How to outdo Casanova: pickup rules for men

Many modern men simply do not know how to meet people. This is not an unfounded statement, but a fact established on the basis of information from various sites, forums, and social networks on the Internet. Young people, hiding under nicknames and avatars, write openly about this. Some of the guys who really care about this issue go to the pickup truck. What is it about? This can be found in this article.

What is a pickup truck for?

The concept of “pickup” means a type of activity aimed at getting to know the opposite sex for the purpose of seduction and obtaining the knowledge and practical skills necessary for this.

Currently, there are many trainings whose purpose is to teach clients the basic methods and techniques of pickup.

Such training includes not only a theoretical part, but also practical exercises.

Learning pickup techniques allows men to solve the following problems :

• become self-confident;
• learn to meet women;
• develop skills in building effective communication;
• understand female psychology;
• learn to quickly seduce the object you like.

In practice, the main goal is precisely acquiring the skills to quickly seduce the women you like. Essentially, pick-up artists strive to engage in sexual contact without wasting extra effort and time.

Basis of teaching

The founder of the teaching is considered to be the American writer Ross Jeffries , who wrote the book “How to Get the Woman of Your Dreams into Bed” in 1992.

It was Jeffries who founded the very first seminar on seduction. He later held a conference on a similar topic.

The writer to some extent justified the consumer attitude towards women by the inherent inequality between the sexes .

In his opinion, even the most unattractive woman who demonstrates her readiness for sexual intercourse will find herself a partner without any problems.

This may not be the most handsome or the most successful man, but in any case he will be found.

For a man to quickly enter into an easy relationship with a woman in the absence of an attractive appearance, wealth and charm, he has to work hard .

Negative side

a rational grain in the pickup truck - it helps insecure men learn how to meet women and communicate with them.

These skills can help you impress the girl you like and start a relationship with her.

In reality, pickup training often promotes a rather immoral lifestyle.

A man learns to endlessly seduce women who act as soulless objects for him. Moreover, the more goals are achieved, the better.

As a result, such a consumer attitude towards the opposite sex leads to the following negative consequences:

• the development of cynicism, which manifests itself in open disregard for existing norms of morality and morality;
• causing moral suffering to women who may misinterpret the pick-up artist’s attitude towards them and subsequently have a hard time dealing with the breakup;
• the risk of missing out on a truly promising relationship with a suitable woman in the pursuit of new victories;
• rapid satiety from a constant change of non-binding contacts, which is guaranteed to cause a feeling of boredom;
• the low quality of life experience gained from such fleeting relationships without emotional involvement;
• loss of the ability to express sincere feelings, experiences, and sympathies.

Ordinary men?

Yes. They are distinguished only by their lifestyle: seduction, seduction and attraction of women. It is unlikely that it will be possible to change such a person, but it is easy to get rid of him.

They differ in their manner of behavior. I don’t recommend that you get involved with such men and believe everything they say. As a result, you will be left without self-esteem and self-respect, with tears and unfulfilled dreams.

Share in the comments, have you had any experience with pickup artists and how did it end? Or are you still trying to re-educate one of them?

Don't get hooked, your Yaroslav Samoilov.

Technicians

The pickup technique includes a number of sequential actions:

1. Acquaintance . This is the most difficult stage at which you need to make contact with the woman and not scare her off. There are many ways that have long been proven effective: helping to carry heavy bags, sitting at a table and buying coffee, giving a compliment on the street, giving up your seat on public transport, etc. At first glance, these are ordinary methods of casual, easy acquaintance. A woman has no chance of recognizing a pick-up artist at this stage.
2. Revealing . During communication, a man begins to receive the necessary information: age, place of study or work, hobbies, character traits, life goals, etc. Questions are asked naturally, without pressure, so as not to create the impression of interrogation.
3. Rapport. This psychological technique consists in the fact that a person artificially adapts to the values ​​of his opponent. As a result, he achieves complete trust and favor in himself.
   Women, as you know, are easily captivated by a companion who colorfully describes his virtues and exploits.

   At the initial stage of a relationship, they have no desire to check the accuracy of the information they receive.

4. Setting the evaluation dependency . Every person has certain complexes. You can easily detect weaknesses and use the acquired knowledge for your own purposes. The easiest way is flattery. Thus, a woman who is insecure about her appearance will instantly fall under the influence of a man who will constantly compliment her.
5. Touching . This moment requires a truly subtle game. Most women are alarmed by the boyfriend's quick desire to establish physical contact. For this reason, pick-up artists learn to influence in this way quietly, unobtrusively. This could be a light touch on the arm or shoulder while discussing a serious issue, an inconspicuous pull on the waist when crossing the road, a hand out when going down the stairs, etc.
6. Enticement .
   When the victim has already matured and is completely under the influence of the charm of his seducer, the moment comes to lure him to the desired place. This is where sexual contact can occur. Of course, such plans are not voiced out loud. Enticement can take the form of an invitation to coffee, a friendly party, etc.
7. Removal of responsibility. This rule works in two directions. The pickup artist convinces the victim that she is not responsible for her reckless behavior. It just happened that way. If conflict situations arise, then the man easily removes responsibility from himself - there was no coercion to sexual contact, everything happened by mutual consent.

Pickup techniques and protection against them

Pickup artist seduction templates

Pick-up artists have two main techniques for picking up girls.

The first - fast - is considered a special chic in the pick-up artist environment. This is a girl's scam for sex immediately after meeting, literally in a couple of hours.

An inexperienced girl can be deceived when a pick-up artist approaches her in a public place and behaves unusually, saying something different from other guys. Original? Not at all. He didn’t come up with it, but the founders of the pickup truck. To start dating, the pick-up artist memorizes many templates for different occasions. This is an “opener” - a template for starting an acquaintance, a template, and the pick-up artist, like a parrot, reproduces these words.

The second method is the so-called “three-date”. At the same time, the main goal is to make the girl fall in love with you, and the motto is “not to consider her as something significant for yourself.”

The first day. On the street, in a club, in any public place, a guy comes up to you and voices some unusual phrase. Moreover, this may be complete nonsense. Or an ordinary phrase in which words are rearranged, like the speech of the Star Wars hero Master Yoda. Yoda said something like this: “The dark side of the force has taken over you, young Padawan.” And the pick-up artist can say: “Would you like to get out of the stuffy hall and get some fresh air?” This is one of the classic NLP techniques for putting the interlocutor into a state of trance: while the girl is trying to comprehend an unusual phrase, her consciousness is fixed only on this process. She doesn't perceive anything else - she's in a trance. And in this state, the pick-up artist has the opportunity to use his standard techniques: touching a girl (this is called “kinesthete”), forming conditioned reflexes (“anchoring”), reducing physical space to a minimum and, in general, allowing himself what a well-mannered man would never allows himself towards an unfamiliar girl. In other words, the pick-up artist meanly took advantage of the victim’s helpless state.

And when the victim comes out of the trance, she is already touched, anchored and pliable. Without wasting a second, the pick-up artist unleashes a stream of verbiage on her. He has tested all this more than once on other naive girls, learned it by heart long ago, and so he bursts into tears like a nightingale. And she, silly, thinks: “How interesting he is, how witty, how fun it is to be with him!”

But if his strange phrase doesn’t work, if the girl doesn’t want to make contact, or doesn’t fall into a trance, the pick-up artist uses a sneaky technique called “neghit” - these are taunts, insulting attacks, remarks in order to make the girl angry (“drive her off her feet”). her arrogance"). Sometimes other, long-established pick-up techniques are used.

The main goal of the first meeting is to get the girl’s phone number. Having written down the number, the pick-up artist leaves in English, without saying goodbye, leaving the confused girl in confusion: it seems that he was so actively seeking her phone number, she thought that the guy was courting her, but he disappeared. The girl hopes that her new acquaintance will call her the next day, but that’s not the case! Pick-up tactics have already been worked out, the web has been woven. The spider waits. He pauses for several days or even a week, during which time “the girl has matured.” And when he finally calls her, she is incredibly happy. According to the well-established “three-date” scenario, the pick-up artist, without further ado, imperatively makes an appointment at a certain place and, without listening to the interlocutor, hangs up. The girl is already hooked, and, of course, she will come on a date.

On this date, the pickup artist will spread his peacock tail and appear almost like Prince Charming. Shamelessly using NLP techniques, he carries out the so-called “tuning”. In other words, he adapts to the girl in everything, creating in her the belief “It’s so good with him, it feels like we’ve known each other for a hundred years, we have so much in common.” She is already fascinated by her new acquaintance, she is convinced that she has found her Man, who “understands her literally perfectly” and with whom she is emotionally comfortable. In fact, the pick-up artist used the so-called rapport - he created the mood he needed in the girl. The pick-up artist’s task on the second date is to give the girl the impression that she has “found a soul mate.”

On the third date, the pick-up artist performs the so-called “roof-blow.” For example, he takes her to an unusual place - to a cemetery, to a dilapidated house in a vacant lot, to a subway tunnel - or creates an acute situation so that she experiences emotional shock. And strong emotions create the basis for falling in love. So the girl falls head over heels in love, especially if already on the second date she admitted to herself that she had met the Man of Her Dreams. Well, of course, a girl deeply in love is an easy prey.

You see that a “three date” takes a certain amount of time—a week or more. And give the impatient pick-up artist everything at once. Some have already become so lazy that they don’t bother with the classic “three-date”, using the most accelerated techniques to pick up girls.

When talking about “long-term” relationships, pick-up artists, as a rule, are disingenuous. Just as an old bachelor, defending his selfishness and inability to accept responsibilities for his family, invents fairy tales about the “ideal woman” whom he has been looking for all his adult life, so pick-up artists come up with all sorts of excuses. The leitmotif of their behavior: “Forging new relationships is much more interesting and easier than constantly patching up existing ones.” With this attitude, pick-up artists cross out the possibility of building long-term relationships. “Why bother?” - says the pick-up artist. - “There are many girls, but I am alone.”

Reply to pick-up artists

There are a lot of pick-up artists these days. The harmfulness of this category of males lies not only in the fact that they slept together and fled (albeit not immediately), but also in the fact that they cripple the tender souls of girls.

It would be nice if the pick-up artist “picked up” an adult woman - she, perhaps, wouldn’t mind. But they prefer “fresh meat”! And then the girls they abandoned suffer, acquire complexes, and self-esteem decreases. It is possible that the situation will repeat itself again - the naive girl will again fall for the pick-up artist’s tricks (not realizing that she has become a victim of the proven tactics of a sex consumer). And then she will decide that she is not able to give anything except sex - with all the ensuing consequences.

This is how a pick-up artist can ruin her life by walking through a girl’s tender soul.

Therefore, we girls need to keep our ears open, always remembering that thousands of pseudo-Don Juans hungry for one-time sex are prowling in places where potential victims gather. And, knowing this, develop defensive tactics.

Firstly, the girl must thoroughly study pick-up tricks. I wrote about this in detail in four previous articles.

Secondly, remember that a smart woman will always outwit even a smart man. And, accordingly, use an arsenal of feminine tricks to counteract the pickup.

Next, I will describe in detail the anti-pickup tactics, and now I will tell you a story from my life.

I was 19 years old at the time, and my mother was treating a patient, let’s call her Natalya, who had fallen into the web of a seasoned pick-up artist. Igor is already well over thirty, but he still won’t calm down! He “picked” Natalia, fucked her, made her fall in love with him, and later shamelessly used her. He constantly borrowed money without paying it back (putting into practice one of the basic pick-up principles “Don’t spend more money on a woman than she spends on you”) and used her as a housekeeper. And he continued to pick up, “picking off” young girls and ignoring Natalya as a woman. Desperate, Natalya came to her mother and was treated for depression. When she regained her sight and recovered, she wanted to take revenge on the man on whom she had ruined three years of her life. Natalya asked me to help. “Let him fall in love with you, and you leave him,” Natalya admonished me. I am for women's solidarity, so I agreed.

It turned out that Igor is a multi-shot operator: he took pictures of girls wherever he could. I also used dating sites. I registered on this site under a fictitious name, but with my photo, and wrote to him. Igor immediately responded, made a date with me that same day and arrived in a brand new Mazda (by the way, bought with Natalya’s money - gigoloism is flourishing in pickup artistry). I admit, he impressed me at first! Then I still didn’t know anything about pickup and didn’t suspect that Igor was an experienced pickup artist. Igor tested all the techniques that I described in previous articles on me. It’s clear that my plans did not include sex with a man who was old enough to be my father, but his unusual behavior was intriguing. But at some point I intuitively sensed the falseness. Igor was too sweet-voiced a nightingale. According to him, as soon as he saw me, he fell recklessly in love, etc. and so on. But I knew Natalia’s story! We met a few more times, but the “three-date” method didn’t work. And Igor continued the attack, creatively using pick-up techniques. Realizing that you couldn’t take me at once, he changed tactics. Igor even neglected the principles of pick-up artist: he took me to restaurants, bowling, always came on dates with a bouquet, tried to give me gifts. I saw that he was really interested - this probably never happened in his pick-up practice. I don’t know, maybe I wouldn’t have resisted, but I remembered Natalya’s sad fate. In general, for Igor I turned out to be a tough nut to crack, which he could not crack. I disappeared from his field of vision the same way pickup artists usually disappear. For several months, Igor regularly called me (unanswered) and wrote tender SMS (also unanswered). Just as pick-up artists leave a girl after sex (one-time or multiple, it doesn’t matter) in bewilderment - why he left, because everything was so good - I did the same with Igor. Indeed, in his understanding, our relationship developed progressively. But he never managed to get me into bed, and in general he completely broke down.

So, how to protect yourself from a pick-up artist?

• At the beginning of dating, a guy’s unusual “approaches” should alert you. The average young man does not shine with eloquence and does not amaze with his imagination when meeting a girl, because he is worried - what if they reject him or answer in such a way that it will be a blow to his pride?! There are, of course, among the male half both eloquent people and inventors with non-standard ways of dating who are not pick-up artists, but it will not harm your potential romance at all if, while listening to his speeches and mentally stating how interesting, funny, witty he is, you keep your ears open on top of the head. Remember that a normal guy (not a pick-up artist) will not go around groping a girl an hour after meeting her: after all, you might even get hit in the face! If a guy likes a girl and he seriously intends to hit on her, he will be careful not to make any sudden movements so as not to scare her away or destroy the relationship that has just begun. Keeping your distance (in all respects) will only strengthen your potential suitor's intentions to court you. After all, easy prey is not valued by men!

• Never let a guy you just met touch you, no matter how plausible a pretext he may use to disguise his intention. Thus, you do not allow him to “kinestheticize” (kinesthetics - touch is one of the most effective techniques used in pickup) and “anchor” you (that is, form the conditioned reflexes he needs in you). Thus, you immediately deprive the pickup artist of his main weapon.

• Don't give a stranger the opportunity to close the distance between you. It is known that to feel safe, a person needs a certain personal space. In ordinary cases, the boundaries of personal space are as follows: in front - a distance of a human height, in the back - two human heights, on the sides - a distance no less than the width of a palm. This has developed since ancient times, when a person was in danger from everywhere, and he had to be ready to either attack or run away. The enemy behind is more dangerous than the enemy in front, so the distance must be greater. But no one would allow the enemy to approach him so that he would be on the side. The person turned to face the dangerous object, trying to maintain a safe distance. If he allowed someone to approach him from the side, then this was no longer an enemy, but his own. That's why the lateral distance is so small. Only lovers completely ignore distance. They just need tactile contact - constant and as close as possible. Other people, being in friendly, friendly or close relationships, maintain their distance in ordinary life. Even spouses and lovers, holding hands or walking arm in arm, do not rub their bodies against each other, but keep a distance of at least the width of a palm. But you and this unfamiliar guy are not lovers, not spouses, and not a couple in love! Why on earth does he allow himself to deprive you of a safe distance?! If a young man does this, you should be wary and move away. And even more so, you shouldn’t let a guy grope you! Even if you met in a nightclub, being drunk, or dancing, still don’t forget that you shouldn’t let your new acquaintance get away with it! I'm not a prude at all. I am an NLP specialist, and pickup art is based specifically on NLP.

• Some experienced pick-up artists use sophisticated, time-tested methods. For example, a young man comes up to you, hands you a candy in a beautiful wrapper or a flower and says with a smile: “This is for you, as the most beautiful girl in this neighborhood.” The further behavior of a girl who is not familiar with a pickup truck is quite predictable: she will smile, start a conversation, and so on. Or an unfamiliar guy with a wide smile tells you, as if you have known each other for a hundred years: “You look great, beauty, give me five!” and extends his hand. An inexperienced girl will most likely extend her hand too. So much for kinesthetics. And then the pickup truck will carry out a cavalry charge.

• And even more so, you should be wary when a guy you don’t know well tells dirty jokes or stories with sexual overtones. No decent young man would allow himself to do this in the presence of a girl he barely knows—only pick-up artists use such banal techniques.

• Remember that men love to talk about themselves. They don't really like women's chatter, but usually the man is forced to listen to it. But at the first opportunity he will turn the arrows on himself. And the pick-up artist will constantly turn the arrows on you, trying to find out as much as possible (he will use this information in the future).

• If you very quickly get the impression that you and your new acquaintance are kindred spirits, remember that this is a classic pick-up technique called “adjustment.” In addition, the pickup artist says WHAT you WANT to hear. He already found out what exactly you want during the blitz survey.

• If the guy who approached you seems cool in all respects (witty, funny, erudite, etc., etc.), this is also a reason to take a closer look at him. Yes, of course, there are naturally smart, witty guys, but they don’t need to “pick up” girls in nightclubs, on the street or anywhere. Such guys, as a rule, already have a girlfriend, and even if he is temporarily single, he will not look for a companion in a club or on the street.

• A guy’s cruelty is almost 90 percent evidence that he is a pick-up artist. Of course, a poor young man who really does not have money for beautiful courtship can meet you. But if he is no longer a student, if he is decently dressed and at the same time is stingy even on little things, run away from him in any case - even if he is not a pick-up artist, there is little joy in contacting a stingy guy. By the way, from the point of view of psychology, a stingy person is stingy with his feelings.

• And of course, you should defend yourself when a guy, just two or three hours after meeting you, offers to go somewhere with him, even if this place does not seem to cause any concern - for example, to Red Square, to an exhibition , to the museum... Know: no matter where he invites you, you will still end up either in his apartment, or in his friend’s apartment, or in any other place where he will quickly do what he started all this for.

• If a guy showed you at least a few of the above techniques, rest assured: this is a pickup artist. Keep in mind that your attempts to simply dismiss him will not work. He also has his own trick against this - neghit. With his jokes and sarcastic remarks bordering on rudeness, he can deprive you of your peace of mind and drive you crazy. This is exactly what he needs.

• Use his own tactics against the pick-up artist. Let’s say that for some time you watched with curiosity his “jumps and grimaces” (in any case, this will be useful to you in the future, so that you can easily recognize pick-up artists later). And so he prances around you, and you pretend to fall for his tricks. And suddenly, at the most unexpected moment, with a sweet smile, say something like: “You were taught poorly at the pickup courses, you didn’t learn the main thing: the target should under no circumstances suspect anything”; “Boy, from the very first minutes I realized that you are a home-grown pick-up artist”; “I was interested in watching you, you are such a funny pick-up artist!”; "Russian model of effective seduction?"

• In response to his boorish neghits, do not spare poison. Here are a few options for parrying pick-up jokes: “Be rude, boy! Did you use the neghits?”; “Are you not at your best today? Bummer after bummer? Poor thing!”; “Boy, you are not the best representative of the pick-up artist tribe”; “Pass by, there’s no free sex on today’s menu”; “Other pickup artists are cool, but why are you so angry? Are you tired of your complexes?”; “Don’t you know that a pick-up artist’s “best girl” is his own right hand?”; “And how many girls have you been rude to today to no avail?”; “Real men compliment ladies, but pick-up artists use neghits”; “It’s an age thing, baby! If you get married, it will pass! And so on, in the same spirit - you make it clear that you are familiar with pickup techniques.

The most important thing, girls: always remember that there are sexually hungry types roaming around who only want one thing from you (well, how can you not remember the instructions that Soviet-era mothers gave to their daughters?) and be fully prepared!

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Mystery Methods

The most popular in the world are the pickup methods of Eric von Markowicz , better known as Mystery. This is a Canadian figure who created a system called the Mystery Method. This system has gained great popularity in the pickup community.

Demonstrating social value

Mystery attributed the success of individual men to the ability to demonstrate their social value.

In his opinion, the biological value of men, which consists of attractive appearance and good health, is of little importance for women.

much more attention to social signs:

• financial security;
• leadership skills;
• self confidence;
• force.

Mystery's method involves seducing women by demonstrating socially significant behavior .

Moreover, it does not matter what qualities a man actually possesses; the behavior he demonstrates is much more important.

If he seems strong, confident and successful , then she will immediately follow him. And the real picture will be revealed when it is already too late.

Linear seduction

Every woman, in the process of being attracted to a man, experiences three states: interest, trust, excitement.

It is important to guide her through these three stages and ultimately get what you want.

Interest arises after a man demonstrates high social value.

This takes a few minutes. To develop trust, you need to spend at least 4-10 hours together. to demonstrate openness, friendliness, and interest during communication .

Some kind of joint process that requires combining efforts helps to achieve a quick effect. Emotional intimacy and constant unobtrusive touches lead to excitement.

A game

Pickup is a game . The whole process must be perceived from this point of view. Trying to meet a girl is a start.

Receiving a refusal means a restart and a reason to start the game over again in a different place. No worries, grievances, disappointments.

Myths about pickup artists

For most men, the pickup technique has evolved into a fairly simple "quick take" method. For example, to the question of who a pickup artist is, you can get answers from many:

• This is a student who is just “warming up” in relationships with women, and therefore is looking for an easy victim. He often uses free, basic advice for dummies from the Internet. Everything is logical here - he doesn’t have money yet, but he wants sex, and his classmate Lyudka does not fall for his tricks. Myth.
• It could be a 30-year-old, he just doesn’t want to spend money on a woman. His main goal is sex. Then the girl is no longer interesting to him. For pick-up artists, the process of conquering a victim is important, and sex is already a “reward” for the tricks and skills used.
• This is a horny psycho. No, I’ll disappoint you, but in many ways it’s just men who are not looking for a serious relationship now or at all.
• This is a lonely loser who is “not given.” Misconception again. Most often, this is a handsome man who succeeds in various fields.

So as not to overwhelm your head, a pickup artist is more about behavior and lifestyle. No, this is not a separate “type” of men - just a way to get what you want.

Of the well-known and obvious ones, there are two options: either no one pays attention to the man, or he had a bad relationship experience. Less often - if he is simply bored.

At first, he learns to simply meet girls, practicing classic pickup techniques. And only then he tests his skills on the possibility of getting you into bed before the 3rd date.

When a man is bored, things are a little different. He can only learn some pickup tricks to simply find a woman for a codependent relationship.

If, after several attempts to get sex from a stranger, she refuses, then he gets bored and such a fighter is eliminated.

Only true pick-up artists remain, for whom the very process of seduction and “divorce” into incomprehensible relationships becomes a way of life.

Lessons

The following real-life examples demonstrate the basic principles of pick-up for guys in action:

1. In the flower pavilion we choose a woman who evokes sympathy. We approach her and ask her for help in choosing a bouquet for her grandmother’s birthday. Let us make it clear that we have no problems with finances: we can purchase a bouquet of any cost, grandmother’s birthday will be celebrated in the most expensive restaurant in the city at the expense of her loving grandson, etc. After purchasing a bouquet, we suggest you take a walk in the park together. If a woman is busy at the moment, the date is postponed to a time convenient for her. During communication, we build the conversation around her person, not forgetting to ask leading questions and obtain the necessary information. We “openly” talk about ourselves, share our “most secret”. Don't forget about unobtrusive touches and constant eye contact. If she shows interest and disposition, we suggest moving to a suitable place.
2. We select the object we like on the dating site. We carefully study the page for interests, hobbies, and views. We begin our acquaintance by mentioning her interest. In the communication process, we focus on common ground. We openly talk about ourselves and ask her leading questions.
   If she is reluctant to respond, you should increase the time it takes to respond to her message. The need to wait will cause slight irritation and impatience, and this, in turn, will fuel interest.

   When her responses to messages become prompt and detailed, you can suggest a meeting. During the date, act in the same way as in the previous case.

The main signs of a pickup artist

Pickup artists aren't that bad, I'll tell you that. If the norm for you is one-time sex, then you don’t have to worry. The main thing is not to take it too seriously. So that the pickup artist does not turn into a rogue who sits on your neck.

But if this story is not about you, then I will now teach you how to identify this type of man.

It's very simple, just 5 signs . If a pickup truck is about behavior, then we will pay attention to this parameter:

1. He is very attentive, talks little about himself, listens more.

2. He literally reads your thoughts and desires, and will say exactly what you always dreamed of hearing.

3. He tries to influence psychologically: look closely into the eyes, touch during a conversation. The beginning of communication is always unusual, for example, “What will you do tonight after dinner with me?”

4. The pickup artist is well-groomed, handsome and wears good perfume. He is self-confident and doesn't get embarrassed.

5. If there was no sex on the first date, he will definitely choose the place for the second meeting. And if you try to adjust it “to suit you,” he will never agree.

And yes, they avoid meeting in high-status cafes, cinemas, restaurants, because they try to spend as little money as possible.

Even your hastily put together bun or under-ironed blouse, he will definitely pay a compliment.

If the pick-up artist is already trained, you are unlikely to be able to identify him from the first minutes - everything will look very natural.

Examples of messages to a girl online

Original messages on the network are a win-win option for starting a conversation with the woman you like.

You can use one of the following example greeting phrases :

1. What do you think a man should write to the woman he likes so as not to be rejected?
2. Good afternoon, what shoe size do you wear? ………38… Well, we met!
3. Hello! I am one of those who thinks that you are very beautiful.
4. I've never met someone like this before.
5. The Constitution says that each of us has the right to happiness.
6. I've been trying to figure out an original way to meet you for two days now, but nothing works.