What to do if a girl is offended and doesn’t want to communicate: 8 ways to make peace

Women's grievances and whims can infuriate even a very balanced guy. But without this slight eccentricity and pouting lips, the girl will lose her attractiveness. Women's bitchiness is exciting and exciting, and men can learn to control it. This article will help you find out what to do if a girl is offended and how to skillfully avoid women’s grievances.

So, let’s “dive” into the whirlpool of female psychology.

What to do if a girl is offended?

From practice, I remember a case when in a young family, a guy emotionally expressed to his other half all her shortcomings, and wrote down on a piece of paper what she needed to work on, hanging it in front of the mirror.
It’s probably already obvious to you what happened next - one quarrel escalated into another. And the girl was very offended. Here is a clear example of what not to do, but still many do just that. writer Alexander Vereshchagin

• 1. Resentment as a method of manipulation
• 2. What should a guy do if a girl is often offended?
• 3.What to do if a girl is offended over trifles, like a small child
• 4. Women's grievances on social networks
• 5.Temperament and female sensitivity
• 6. Manifestation of resentment in girls of different zodiac signs
• 7. A new way to interact with a touchy girl

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Resentment as a way of manipulation

Touchiness is characteristic of most girls.
Looked wrong, gave it wrong, didn’t call, was late, you look around - the list is huge. The poor guy doesn’t know how to approach such a young lady, he’s racking his brains about what to do if the girl is very offended. And here you should think that she is using an inadequate way to convey information to the guy, playing on his feelings, using the young man for her own purposes.

In psychology, this behavior is called manipulative. Manipulation in most cases is unconscious. The girl behaves in a familiar way, which has always brought benefits.

Dysfunctional family7

Problems may come from childhood. When a girl has a negative family model and frequent scandals with her parents, she develops a negative opinion about men and relationships with them. It is difficult for a girl to trust her chosen one, so she is also depressed and does not know how to behave correctly in this situation. Therefore, a man needs to be shown what a happy relationship is like. It is necessary to surround the girl with warmth, care and love.

So, there are quite a lot of reasons why girls are offended by guys. Therefore, girls need to be able to control their emotions and analyze their own actions, while guys need to be able to understand and accept a girl. He must try to smooth out the conflict and find compromises. It is necessary to be able to talk about troubling problems and solve them peacefully and without raised voices, and also without offense.

What should a guy do if a girl often gets offended?

Very touchy girl

Break this habitual circle of grievances. Act outside the box: instead of asking for forgiveness, send a letter by regular mail, describing your feelings experienced at the moment when your loved one is offended.

This technique is called "I-statement". When people talk about feelings rather than blame in everyday interactions, conflicts and misunderstandings go away or are reduced. Instead of the usual retaliatory accusations and excuses: “I’m not guilty of anything. You are yourself...”, the person begins to talk about what is in his soul from such behavior of his partner.

For example: “When you are offended and silent, I cannot find a place for myself. My heart sank. I'm sad that you are suffering. What can I do to fix this?

Touchiness is a personal characteristic that only the girl herself can cope with if she wants to change. Therefore, you should not waste your energy and nerves on persuasion, moral teaching and attempts to remake your beloved. Don’t torment yourself with the constant question: “What to do if a girl is offended and remains silent?” Her character is her territory, where she makes decisions; you have no right to impose yours.

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OFFENSIVE PHRASES

Many pick-up artists teach guys how to easily seduce any girl in five minutes. To do this, they have a whole list of prepared “witty” phrases , which in theory should work, but in practice they sound stupid and offensive to girls.

Forbidden phrases:

1. "You're not like other girls." The guy thinks he said a compliment, but for the girl it sounds like an assessment of the product. She doesn’t like that you compare and evaluate her with someone. Instead, it's better to say, "You're not like anyone I've ever talked to before."
2. "I respect your independence." For a girl it sounds like: “Do what you want, I don’t care.”
3. “Baby, smile, it suits you.” A woman is not obliged to boost your ego, cheer you up and entertain you. If you want to see her smile, do something that will make her smile.
4. “You are the most beautiful among your friends.” Remember, this is not a beauty contest, and you are not on the jury. If you want to give a compliment, say: “You are the most beautiful person I have ever seen,” but do not compare her with her friends. To her, this means that you were evaluating other women as potential lovers.
5. “I didn’t know you were so smart.” That is, you initially doubted her mental abilities and dated her only for her appearance?
6. "All girls love shopping." No, not everything. This is an old, tired stereotype that claims that all women are stupid spenders who cannot have more interesting hobbies.
7. “It is very rare to meet such a handsome lawyer (financier). You must be very popular among clients.” With this compliment you are implying that she made her career not through hard work, but only through her appearance.
8. “I like it when a girl eats well.” You want to show your progressive views on the female form, but for her it sounds like a hint of excess weight.
9. “Why aren’t you married yet?” It’s better to say right away: “Who needs you? Say thank you for paying attention to you."

Such phrases will sound ambiguous and offensive, so don’t be surprised if there isn’t a second date.

What to do if a girl is offended over trifles, like a small child

All children are characterized by touchiness; the only difference is that some retain this trait into adulthood.
Many girls consider infantility and childish behavior cute and attractive. In this regard, such a characteristic is cultivated in oneself. Touchiness in the form of whims and pouting is an accompanying part of child behavior.

When offended, infantile young ladies often do not make contact and are not ready to discuss what happened.

Let’s say such a girl is offended and ignores her, what should a guy do:

• Don't try to talk to her like an adult
  , she is not ready for such a dialogue;
• Give a gift.
  Next to an infantile girl, you must understand that the child always expects to be given gifts, cherished and taken care of;
• Wait a pause.
  Such girls are afraid of loneliness. If this is not a flighty person and does not find a replacement for you, then after a while she herself will call and speak as if nothing had happened.

Infantility can last a lifetime. Aging nymphets in pink speaking in a sweet childish voice are an unpleasant sight. If you are choosing a companion for life, think about whether you want an aging princess next to you at 45 years old?

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Women's grievances on social networks

The girl is offended and the guy doesn’t know what to do...

Social networks have long become an important part of our lives. This is where many people meet and communicate.

What to do if a girl is offended while chatting on a social network

, for example “VK”:

• she needs to write to VK and try to find out whether this is really an insult or a simple reluctance (impossibility) to communicate;
• Social networks are still virtual communication. You should invite the girl to a meeting, bring her “in real life” and discuss the problem;
• If a girl is constantly offended over trifles, what should a real man do? That's right, apologize, because that's what she's waiting for.

If a woman is wrong, you need to ask her for forgiveness. That's exactly what it said in one Soviet film.

How can a man properly ignore a woman he likes?

It is important to understand that women usually use ignoring specifically for something; it has a specific goal that your interlocutor wants to achieve. So what are the options? Perhaps this is how a woman expresses resentment, wants revenge, or hopes to end your relationship. As soon as you fully understand why a woman behaves this way, something else will become clear to you - how to act in such a difficult matter.

However, do not rule out the possibility that this person is not only ignoring you. Some women get tired of problems or uncertainty in their personal lives, after which they decide to take some kind of break - that is, to distance themselves from any personal contacts with men. In this case, you should act delicately, show your chosen one that you are ready to wait and understand the reasons for her fears.

If we are talking about an adult woman, then it is possible that she is tired of any correspondence and “virtual love”. Try to transfer your courtship into real life, and act like that. The older a woman is, the less time she usually wants to spend on correspondence, which in many cases simply ends in nothing. Show your readiness for a real relationship.

Temperament and female sensitivity

Features of temperament have a significant impact on how grievances occur in the fair half of humanity.
Knowing these secret traits, you can find the key to the heart of every woman. The table below provides information on how grievances are expressed and what to do if your girlfriend is offended:

Temperament is an innate characteristic
that is difficult to change, so your significant other will react this way to insults in most cases.

An individual approach to each girl, attention to her is the key to adult, psychologically competent relationships! It is in them that personal growth and development of a person is possible.

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Manifestation of resentment in girls of different zodiac signs

Depending on the element and the zodiac sign, the fair half of humanity is offended and moves away from the offense in its own way.
Let's see how this happens:

• The fire element (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius)
  reacts violently to insults, but also easily forgives them. For example, what to do if a Sagittarius girl is offended? Be active, talk to her, defend your point of view, vigorously make peace with the help of sex, finally.
• The earth element (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
  reacts to insults more calmly, but remembers them for a long time. What to do if a girl of an earth sign is very offended? The way to the heart of such beauties is through the stomach. These women should be invited to a restaurant, given wine and flowers.
• The air element (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
  reacts most easily to insults. Such girls are easy-going, fast, and agile. However, their grievances may be unfounded. What to do if a girl is offended for no reason? This young lady should be distracted and entertained. A walk, a trip to the cinema, a trip - and she herself won’t remember why she was offended.
• The water element (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
  does not voice grievances, but worries inside. Such girls become silent, thoughtful, and do not make contact. Let’s say a girl is offended and doesn’t talk, what should we do then? Be there, show care and attention, behave as if nothing had happened. Such a snow queen herself will melt after a while and tell you what was bothering her.

The zodiac sign will help in determining tendencies towards different manifestations of grievances. But it should be remembered that the man himself must behave with dignity and not offend his beloved with his behavior, otherwise no horoscope will help correct the problem.

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conclusions

To summarize, we can only clarify that there are no ideal couples.
Any relationship is tested for strength by grievances and quarrels. The further outcome depends on both: whether the relationship will become stronger or fall apart over trifles. It is important to remember that what is done often cannot be returned.

Before you make rash decisions, you need to imagine yourself through time. In an adequate state, all the reasons for grievances usually seem terribly funny and stupid. Is it worth losing something valuable and loved because of them? If you want to learn even more secrets on seducing girls, subscribe to my Instagram and my VKontakte page.

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A new way to interact with a touchy girl

A guy who has studied the characteristics of his girlfriend’s temperament, knows her zodiac sign, reads attempts to manipulate himself and nip them in the bud, becomes the master of the relationship.
The woman feels that he is a leader and is able to submit to him. Such a man intuitively knows what to do if a girl is very offended.

To do this, you just need to be attentive to the opposite sex, remain calm in a critical situation, and remain silent more than speak. In general, look courageous, maintain dignity, do not maintain touchiness.

Perhaps you have your own unique examples of what to do if a girl is constantly offended. Let's discuss them in the comments!

Chupalova Maya · 23 Dec, 2020