the most important piece of the puzzle - the right man will always remind you how much you mean to him.
If someone truly loves you, you will know and feel it. If not, then every time you will wonder: “Loves or does not love.”
The right man will always remind you that you are beautiful.
He'll learn that making you feel beautiful isn't just about telling you so. This is what will mean that he truly makes you feel beautiful. This is expressed in the way he looks at you, how he touches you, how he cares for you. He will notice the changes in your appearance that you worked so hard for and will remind you of how attractive you are even when you don't change.
The right man realizes that whether you're in sweatpants on the couch or in an evening dress at a concert, when you love someone for who he or she really is, everything about them becomes beautiful.
You have similar life values and goals
You don't have to accept your partner's opinion as your own. In fact, one of the greatest benefits of being in a happy relationship is the ability to see the world from your partner's point of view. You don't have to adopt his hobbies or hang out in the same group of friends. The ability to separate your own and other people's interests and find compromises is the key to healthy relationships. However, if you want to build a life together, you need to analyze the core values and life goals that are important to your partner. Otherwise, you will very soon begin to quarrel over trifles.
For example, if one of your main values is a family with at least 3 children, but your partner always believed that he was going to live his life without having a child, this will become an insurmountable obstacle to your happiness together. It doesn't matter how happy you are with each other in everyday life. If you are incompatible, you will not be able to keep your union intact in the long run.
How to achieve harmonious relationships
Psychology tends to believe that since each person is individual, then each person also has their own ideal framework. For one, happiness is a family nest and a fireplace, for another, madness and a surge of adrenaline are required.
