Useful tips
When we hear the phrase “envy with white envy” addressed to someone
, this does not bother us at all, but when such an expression is addressed in our direction, it immediately begins to be somewhat annoying, and somehow the question arises in itself, is this white envy really so white?
The fact
that our friends envy us indicates
that everything is fine with us and we have something that other people want to have. But, as a rule, the envy of other people causes us some anxiety and concern, and somehow suddenly a certain suspicion begins to creep in that all the good things are about to end and everything will change dramatically, not for the better.
It doesn't matter whether a person believes or not that another person's gaze can actually bring trouble.
, one way or another, the very word “jinxed” causes anxiety and a bad feeling. Plus, we know what real nasty things can be expected from a person who is jealous all the time.
The evil eye is a weapon not only of dangerous people, but also of those who are completely unaware
that can do this. You can get the evil eye even due to taciturn envy. And therefore, for those people who are truly worried in this area, it will be very interesting and useful to learn exactly how to protect themselves from the evil eye of an evil person, neighbor or gypsy.
You hear insincere compliments
The first thing people do when they envy you is shower you with compliments.
, which can sound differently: both sincerely and with secret malice. But, for example, as soon as you leave the room, such people will immediately start rolling their eyes.
In all likelihood, people who are jealous will pretend
that they don’t envy you at all, but they will never say it out loud or show their emotions. In this situation, there is one very good method that helps a lot. It is necessary to praise the envious person himself when something really works out for him. This behavior of yours will in some way curb the feelings of the envious and help people see you as a sincere and good person.
You should never take the words of envious people seriously
to understand whether it is flattery or sincerity, because behind them there may be hidden intentions towards you. This way, you can minimize the fact that seemingly sincere compliments from these people can actually turn into duplicity.
Downplaying someone else's success.
Envious people constantly try to downplay, or even neutralize, the achievements of other people. At the same time, they do not disdain the dirtiest methods, such as lies and gossip.
Remember that arguing with them or proving something is a waste of time. They will foam at the mouth to prove the opposite, and you will be nervous.
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Do your job, be humble and least of all worry about what they say about you behind your back.
When envious people rejoice in your defeats
When something doesn’t work out for you and doesn’t work out the way you wanted, your envious people begin to experience real joy from it. These people carefully hide these emotions of theirs, but in their hearts they are very satisfied with your position.
You need to learn to be calm about your mistakes. And you can always answer your envious people that we all learn from our mistakes. It is important not to show your frustration in any way so that people who are jealous of you cannot enjoy your defeats.
They will leave you at the slightest... success.
Generally, people surround us and praise us as long as we are successful. But if you fail, they scatter in different directions, like rats from a sinking ship.
It’s understandable – we couldn’t be more useful to them.
Envious people are the opposite. They run away when you achieve your goals and move forward. This is explained by the fact that your well-being only increases their feelings of inferiority and envy. They don’t like to be in the rays of someone else’s glory when the comparison is not in their favor, so they simply leave so as not to torment themselves.
But when you fail, they will return. But not to lend a shoulder or support. No, they will come to rejoice in your misfortunes.
When they hate you for no reason
If you feel like they hate you for no reason, then they definitely envy you. And a completely difficult test can be the realization that you are hated because of envy.
You will probably even have a desire to please your opponent, but most likely you will not succeed. In fact, such a person simply needs to be erased from your life. Try to surround yourself only with people who carry positive emotions. You have absolutely no need for all this negativity, and, probably, these people themselves are not happy about such unjustified negativity towards others, so just let them go.
Classic reactions to your envy
You can fight envy and convince yourself that these people have more piety or they deserve it. Many people reason: “I understand that I didn’t do enough good in my past life, but they worked hard. I am reaping the fruits of what I have done!” Makes sense, doesn't it? It just doesn't make it any easier
